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PLEASE READ MY LAST POSTS ON THE LIMERICK THREAD AND Surprise Brochos Party thread if you want to hear the “end” of this little ma’aseh:)
eclipseMemberI’m beginning to feel very strange
Knowing how much I’ve shared,what a range!!
So my one request
Please be on your best
And don’t speak of me as deranged!!
By journaling here for awhile
I focused IRL with a big smile
Now it’s a “done deal”
Ahhh…some closure I feel
Looking forward to Pesach!!(Nile?)
eclipseMemberSnopes?
eclipseMemberHealth: True!!
eclipseMembercomposer,you’re lucky he’s offering to BUY the concept.
I’ve had someone hear my song,reject it,and then USE the concept.
That was the first and last time I used the heter of “recorded” kol isha. Even the song that was used is an “unknown”.
I am not blaming one specific person;a few were involved,but I know if my songs are ever to “make it out there”,it’s gonna be done L’chatchila only!!
eclipseMemberHi,I want to tell you all that I did not take a single poster’s brachos lightly…but I think they were more powerful than expected!!
A few UNBELIEVABLE things happened today.The personal things I cannot share,but I got many errands accomplished today (almost my whole list),plus I not only felt 100% peace of mind today,but actual simcha!! My friends were calling all day today to “check in” and couldn’t believe my relaxed and jolly mood!
Honestly?
I attribute it to a bracha I got from a big tzadik recently,and…the sincere good wishes of a bunch of people I never met in my life.
So…thanks!!
I don’t need to go anywhere because I don’t need to be “distracted”.
My kids ka”h looked adorable,and let’s hope everything stays positive!
eclipseMemberDid my threads cause some posters to drift away?
I’m getting a complex now!
eclipseMemberHealth: Sounds like a Judge I know.E.M.?
Gaslight: About reaching out sooner,I did,and it didn’t help.
eclipseMemberAmein!
I am touched to tears.(Just a few,don’t worry)
Wedding tonight.
Gonna use as many “reward” and “chesed” ideas combined as I can!
eclipseMemberYou put that number on your phone’s CALL REJECT list and they will get a continuous busy signal.Texts won’t go thru either.I think.
eclipseMemberI’m still broke just from ADVERTISING a film!!
eclipseMemberYeah,you’re right,this is kinda boring…:)
eclipseMemberGoq….How do you cope with pain of such magnitude?
Also,I have friends who are single moms (divorced/widowed) with kids,and would not necessarily complain about a guy who cannot.
Mods,if this post is too personal,feel free to delete.
eclipseMemberBbubbee—thank you,amein!!
aries,I was referring to your dialogue post…it’s great.
eclipseMemberAries,I re-read your post a few times.It’s really terrific advice!Even for children that are nudging about something too much,or a teen.
eclipseMembercshapiro…simcha shel mitzvah is one thing NO ONE can take away…I agree!
eclipseMemberaries,we don’t speak much at all.The less the better!
THE TAPES WERE MADE DURING OUR MARRIAGE FOR CLOSE TO 5 YEARS.
But your advice is 100% relevant,and I have actually been advised to watch a very old film called “Gaslighting” for validation!
But it’s so old,I can’t seem to get hold of it.
eclipseMemberShrek,B”H … I thank Hashem for that!
There will be a book one day,iy”h, but when more has fallen into place.
We want it to be somewhat INSPIRING!
eclipseMemberDid anyone here ever read the poem “When Caring People Stumble”?
eclipseMemberMales can,easily.
My friends and I have the Kol Isha issue.
eclipseMemberSacrilege,I take care of myself.
Chevra…guess what? You got the WRONG PERSON!!
He is not getting married tonight!!
eclipseMemberSacrilege,I never ask anyone that question,and I don’t appreciate being asked.Thanks for your concern,though.
eclipseMemberadorable…looking back,were there signs,etc.
eclipseMemberChevra…Sarah Chana Radcliffe is a popular writer.
eclipseMemberCrown…?
eclipseMemberAnyone to Suffern?:)(not suffering,Suffern!!)
eclipseMembers2021..everyone? Not quite:( But thanks,hon!
eclipseMemberI think observanteen or someone else asked the same thing you did,a while back.
eclipseMemberDoes anyone remember the thread where adorable’s question was asked and we all answered?
eclipseMemberWhere…for only $10?!
eclipseMemberBecause other people say whatever the heck comes to their heads.
And break others.
I LOVE complimenting others,watching even the gloomiest faces light up with joy…. helping a tense atmosphere loosen up with spontaneous laughter…
May I never let what others have done to me turn me into…them.
eclipseMemberI’m beginning to feel sapped…
eclipseMemberRight now,he has most of 2 families,and I have almost none of one.
eclipseMember…revenge for wanting OUT.
eclipseMemberClark Kent:
1.One aunt,not all of them.
2.My sisters are all younger than I am. 2 are not married,and one lives away from my situation entirely.
3.I am not the first person to suffer from false rumors and a Jekyll/Hyde persona husband.
Naturally,there are many who believe “when/re? there’s smoke,there’s fire”.
The day someone muddies YOUR reputation TO TAKE REVENGE on you,you will understand IN AN INSTANT.
eclipseMemberBon Appetit pizza is very good and very courteous.
eclipseMemberAnd again,thank you to every person who was “nosay b’ol” with me…
it really does lighten the situation!!
HOW?
I leave the problem in the CR, and when I WANT to think about it, I just open the computer. When I don’t,I don’t!
Sorry for “polluting” the pure and innocent CR…
eclipseMemberadorable…like knowing where I live and passing by when I look shlumpy or just raised my voice with the window open:)
eclipseMemberTell him even a self-starter needs training.
eclipseMemberI would say:
Change the tape/CD.
The one in your head.
Examples:
CHANGE: “I’m such an idiot!” TO:
“I’ll do better next time/I usually do this well”
CHANGE: “No one understands me!” TO:
“Not everyone understands/values me,but lots of people do”
eclipseMemberIn the z’chus of the generous chizuk you all gave me,may you all enjoy the best Pesach ever!!
eclipseMemberAries (and HaLeivi)…it was easy.
I told them about some new choices… They chose “Abba’s kallah” (until the wedding),and “Abba’s wife”(for right after)…
Thanks,Hashem.
The first name idea was nixed by default.
eclipseMemberWhen my feet are hurting,and/or I need to take a little breather…Of course we have (productive) lives,as I’m sure you do.
eclipseMemberdeiz…you’re going to Italy…did we speak recently….
eclipseMemberChayav,my “shikchah” works in your favor;I remember nothing negative at all.
cshapiro,remember I didn’t even know what you were referring to?? I simply forget — unless it’s really,really mean.
eclipseMemberWe’ll miss your posts.
eclipseMemberHaLeivi…only in MY house,not to her.
eclipseMemberI mean, I will try to fix that, as soon as possible!!
eclipseMemberOk,Homeowner,I will try to fix that!!
eclipseMemberZeesKite—what? Mom-proxy?
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