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  • in reply to: Becoming Chareidi or MO? #818924

    The idea that “Modern” Orthodoxy is in any way different than what frum Jews were like 300 years ago is completely false.

    I disagree.

    in reply to: Please vote. Who is correct? #818224

    My wife says (or would say, depending on if I’m married), that I can’t eat it until she serves it.

    She agreed that if the CR says I’m right, she will let me.

    What you meant was:

    She agreed (or would have agreed, depending on if I’m married), that if the CT says I’m right, she will let me.

    I stand in solidarity with you (or would stand in solidarity with you depending on if you were married) and vote (or would vote depending on if you were married-) ‘eat’.

    in reply to: Jews Expelled from England #817124

    Evangelicals are Protestant not Catholics, Some of them think Catholics are the worst thing on earth.

    They are both anti-semites. The Catholics did the Crusades, Inquisition etc. Protestantism was formed by a guy who thought they should burn down all the Jewish homes and shuls and take away all the money from the Jews.

    Pick your poison.

    The “Who is a Christian” debate is as fun to follow

    Now “Who is a Christian?”, but “Who is a TRUE Christian?” Then comes the No True Scotsman fallacy.

    in reply to: Texting and Internet Ban In Lakewood Yeshiva #817665

    It makes sense. the average bochur is more likely to get in trouble with texting than a married one. I don’t mean that he will, just that there is more of a chance.

    In E”Y almost nobody has texting, even yungerleit. The kosher phones only have calling and voice mail and that is what everyone uses since they are cheaper as well.

    in reply to: Tanaim and Techiyas Hameisim #815009

    That’s a good one unless anyone knows anything more direct.

    in reply to: Tanaim and Techiyas Hameisim #815005

    That’s only a raya that the amoraim couldn’t. Maybe the tanaim could.

    in reply to: Tanaim and Techiyas Hameisim #815002

    bezalel: when I become a tana I’ll let you know.

    tayning: i tried

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812452
    in reply to: World War Three #809957

    What i heard was that after WW I he said that this was the first of three battles, that there would be another one in about a few years and then a last one. Don’t quote me on those exact words.

    Its possible that I might have seen this inside somewhere too, but I have a terrible memory.

    in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200281

    amc:

    I’m wondering if it was necessary to include your first sentence on this auspicious day in Elul, the second part reflects your point totally.

    I’m not sure I understand what you mean. Are you worried that I said loshon hora?

    in reply to: shabbos for charedi cops #809848

    zd:

    Actually I always wondered what would happend in an All Charedi society on Shabbos

    You cant shut down everything for Shabbos…

    Your question brings up a similar question in a completely Modern Orthodox community:

    If people are monitoring the electrical grids for the electric company-

    If people are manning the 911 call center-

    If people are manning the pharmacies-

    If people are manning the police, fire and EMS stations-

    Then who’s keeping Shabbos?

    in reply to: wisdom teeth HELP! #811703

    Hydrocodone Bitartrate with Acetaminophen.

    in reply to: World War Three #809955

    I’ve heard that the Chofetz Chaim said this about the World Wars

    in reply to: shabbos for charedi cops #809832

    I imagine they ain’t gonna work on Saturday.

    in reply to: Why learn inapplicable halachas? #810362

    Because we learn Torah lishmah. Whichever definition of lishmah you use.

    in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200275

    Recently I have noticed the increase of inappropriately dressed elderly woman walking around Ramat Beit Shemesh.

    I’ve never been to beit shemesh but form everything that I’ve heard, this is not really so surprising.

    Consider moving to Kiryat Sefer or Beitar. You won’t have this problem there.

    in reply to: how do Israelis shave? #809812

    The reason why even people who don’t touch their beards will trim their mustache is because swallowing hair is a sakana and sometimes mustache hair can get into the food if its too long (the mustache not the food).

    in reply to: Need a push #807981

    I would say this is a shaylas chocham(ah). Obviously davening to you is not just simply mumbling words under your breath. How can you expect to push yourself to daven when you still have questions hovering around in the back of your mind. Instead you should be proud of yourself that you are true to your heart (this is called tocho k’boro) and instead focus your energy on learning seforim that will answer your questions.

