Danish

First of all you may have another wisdom tooth coming out on that side( if the pain is near a back molar it may very well be that). Also ask your Dentist for Peridex, its a prescription mouth wash and its very strong and good for gums.

“Since men and women have been getting married, men have married younger women. It seems to be the natural system Hashem has set in the world. It has always worked for every civilization, in every generation, for thousands of years. Why is it all of a sudden the problem?” ames this is all so true! The past generations were all growing populations and none of them seemed to have this crisis before, even after polygamy wasnt practiced anymore, there were no shidduch crisis.

I understand that some want to close the age gap in shidduchim and have girls start dating later , but so many times girls are seriously ready for marriage at 18 and 19. Why should they have to wait till 21 to start dating, when by then they will be cosidered older and they will be part of the shidduch crisis. Personaly I know so many young girls that are ready to get married, and even though i understand the shidduch crisis why should they have to wait. If Hashem wants them to get married young they will. And its important to remember Hakadosh Boruch Hu Mizaveg Es Zivugim, so ultimatley I think girls can start dating at any age if they are mature because its all up to Hashem. But its important not to rush someone into a marriage that their not ready for-for both boys and girls, but when they are mature enough and ready to decide on their own(with guidance if needed) to start dating at whatever age it is then they should.