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  • in reply to: a pain in the neck! #783776

    i figure the germs cant survive in freezing temperatures.

    Ooh so you do agree with me. It sounded before like you didn’t.

    This is the third time I have strep in the past 3 months.

    Would you say that all three times that you got it were in the same week of each month?

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    in reply to: How to deal with pain #784476

    The hardest part of dealing with emotional pain is the thought that you are alone, dealing with it by yourself.

    You have to realize that you’re not the only one dealing with this difficult nisayon. Whatever it is you are suffering from, you can be sure there are many others there with you.

    Maybe you are in a position where you can find one or two of these people. But even if not, always remind yourself that other’s are sharing this pain too. And find for yourself a support system, a parent, spouse, sibling friend or Rebbe. Someone who will give you a shoulder to cry on.

    Knowing someone is there for you and with you will help you find the strength to persevere and make it out the other side of the tunnel.

    in reply to: YWN Radio #1095671

    Is there a way to get the Radio to work on Chrome?

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    in reply to: How do you guys decorate your cars? #784428

    hey the mods deleted something i wrote

    Mazal Tov!! Kiddush!! Kiddush!!

    in reply to: I'M NEW HERE!! #783576

    Guchi Muchi Puchi 586

    Who in the world is lucky enough to be paid to come up with these names?

    Doesn’t anybody just drink plain old tap water any more?

    Many people here are from NY where that isn’t an option because of bugs, unless you have filters on the tap.

    in reply to: a pain in the neck! #783772

    What’s wrong with just salt? It will definitely burn the germs out, that’s for sure.

    in reply to: Are we really the light to the nations? #783587

    I don’t really understand the problem. Are you asking why there are no orthodox Rabbis in communities that don’t have an orthodox population?

    Or are you asking why there are no orthodox Rabbis in communities that do have an orthodox population?

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103662

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    in reply to: a pain in the neck! #783769

    Try gargling with something.

    Something like salt.

    Not something like the water from after giving your kids a bath.

    in reply to: chinese medicine #785321

    So you think you know me?

    I don’t think I know you. But this is not the first thread of this type. Nor is it the first time you’ve weighed in on an alternative medicine thread.

    in reply to: chinese medicine #785312

    yankdownunder: Of course it does mate. I know plenty of tips for you. What do you want to know about?

    Health: There is no medical evidence supporting the efficacy of homeopathic/aternative medicine.

    in reply to: So I have this friend… #784819

    There are many maalos to having stayed on the right path the whole time, rather than indulging in the teenage years.

    Just because she straitened out doesn’t mean everything is great. You don’t know what nisyonos she might have today as a result of the time she spent chilled out.

    From experience I can tell you that in the long run, you save yourself a great deal of heartache by staying straight the whole time rather than taking curves.

    A tzaddik gamor is lechatchila. A ba’al teshuvah is bdieved.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103656

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    in reply to: a pain in the neck! #783763

    Are you sure its not strep or tonsilitis?

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103654

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    in reply to: If The Mods Dont Like U #783673

    I heard rumors about a guy who upset the Mods a few years back. They say he’s sleeping with cement blocks on his feet on the bottom of the Yam Suf.

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    in reply to: Texting during davening #783744

    I haven’t seen any complaint about people writing to communicate when they aren’t allowed to talk.

    Imagine two boys sitting on the same table by Yeshiva Shachris writing notes to each other.

    Imagine two boys sitting on the same table by Yeshiva Shabchris and texting notes to each other.

    You see a difference?

    in reply to: Party or Lone Ranger #783863

    If I choose long ranger do I get a free horse?

    in reply to: Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line #791479

    I think you need to ask yourself if these things really bother your or not.

    Some people let other’s take advantage of them but even though they outwardly offer it inside they really wish the other person would say no.

    Other people just don’t seem to mind the hassle whatsoever.

    I think if you’re in the first group, then it is better to allow others to take advantage of you but instead work on increasing your happiness in doing chesed in small steps.

    If you’re in the latter group than be happy that this particular midah comes naturally to you and focus and the other midos that don’t.

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    in reply to: Texting during davening #783737

    I’m sorry I didn’t mean to imply that this was the halacha. Just what I thought. I am not a boki in hilchos sicha b’emtza hatefillah so I found a site called GoDaven with an article by a Rabbi Doniel Neustadt. He lists the halachos of talking during davening:

    (4) During a scheduled prayer session one may not separate himself from the tzibbur and engage in idle talk.

    (5) Talking during davening causes a chillul Hashem, since it unfortunately lends support to the widely held perception that non-Jews are more careful than Jews to maintain proper decorum in their house of worship.

    (7) During certain portions of davening, talking is prohibited for additional reasons as well. Sometimes talking is considered a hefsek, an “interruption” which may invalidate the portion which is being interrupted, while at other times talking is prohibited because the congregation must give its undivided attention to that portion of the service.

    The ones I skipped out weren’t relevant.

    But you can see that the first two would apply to texting as well. And the last item is hefsek.

    but I don’t know what the texting aspect adds to the question of what is hesach hadaas.

    You’re right, texting is definitely being mesiah daas which is not relevant in davening. I don’t know what a good example of hefsek would be.

    in reply to: How do threads just disapear??? #830923

    Searching CR For Old Threads

    Its actually one of the stickies

    in reply to: Eidah Chareidis Chulent Ban – a question of hechsherim #783063

    Do the same thing with the stores that sell tobacco.

    I don’t think that would contribute to anything besides for more bitul Torah as the bochurim go further away to get their cigarettes. The chulent stores though are for the most part, just around the yeshivah. And more chulent stores are owned by from Jews than cigarette stores.

    in reply to: bloomingdales #782974

    I’m confused. Does this mohel work in Bloomingdales too?

