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  • in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190374
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    Addict…….

    I’ve limited time and access today.

    Why does an ambassador contact the Secretary of State? Because the ambassador must follow the chain of command, then the SOS contact Secretary of Defense or President (Commander of Chief). Whether or not this was don is a different question. As I stated earlier I’m not pledged to Hillary or supporting her.

    My answer about speaking fees is to show that A former Senator and Secretary of State should not be compared with the former Librarian who was married to GW B and Mrs. Obama, a sitting First Lady is not on the speaker circuity. The 6 figure I mentioned was the salary she was earning way back in 2007 as a top level Chicago attorney. If she goes on the speaker circuit after the President leaves office I imagine she will receive fees in excess of 100K.

    I NEVER said Laura the Librarian hit a tree, I said she went through a stop sign at a reported 50 MPH and killed another person. I’m embarrassed to have been born in the same hospital in the same post war baby boom as GWB. We in CT were thrilled when his parents left for Texas.

    OTOH your personal sentiments are appreciated.

    in reply to: jury duty or "just following orders" #1145339
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    akuperma………..

    “1. While frum Jews rarely sue each other in a non-Jewish court, it does happen when a third party is involved (e.g. the insurance company in a state with “fault” insurance, or in bankruptcy when a third party assumes a claim);”

    Actually, I have found in my years of practice that when there are frum Jews on both the Plaintiff and Defendant sides of the courtroom, it is NOT one frum Jew suing another Frum Jew, but one or both parties in the lawsuit are actually corporations. The frum Jews tend to either be principals in the corporations or agents for the corporation.

    While individual Jews suing another Jew are supposed to make use of the Beis din, corporations are not necessarily bound to do so.

    In divorce work, I recommend a beis din when both husband and wife are Jewish, and then have the secular court ratify the decision/agreement of the BD. I feel no obligation to force use of a BD when a Jew is suing a corporation that may be owned (in part or full) by a Jew(s).

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190371
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    CoffeeAddict………….

    sometimes I can’t get to the CR, or may not have seen a post.

    Today not only are we getting ready to marry off our daughter in the next 10 days, but Mrs. CTL was just told she needs immediate surgery…so the time for narishkeit is limited.

    as for comparing speaking fees.

    Hillary as a former Secretary of State commands the same average 200K as Colin Powell. She is not to be compared to Laura, lets run a stop sign and kill someone Welch Bush…who never held public office, but was married to a President or Atty. Michelle Obama who gave up a mid 6 figure salary when her husband was elected and is not on the speaker circuit and won’t be until after his term ends. She would command more than $1 million in salry should she want to return to private legal practice.

    The Laura comment is for the benefit of Health who keep trying to pin deaths on Hillary, while Laura Welch (Bush) drove through a stop sign at a reported 50 MPH in Midland Texas (1963) and snuffed out a life.

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190367
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    Health……………

    No one was talking about responsibility. Your earlier posts said she was negligent.

    That is a finding of fact in criminal and/or tort that cxan only be made by judge or jury.

    No indictment, no trial, no finding of negligence.

    It has very specific legal meaning, and just because you think her action was negligence doesn’t make it so. Neither have her actions or inactions been shown to be the proximate cause of a single death on embassy or consular soil. There were intervening superseding acts.

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190363
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    Health…

    it’s obvious you dislike Clinton and seem to like Trump.

    I despise Trump and haven’t said I’m supporting Clinton. My opinion is that Trump is worse.

    Neither would be my first choice.

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190362
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    Health

    Wrong…it has nothing to do with negligence and absolution. You want absolution see the Pope.

    The Marines that protect US Embassies are under the control of the DOD.

    That is a fact, it has nothing to due with a court of law and an imagined charge of negligence that has never been brought by a prosecutor.

    We are a nation that operates under laws, rules and regulations. Just because you want the Secretary of State to be responsible for physical defense of those within an embassy or consulate building, doesn’t make it so. The only non-DOD official who may direct the marines is the President who is also the Commander in Chief of the Armed Forces.

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145745
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    Athi…a River in Kenya

    Don’t drink the water, if you’re not a native

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190358
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    Health…

    not twisting logic, splitting hairs..It’s what lawyers do. I also am not defending Hillary. I have not committed my vote (and I am a state delegate). I made a statement that Trump is worse than Hillary., in the end the Marines are DOD employees, not State. That’s what I pointed out.

