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mommy and totty hopefully have a broader picture of life. and yes their opinion is very valuable when dating and they should be consulted.
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TO MR. “Shidduch Solution”
[quote[However in todays world we are influenced by the outside world and we can’t judge a girl from what you see in her brothers..
cannot judge with certainty !! correct. although it still raises doubt.
I do not refer to anybody specific!!!, rather to the idea “learning is not for me”
“Learning “isnt for him” so he doesn’t sit in a seder to learn”. TRY THIS, “shabbos is not for me”
as far as i am concerned learning is a mitzvah like any other, parnassah is a heter not to learn. anybody care to explain the heter , Learning “isnt for him”
now of course,if one takes the time needed to relax ,thats all for the sake of learning. also if chas v’shalom someone doesnt have a hand they cant do mitzvos that require the hands. but is mr. “learning not for him” unable to read the stories of t’nach or medrashim? maybe even some chumash and rashi.
the 2 greatest challenges to convince yeshiva guys to stop smoking are. firstly ,they will eventually stop , which probally stands true for about 50%. secondly i only some a couple of cigarettes its not dangerous.