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  • in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #887038
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I gather you have conceeded that the Beis Yosef, Rama and Shach do not rule that way, and it is not the accepted Halacha.

    Yes, it does seem that he conceded this point.

    it is clearly not the Rambam’s intent.

    Although, to be fair, R’ Moshe seems to lean towards understanding the Ramba”m that way, although he emphatically states that the halacha is not that way.

    in reply to: What is Torah? #887615
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Yes, the very same one.

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #887035
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    Therev is only one reference in the shach to “melamdim and lomdim” 9see R’moshe’s teshuva that daas yochid quoted).

    One is enough for me. R’ Moshe is quite clear that he is very much referring to kollel stipends.

    it is the misuse of these deferments that rankles people.

    The Chazon Ish was said to be very disturbed by exemptions being given to bochurim who weren’t really learning.

    But, the decision of who should receive exemptions and who should not, is not something that we can allow to be made by the Israeli government. They are certainly not trustworthy to leave alone those who are serious learners. And, as I quoted R’ Moshe, we could use many talmidei chachomim learning, not just a select few as you state.

    in reply to: What is Torah? #887613
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    The same R’ Avigdor Miller who only spoke Yiddish in the home.

    in reply to: So should I daven mussaf? #887186
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Its kind of hard to follow this thread but did someone say tashlumin is the same thing as nidava?

    No. In a case where it’s uncertain if tashlumin is required, one should daven twice, the second with a t’nai: if tashlumin is required, the SHM”E is required for tashlumin, it should be tashlumin. If not required, it should be for a nedava.

    The reason popa’s case is so fascinating is that there are a number of complications:

    1) He didn’t omit the entire SHM”E, just Yaaleh V’yavo. Since the tashlumin would also be without Y”V, there is a machlokes whether or not it applies. Normally, the M”B would recommend the nedava b’tnai approach previously described.

    2) This, however, is not a normal situation, since he accepted Shabbos by davening Maariv, and we don’t say tefilas nedava on Shabbos (a full-fledged, unconditional tashlumin, however, could be said).

    3) Nor, taynas popa, is this an ordinary case of not saying nedava on Shabbos, since it’s only Shabbos via his acceptance, since it’s not yet shkiya. (I do not feel this is a valid chiluk.)

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887694
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    Mw13,

    Great post.

    in reply to: So should I daven mussaf? #887180
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    You should rather Daven two Maarivs.

    In this case, you can’t (according to one shittah which we are choshesh for), because there is nothing being added, since the reason you need to daven again is for missing Yaaleh V’yavo, but you can’t say it now anyway since it is no longer Rosh Chodesh. Nor can you make it a tefillas nedavah b’tnai, because we don’t say tefillas nedavah on Shabbos.

    in reply to: Netanyahu's office #886471
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    CA,

    For seeing the positive. There are two ways to look at it.

    1) The head of a Jewish government, a very public figure, has a set of Shulchan Aruch on his wall, but doesn’t follow it.

    2) The way you did: even someone who doesn’t keep the Shulchan Aruch, at least recognizes its importance, to a degree.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887687
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    ZD,

    Complete conjecture, for no benefit.

    in reply to: Netanyahu's office #886468
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    your thoughts

    R’ Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev would be proud of you.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887684
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    If the Viznitzer Rav had a problem with Rabbi Lau, he should have made them months ago. You dont make demands 2 weeks before an event.

    He is not the one who invited him. I do not know when the invitation was offered, accepted, and announced, but I didn’t know about it until a couple of days ago. You’re right, though, that there was lack of aforethought in inviting someone controversial.

    If people would be as strong about keeping the Torah as they are about being anti Tzioni

    Are you c”v accusing the Vishnitzer Rebbe of not being as strong about other parts of the Torah as he is about being anti-tzioni?

    in reply to: Repeating Shemone Esrei without Tefilin #1195146
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    DY: And, as mentioned above, if you don’t hold of doing a N’dava B’tanai then it’s missed.

    No, he advises it l’ravcha d’milsa, but holds that mei’ikar hadin you can still daven during the z’man of that t’fillah.

    in reply to: So should I daven mussaf? #887177
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Popa,

    Maariv is by definition a night tefillah, so relying on the tzad that it’s still day (and mutar to say nedava) is tartei d’sarei (which may be what Sam meant).

    in reply to: Flushing Toilets On Shabbos #886492
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Who would use a plunger on Shabbos when it WASN’T important to do so? Please, people! A bissel seichel.

    I’m not sure what you mean.

    There is a machlokes whether plunging a toilet which is only mildly stuffed is muttar or assur on Shabbos. Most rabbonim would probably tell you that if there is another toilet available, don’t plunge it, but if there is only one available, one can rely on the lenient opinion.

    in reply to: Flushing Toilets On Shabbos #886491
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What is a person with one toilet that is severely oversytuffed early on Shabbos to do?

