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December 23, 2018 9:08 am at 9:08 am in reply to: Is the MO community concerned with SED? Why the silence? #1649460DaMosheParticipant
DY: If that’s the case, then fine, give them the funding. But what about the schools (mostly chassidic) that don’t outperform the public schools? The schools where the kids come out barely able to read English? I think all their funding should be pulled.
For the schools with no secular education at all (such as Satmar), I think the truancy piece should be enforced as well.December 22, 2018 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm in reply to: Is the MO community concerned with SED? Why the silence? #1649197DaMosheParticipantThe OU was involved in efforts against the requirements.
I happen to agree with part of the law, but strongly disagree with a different part.
If private schools don’t offer enough time studying secular subjects, then they should not be eligible for government funding. I oppose the part where students of these schools would be considered truant.DaMosheParticipantIt’s on Cross Currents. Unfortunately, we can’t post links here.
DaMosheParticipantTeach NYS just released a statement about the issue. They said they didn’t say anything before now because they wanted confirmation on what they believed to be correct. Here is what they said:
To: Teach NYS Member Schools
On November 20th, 2018, the New York State Education Department (NYSED) issued its Substantial Equivalency Guidance regarding curriculum requirements for non-public schools. Since the issuance of this Guidance, TEACH NYS, a project of the Orthodox Union, has been working with our school partners, leadership and advocates in Albany to understand and begin to address these requirements and enforcement measures. Concurrently, we have been communicating with government officials and others in Albany to help them understand and address the myriad issues relating to the guidance.
In summary response to the questions our member schools are asking, there are two issues that we are prepared to report on now. First, with regard to high schools, NYSED’s Guidance provides that all registered high schools are already in compliance and have no further obligations. Virtually all of the high schools in the TEACH NYS network are registered with NYSED. Second, in response to our inquiries, NYSED provided written clarification that the mandatory units of daily secular study are not more than one per grade for core subjects (English, Math, Social Studies and Science). This translates to 3.5 required hours of required instruction per day (not counting physical education) for grades 7-8. We held off distributing this important information until we could confirm this clarification at senior levels of NYSED – which we received from multiple sources at NYSED yesterday.
Philosophically, we believe that there are additional open issues that need to be addressed. First, we are extremely concerned about government regulation of the curriculum of religious day schools and Yeshivas. Our educational institutions should have the right to fashion our children’s education in a manner consistent with our Torah values and a curriculum that fosters the inculcation of such values and our religious tenets. Second, we are extremely concerned that the locus of enforcement authority with respect to State mandates sits with local school authorities. To the extent that workable guidelines are to be formulated, they require clarity and consistency which can only be achieved by centralized formulation and implementation.
Process concerns us also. Subsequent to the issuance of the November 20th Guidance, a number of organizations, coalition partners, heads of school and Roshei Yeshiva appropriately reached out to NYSED to seek clarification on a number of issues. Teach NYS likewise reached out to NYSED. While some of our questions have been answered, we have been in contact with our coalition partners, including prominent Roshei Yeshiva, and are advised that others, including these prominent Roshei Yeshiva, have made specific inquiries and requests that have yet to be responded to. We have urged NYSED to reach out to all parties to deal with these inquiries; an open discussion with all parties is important to avoid further aggravating an already difficult and confusing situation. Lastly, we note that the written responses we received from NYSED (which are set forth in full below) were accompanied by a commitment by NYSED to incorporate this and other clarifications into its Guidance. To date, no such revised Guidance has been issued. We urge NYSED, in the strongest terms possible, to clarify its Guidance as it has committed to do.
To conclude: We have been, and remain extremely concerned by state regulation of Yeshiva and day school curriculum. We strongly believe that any enforcement of the Guidance should be at the State and not local level. We call upon NYSED to issue their revised Guidance forthwith, and to make a concerted effort to engage with all organizations and groups that seek to engage with them.
Moving forward: Over the coming months, Teach NYS will work together with our coalition partners to seek appropriate clarifications and modifications of the Guidance and will continue to report to you on a regular basis with respect to our progress. In the interim, if there are any questions regarding this advisory, or any other aspects of the Guidance, please feel free to contact Maury Litwack, our Executive Director, with any questions.
