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  • in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797983
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    R’ Eliezer, see מנחת יצחק ח’ ו’ סי’ י”ח for a discussion of this issue, with many poskim mentioned (including the חו”י and מה’ גרשון mentioned by חת”ס), and his conclusion that guaranteed Shabbos delivery would only be muttar in case of great need.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797817
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    It is not an issue. Amirah LeAmirah is allowed.

    This is not true. In certain instances of great necessity, we can consider it a sh’vus d’shvus. Even a full fledged sh’vus d’shvus is only muttar under certain circumstances.

    To say a blanket statement that amira l’amira is muttar is very misleading.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797815
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    How do you explain that people don’t send mail on Erev Shabbos?

    Perhaps am ha’aratzus, perhaps as a chumra because they’re concerned there might be a Yid who will be involved in the delivery.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797522
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    When you mail an ordinary letter on erev Shabbos, you are not telling them to deliver it on Shabbos. The United States Post Office makes no guarantees on regular first class mail.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797515
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    You can’t request an online purchase be delivered on Shabbos because of amira l’akum, but Amazon doesn’t have a “Shabbos” option, they sometimes give you a Saturday option. That means it might be delivered up to 8pm or even 9pm, which, at this time of year, is several hours after Shabbos is over.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1797381
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    Although he’s probably pretending that he didn’t.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1797379
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    Joseph and huju are obviously talking about two different things.

    I think huju knows exactly what Joseph meant. All he needs to do is read the thread (it’s not that long).

    in reply to: Geneivat Daat #1796963
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    I have read about a number of cases where people nonchalantly wrote compositions for Beit Yaakov girls. How do they justify this?

    Have you ever read it about anybody else?

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796897
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    I wish it were the case that nobody in the coffee room is intolerant of someone being more religious than them.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796870
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    I don’t think anyone here is offended by the request to switch, even if it is for religious reasons.

    I wish you were right.

    in reply to: Can a frum Jew go on birthright? #1795892
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    Is Arlington National Cemetery in South Africa?

    in reply to: Can a frum Jew go on birthright? #1795773
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    That’s an absurd comparison.

    Many of the Jews buried there died while protecting other Jews from attacks by Arabs. Therefore they died al kiddush Hashem. South Africa has no shaychus.

    in reply to: Following Halacha #1794265
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    Just remember a minhag brocht a din

    No it doesn’t.

    in reply to: Is the art of bonsai too cruel? #1793603
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    Please don’t make up fake quotes in the name of Chazal, even though you’re just trying to be funny.

    in reply to: Solomon’s Meat in Costco #1791906
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I don’t know much about the Triangle K hecher

    Obviously.

    in reply to: Solomon’s Meat in Costco #1791903
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    but we should avoid implying that R’ Ralbag is deliberately choteh u’machti harabim with his hashgahca.

    We should yell it from the rooftops.

    TRIANGLE K IS NOT RELIABLE TRIANGLE K IS NOT RELIABLE TRIANGLE K IS NOT RELIABLE TRIANGLE K IS NOT RELIABLE

    in reply to: Sitting in driveway #1791504
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    So therefore you’re allowed to have someone’s car ticketed??!!

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1791448
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Are you people so far from the concept of kedushah that you can’t imagine that there are people who do care?

    Why the need to mock?

    in reply to: Sitting in driveway #1791399
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    Joseph, too many frum yidden have used mesirah as a shield to commit all kinds of bad acts. You block my driveway, I will be more than happy to call the cops.

    If it’s just because you’re angry and/or want to teach a lesson, it’s assur. It’s only permitted if the only way to get the car out of the driveway.

    in reply to: Sitting in driveway #1791397
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    As far as the mesira aspect, it’s clear in the רמ”א in שפ”ח י”ב that it wouldn’t be an issue here (again, specifically where he’s blocking access and caling the police and the tow truck will get his car out ire quickly).

    The value of his car is surely more than the ticket and towing fees, so if you’re allowed al pi halacha to smash his car if there’s no other way, you’re certainly allowed to cause him a smaller loss.

    in reply to: Sitting in driveway #1791395
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    Joseph, שו”ע חו”מ תי”ב ב.

    Yes, I have gotten a psak that it could apply here, but specifically in a case where there’s no other way to get the car out of the way, and it’s actually blocking your access to your driveway, not merely making it more difficult to get in or out.. If the response time of the police and tow truck company is too slow to be of any help in getting the car away faster (because the owner will most likely move his car before it’s towed away), and you’re calling the police just because you’re angry and/or want to teach the guy a lesson, it would indeed be assur.

    Practically speaking, that means unless you live in area where the response time is extremely quick, the only time it would be muttar would be if it’s a long term situation, such as if the guy parked blocking the driveway and went away for the weekend.

    in reply to: Sitting in driveway #1791220
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    Abba: No tow truck will tow a car blocking a driveway unless it was first ticketed. And reporting it to the government to issue it a ticket cannot be done due to mesira.

    So if someone blocks my driveway, I need for wait for bais din’s tow truck?

    in reply to: Does sour cream spoil? #1790444
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It might be sour

    in reply to: Parking in two spots #1789358
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Move it up or back so I could park.

    in reply to: Why do people comment without actually reading the o p? #1789357
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Because sometimes the op is dumb, although the title isn’t.

    in reply to: Money in the garbage! #1789356
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    Many of us have found really great quality products (including kids’ clothing) at very reasonable prices at CostCo.

    They actually have very decent dress shirts for less than $19.99.

    Avoid the temptation to pruchase 2 years worth of toilet paper (because its such a “great buy” and only sold in pallets of 640 rolls).

