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Sorry, guess I’m too tired to “chap”!(I know you never mean harm)
ZK…please explain?
Why do you say Crown Heights? It’s funny a few times when I went shopping with a snood I was asked that.
Nope….Flatbush. Pollution Heights (and depths).Sorry New Yorkers!:)
Oh and 2 old(young) neighbors.
I know only Papa Bear (a female),i am here(female),and I know that smartcookie knows me,but I actually have no idea which of 75 students she is!!
adorable,if you live around “here”,drop by! You too,s2021.
And whoever else!
Kol Yisroel…get Olam Habah.
The 3 characteristics of a yid(yisroel) are:
modesty(bayshonus)
mercy on others(rachmonus)
kindness(gomlei chesed)
If you live life DEVOID of those traits…you risk losing even your “default chaylek”.
Thank you,Daas.
An idea that helped a lot:
I give a mini-shiur on “Remove Anger From Your Heart” (translated into English by Zev Reichman) to a small group of friends once a week…we all feel it’s brought siyata dishmaya to our tests.
It’s a beautiful book.
smartcookie…read the last few words of mine!:)
Anyone agree with my angle?(Scroll up)
The Buzz: Do you own/work at The Buzz?
Not necessarily in this order:
1.hot shower (wash the anger away),lively or relaxing music
2.Tell myself:”I’m gonna DO something constructive about this”
3.vent to a close friend/mentor
4.Talk to Hashem about the matter–at least He can really help
5.If overtired–yell and make a fool of myself for a few minutes
I’d say thank you with an upbeat tone.
Profuse thanks is too much.
Whew!! Glad it’s you.
Isn’t having a T.V. these days the same as inviting a bunch of pilagshim over?
Especially in Shana Rishona…wouldn’t you want your spouse to “only have eyes for you”?
A T.V. detracts from all that is beautiful and holy about you.
And a woman can get unrealistic notions about life from T.V. as well.
MY OPINION APPLIES TO NON-JEWS AS WELL.It’s common sense,no?
Most of the time it’s pleasant.
I miss Toronto like crazy. It’s beautiful,clean,and relaxing.
There you can be polite and refined your whole life; here you have to be on the ball every second ,assertive, persistent…like “defensive living”.
I am never rude,but I’ve had to toughen up.
I loooove my friends in New York, and most of my kids are in great schools, but my heart will always be in Toronto.
Ralphie…funny!
But he can paint with a “gahrtel”.
cute thread title!
1.Motzi Shaym Ra taught me that I could serve Hashem even “from the mud”. And that my value is not based on the opinions of gossip-mongers.
2.People who confessed to having been “jealous” of me prior to my- entire-life-becoming-public-property, taught me that we often envy someone for externalities….and are completely unaware of what they are actually experiencing.
I like beautiful words.
bpt…I enjoyed your first post!
I always wondered about that “rebitzen” look,until a “rebitzen” told me she has an unusually low hairline by her forehead and had no choice.
I was enthralled with Lady Di as a young Canadian….I always thought she was/looked Jewish.
Don’t read what I am about to post.
…and that’s the MILD end of the spectrum.
First you should delete identifying details.
What if she reads this?
Oy…nausea(etc.) is tough.
Hope the source of your anxiety disappears,or improves soon.
anytime,s2021!:)
Not being perfect doesn’t kill a marriage.
Relentlessly abusing someone for not being perfect does kill a marriage.As does slavery and neglect.
Which WOMAN begs to be released from a marriage with children “just to find Mr. Perfect”??
Why do people assume she didn’t try EVERY KNOWN METHOD to be able to repair or at least survive the marriage?
A lot of us,though VERY GRATEFUL TO HASHEM for being freed, are SCARED to trust again.
Others are so lonely they GO BACK INTO THE ABUSE.
The amount of MISjudging a divorcee must endure constantly is unreal.
adorable,thanks!I just saw your post!
As I mentioned on another thread,I researched the magazine idea;impossible without adequate funding.
Ever read “The Very Best Me” published in 1992/3?
I wasn’t happy with the editing(they put IN grammar errors!)but that was one of my first little projects.
gefen,no I did not go to Italy but I had just spoken to someone who was going.I was in New York.
I’m braver than all of ya.
Guess what?
….never mind,not telling.
“Nein” is what you say to dessert when you want to stay slim.
“Nine” is what you say when the “tzenter”/tenth man asks “how many do you have so far?”
A cat has 9 lives.(He can be curious 8 times)