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  • in reply to: Cheating by Eating Cholov Akum #835996
    Dr D
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    You all need a bit of clarification on a number of points.

    1) OU-D does NOT mean it is dairy. OU has no Parve but made on “Dairy Equipment”. OU-D means it may have milk products or it simply may be parve but was made on dairy equipment. Unfortunately, the only way to tell the difference is to read the ingredients.

    2)HaRav Moshe Feinstein was America’s greatest posek and gadol hador. He paskened for the United States and Canada on many complex and major halachic issues that dwarf the issue of cholov yisroel. Believe me, even HaRav Eliyashiv and ZTL HaRav Shlomo zalman Auerbach considered HaRav Moshe as a truly great and equal posek and even when they disagreed with him, they agreed that he paskens for America and they pasken for Eretz Yisroel and Americans should listen to his psak. If you can rely on HaRav Moshe’s psak in severely complex issues, he can be relied upon for less chomur issues.

    3) HaRav Moshe paskened that “Yediyah is K’Rieyah”. The absolute knowledge that milk has to be Kosher in that it has come solely from cows, is halachically equal to seeing the milk being milked directly. In other words, what people call cholov stam is actually according to the psak of HaRav Moshe actually halachically cholov yisroel as Yediyah k’rieyah. HaRav Moshe held that for chinuch purposes, schools, institutions and families when able, should use cholov yisroel in order for children to know that outside of the United States hashgacha on milk is an absolute requirement.

    4) No one claims that cholov akum is kosher.

    5) It is very easy for anyone to claim additional chumros and be mivatel what they perceive as kulos. Chazal come out harshly against those who behave this way as it destroys Kllal Yisroel as not all can withstand endless chumros. It makes Hashem’s Torah unpalatable to the rabim and creates machlokes and sinah. Never ever should someone even suggest to impugn the psak or character of HaRav Moshe Feinstein, a posek of a caliber that one sees if fortunate, once in a lifetime.

    in reply to: Ignoring The Social Drinking Problem #656832
    Dr D
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    We in fact made a liquor-less chassunah just a few weeks ago. Our michutanim did not want to pay the outrageous fees and we were completely fine with that. There was wine served by the hotel wait staff at the meal as the only alcoholic beverage and it was only served in moderation to those who appeared to them as 18 and over.

    I received a total of 4 comments, 2 were made as simply as an “aside”, one made a prolonged comment and one was persistent until he got some alcohol (the next day). Out of 450 guests I would state that it was NOT a major issue in any way. Perhaps if everyone stopped serving hard liquor, the families would save a great deal of money, the behavior exhibited by the males present would be a greater Kiddush Hashem, and people would stop feeling a sense of entitlement, that a simcha owes them the booze.

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