Set forth below are the details of our correspondence with NYSED.
QUESTION: How many hours of instruction are required per day?
Based on the mandatory units of study found in “Appendix A”, Teach NYS informed NYSED that the new Substantial Equivalency Guidance requires at least 7.2 hours of instruction each day for grades 7 and 8. 7.2 hours far exceed the NYS compulsory education law requirement of 5.5 hours. Teach NYS informed NYSED of this inconsistency in the Guidance and requested an explanation.ANSWER: NYSED responded by email informing us that the language in “Appendix A” of the Guidance was not clear and would be clarified to explain that students are to receive such instruction by the end of grade 8.
For example, two units of study for English language arts must be completed by the end of grade 8 (one unit in grade 7 and one unit in grade 8). Two units of study in English language arts are not required in each grade, 7 and 8. This pertains to all of the requirements, with the exception of library and information skills. What this means is that a school must only offer a minimum of 180 minutes per week (around 36 minutes per subject per day) of English, Math, Social Studies and Science for grades 7 and 8.
QUESTION: Teach NYS informed NYSED that the law only requires grades 7 and 8 to meet the units of study hourly requirements; the units of study do not apply to grades 5 and 6. Teach NYS requested that NYSED confirm that grades 5 and 6 are not required to meet the units of study requirement or provide an explanation with the supporting regulation.
ANSWER: NYSED responded that they will work through how to resolve differences in the structure of State intermediate learning standards and current regulation. A clarification will be posted shortly.
Additional Views
Judaic Curriculum and Equivalency: It continues to remain unclear which parts of our Judaic studies curriculum will satisfy the New York Learning Standards based equivalency requirements as determined by NYSED Guidance. The NYSED Guidance states: “In nonpublic schools, the unit of study requirements may be met, or their equivalents may be met, by the incorporation of the State learning standards of such subjects into the syllabi for other courses. Such integration must be documented in writing and kept on file at the school.”
How this Guidance will be applied remains to be clarified.Non-academic subjects: Further discussion is warranted to determine the specifics of non-academic subjects like Career Development and Occupational Studies and physical education, among others.
DaMosheParticipantLet’s assume this is a serious question.
How do you define Daas Baal haBaatim? Do you mean to ask if we believe that someone who isn’t a Rabbi is worthy of asking opinions from? Absolutely. I have a neighbor who is a pediatrician. If one of my kids is sick on a weekend (when their regular doctor’s office is closed), we may ask her opinion, or have her do a throat culture (if it seems like it may be strep). Another friend of mine is a plumber. If I have a plumbing issue, I’ll ask his opinion on how to handle it.
Will I ask their opinion in halachic matters? No. They have no background/education in halachic matters, so why would I? For halachic matters, I ask the Rav of my shul.November 26, 2018 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm in reply to: Does anyone know what Linden Yeshiva is like? #1630917DaMosheParticipantIt’s no longer in Linden, it moved to Union I believe.
November 22, 2018 3:53 pm at 3:53 pm in reply to: Is it Mutar to celebrate Thanksgiving?!?!?!?!?!?! #1629183DaMosheParticipantWow, this got a lot of responses, when it’s really a very simple answer:
It’s a machlokes. Everyone should ask their own Rav, and follow their own tradition. For example, Chaim Berlin students should NOT have a Thanksgiving dinner, while YU students may.DaMosheParticipantNeville: Yes, I do believe that MO people who may not be strict in one area will ask a shailah in the areas where they are more strict. You mentioned tznius – just remember that most of the “rules” that the yeshivish and chassidish people follow in that area are chumros, not halachos. Most MO people (at least the ones I know) follow halachah, but many don’t take on the chumros which were accepted by the yeshivish community.
AWOB: R’ Moshe was not universally followed in all areas. For example, most don’t follow his position regarding Shabbos clocks. Satmar opposed his views on many fertility treatments, and even held that many children who were the results of those treatments are considered mamzeirim. (My children, who resulted from IVF, would not be acceptable to Satmar). Many don’t follow his views regarding an Eruv in Brooklyn.
