dater

adorable- im a girl. the boy im dating is pretty quiet but i can tell he would like to tell me about himself…its just he needs the right context. if we’r both having quiet moments, that does not propel him to start telling me about meaningful experiences…

I also don’t want to throw a heavy topic at him “whats most inspiring thing ever happened to u etc” out of the blue…i want it to flow and feel natural.

However, im not that creative in coming up with conversation starters( eventhough everyone tells me its the boy’s repsonsibility to carry convo) but if he’s having hard time, i dont’ just wana give up on him and move on, i want to give him a real chance!

and ronrsr- im certainly not asking those questions lol!

so jokes aside, any other ideas for conversation starters?????

someone suggested in another thread “if you had 30 seconds to leave ur house, what would u take?” but i don’t believe that there are many options one can come up with that would show me his personality…

but s/t similiar to that question might be fun to discuss while at same time give me a glimpse into his personality…

I know CR has real creative thinkers…so think back to ur dates and please share!