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  • in reply to: Shul Membership Drives #1678459
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    CTL, What would happen if the chiyuv of the non paying member was bigger (e.g. yahrtzeit vs. avel during 11 months)?

    in reply to: Shul Membership Drives #1678288
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    On the practical side, CTL’s #6, specifically for aveilus and/or yahrtzeit, in many shuls.

    in reply to: Shul Membership Drives #1678284
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Meno +1

    in reply to: Rejecting One’s Bashert #1677920
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    How can a human being “reject” that which Hashem wants to happen?

    Bechirah.

    in reply to: Where is Har Sinai?? #1677150
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I have no idea where Har Sinai is, but I don’t think I’d trust a YouTube video to figure it out.

    I bet there are some convincing anti-vax videos as well.

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1677148
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’m almost sure the Gemarrah there is referring to actual prophesy, Nevuah, certainly a higher category than Ruach HaKodesh.

    There are any number of levels of “ruach hakodesh”. My point is that obviously subsequent generations have the ability to discern when the level has dropped.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1677141
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Any tax hike on the rich or on inheritance would be balanced by a tax break for everyone else.

    You don’t know how government works. You’re also talking about much higher rates when you’re talking about taxing wealthy people into being forced to work in McDonald’s.

    I thought you’d say that. I’m not sure if taxes paid 50+ years ago were still enough to pay off an heir’s burden today considering inflation and differing tax rates.

    Inflation has no bearing. The remaining money is now worth less as well.

    Tax rates might have been higher, depending on when the money was earned.

    If it gets taxed every time it changes hands, why should inheritance be any different?

    It’s not changing hands in the same way wages, purchases, etc. are. ברא כרעא דאבוה.

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1677099
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Excellent post, Syag.

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1677092
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Obviously that “top Rabbi” doesn’t have Ruach HaKodesh… So how is he to be believed regarding others?!? Isn’t that ludicrous?!

    According to that logic, the gemara could not have stated that there is no longer ruach hakodesh, yet it does.
    (I’m not arguing that there can’t be a lower level of ruach hakodesh than the gemara is referring to.)

    ת”ר משמתו נביאים האחרונים חגי זכריה ומלאכי נסתלקה רוח הקודש מישראל
    סנהדרין י

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1677088
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I believe that your camp subconsciously (or maybe even consciously) believes that there is no tangible benefit from the taxes you pay.

    That’s just not true. We just don’t think the government should be taxing more than necessary just because they can.

    Everyone should have to pay for that benefit. Someone living off inheritance should not have government protection and benefits paid for by people with less money than him who actually have to work for a living.

    Income taxes were already paid in that money. Money made from investing that money is subject to taxation. If the heir buys taxable goods or owns property, he will be paying taxes for that.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1677035
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’m fine with that opinion, but I don’t agree. Do you really even?

    Yes. I believe in the principle of ownership. There is no comparison between someone living off of welfare, which means money which he doesn’t own, and earned or even inherited wealth, which he does.

    I have no problem with abolishing the inheritance tax, but it’s not so terrible if it’s a relatively low percentage. Higher percentages are referred to as “confiscatory”, and are basically stealing someone’s money. You seem to think once the government has the right to tax, it’s fine for them to tax at any rate. I strongly disagree. It has to be reasonable, not just taxing simply because the money is there.

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1676923
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Yeah, I figured you’d jump on the opportunity to respond.

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1676908
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Although even with Rabbis one must be careful. After all most are just human.

    The others are frogs?

    in reply to: Do rabbis have ruach hakodesh? #1676903
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Not all rabbis are the same.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676898
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    DY:
    You would consider the side-effect of causing people to have to work for a living to be a negative effect of inheritance taxation? I don’t think I’m in the minority considering that a positive. Maybe strictly within the confines of the YWN CR, I’m a minority opinion on that.

    That’s none of our business. We don’t have a right to decide that and confiscate someone’s wealth.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676831
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    “Let them work at a fast food chain if they have to.”

    in reply to: No blackface this Purim #1676829
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It’s no mitzvah to be offended, but neither is it a mitzvah to do things which you know people find offensive.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676787
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    You’re misrepresenting your own viewpoint. You don’t just want inheritance taxed, you want it confiscated.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676414
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    so what are we supposed to be arguing on

    You want to confiscate inherited wealth.

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1676409
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    All I am saying is that the universal full-time learning is a myth. It is great for some, and an exercise of failure for others. And quantity doesn’t equal quality.

    I wasn’t addressing universal full time learning, I’m not sure why you keep arguing that point with me.

    I’m addressing your statement implying that all learning is equal, I quoted a gemara saying that’s not true, and the gemara of הרבה עשו isn’t very relevant to that point.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676390
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Using saved tax dollars for other projects does not mean higher taxes, it doesn’t change the amount of tax paid

    Semantics. Keeping taxes the same when they could have been lowered is the same as raising them. You seem to feel the government is somehow entitled to taxpayers’ money. They’re not, besides for what’s necessary to run the government efficiently.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1676333
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It’s all about spending smarter, not more. One needs to apply a business head to government, not civil service mentality

    Excellent point, but increasing funding for schools and libraries still means higher taxes. The money saved from stopping wasteful spending should rightfully go back to the taxpayers whose money was being wasted, instead you want to keep it for government.

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1676279
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Thank you, NP.

    in reply to: TorahMate… #1676262
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Screen name looks familiar…

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1676258
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    No, it’s not okay. Who says it’s common? If you know people violating hilchos yichud, you should give appropriate tochachah.