DaMosheParticipantI don’t know why someone would assume that MO don’t ask shailos. We definitely do, all the time! Now, we may limit our asking to actual halachic cases, as we don’t always ask a Rav for practical advice – for example, if a doctor recommends that I have surgery, I won’t ask my Rav about it. I may get a second opinion from another knowledgeable doctor, but my Rav doesn’t know medicine!
My Rav has also told me when to ask someone who is at a higher level than him. I once had a difficult shailah which he declined to answer – he referred me to Rabbi Willig. Rabbi Willig also declined to answer, and he told me “I believe there are only two poskim who will answer this for you. One of them told me that in such cases, he is always nervous about it so he tries to be machmir. The other is R’ Dovid Feinstein, who I know really weighs the factors in the individual case, and will give the appropriate psak for that case. I suggest you ask him!”
So you’re wrong about that. As for having sources from prominent poskim, most MO Rabbonim have semichah from YU, and were taught by R’ Schachter, R’ Willig, and other giants. They definitely have the proper backgrounds!October 17, 2018 9:47 am at 9:47 am in reply to: Which is Worse Publically Converting or Publically OTD? #1606335DaMosheParticipantIn both cases you’re showing that you don’t believe in Judaism. Conversion also shows that you believe in another religion. So I’d say it’s pretty clear that conversion is worse – it’s OTD taken to the next step.
DaMosheParticipantI’m not sure about the population question, but from what I remember learning, there is a big mistake in your assumption – how often does there need to be this population? I learned that it needs to be once per year, not every day.
In fact, when R’ Moshe zt”l issued his psak about Brooklyn, he had a rule that we can estimate 1/5 of the population will be outdoors at a given time (during the day, obviously, not in middle of the night). Therefore, it would require a population of 3 million to meet the criteria. The population of Brooklyn was slightly below that number, but R’ Moshe said that since during the summer, many people traveled into Brooklyn to go to the beaches of Coney Island, it pushed it over the number required. This is obviously not every day, as it doesn’t happen during the winter.DaMosheParticipantR’ Mazuz spoke recently about this. The article was on YWN: https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/israel-news/1584386/rav-mazuz-use-money-for-kaparos-instead-of-chickens.html
Speaking at a weekly shiur, Rosh Yeshivat Kisei Rachamim HaGaon HaRav Meir Mazuz Shlita spoke out regarding the minhag of Kaporos before Yom Kippur, stating that in the modern era it is preferable to give tzedaka instead of kaporos.The rav continued to explain: “I used to use chickens, but it made a mess in the home and sometimes it died on the way. It was not simple. Hence, I did hataras nedarim and began with using money. Giving money is preferable anyway, since it is not dirty, and we eliminate the issue brought up by the Ben Ish Chai, that a chicken sees the other being slaughtered and becomes fearful and its lung collapses.”
He added, addressing the matter of cruelty to animals. “They take the chicken for the poor and the poor person says: They already brought me 100 chickens. Where will I put them all? I do not have a large freezer. If I keep them a bit here and there, then we can use it for Sukkos or Chanukah, during Cheshvan, Teves and Shevat and even have some remaining for Purim. This is simcha for the poor man? In addition, at times, the chicken is in a hot vehicle for hours and this is truly ‘tzar baalei chaim’”, he concluded.
DaMosheParticipantRafi, you say that your son saw a passion for Yidishkeit from you, because you’ve been a baal koreh for over 10 years, sometimes walking an hour each way for it.
But what about spending time with your son? When you walked an hour, did you take him with you? If you did, how did he feel about the long walk? Did he resent it? If you didn’t take him, did he go to shul at all? Did he have someone to sit next to, who could guide him with the davening and leining?
It’s important for us to remember that our children should be our #1 priority. We often need to give up things which are important to us in order to give to our children.
The #1 thing to do now, as was pointed out earlier, is to show love to your son. Try to spend time with him. Ask him what he’d like, and do it together. It may be as simple as taking a baseball and having a catch. But building that relationship up can’t hurt.DaMosheParticipantRegarding teshuva on Rosh haShanah:
Rav Moshe Shmuel Shapiro, zt”l said the following. The Gemara in Kiddushin says that if someone is mekadesh a woman on the condition that he is a tzaddik gamur, it is a good kiddushin, even if the man is a pure Rasha. Why? Because maybe in his heart he was thinking about teshuva. The Minchas Chinuch is bothered by this. Teshuva isn’t an instant thing, it’s a 4-step process which can taker a lot of time! So how can this rasha become a tzaddik gamur just by thinking it in his heart?
