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Vogue: You are right there are many FFB’s who have grown up with non- jewish music and tv. Our point is don’t let others dictate to you what your level of growth is or where you should be holding.
TRUEBT and Oosmis made good points. Find your self a rav, and grow at your own point. There is no issur against non-jewish music most of us just feel that it is not good for your neshoma.
There is nothing wrong with a BT marrying an FFB or vice versa. Everyone has different challenges but that does not mean that we cannot be accepting of other peoples challanges.
Dina
Dear Vogue,
I think that you are reading to much into what people are saying/ writing. While I do not agree with Rap music, that is your choice.
As for colorful skirts/ maxi dresses. There is nothing wrong with color, you do not have to be a bais yaakov girl, if you do not want to be there are plenty of frum girls who are not bais yaakov and wear color. Do not let anyone impose there hashkafic values on you. Hashkafa is really a thought process, it is how you view things in light of the Torah.
There is a great blog out there called praticalhalacha its done through wordpress. It might give you some insight into different ideas.
I think that WIY-really disagrees with rap music in general.
An idea that might help you here is if you feel the need to express your bottled up emotions start writing. That will also help you decompress and then afterwards you can look back at what you wrote and see where you have grown.
Good Luck with everything.