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1676234
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    TLIK, you asked for a source, I provided it. Your response was a rant unrelated to your question and my response, except for one point:

    I am familiar with quite a few people who are working full time (some already retired) who are מחברי ספרים, whose learning is on par with quite a number of recognized Roshei Yeshivos.

    That’s wonderful, but a very small minority. In general, the learning of one immersed in it יומם ולילה is of a higher quality than one who isn’t, and the gemara clearly places a priority on higher quality learning, your politically correct stance notwithstanding.

    in reply to: TorahMate… #1676185
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Make sure the person mentoring you understands your needs, and is capable of imparting to you the beauty of the Torah, at your level, and at a pace appropriate for you. Good luck!

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1676165
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    and personal achievesments unrelated to work or study (aka physical fitness challenges, learnig to play an instrument, etc) …

    All of these may be necessary, but they’re not our mission on this world. At best, they’re means to accomplish our mission.

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1676116
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’ll bet many people (who engage in this sad picture passing) Photoshop their shidduch picture. Thin herself out, a little taller, airbrush those pimples, etc.

    …replace with a picture of a different person…

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1675988
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    TLIK:

    :קדושין כ”ט
    ת”ר הוא ללמוד ובנו ללמוד הוא קודם לבנו ר’ יהודה אומר אם בנו זריז וממולח ותלמודו מתקיים בידו בנו קודמו כי הא דרב יעקב בריה דרב אחא בר יעקב שדריה אבוה לקמיה דאביי כי אתא חזייה דלא הוה מיחדדין שמעתיה א”ל אנא עדיפא מינך תוב את דאיזיל אנא

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1675881
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Do you feel you accomplish your life’s mission, at your job or business. What if you spent that time finishing shas?

    Why is this davka a question for working men? Doesn’t everyone spend some time they perhaps could have spent learning Shas?

    I like funnybone’s answer. Everyone needs to constantly assess and reassess their priorities and how they spend their time, but certainly supporting one’s family is one of the main priorities.

    in reply to: Question for Working Men #1675883
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What a pretentious and offensive question.

    Hmm… I wouldn’t be surprised if the OP is working but having some self doubts.

    in reply to: Should The Rich Be Taxed? 💸🚕 #1675715
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Frankly, once you’re giving it away, the money would be better spent supporting mosdos of Torah and chessed.

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1675709
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I don’t know how many. I share your disgust and concern. In my circles, it’s uncommon.

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1675693
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Also, the people who wouldn’t buy the Yated if it had pictures of women in it aren’t the ones asking for pictures in shidduch resumes.

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1675689
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Some people don’t photograph well. Others can show a photo professionally done with lighting, etc.
    Many times you’re not attracted to the type of look of the girl in the photo, but when you meet her , you see her differently because she’s a live human, not photograph with no soul or inherent charm. Who knows how many shidduchim never materialized because of photos.

    I agree.

    Funny that women’s photos are Photoshopped or outright deleted in the frum media, yet here gazing at a female from every which angle is kosher.

    Although I’m against pictures on shidduch resumes, I don’t think that’s a fair comparison. In general, a man shouldn’t look at a woman he’s not married to, but the one exception is before he marries her. אסור לאדם שיקדש את האשה עד שיראנה

    You can fulfill this gemara by meeting her (obviously) I’m just pointing out that your comparison isn’t great.

    in reply to: Is it healthy for yeshiva bochurim to learn from a New Vilna Shas? #1675301
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    you spelled מענדל wrong.

    What’s the proper spelling?

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1675286
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    However, pictures are much harder to fake

    How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture

    in reply to: Dramatize stories & facts/twisting facts etc #1675200
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    “Twist facts”

    in reply to: Dramatize stories & facts/twisting facts etc #1675138
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    How about the over the top dramatic heimish robo calls wr all get through out everyday of the week. Mine come in to at least 1030 pm daily

    How do you know they aren’t 100% true? Are they collecting for you?

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Ladies first

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    There’s not a single question about pop.

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    No

    in reply to: WATCH YOUR POCKETS! Thief Stealing At Williamsburg Weddings #1675024
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Many ladies’ outfits don’t have pockets.

    in reply to: WATCH YOUR POCKETS! Thief Stealing At Williamsburg Weddings #1675013
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I think you missed the first word of the OP.

    in reply to: WATCH YOUR POCKETS! Thief Stealing At Williamsburg Weddings #1674890
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    This story smells. They all leave money in coat pockets? Ever heard of a wallet? A purse? The hall knew but did nothing?

    They’re at a wedding. Most will be dancing. They’re not carrying wallets or purses with them.

    in reply to: WATCH YOUR POCKETS! Thief Stealing At Williamsburg Weddings #1674718
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Which hall doesnt have a person manning the coatroom,?

    Several. One less expense for the already strapped baal simcha.

    in reply to: Is it healthy for yeshiva bochurim to learn from a New Vilna Shas? #1674536
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    As opposed to Oz V’hodor?

    in reply to: Is it healthy for yehiva bochurim to learn from a artscroll? #1674533
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    The question was about “yeshiva bochurim”. Not one yeshiva bochur who can’t develop the skills to learn gemara as it’s written. That would be a tiny minority.

    in reply to: Is it healthy for yehiva bochurim to learn from a artscroll? #1674488
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Because obtaining skills is a result of the process, not the process itself.

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