R’ Shapiro explained that taking the first step to turn your life around is an important step in repentance. Just making that commitment is the first step, and when you follow it through, you are considered to have been a tzaddik from the starting point, even though there was no teshuva for a specific sin at that point.
So too, on Rosh haShanah, the shofar is there to wake us up and tell us it’s time to do teshuva. We don’t do teshuva for specific sins. There is no vidui said, there is almost no mention at all of repentance on Rosh haShanah. But we take that first step, and heed the call of the shofar to turn ourselves around. After Rosh haShanah, we begin the actual teshuva process, with the 4 steps it requires. But on Rosh haShanah itself, we need to make that commitment to correct ourselves.DaMosheParticipantShopping613: I never said it wouldn’t be a good davening. The thread title was “for the hock”, not “for an uplifting davening”, so my point was that this is the wrong outlook for Rosh HaShanah.
yutz: I have major issues with what you quoted. So R’ Nachman said that he purposely disregarded the Mesorah he had from his father because he heard Hashem tell him to change it? We have a rule of Torah lo b’Shamayim hii, and Nevuah is long gone. Hashem gave the Torah to the ENTIRE nation and we have a Mesorah since then. How can one Rav, as big as he may be, claim that he will throw away a Mesorah because he heard a voice in his head?
Then, he says that the entire world depends on HIS Rosh haShanah. We say in davening every day, in Shema Koleinu, that Hashem hears the prayers of EVERY Jew. No prayer goes unanswered. So how can he claim that the entire world depended on his personal Rosh haShanah? Where did he get that idea from?DaMosheParticipantIf you think that Rosh HaShanah is all about an experience, then by all means, go to Uman.
If you think that Rosh HaShanah is about recognizing Hashem as the ruler of everything, and about davening with proper concentration, then do NOT go to Uman.DaMosheParticipantR’ Bender used to tell over a story about R’ Moshe Feinstein, relating to pictures.
One time, R’ Moshe went to a bungalow colony in the summer to visit someone. A bunch of children began walking in front of him, taking pictures of the gadol. Someone asked R’ Moshe if he should stop them from taking the pictures. R’ Moshe replied, “I don’t know if I’m worthy of people taking my picture, but better they should have a picture of me on their wall than a picture of a baseball player!”DaMosheParticipantThe official archivist of the Jewish Organization in the ghetto was Hillel Seidman. In his records of a meeting, he quotes R’ Ziemba as saying, “Of necessity, we must resist the enemy on all fronts. We shall no longer heed his instructions.
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In the past, during religious persecution, we were required by the law ‘to give up our lives even for the least essential practice.’ In the present, however, when we are faced by an arch-foe, whose unparalleled ruthlessness and program of total annihilation know no bounds. The Halakha demands that we fight and resist to the very end with unequaled determination and valor for the sake of Sanctification of the Divine Name.”DaMosheParticipantWe have a rule that if someone is going to kill you, you should preemptively try to kill him first. Why does that not apply to the Jews in the Warsaw Ghetto?
August 6, 2018 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm in reply to: Most of us have heard and used the term siyata dishmaya .סייעתה דשמיה. #1569826DaMosheParticipantExplain by example:
Have you ever felt there’s nowhere to turn?
Things seem confused?
No one’s concerned?
The times we live in are oh so dark.
A little faith, though, lights a spark.
Clears our vision, eases pain.
Hope arises again!August 6, 2018 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm in reply to: Anyone Know How I Can Get Zohar’s Album (the tzlil v’zemekid soloist)? #1569825DaMosheParticipantZohar actually put out two albums – Freedom Now, and I am Back!
I have access to both of them, and can digitize them, but I don’t know what good that does for you.July 26, 2018 11:47 am at 11:47 am in reply to: Yeshiva Tuition – question for executive directors #1565474DaMosheParticipantIn Central NJ, there is a grant which caps your tuition at most of the local schools at a percentage of your income. I believe that depending on the amount you make, it runs from 15% to about 20%.