    Toilet paper doesn’t spoil

    in reply to: Kashrus Question #1785270
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Which raises the question of how Yidden can rely on *any* hechsher on a non-Jewish food product considering that even inadvertently placing a kosher symbol on non-kosher food products can and do occur.

    Things can always go wrong, no matter who owns the company, but halacha allows us to rely on rov, chazaka, mirsus, etc.

    You’re fooling yourself if you think the heimishe hechsherim only certify food which comes from Jewish owned factories. That’s not to say that some heimishe hechsherim aren’t better in some ways than the national hechsherim (some hechsherim with Hebrew letters OTOH are horrible), but it’s only a matter of degree. If you buy any processed foods, you’re relying on an assumption that nothing went wrong.

    in reply to: Internet: The biggest source of brocha in the last generations. #1784944
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    “Ban technology” מאן דכר שמיה?

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784491
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    regarding trusting the answers we receive, well i guess theres no guarantee there

    It’s not a matter of guarantees, it’s a question of halachic ne’emanus, which there generally isn’t.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784447
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    Is “pretty sure” good enough? Do we really know that they’re actually baked with a reliable hashgacha? Even if some DD locations get muffins from a facility which has a good hashgacha, do we know all do? Even if we can somehow ascertain that a specific DD gets their fully baked muffins from a kosher facility, how do we know that they won’t use a different source if they run out?

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784432
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Or the issur being a davar charif.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784430
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    There’s also a possibility of it being heated at the same time as a non kosher liquid (e.g. soup) which would even be assur b’dieved.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784426
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I’m not good with the actual sources, but it would be good to see them here, if anyone can show them.

    See Pri Megadim (Eshel Avraham) in O.C. 451:30, towards the end, where it’s clear that ordinary use of an oven doesn’t burn out the issur.

    However, the bigger problem here anyhow is the potential for the (supposedly – we haven’t established this) kosher muffin being in the oven simultaneously with non kosher food. Even if they didn’t touch, see Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 108 (R’ma) that l’chatchilah you shouldn’t buy it.

    Plus, here, we have no way of knowing if it did or didn’t touch any non kosher food (or non kosher tray or rack).

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784423
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It has more than a 10% chance, depending on location.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784248
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    As previously discussed, there’s straight up Halacha that says burnt substances of any food are no longer considered food. When we’re talking about an oven, that’s the “flavor” you would be getting.

    False. You get regular, assur, ta’am.

    No shaychus to the gelatin issue.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784242
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    similarly, in an oven, food that was previously heated inside of it — anything that is left of it, is no longer food. this can therefore be understood in the same manner

    That’s simply not true. Normal use of an oven doesn’t automatically kasher it.

    The comparison to gelatin is also totally inapt.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1784240
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    Joseph, surely they rinse the scoop between flavors.

    I was just having this discussion with a friend, who said he has gotten vanilla in his chocolate ice cream.

    in reply to: Dunkin Donuts Muffins #1782656
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    Last I checked, all baked goods are made in a central location and sent to the store.

    When was the last time you checked, and with whom did you check?

    in reply to: Civet coffee #1780652
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    It’s a machlokes.

    :בכורות ז

    in reply to: Child Victims Act now in effect in NYS #1778568
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    why did the Brooklyn institution and the summer camp protect that molester for 25 years?

    Maybe they believed him innocent. And maybe he was.

    in reply to: New NY License Plates #1778239
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    I just switched to the 9/11 commemorative plates last month.

    Are they going to force you to switch to the new ones?

    in reply to: Learning From the Recent Drowning Tragedies #1778073
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    in reply to: Child Victims Act now in effect in NYS #1776246
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    He clearly said it’s a connected question. It’s true that Joseph lives rent free in his head, but he reiterated it in a general context.

    Phil, the two are separate cases, and even if in one the parties are wrong, that doesn’t justify other situations.

    in reply to: Child Victims Act now in effect in NYS #1776226
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Syag, then he should have said that.

    in reply to: Child Victims Act now in effect in NYS #1776141
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    Phil, I don’t know why you think calling people names will make people take you seriously (or why the mods allow it).

    Also, you can’t have it both ways. You can’t criticize others for going to arkaos while defending it here.

    in reply to: Child Victims Act now in effect in NYS #1775170
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Philosopher, FWIW, I think it was quite obvious that you were stating an opinion, not making up statistics.

    in reply to: Nashim Da'atan Kalos and Women Today #1773383
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    However, what I think was bothering most of the women, throughout reading this thread, is not that chazal, at times, may or may not have negative things to say about women. In my opinion, the thing that was really upsetting was the implication that chazal, and therefore Judaism, was denigrating to women as a general rule.

    Perhaps, but the proper response (other than ignoring) would be to point out that Chazal weren’t ch”v denigrating women, rather pointing out a truism because of the practical ramifications.

    However, the response we got from some seemed to border on apikorsus, or at least distortion of Chazal, and others unintentionally were mechazek that.

    in reply to: Nashim Da'atan Kalos and Women Today #1773223
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Philosopher, how is Nashim Daatan Kalos not halachic?

    in reply to: Nashim Da'atan Kalos and Women Today #1772527
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I don’t get the point of bringing the cases of exceptional women in klal Yisroel’s history.

    Are you trying to undermine Chazal’s general statement? Chazal didn’t say there aren’t exceptions. The rule is still true, and the halachos that result are still true regardless of the exceptions.

    in reply to: Nashim Da'atan Kalos and Women Today #1772336
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It’s crucial to the intellectual honestly of this discussion to point out that Joseph had not, in fact, actually been familiar with the source material

    You weren’t either.

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