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  • in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787640

    Well guys, I will not participate in a nation of illiberal ideals. That is your way. I disagree that that is our Creators intent.

    This is what distinguishes orthodox Judaism from Conservative or Reform. Among them, some choose to keep Shabbos and otthers don’t Some choose to keep kosher and others not.

    Among the different sects of orthodoxy, whether Sephardic, Chassidishe, Yeshivishe, Modern, whatever they are- even though each group may argue bitterly with each other- the common denominator between us all is that we all conform to the words of our leaders. We do not choose for ourselves what the correct approach to the world is, we defer to our Rabbis.

    This is what makes us free- not the liberty to choose to do whatever we think is correct, but that we are free from the yetzer hara.

    We follow the halacha and the words of Chazal in all cases, not just when we deem it apropos. You call this illiberal, we call it freedom.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787636

    Midwest:

    Going into a movie theater to watch a movie about penguins would be the same thing as going into a non-kosher restaurant and buying a soda:

    The people seeing you walking into the non-kosher restaurant/movie theater don’t know what your going to be doing in there- they just know there’s a lot of stuff there that they shouldn’t expect a ben Torah to eat/see.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103796

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    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787631

    Listen Chavereim, Torah does not forbid you from watching a screenplay. Torah forbids you from acting like a buffoon.

    The Yalkut in Shemos 1 says (among other reasons) that the problem the Egyptians had with us is that we filled their theaters and circuses. This is the first step in assimilation and it was only shevet Levi who did not go to these things, that were saved from the years of servitude.

    There is no illicit problem going to a movie unless say it is say Adult Rated.

    Actually there can still be problems of isurei histaklus and ri’iyah. And lets be honest. Its more than just likely.

    Personally I felt that cinema was a good way for children to learn about the world when used in an intelligent fashion.

    Is this as opposed to the Torah which you are saying would not have been an optimal way to teach children about the world despite Ben Bag Bag who says that everything is in it?

    Can you imagine not being able to see say Star Wars, Raiders of the Lost Ark or Schindlers List?

    Very easily. And from what I’ve heard, at least Schindler’s List was not entirely appropriate for a Jew to be watching.

    I am a modern orthodox jew and I will not kow tow to a philosophy which states that this “secular” is antithecial to Israel. It is not and it in fact educates us as well. I will beat this to death as long as I exist.

    I don’t think anyone is telling you to kowtow to anyone. But your opinion might not be entirely based on halacha. In which case, you may want to ask yourself is Hashem is asking of you to kowtow to his Law.

    what you do and see will either improve or corrupt you and then you can take your Torah Skills to the test and figure out what you are made of and what you want to be in life.

    It sounds as though you are suggesting that people test themselves in what they can handle secularly speaking. Are you sure that it is OK to test yourself in this way?

    That is more intense and stronger than avoiding a theatre where the cinema plays for the rest of your lives.

    What exactly is the problem with avoiding a theater for the rest of our lives? Would you not avoid a non-kosher restaurant your whole life or would you say that its better to go into the non-kosher restaurant and order a drink rather than avoid it?

    I urge you to research the halachos of histaklus and r’iyah before writing such strongly worded statements about what the Torah allows or forbids.

    in reply to: How could G-d do this #786814

    Well said p_b_a(nd_j).

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787626

    I assumed that we were talking about someone who the only way to discern that he is Jewish is through his yarmulke.

    Obviously going into the theater with a beard, peyos and langa rekel, but with a baseball cap on, isn’t going to really accomplish much.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787620

    I am not a Rov so I would not tell anyone to put on or take off their yarmuulkes ever.

    But my opinion is that whatever the spiritual gains that are acquired from wearing a yarmulke, they are offset by the aviera d’oraissa of chillul Hashem. Yatza schar b’hefseido.

    But obviously if wearing a yarmulke will keep someone out of a theater he shouldn’t take it off.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787611

    I think in the time of Rav Moshe the movies weren’t as bad as they are today and it was a lot more acceptable (although not entirely) to go to see a movie.

    Nowadays though, the Chilul Hashem of walking into a movie theater probably outweighs the halacha of wearing a yarmulke.

    That’s what I would say.

    in reply to: discovery #786760

    It happened to me too. Once someone called me up and asked me if I was crazy!! How do they know?!!?

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103794

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    in reply to: Netilas Yadayim #953161

    In hachi nami, I just haven’t heard megillah leining rescently.

    So the mitzvah that we are mechaven with v’tzivanu is lo sasur?

    in reply to: Kinder Chocolate – Kashrus Status #1142819

    Oohh. I missed that. I’m sorry. In that case I don’t know. I’m pretty sure they sell it in the frum chain-stores, like Rami Levi. That would suggest that it has some sort of hechser on it. But I can’t say for certain.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103788

    ??? ???? ??? ??? ???? ??? ????

    in reply to: Kinder Chocolate – Kashrus Status #1142817

    How does it make it okay just because they sell it in Israel???