This does not determine how much you pay – it caps it. So if you have only one child, you likely won’t hit the cap, and will pay the full amount. If you have multiple kids, you’ll probably hit the cap.DaMosheParticipantOn Tisha b’Av, I mourn all the losses, including to the Holocaust, for the impact to me and the Jewish nation as a whole.
On Yom haShoah, I mourn the Holocaust publicly, for even the non-Jewish world to see, and to remind them of what can happen when hatred is unchecked.DaMosheParticipantCircle, then why did the Shach institute a taanis on the 20th of Sivan to commemorate Tach v’Tat?
DaMosheParticipantI don’t think it’s impossible to have a true platonic relationship with someone of the opposite gender, but it is extremely difficult. In almost all cases, yes, the male involved will be thinking those things (you know what I’m referring to.)
I can say from personal experience that there was one girl I had a platonic relationship with. How did it work? Because I didn’t find her the least bit attractive. 0%. Since I really didn’t find her attractive at all, I was able to have a platonic relationship with her.
With every other girl I knew when I was younger, it didn’t work that way. Even if I didn’t find them super attractive, there was always that small amount, which would lead to those thoughts. I didn’t have many friends of the opposite gender – it was more like some of them were within the same group of friends I was in. We would sometimes all go out together, but I definitely didn’t have a relationship where I’d hang out 1-on-1 with them, like I did with my guy friends.
So like I said, it’s not impossible, but it’s extremely difficult. There needs to be no attraction whatsoever, and that is very rare.DaMosheParticipantAccording to the Star-K, you just remove the husk and rinse it well.
The CRC says after peeling and rinsing, you should just check to see if you notice any bugs.June 29, 2018 8:28 pm at 8:28 pm in reply to: Orthodox Rabbi Takes Job at LGBT Synagogue – Discuss #1549499DaMosheParticipantcatch yourself: You misunderstood the point of my post.
I did not say that they have license to take a shul to twist the words of the Torah – God forbid to say such a thing! I said that if a Rabbi took a job there, it may have been with the intentions of trying to gently guide them onto the proper path. I also said I don’t know enough about this man to say either way what he plans on doing. I definitely would not condone any acceptance by him of forbidden acts by the membership of his shul.June 29, 2018 1:49 pm at 1:49 pm in reply to: Orthodox Rabbi Takes Job at LGBT Synagogue – Discuss #1549431DaMosheParticipantI really think there are multiple parts to this entire thing.
First, should someone take such a job. I’m reminded of something I’d heard about a shul in Denver. There was a shul there which was the last OU shul without a mechitzah (it was grandfathered in under their old rules, before they required one). A YU musmach was offered the position of Rabbi there. He asked R’ Herschel Schachter about taking the job, as he was hesitant due to the mechitzah issue. R’ Schachter told him to take the job, to try and encourage the membership to install the mechitzah. However, he told him that if he wasn’t successful within a few years (I don’t remember the exact number), then he must leave. That was what happened – they still refused, and the guy left the job. When they tried to get another YU Rabbi, they couldn’t. R’ Schachter had instructed his students not to go there. The shul ended up hiring a YCT musmach. So we see that it can be allowed to go to a shul with big problems, but with strict guidelines, and with the right intentions. I don’t know what the intentions of this Rabbi are, so I can’t really judge.
This leads to my second point, which is the treatment of this community by the Jewish world. I think that the mindset does have to change in some ways. Many Jews look at these people as disgusting, and completely cut them off. I think we need to stop doing that. These are people who have a terrible nisayon, probably one of the most difficult anyone can have. They have urges to do things which are completely forbidden by the Torah. If they want to live frum lives, they are doomed to never marry, never have children, and be alone for their entire adult lives. This guy is correct when he states that they often have no spiritual guidance. Why should that be? We all do things wrong. We all speak lashon harah at times. Was anyone here never jealous of someone? We all do things wrong. Who is to say what aveiros are worse than others? You can argue that lashon harah can be worse, because it’s bein adam l’chaveiro. These people need someone to guide them so they can live a religious life, where they can be accepted. We obviously can’t tell them that their actions are ok, but there are lots of other mitzvos they need help with. Why should they be denied that?
