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B’shah tovah!!
that is cool! and also hard to read.
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I googled “kosher banana axtract” and somethings came up, try it. (sorry I didn’t have the time to read them but it sounded intresting).
The Point here is not whether one should accept glillah, its about giving the same honor for someone who is still not married.
“oomis: As zeidy pointed out, my issue is not with the kids who get it, it is with the nebs who get it.”
PBA – I have to agree with you, a 30 year old single should not get glilah while his 19 year old married cusin (or sometimes even brother) gets an aliyah.
oomis dont take him so serious, I dont think PBA ie even married yet (please correct me if I’m wrong).
As to maftir the gemarah in Megillah says that in order to apease the one getting maftir (which is an inferior aliyah because even a kid under bar mitzvah can get it) he also gets Musaf.
was she upset or glad?….
They have Europien formaleties.
PBA – YOU got gelilah this shabbos by any chance?…
Back to the title of this tread “who needs to change”, the answer is YOU!!
YOU need to believe more in yourself!!
YOU need to DEMAND more respect!!
YOU need to be less dependent!!
YOU can do it!!
(keep in mind I never said you should leave him, but the option needs to be on the table, he can’t take you for granted. I do believe that once you put down the rules he might change).
AYC – you the words out of my mouth.
If he wants to be IN let him behave like he is IN. Thats why its so importent for you to have a job, not that you HAVE to pay the rent but for him to know that you have the possibility to do so if he dosen’t shape up.
“if not I would tell you to get yourself a job”
In any case that will be a good idea, if possible even get a degree so you want be so dependent on him everytime you need twanty bucks which will give some control.
AYC Oh yes!! let the bum know that if someone goes he goes, maybe then he will relize that he DOES have something to loose and will start behaving like a man.
“thank you charliehall.
from someone who has reasons to sometimes become frustrated with the moderation here
truly a man of integrity”
I would like to second that, aldough I rearly agree with him I still admire the way he makes his points, never shouting or insulting just intelectualy making his point.
“i actually have seen a lot of positive come from netureei karta with my own eyes i have read many letters from muslims and pro palestinians sent to NK where they tell how they hated all jews and would spit on the street every time they would see one, and after seeing or attending anti zionist rallies and seeing orthodox jews sympathising with them they realized that not all jews are evil and they are much more favourably disposed of jews now- instead of spewing out hatred at members of klal yisroel whether or not you agree with them, how about researching and finding out exactly how much good they are actually doing for the yiden! they are definatly lessening the anti semitism in the world that is a fact- and you just shout at them?”
What are you drinking?
“I just don’t get NK…”
Don’t try to get into their heads, you might not find your way out…
There was a major heat wave a few years ago in France, and there was more then 10,000 people dead, mostly alderly people who were left in the hot city alone while there kids were vacationing in the contryside.
These people are so hungry to be in the news, they must of felt realy left out of the spotlight when klal Yisroel was busy searching and murning for a litle kid.
“I agree with radishes. It is summer. It is hot. Are you surprised? Is it not out of the ordinary. “
I agree, but we can still daven that nobody is hurt in this heat wave (As of yesterday there was more then 20 people dead in the south from this heat wave).
You can try Shalom tesk force 888-883-2323
I believe they also have a webside.
An abuse hotline will be able to refere you to a rav who has expirience dealing with these ishues.
We can all try to give you advice but you need profesional guidence, not every rabbi has training/expirience dealing with ishues of shalom beiyis/abuse. There are frum abuse hotlines out there CALL THEM ASAP!! You owe it to yourself, You owe it for your children.
We dont set the rules the Shulchan Aruch does, there are certein things we are not alowed to do, cooking for Yom Tov is not one of those. Besides what if you enjoy to bake a cake just for shabbos is that forbiden?