    I assume it would be muttar to ask a non-Jew.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887681
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I davka did not draw any lines

    You davka did – you do not sanction exclusion from the siyum, but would from a yom ha’atzmaut parade or education conference.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887680
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Jewish unity,

    The point ‘far east’ is trying to make

    I don’t know what (s)he meant, I only know what (s)he said.

    I also don’t think that it’s okay to publicly shame someone; I was only demonstrating the absurdity of far east’s argument.

    Nobody is trying to shame R’ Lau, but because the siyum is b’rabbim, great care must be taken to keep hashkafos pure, and, apparently, in the Vishnitzer Rebbe’s view, attending the siyum would compromise this.

    in reply to: Repeating Shemone Esrei without Tefilin #1195143
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    if it is necessary to say a second S”E for a missed tefila, as I recall it must be said immediately upon concluding the first S”E.

    L’chatchilah.

    Otherwise the opportunity is missed.

    M”B (108:15) concludes that one should daven; the opportunity is not missed.. He advises that the second tefillah be a nedava b’tnai.

    in reply to: So should I daven mussaf? #887166
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Popa,

    Because who says you can’t daven a nedava on Friday afternoon after you were mekabel shabbos?

    I don’t understand your question. Which of the following two statements are you questioning?

    1) We don’t say nedava on Shabbos.

    2) One must keep all of the halachos of Shabbos after accepting it (any time after plag).

    An argument I could hear is that we only don’t allow Mincha after being m’kabel Shabbos is because you can anyhow daven two Maarivs; since doesn’t apply here, one can daven Mincha. I don’t find this mistaver, though.

    in reply to: So should I daven mussaf? #887163
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    No troll thread yet. MB 108:36 is talking about where it is already night probably. In my case, it was still daytime.

    OK, but why wouldn’t the issur of t’fillas nedava still apply?

    As far as Mincha is concerned, see Mechaber 263:15 (and M”B 59 that he is referring to where it’s still daytime).

    in reply to: Is it bad to say 'guys' when referring to girls? #886813
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    when I answer the phone, to “hey do you guys have……..” I usually hang up on them. In todays day & age when Chutzpa rules, it seems OK to do that.

    Even in today’s day and age, it’s rude to hang up on somebody,

    and if I were your boss, I’d probably fire you for it.

    in reply to: When your spouse gets "OUTED" #888966
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    PBA,

    usually do not have an addiction

    Yes, but some do. Bustercrown may wish to contact them to diagnose his issue.

    Also, I think Guardyoureyes is not only about addictions, it also deals with regular shmiras ha’einaim (especially internet related).

    From the home page of their site:

    in reply to: When your spouse gets "OUTED" #888963
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Bustercrown,

    If you get to that point, you can contact Guardyoureyes (I think they may even list some on their website, otherwise you can email them), but the first step would be for him to recognize that he has a problem.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887669
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Jews should be able to hold whatever their like and we shouldnt judge them.

    Then you shouldn’t judge anyone who feels it’s proper to publicly shame Zionists. After all, you hold they’re entitled to that opinion.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887668
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    does anyone actually hold that Zionism-probable depending on how you define it-is necessarily K’fira

    I don’t have a source, and I’m really not fluent in the Zionist-anti Zionist debate, but I believe that there are those who consider it kefirah.

    in reply to: Repeating Shemone Esrei without Tefilin #1195141
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Shlishi,

    Sam2 merely meant that common custom in this case is not like the M”B.

    in reply to: Repeating Shemone Esrei without Tefilin #1195140
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Many Poskim say to avoid T’fillos Nedava altogether nowadays because we can’t always have Kavana properly

    For the sake of nedava, you’re right. When it’s to avoid a shailah (such as our case), I’ve seen that we do.

    R’ Chaim Kanievsky in Shoneh Halachos does not bring the opinion not to repeat.

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    http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=49174&st=&pgnum=411&hilite=

    in reply to: Repeating Shemone Esrei without Tefilin #1195137
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    The mishne berurah is not “machria’

    It seems to me that he was machria, to repeat Shemone Esreh with a t’nai that if he doesn’t need to, it should be a t’filas n’dovoh.

    in reply to: Flushing Toilets On Shabbos #886486
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    42,

    Machlokes haposkim, if it’s not badly stuffed. A severely stuffed toilet is assur even according to the meikilim.

    in reply to: yeshivish hipsters #889860
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    MDG,

    According to your interpretation, the word “charedi” and the color of the shirt had no place in his post.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887658
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Sam2,

    Just like I would say it’s Sinas Chinam to refuse to recognize a valid Halachic opinion.

    So if you refused to recognize the opinion which considers Zionism to be k’firah as valid, would you be guilty of sinas chinom?

    in reply to: yeshivish hipsters #889857
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    ZD,

    When someone goes on a public forum and bashes groups of sincere Jews, it’s not a kiddush Hashem.

    in reply to: Flushing Toilets On Shabbos #886480
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’ve heard some decent S’varos Le’esor

    What have you heard?

    in reply to: World events. #887310
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What exactly does Moshiach or anything jewish have to do with the Colorado shooting.