Again, it all boils down to the intentions of this Rabbi. We can hope he has the proper mindset.June 27, 2018 11:26 am at 11:26 am in reply to: Can following a Chumra become a Chilul Hashem #1547363DaMosheParticipantThe story about this mentions a case where one of the men touched the wine, and a chareidi man came over, yelling, and began smashing the bottles in front of him.
Even if you want to be machmir, there’s a way to do it without embarrassing someone. That was definitely a chillul Hashem.DaMosheParticipantR’ Moshe Feinstein wrote a teshuva on this (Igros Moshe CM 2, 30), where he said it’s assur. Here is part of the teshuva:
This is forbidden not only by the law, but also by the Torah. And this is not only misleading, which is in itself forbidden as [the Talmudic sage] Shmuel states . . . that it is forbidden to mislead [any other person], so much the more here that he misleads everybody. It is actual stealing, for when he wants later on to get a job, work in a trade to make a living, in most cases [the employer] wants someone who excelled in his studies. And they will see his test results that he has a good score, and on that [false] basis he will be taken on, and this is actual stealing.
And don’t claim that even if that is the basis for his being hired, this is really an irrelevant basis and therefore it’s permissible to lie. First of all, even if there is no real basis for insisting on [good grades], this employer at any rate insists on it and so his hiring is null and void; and in any case it is always forbidden to lie even if there is no [unfair] advantage gained. . . Furthermore, if [the employer] knew he had lied he wouldn’t rely on him for anything, and he will [unfairly] cause others to be suspect. . . Furthermore, when people insist on this there is certainly a valid basis, for there are certainly things that someone expert in his studies will do better in business and commerce. . . This also develops habits of not knowing what is studied and habituates to laziness.
DaMosheParticipantTime for Truth: I don’t know why you’d assume that MO would believe or disbelieve something.
A Rebbe of mine (who is a well-known Rav in Brooklyn) once told us about something which may be kishuf or just another type of a koach hatumah. He was speaking about all the “mekubalim” who exist, especially in Eretz Yisrael. He claimed that most of them are not legitimate, and should not be trusted. He said how R’ Chaim Kanievsky, whenever he gives someone advice on a matter, will quote a Gemara or other source to back up what he says. He contrasted it with mekubalim who seem to know things, but don’t have a Torah based source for it – and also ask for large sums of money before they’ll help someone. A student asked, “But how do they know these things if they’re not legitimate? Doesn’t it come from the Torah?” The Rebbe replied, “True, the knowledge can come from the Torah. But the Torah also tells us that there are other means of obtaining supernatural abilities, such as witchcraft and other dark methods. They are forbidden. Many of the so-called mekubalim are likely utilizing these methods.”
DaMosheParticipantIn Tehillim (mizmor shir l’yom haShabbos), Dovid haMelech touches briefly on the age-old question of why good things happen to bad people. He says “A boor doesn’t know, nor does a fool understand this. When the wicked spring up as the grass, and when all the workers of iniquity do blossom; it is that they may be destroyed for ever… a tzaddik will flourish like a palm tree, and grow strong like the cedar trees of Lebanon.”
I think the descriptions of the success reinforce the point. The rasha is described as springing up like grass, and blossoming. While grass looks nice, and spreads widely, it is also very easy to uproot and destroy. The same thing with blossoms – they are easily torn off from the main plant.
A tzaddik, however, is described as a tree (2 types). Trees take much longer to grow, but they have deep roots, and are established. It’s difficult to destroy a tree.So the success of the Rasha is only temporary, without any real foundations. But the tzaddik, while it may take longer to realize it, is really only getting the foundations (roots) established, and the success will last eternally!
DaMosheParticipantInstead of sitting and waiting, why not get up and do some hishtadlus?
DaMosheParticipantIn the first Mishna of Pirkei Avot, it says that Moshe “kibel” Torah m’Sinai. I saw somewhere (can’t remember where) that it says “kibel” because to accept the Torah, it needs to be a full acceptance – you need to accept that the Torah is perfect, and that even though times may change, the Torah does not. As much as you think you may know better, you really don’t – Hashem is better, and the Torah will always be correct.