    How does what make what okay? Your question was if it came from Germany and I said it looks like it does. I don’t know what the hechser is because I never bought it. I just know that they sell it all over the place.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103784

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103781

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    in reply to: Kinder Chocolate – Kashrus Status #1142814

    I’ve seen the chocolate, they sell it all over the place in E”Y. I don’t know if its really made in Italy or not, but the wrapper looks like its German.

    in reply to: RAV EISENBERGER'S SPEECH BY LEVAYA #789643

    It would be incredible if someone could make a transcription of this.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103777

    ??? ???? ???? ????? ???? ???????

    in reply to: Non-kosher gum chewer. #786135

    I don’t know what an unblech is. I’m also not your Rov, so it might be prudent to speak to your Rov before making such a decision.

    in reply to: Kinder Chocolate – Kashrus Status #1142811

    It looks like it.

    in reply to: more computer help please #796768

    Is your belief founded on solid evidence or is this emunah peshutah.

    in reply to: Non-kosher gum chewer. #786133

    I would not. This person clearly expresses his willingness to catch any kulah he can when it comes to kashrus (and I’m not saying that this is such a great kulah). How can I trust him?

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103772

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103768

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    in reply to: Parenting: Watching Children vs. Independence #786887

    Like everything else in parenting, I don’t think that there is a one size fits all kids here. you need to know your kids and you need to know your neighborhood.

    in reply to: Medrash of Micah #786004

    I’v heard this medrish

    This is what I told my mother.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103766

    ????? ??? ?????? ????? ????? ????? ????? ???

    in reply to: Status of a Cheresh or Shoita Today #800795

    I don’t think that voting for Obama is one of the three simanim of a shota. Maybe it should have been, but I don’t think it is.

    in reply to: Anniversary Help!! #800120

    I’m with Droid on this one.

    I don’t have a meaningful bone in my body.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103761

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103759

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103756

    Maybe a kohein gadol on yom kippur is different because he’s coming out of the kodesh kedoshim? It could be that there’s a difference between putting your back to the outside of the heichal and coming out of the heichal backwards.

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103753

    I understand. The only svara that I could think of is that since he’s oisek in a mitzvah that might also be called “kvod shomayim” he might be puter from kavod hashechina. Like in shul if someone is holding one of the sifrei Torah he doesn’t get up with the rest of the shul when the other sefer Torah is picked up. Unless you tell me that the din applies even during other avoidah, that’s what I would say.

    Then once he’s allowed to turn his back, comes the din that he should turn right instead of left. That’s my own svara though, I really don’t know otherwise.

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    in reply to: Marrying a Prisoner of War #785880

    The requirements of the Torah can be found in Parshas Ki Seitzei (Devarim 21:10-14). The gemara in kiddushin 21b-22a explains a bit more as well.

    in reply to: Status of a Cheresh or Shoita Today #800775

    Why would a shoiteh have a different status today than in the past?

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103748

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    in reply to: Status of a Cheresh or Shoita Today #800773

    I’ve seen a teshuvah from, I think it was Rav Elyashiv, about a Cheresh. But it was really long and I don’t remember the maskana.

    in reply to: popa_bar_abba = mod 80 ? #813025

    I don’t think pba is 80, however I am pretty sure pba is a mod (I have a slight proof).

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103746

    ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? 🙂

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103744

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103743

    The gemarah in 58b learns out this din of yemin l’mizrach (the l’mizrach is only agav orcha- mizrach is only possible by zevachim -Rashi) from a posuk in Divrei HaYomim.

    I imagine that if you are going to turn it is better to turn right- to the side of chesed, than left -to din. But either way, Rami bar Yechezekel makes this lumid and the gemarah says that everyone has it.

    in reply to: Photographers at weddings… #785278

    At my wedding I asked for a female video-lady for the women’s section.

    She brought along a guy to help her with the equipment.

    You just can’t win all the battles.

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103741

    ???? ???? ?? ?????? ??? ??? ?? ??????

    in reply to: popa_bar_abba = mod 80 ? #813023

    Where is that wascilly wabbit anyway?

    in reply to: Jewish music vs. not so-Jewish music #785538

    I’m not familiar with Shvarte Volf, Live from Stubbs or Soulfarm.

    But I understand that because each person interprets experiences differently, the choice of music that would be considered subjectively “hartzedig” for any individual might vary along a broad spectrum.

    I think that each person should determine which music/influence pushes him/her in the right direction -up- whatever that might be (within the acceptable standards of a LOR).

    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103738

    I don’t think deiye was answering the question. He was bringing how Rashi explains the shaila of ???? ??????, which was:

    Why did Rav Yaakov say he has to ‘pay chetzi nezek” instead of just saying that he’s ‘chayav’.

    It doesn’t speak about the hava amina of the gemarah that Rav Yaakov should have to pay chetzi nezek at all.

    If anyone has access to a ????? ?? ?????? he might talk about it.

    Can you give ?”? for your two kashyas?

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103735

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    in reply to: ?? ?????? ???? ???? #1103730

    I’m sorry for derailing the thread. That shtickel gemarah always sits in my pocket and since I had a reason to take it out I thought I may as well ask.

    I will rerail the thread from where it left off.

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