    in reply to: Do you thank the Cow for the milk, also? #807208

    I don’t hear that. The way you are describing it is something completely cerebral. Stop wearing a tie on Shabbos. If you are truly makir tov there is going to be some feeling of thankfulness. If she is tochah k’borah and she can express this feeling even to a chay, she is still not as great as Moshe who showed it to the sand. I don’t mean that a person should become a hippy and start hugging cows they pass on the way to upstate. But I see a maylah in privately having such a hargasha.

    in reply to: Anti-Fruminism #807618

    torah4ever:

    However he must be able to support his family first. If one isnt accomplishing in kollel which is basically what is happening today then why hurt yourself and your family?! Kollel is just the “easy way out” in todays frum world and its ridiculous.

    For something that you feel very strongly about, it doesn’t seem as though you’ve thought it all the way through.

    “why hurt yourself and your family”

    “Kollel is just the easy way out”

    Is living well below the poverty line, without even enough money to buy enough food for Shabbos, in order to learn all day your definition of “the easy way out”? What is it “the easy way out” of?

    Maybe you feel that having no furniture beyond simple beds, a table and 4 chairs is taking the “easy way out”?

    How about the guy that has to buy a 50 shekel lulav and esrog package or the guy that has to be repayed for borrowing 3 shekel bus fair to make it through the month is taking “the easy way out”?

    Maybe the guy that gets up at 5 am to go to a minyan to pays $200 a month even though he doesn’t get home until 11 pm is “taking the easy way out”.

    How about the guy that goes to a night koillel (that is, until 10 pm) that pays in random food supplies from the local makolet to help get through the month, is that called “the easy way out”?

    I know people who live like all of these. I’ll be honest. I just don’t see what you’re talking about.

    People must attend college,work hard, thus enabling them to support their families.

    Can you cite the pasuk that says “And thou shall work hard”? Supporting a family is a mitzvah like any other, if it is efshi al yedei acheirim how are you mevatel from Talmud Torah which is kneged kulam?

    in reply to: Anti-Fruminism #807617

    feif un:

    When they tell me it’s my responsibility to support them so they can sit and learn without worrying about housing

    So you recognize that it is your responsibility to support lomdei Torah, but you don’t appreciate being reminded of it. Like a husband whose wife nudges her husband to fulfill the terms of her kesubah. I can see why that would be annoying, although I’ve never seen anyone do it myself.

    or feeding their families, while their wives are working two jobs (whenever they’re not on maternity leave!)

    From this part of your comment it sounds as though you have a problem with Jewish people who don’t use birth control when it is not permitted to them. Can you clarify?

    in reply to: Kohen marrying a half jew????????/ #803666

    That’s not a half Jew that’s a whole Jew.

    in reply to: what words can u find in this word? #827819

    EVERLASTING

    1.ever 2.last 3.least 4.late 5.sting 6.vale 7.veal 8.sing 9.real 10.tine 11.sat 12.sit 13.tang 14.reveal 15.rest 16.eel 17.least 18.gate 19.leer 20.seer 21.sate 22.salt 23.stale 24.slate 25.slat 26.sear 27.slave 28.Slav 29.sling 30.seal 31.list 32.live 33.leave 34.steal 35.gist 36.gel 37.give 38.gin 39.gear 40.glare 41.grease 42.vase 43.veer 44.eve 45.east 46.ear 47.laser 48.sling 49.tea 50.neat 51.near 52.steer 53.stag 54.tag 55.rig 56.rile 57.sterile

    58.starve 59.star 60.large 61.slag 62.sag 63.sage 64.salting 65.lasting 67.rat 68.ring 69.rang 70.tear 71.tar 72.travel 73.gravel 74.rise 75.raise 76.rate 77.stare 78.glee 79.tail 80.tale 81.stave 82.vest 83. invest 84.lest 85. lease 86.lever 87.veer 88.ingest 89.slang 90.sling 91.nail 92.nerve 93.never 94.train 95.trail 96.line 97.strangle 98.grease 99.grain 100.triage 101. triangle 102.age 103.angle 104.strange 105.great 106.grate 107.greet

    in reply to: sunglasses are not tznius?! #802669

    New Game:

    Estimate the amount of times an appeal to ridicule was used as a logical refutation in this thread.

    in reply to: have to shake hands with men who are strangers :( #802152

    #1) Are you fe or male.