My thought is that this is the reason why it says m’Sinai, and not Moshe kibel Torah m’Hashem. We all know the story of Har Sinai – it was the mountain which was humble. Moshe was the greatest anav who ever lived. To accept the Torah, we need to learn the lesson of Sinai, and humble ourselves, to realize that we aren’t as knowledgeable as we may think we are.Additionally, I wondered why it says u’m’sarah l’Yehoshua – why not say v’natan l’Yehoshua? I think a reason may be that when you GIVE something, you don’t retain it for yourself. But when it comes to Torah, you’re not giving it, you’re sharing it. You still retain what you shared.
Then I thought it can’t be correct, because every day, we say noten ha’Torah – the GIVER of the Torah. But then I realized that Hashem did, in fact, GIVE the Torah to us. After Matan Torah, we say Torah lo ba’Shamayim hee! Hashem didn’t keep it for Himself, He gave it to us! That’s why we can say noten ha’Torah regarding Hashem.
DaMosheParticipantA couple of months ago, by Parshas Ki Sisa, I had the following thought:
The first luchos were created entirely by Hashem – He carved and wrote them. The second set was carved by Moshe, and the words were written by Hashem. Why the difference?
I remember reading something by R’ Dovid Rosenfeld, where he once explained that when the world was first created, the Olam haRuchni and the Olam haGashmi were perfectly in sync. After the sin of Adam and Chava, they became separated. He mentions that Shabbos is the bridge that connects the two worlds. (He also states that the 10 items created bein hashamashos on the first Friday were also items that bridged the two worlds.)
So I think that may be the answer to the difference between the two luchos. At Matan Torah, the world was fully repaired to what was originally intended. So we could have a set of luchos that were pure ruchniyos – created entirely by Hashem. After the egel, however, the two worlds separated once again. At that point, we couldn’t have something that was entirely ruchniyos in this world. So we needed it to be half and half – it could bridge the gap, but it wasn’t in sync any more.DaMosheParticipantBump!
Moadim l’simcha!
Thank You, Hashem, for the open miracles you have shown in restoring our holy city to us!
Me’es Hashem haysa zos, hee niflas b’eyneynu!DaMosheParticipantwhitecar, I’d prefer Nikki Haley.
DaMosheParticipantThis is where I have an issue. So people chose to follow the Mishna, which says “Asei lecha Rav” – choose a Rav for yourself. Apparently, not wanted to wait for a baby to grow up is politics? Even if he was an adult, why can’t they choose a different Rav for themselves?
DaMosheParticipantThere was an article written by R’ Yona Reiss, a Rosh Yeshiva at RIETS and the Av Beis Din of the Chicago Rabbinical Council, and the topic of eating out on Pesach. It’s titled “Understanding an Unfriendly Minhag: Not Eating Out on Pesach”. If the mods don’t allow the link, it’s easy to find it via Google.
Mods, are links to YUTorah allowed? If so, here is the link:
http://download.yutorah.org/2016/1053/855409/understanding-an-unfriendly-minhag-not-eating-out-on-pesach.pdfMarch 21, 2018 12:19 pm at 12:19 pm in reply to: Is there any food better than an excellent potato kugel? #1495669DaMosheParticipant“Better” is relative. It all depends on what you’re in the mood for.
With people arguing over who makes the best kugel, I have to throw my hat in the ring. I make an overnight kugel which is delicious. I’ve had many people tell me it was the best kugel they’ve ever had.
March 13, 2018 2:34 pm at 2:34 pm in reply to: Should Donald Trump be Crowned King of the United States? #1488244DaMosheParticipantCTL: In order to violate the clause, wouldn’t it have to be proven that the foreign governments paid above the market rate when they spent money at his properties?
March 12, 2018 4:06 pm at 4:06 pm in reply to: Should Donald Trump be Crowned King of the United States? #1487543DaMosheParticipantCTLawyer: on what grounds?
DaMosheParticipantThe Gemara in Pesachin (41a) says straight out that you can fulfill the mitzvah of eating matzah using matzos that were soaked in water.
The Raavan, a rishon, states that some people refrained from dipping matzah into soup on the first night of Pesach. He says it’s NOT because they were concerned it would become chometz. It was so the taste of matzah wouldn’t be changed, and they wanted the taste to stay in their mouths all night.
