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Two frum ple I know from Canada chose “secretary over wife”.I used to babysit for one of those families.It shakes you up.
What goes around comes around…Injustice might really be justice.
“…if the man looks again.”
Well-put,ma’am!
Lack of Tznius can test even the best relationship.
Addictions to hotlines/sites etc.STAY WITH A PERSON UNLESS HE WORKS ON HIS YIRAS SHOMAYIM.Beg Hashem for it–if you REALLY want to change!
to really smile–all that happens happens for a reason.
I wonder if any readers will do anything differently having been made aware of the pain caused by those who rebuff women with SERIOUS COMPLAINTS. If one person will,it was worth it.
yaff80-those gedarim fall under the category of lo sikrivu -or something like that.Read 9 to 5,it covers all those grey areas.
A lot of people aren’t aware that the “fences” are from the Torah.
Ads coming out this week,iy”h!
SJSINNYC:There are times when a Rav has to choose his battles and “allows” that which if he doesn’t allow WILL BE DONE IN THAT COMMUNITY ANYWAY.
But halacha clearly demands “covered”.
I am not looking down,nor judging,you or your rav.
(I’m busy “recovering” from the ugly memories jolted by the other subjects on this thread!)
Big Boss is Snuffalufagus?
I love the way people throw around the word moredes!
If the guy stays out all night,what is HE,pray tell?
Oh,of course,he’s the “tzadik” that tried to hold it all together!
TO REALLY SMILE:My point is you hit a raw nerve.Was that not clear??
Bais Yaakov Of The Lower East Side is the best school I know of.Worth the commute.
And then people wonder why you’re left with a million complexes by the time they’ve all chewed you and spat you out.
Hi,everyone!
Lovely day today,:)
Enough blaming all women for not dressing up for their husbands!
I always did,and it’s adding insult to injury to accuse otherwise!!
When you are numb instead of outraged…
They fault you for everything.If they don’t fault you,they defend him.
Example:
Me:My husband raises his fist at me when we disagree.
Rav:Did he actually hit you?
Me:No,but it’s pretty scary!
Rav:Well,THIS IS THE WAY A MAN GETS ANGRY.The main thing is he didn’t HIT you.
Another example:
Me:He twisted my wrist.It’s still red.
Rav:Aha…What did you say that made him so upset?
Me:I saw the recorder he’s always taping me on in his pocket,and tried to take it.
Rav:Aha….
My ex also had/s a similar addiction and I tolerated EVEN that,against my will.But EVERY SINGLE RAV’S advice pointed to ME being at fault somehow!
“Are you thin?” I was!
“Are you ALWAYS accessible?”(Excuse me?)
“Do you ALWAYS talk to him nicely?”
“Could it be he’s out LEARNING IN A DIFFERENT BAIS MEDRASH SOMEWHERE,because YOU make it so stressful for him?”
Please don’t judge.
To answer your query:I am a Libra
By the way,I am a Libra!
always here,my life is FILLED with harmless people apologizing when they did NOTHING WRONG and big,bad wolves doing WHO-knows what,and justifying it all.
Strong taynos on their handling of crucial family matters,not surprised running into problems of their own.
observanteen,Rosh Chodesh….monthly!:)
Sweet Kapusta,Do not worry at all,I wanted it gone,because the whole business was not good for anonymity,I don’t always think of that on time!
My mother had a symptomatic cough at a young age….an x-ray is a clear window to the lungs…Health,please “let” her take an x-ray!!
Aries,you are worrying me with all those symptoms,please get a CHEST X-RAY PRONTO!!
Ouch.
It’s called P.A.S.(Parental Alienation Syndrome)and I must say that anyone who causes one parent to be totally despised by the very child h/she once cradled with deep affection….will have to account for it.It’s NOT A HEFKER VELT.
thank you Aries!
Health,I act like my story is over.It isn’t,I’ve just learned how to deal with it as best as I can.If I look at photo albums of kids who were unfairly taken from me…I can’t–so I don’t.I’m turning the pages of this book called My Life,and the BIG PICTURE IMPROVES MORE AND MORE EACH DAY.Really,soooo much has gotten better in the last few years.On the other hand,CERTAIN THINGS CAN’T GET BETTER,BECAUSE THE TIME IS GONE,AND WITH IT,SHARED MEMORIES THAT COULD HAVE BEEN.I concentrate on the “here and now” because there is enough good to make the pain of the not-good BEARABLE,and I still lead a relatively happy life,b”h.
What your ex did has not enhanced your life,and has distanced you from some/all of your children too.
But I do believe that whether my personal avodas hashem will be as a single person or not—THE BEST IS YET TO COME.I believe that,and it keeps me going.
I can vouch that ple will do anything to destroy the other side,kids being trampled in the process notwithstanding.
thanks cshapiro!
I like some of Country Yossi’s songs,like “If it’s basherte,it’s gonna HAppen anywayyy…”
I think he improved in the CR
He’emanti(I believed) ki adaber(because I speak about it)