    Iron?

    in reply to: Figs #806959

    So its only the dried ones that are a problem?

    One Tu B’Shvat in yeshivah in E”Y the mashgiah (ruchani not food) opened up 3 figs from three different bags and they were all infested with worms. Since then I’ve been afraid to touch them.

    in reply to: Why do people still wear black hats? #803547

    At what point in history did we not wear a hat, fez, turban or the like that we should stop now?

    in reply to: The pain that ensues from dating for so long…. #799395

    I’ve heard of plenty of cases where a couple got married on the second go around

    in reply to: Am I a chicken? #799531

    Am I a chicken?

    There’s an easy test to determine the answer to your question:

    Walk around quacking and flapping.

    If you start getting the urge to peck around on the floor, I would stay away from the shochet.

    in reply to: ATTN: Singles :( #801266

    For what its worth, I’m on the other side of the fence and I’m also faced with the same thoughts. That shows that sending you a zivug is not a proof that Hashem wants or doesn’t “your connection”.

    in reply to: coffins for the yidden????????/ #797242

    In E”Y they bury without coffins. I’m told that in the US they slip the bottom out.

    in reply to: more computer help please #796786

    It looks like the problem is some corrupted files that aren’t transferring. After I delete the file it works fine. The problem is that I have to keep watching it to watch where it stops and then I have to go back and delete that file and start copying all over again.

    I didn’t want to spend the money on a HD reader although I suspect that at the end I may have to because I have an older laptop with a broken integrated videocard so I can’t even get into that one unless I buy an external video card. I was going to just plug that HD into my brother’s computer though.

    in reply to: more computer help please #796784

    ronsr:

    Use the /c switch —- that directs xcopy to keep copying despite errors. Could also be a full flash drive or an unreadable sector on the hard drive.

    I’ll try that, although I’m not sure if it is only giving me an error on a specific picture that is corrupted or something else. The flash drive works on other computers, so it can’t be that.

    ICOT:

    How about:

    xcopy /e c:usersownerpictures*.* f:pictures*.*

    That would have the same effect as what I’m doing now. It’s weird because it does copy some of the files, it just stops in between. I tried using my brothers external HD and I didn’t even get an error message even though it still stopped in the middle.

    The “/e” switch copies empty directories. Are you sure this is what you want and not “/s” which only copies subdirectories that have files?

    Yes, sorry that’s what I’m actually using.

    With any dos command you can add “/?” to get syntax help.

    If it scrolls off the screen, use the “|more” pipe, e.g.

    xcopy/? |more this will prevent the screen from scrolling until you hit a key.

    The command is working fine, its the execution that I’m having trouble with. Also, /p prevents the scroll off as well.

    An old trick from 20 or more years ago to copy all files when your copy media can’t hold everything at once is:

    My flash drive should have plenty of room for it all. In retrospect though i am going to check again.

    Alternately, if you have the Windows disk, you can probably modify the BIOS to boot from the optical drive, and then perform the operations from within Windows.

    My HD is partitioned so I have the disk on the X: drive. My brother might have the disk though. I’ve never done it before though, will this allow me to access my HD from Windows?

    in reply to: more computer help please #796779

    According to Mr. Pakistani over at Dell I’m having some registry trouble. Rather than spend the $100+ for him to fix it (including $300+ to buy a required one year warranty), I’m trying to move all my important files off my laptop to a flash drive using DOS since I can’t actually get into regular windows (or safe mode). I seem to be having trouble moving directories though. I’m using this command line:

    xcopy /e “c:usersownerpictures” “f:pictures”

    It will start copying some files into the flash drive and then stop and give me an I/O device error. Any idea what I can do?

    in reply to: What would you like to be when you grow up? #1045013

    When I was a wee little boy I dreamed about becoming a police man.

    Then I realized there are very few Jewish policemen.

    As a child, I realized I wanted to be a doctor.

    Then I realized, there are very few frum doctors.

    As a young lad, I wanted to be a rebbe in a yeshiva.

    Then I found my self-confidence and realized that I should shoot for the stars.