The main source of the minhag today is from R’ Shneur Zalman Liadi, who held that since they changed the method of making matzos, by greatly shortening the time, it wasn’t kneaded as well, and some flour remained on the top of the matzos, that wasn’t kneaded into the dough. This is against what Rashi and the Rambam say, that flour which was heated in an oven can’t become chometz. There are others who disagree with them as well. R’ Shneur Zalman, when discussing the minhag of gebrokts, says the halachah is like Rashi and the Rambam, but since the Arizal said to be extra stringent on Pesach, we should take the other opinions into account, and be stringent.DaMosheParticipantiacisrmma: in Plyler vs. Doe, the Supreme Court ruled that illegal immigrants are protected under the 14th Amendment.
DaMosheParticipantThere was recently an interview of R’ Schachter published in the Jewish Press. They don’t allow links, so I can’t post that, but here are the questions and answers regarding Purim:
Purim is approaching. What’s your opinion on the current level of drunkenness one sees on this day?
It’s scandalous. Purim is supposed to be a celebration of kabalas haTorah, accepting the Torah. In the days of the second Beis HaMikdash, there were many yamim tovim d’rabanan, all of which were batul after the churban habayis, except for Chanukah and Purim. Of all these yamim tovim, only one had a chiyuv seudah: Purim. The Gaonim had the girsa in the Gemara that the reason Purim is different is because it’s yom kabalas haTorah.
The words “kimu v’kiblu” [which we read in the Megillah] mean that there was another kabalas hatorah, so l’kavod kabbalas haTorah you have to make an elaborate meal. Purim is supposed to be a serious holiday. We really should stay up all night learning Torah.
Isn’t it also a happy day on which we celebrate our salvation?
Okay, so you drink a little until you become drowsy and take a nap as the Rema says in Shulchan Aruch, but it’s not supposed to be the Jewish Halloween. It’s scandalous.
February 28, 2018 12:33 am at 12:33 am in reply to: Rav Miller Website Accuses ‘Joseph’ Of Stealing #1479154DaMosheParticipantYou didn’t answer the question.
February 27, 2018 10:40 pm at 10:40 pm in reply to: Rav Miller Website Accuses ‘Joseph’ Of Stealing #1479109DaMosheParticipantJoseph, even if everything you said is correct, how do you explain your going against the wishes of R’ Miller, who said he didn’t want his shiurim on the internet? Never mind what the site is doing, they’re going against it too, but why do you think it’s ok when R’ Miller said he was strongly against it?
February 27, 2018 1:57 pm at 1:57 pm in reply to: Rav Miller Website Accuses ‘Joseph’ Of Stealing #1478178DaMosheParticipantGaon – read the thread I posted about R’ Miller’s views on the internet. He clearly stated that when someone offered to put his shiurim online, he refused, because he was against the internet. So no, I don’t think he would have wanted his Torah posted online, even on the website which is now complaining.
DaMosheParticipantThey say “thousands of kiddush’s”. Besides for their grammar being off, their numbers are off as well. Let’s say he gets married at 23, so 10 years between the bar mitzvah and the wedding. There are about 52 weeks in a year (using the solar calendar is easier, as it’s pretty constant, and you don’t have to account for the extra Adar). That’s 104 Shabbos meals, so 104 times making kiddush. Another 12 days of Yom Tov (4 Pesach, 2 Sukkos, 2 Shemini Atzeres, 2 Shavuos, and 2 Rosh Hashanah) adds 24, for a total of 128. That’s assuming (unrealistically) that all the days of Yom Tov don’t fall out on Shabbos.
As adocs pointed out, a teenager isn’t making kiddush most of the time anyway – the father is. But let’s assume that this boy is making his own kiddush every single time. Over 10 years, that’s 1,280 times. Hardly the “thousands” they advertise.DaMosheParticipantRegarding their idea that the glass breaking doesn’t really hold any significance anymore, I actually see their point. My Rav actually does the following: at many weddings now, they sing Im Eshkachaich at the chuppah, before breaking the glass. He has the chosson break the glass while it is still being sung. That way, people don’t yell mazal tov right when the glass is broken. They yell it after the singing is finished.
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