Ein od milvado,
I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but you’re being a dreykup. As other people answered you, this was a legitimate discussion about doing halachically acceptable hishtadlus. You sound like a nudnick with a mussar speech that has nothing to do with anything that is being talked about here. Maybe YOU should learn more about being dan lchaf zechus other people, instead of assuming the worst in people.