    Now I have reached a level where I dream the ultimate dream a Jewish boy can hope for:

    A moderator for an orthodox Jewish website’s message board.

    in reply to: YWN meeting #796521

    Would we be allowed to say whatever we want or would we have to whisper in a mods ear before we spoke?

    You Win!

    in reply to: Truisms and guidelines that only we know #890808

    this thread is REALLY confusing! Why are guys so into their weird subconcsious, subtle fashion statements

    Women, however, while they want to wear ALMOST the same dress as their friends/neighbors/children do not want to wear the EXACT same dress because then they are afraid others will compare them and think the other woman looks better in it, or they will find out they paid full price while the other woman got it 75% off.

    in reply to: Wierd, Great or Interesting Names #799942

    I have a strong strong desire to finish up all the family names so that I can name a daughter Fraidel Knaidel. My sister has an Udle the Noodle, but I really want a Fraidel Knaidel.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795583

    I think the the root difference between chareidim and MO is whether you believe that our main job is to integrate into society and be ma’aleh the chol el hakodesh, or to cloister yourself lifnai v’lifnim in the kodesh hakedoshim – the walls of the beis medrish.

    in reply to: addicted to cr #794150

    do u find urself addicted to the cr? Wat time do u stay up til bc of it?

    You’re not supposed to go to the cr from about 6 hours before bedtime. If you feel the need to, then try to limit yourself to this forum:

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/forum/decaffeinated-coffee

    in reply to: question for Ashkenazim #886149

    I don’t know what you’re talking about. I had an Iraqi friend in yeshiva who was afraid to take his shirt off by the doctor during the nine days.

    in reply to: Is Moshiach almost here? #801207

    Sender Av

    At the year 6000, this world ends and Hoalam Haba begins.

    Obviously only Hashem knows for sure, but I think at the end of 6,000 years is chad charuv and then olam habah.

    I was proven wrong, he was only 6-10.

    I hope you learned not to rely on first impressions.

    in reply to: Ami Magazine – Controversy #794787

    And 5 years latter my kids still have good memories of mushrooms growing in the bathroom

    Haha. You just reminded me of some old memories of the mushrooms growing in the bungalows. I haven’t been to the country in 20 years and I totally forgot about that.

    I thought I was overly judgmental when it came to first impressions. Now I see everyone else does it too. Now I just feel plain old normal.

    in reply to: Chumras #792679

    And as I explained, that “chumra” is Am HaAratzus. At least the people in the gemorah had logical chumros!

    I don’t think this has anything to do with being smarter than chazal. For one thing, I don’t see this as a chumrah at all, but a private hanhaggah. Would you be upset if he decided to button his shirt from bottom to top because he wants to be oleh b’kedusha?

    Second, this doesn’t fall under the category of a gezeirah sherov hatzibbur yecholin la’amod bah, because he is not trying to establish this as a minhag for the tzibbur but his own private hanhaggah.

    Third of all, I imagine that not eating pizza is not in direct mourn but to facilitate a somber atmosphere in his house. For some people, pizza is a fun food.

    in reply to: Hebrew #792702

    What I meant to say is, when I type in Hebrew on YW, all I see is boxes. Apparently though, once it gets posted, it turns back into letters. This never happened before today.

    in reply to: Chumras #792673

    This person told me her husband won’t let her eat pizza during the 9 days because it’s not an appropriate food for mourning.

    I disagree with anyone who thinks this husband is wrong. We should be jealous that this husband actively tries to mourn, just a tiny bit more, out of ahava for the beis hamikdash.

    How many of us are trying to do that, rather than trying to distance ourselves from the mourning with “instructional” swim and the like?

    You don’t agree that not eating pizza isn’t a way of expressing mourning. That’s your subjective feeling. But at the very least, this man is trying to do the best he can with what he has.

    Actually I found it. Its from the Chida in the sefer Caf Achas ois lamed alef.

    If the mods let it through it can also be found here

    http://www.yeshuot.net/142802/%D7%9C%D7%97%D7%A9-%D7%A0%D7%92%D7%93-%D7%A2%D7%99%D7%9F-%D7%94%D7%A8%D7%A2

    Was it the tefilla from the Chofetz Chaim?

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