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794896

    I think I saw in the shu”t Min HaShomayim a teshuvah about wearing tzitzis too.

    That’s a scary shu”t. Good for anyone who needs someone to light a fire under them.

    in reply to: Anonymous texts! #815102

    I can understand that. But it s possible that someone who would go this far really won’t be affected by being forced to apologize, nor would he be very sincere.

    If as you said, he enjoys attention and recognition, your best bet is to get him to stop and then completely ignore him.

    in reply to: Anonymous texts! #815100

    Maybe ask a brother to call him and tell him to stop. Or approach him with a few friends?

    in reply to: Is GATESHEAD the place to live? #838800

    I think it is safe to say that any country that has had Jews, has at some point in its history, killed Jews.

    Except Australia.

    But that might be simply because their toilets flush the wrong way.

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794891

    Where did we get this idea of creating a new garment specifically for tzitzis?

    I believe that is what that Rov from the Vilna Gaon’s time did. He went around Europe convincing people to do this. Then Rav Chaim Volozhin tried to get shuls to say kedusha every Shabbos but his shul burned down twice so he stopped.

    I forgot if I saw this in the back of the keser shem tov (?) in the back of the Nusach HaGra siddurs or in the back of the nefesh hachaim.

    Then why dont we create tzitzis with a safety pin on the end so you can quickly attach it to any garment you need every day

    Because of ta’aseh v’lo min ha’asuy. You need to make them, they can’t be pre-made

    in reply to: pba #782876

    is pba really a mod?

    First you have to ask yourself:

    Does pba really exist or is he just a figment of your imagination?

    Only once you know the answer to that question, should you begin asking questions like this.

    in reply to: Texting during davening #783735

    I would say that any time it is muttar to talk during davening ie. before hodu (n. sefard) or boruch she’amar (ashkenaz) it is probably muttar to text as well.

    The halachos that talking during davening are derived from would apply to texting as well.

    The only question is what is considered a hefsek in general. If I wash for hamotzi and then go play a game without talking, do I have to wash again to eat bread?

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794889

    Besides for what DY pointed out, if I remember correctly the MB says that a person needs to have control over his hirhurim as well.

    But still, I think for the kolleleit who is sitting in a BM all day, none of this should really be a problem. I’ve tried finding out why we don’t wear them all day. The most that I’ve heard is that once it was established that we only wear them for shachris because the klal can’t keep a guf naki all day (and kavanah), so everyone stopped.

    But once in a very rare while you pass a GR”Anick wearing tefillin under his hat in E”Y. I think there’s a Yeshivah in the Old City that wears tefillin all day.

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794880

    I think according to the Vilna Gaon hesech hadas is not me’akev, but guf naki is. I could be wrong about that though.

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794871

    I am not telling you halacha l’maisah I’m just telling you what I think. I assume that the mitzvah of tzitzis is the same as the mitzvah of tefilin. Were it not for that Rov who went around we might only be putting on tzitzis once a day by Shachris like we do with tefillin today.

    Me’ikar hadin we are supposed to wear tefillin all day, but we don’t because of guf naki. But tzitzis doesn’t need guf naki.

    That’s all I know.

    in reply to: Things Kids Said/Did #1185262

    When I told my daughter that her savta is also a bobby (we use Hebrew for one and Yiddish for the other for less confusion)she refused to believe me:

    “Tatty you’re being silly”

    “I’m not, savta is also a bobby”

    “Tatty you’re being a joke”

    She’s still not convinced.

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794869

    Maybe it’s a bitul mitzvas asei if you don’t wear them?

    in reply to: Why Is Tzitzis Mandatory? #794866

    I forgot who exactly it was but I believe it was during the time of the Vilna Gaon that a Rav went around Europe convincing people they should wear tzitzis all day because as music pointed out, its an easy mitzvah to do and you get schar for every moment.

    Before that time, it was uncommon for people to wear tzitzis all day.

    The mitzvah of wearing tzitzis starts when you wake up in the morning and ends at night.

    There is an inyan to wear tzitzis at night/while sleeping for shmira.

    in reply to: Has anyone heard of Rebbetzin Aidel Miller of Yerushalayim #782774

    Is she the one from Ramot that does the boiling lead thing?

    in reply to: Iyov- who was he?? #782762

    I think we can safely rule out that Iyov is not Joseph.

    That’s one down about 846,904,462,499 more people to go.

    in reply to: Eidah Chareidis Chulent Ban – a question of hechsherim #783052

    Health:

    It is much easier to get a few store owners to close on Thursday night then it is to convince every single bochur not to smoke. The Rabbonim have written against smoking and those that care, don’t. Those that don’t do.

    Personally I have a big taiva to start smoking again but don’t because the Rabbonim say its assur. I’m sure there are tons of people that feel the same way.

    in reply to: How do threads just disapear??? #830919

    The malach shel threads comes every night and removes certain thread al pi gzeiras beis din shel maalah.

    in reply to: Eidah Chareidis Chulent Ban – a question of hechsherim #783049

    I believe that the hechsheirim in and around geulah only give their hechsheirim to restaurants that follow certain standards in hanhagah as well as kashrus.

    I’m not sure of the exact peratim but I’ve heard similar to what the bear is saying about Eidah.

    in reply to: Iyov- who was he?? #782752

    Read Rav Schwab on Iyov. I haven’t read it myself but I’ve heard its supposed to be really great.

    As to the rest, its a machlokes in the gemarah who and when (and if) he was.

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