    When we hear of tragic events, we are supposed to be frightened into doing teshuvah, will will hopefully bring the geulah closer.

    in reply to: Flushing Toilets On Shabbos #886477
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What about the fact that it’s assur to wash the floor on Shabbos, and the toilet, being m’chubar l’karka (attached to the ground) is considered part of the floor?

    in reply to: Shaas Shmad in Israel #887524
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    So, in other words, you’ll agree that they’re not infallible, but, nonetheless, give them functional infallibility (i.e. treat them as if they are right, even if everyone else agrees that they’re wrong).

    The Wolf

    Who’s everyone else?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #887029
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    ROB,

    You write, “that to learn in a kollel and to rely upon the Tsibbur- is a unique situation (my sons never took money from the tsibbur)and should be reserved to a few”, and, “selected individuals”. That is an improvement over what you wrote earlier, “let NOT ONE AVREICH take a penny from the medinah and they will be free from serving”.

    Hopefully, you’ll soon come around to what R’ Moshe writes, “??? ??? ???? ?????? ????? ??????? ????? ???? ?”?”.

    You wrote, “see what the Rambam writes about people using Torah to earn a livin-“

    To which choppy responded, “The Ramah and Shach in Hilchos Talmud Torah says that nowadays you’re allowed to live off tzedakah to learn Torah.”

    Part of your response was, “if yo ulearn the Remlo properly and the shach,yo uwill see that they totally support my ivew on this”.

    Do you see how R’ Moshe didn’t learn it like you?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #887026
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    ROB,

    I’m not an MK. Are you? 🙂

    It’s not tenable, though, unless the draft is abolished.

    Also, better still would be if all Yidden living in E.Y. appreciated Torah learning, and supported serious talmidei chachomim properly.

    I haven’t had time to read all of the posts here (and I may not have time to respond), but from what I saw, it seems your approach is the exact opposite of R’ Moshe’s, in IG”M Y.D. (2) 116. Please take a look and let me know what you think.

    http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=919&st=&pgnum=188&hilite=

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    in reply to: Strangest Thing You Have Ever Eaten #1020723
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    anybody else ever sample chicken feet?

    Yep.

    in reply to: yeshivish hipsters #889854
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I just saw a shpitz yeshivish guy check out himself in a mirror for a long time, especially fixing his hair. Isnt that a little strange?

    A shpitz yeshivish guy doesn’t have enough hair to fix.

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #887022
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    ROB,

    It would be more acceptable than the situation is now.

    in reply to: World events. #887296
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    Sam2,

    Yes, I thought that’s what you meant, and I agree (it’s much easier that way, we don’t have to make statistical and historical comparisons between tzaros, lo aleinu).

    You were overly kind, though, in explaining ZD’s comments that way.

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    since obviously an Eved would not have been wearing the Levush Yehudi of a Fedora and Sportscoat

    I’ve seen many Canaanim dressed that way.

    in reply to: Who is the Manhig Hador? #898990
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It is for the generation to choose it’s Manhigim.

    Not through discussion; it kind of happens m’meila, and certainly not online in an anonymous forum.

    in reply to: World events. #887290
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    Sam2,

    One could make the argument that all of history has been a wake up call for us, and now, as always, we must react to the frightening world events and do teshuva.

    But so far, I think you’re the only one in this discussion to make that argument (albeit indirectly).

    in reply to: Better to Wear a Hat for Davening at Home than to Daven with a Minyan #886105
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    MDG,

    If there were only nine others, he probably should remain to be the tenth (according to some shittos, it’s not considered tefillah b’tzibbur unless all ten daven, so he probably should daven with them).

    Englishman,

    The problem is davening inappropriately clad bichlal. Since he will do that any way, he should daven with a minyan.

    in reply to: Shaas Shmad in Israel #887489
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Avi,

    You’d have to find something more current than that.

    in reply to: Who is the Manhig Hador? #898984
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Englishman,

    It’s valid to quote what R’ Chaim has to say on the matter. I just don’t want to see people expressing their own opinions on who should or shouldn’t be the manhig hador.

    in reply to: Should I stop listening to Matisyahu? #983749
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’m not sure why the Biur Halacha needed to quote the Derech Hachaim; in the PM”G it seems clear that he assers after R”C.

    I found, though, in R’ Simcha Bunim Cohen’s sefer, that the Maharam Shick understood that the PM”G was mattir even after R”C.

    http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=1495&st=&pgnum=251 (third paragraph down)

    R’ Cohen brings other mareh m’komos to be meikil as well.

    So, although we may wish to be machmir, it’s not something for which we can consider him an avaryan.

    in reply to: Should I stop listening to Matisyahu? #983748
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Sam2,

    I will double check. (You are likely referring to the Biur Halacha in 551, quoting the Derech Chaim’s pshat in the PM”G. I seem to remember that some argue, though.)

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