    It doesn’t matter if the Secy of Defense knew of the danger or not

    There are at times Republicans who have rec’d my vote, and may again in the future. I don’t vote party line. Hillary’s speaking fees are much lower than either George Bush..so who cares. It’s not your money paying her, it’s private business..they have to answer to their partners or stockholders not you.

    Squeak…Hillary never has had the authority to pardon anyone, so your accusation is false. Bill, OTOH had that power as governor and President.

    in reply to: What Did He Gain? #1145473
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    BTW>>>>>>>>

    For those who asked what he gained by going to EY. Perhaps, he was merely leaving EY? Just the beginning of a trip down OTD

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144848
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    Newbee………..

    I have several relatives who make their living as copy writers in the advertising business. Another writes technical articles in the engineering field. I have a frum cousin who is an engineer in the aerospace industry. His PHd is from MIT and he has had no problem having the major companies offer to accommodate his religious needs because they want him

    I do come from 4 generations of business owners in the USA, and I consider independent doctors and lawyers as business owners.

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190354
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    Joseph……….

    Lawyers like to split hairs.

    I stated that the Secretary of State is not responsible for the defense of embassies, the Secretary of Defense is.

    I stand by it because the defense of a US embassy is done by Marine Corp personnel who fall under the DOD, not State Dept. This has nothing to do with the SOS being charged with implementing policies. She has to request Marine or other armed forces from the DOD and they are the defenders.

    Coffee Addict>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Ensuring the protection of the US Govt to US citizens, property and interests in foreign countries has nothing to do with what goes on on embassy or consular properties.

    It means that if a US citizen, corporation and or its holdings are subject to action by a foreign country, the embassy staff does its best to see they are treated fairly..meaning no different than citizens of the host country. Since Embassy/Consular grounds are treated as if US soil, the protection you cite is off those grounds.

    Point/counterpoint..match.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144683
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    Queen………

    My wife reached her height of recognition in 2009 when the house was rented for the filming of a movie.

    I’ll not mention the name to preserve our privacy. But many (not frum Yidden) who know us from our town and saw the film, remarked about it in local media.

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144843
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    newbee……….

    your question might be better framed…chutz l’aretz

    I know of frum men doing all tyoes of labor in EY that they would not be doing here….

    Including Army officer, farmer, garbage man, municipal clerk…the list goes on and on

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190351
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    Health……….

    The Secretary of State is NOT responsible for defense of embassies. The Secretary of Defense is.

    Trump is the worse choice.

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145743
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    Gweru, Zimbabwe

    I remember the good old days when the country was called Rhodesia and we’d go on holiday.

    Geordie…I was based in South Africa for business in the mid to late 70s and my territory included everything from Zaire south, plus Brazil.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144678
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    zahavasdad………

    Thank you.

    Mrs. CTLawyer is a designer builder and our home is her portfolio. The original hose is from 1803 with a major 1903 addition and a 1999-2003 addition. I have added on a couple rooms since then.

    We don’t often take vacations, our home is where we want to spend time with our family and guests…we’ve already seen the world.

    in reply to: jury duty or "just following orders" #1145322
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    CT does the jury system well.

    You are called for 1 day of duty. If you are not picked for a trial you may not be called for 3 years. At 5PM the evening before your jury date you call an automated system and may receive a message not to come in because they have enough people.

    The basics ubiquitin describes are shown in a video to all prospective jurors before panels are sent to voir dire before judge and attorneys. No wasting time hearing it more than once if you are sent to be interviewed for more than one trial.

    Jurors must follow the judges instructions as to the law when deliberating. It is not up to a juror to decide what the law means.

    Lawyers are not exempt in CT. It is frustrating when you believe you understand the meaning of the law better than the judge. BUT remember the judge’s instructions to the jury is the result of a 3 way negotiation between the judge and the attorneys on both sides. It is not a juror’s place to override this.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144676
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    Zahavasdad

    Shopping 613

    Queen…………..

    You’d all be welcome.

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145741
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    Repeat was in DaasYochid’s honor

    Ebola River…Democratic Republic of the Congo

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144660
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    In the 1950s our family went to a hotel every Pesach. Why? because my grandparents didn’t have the room to host the entire family in their 3 room Brooklyn apartment. In those days there were no special concerts and events, just sedarim, food, shul and simple sports in the country.

    By 1960 my grandparents would come to my parent’s large home in CT and we never went to a hotel again.

    Our home is quite large (17 rooms) and has many amenities of the hotels: separate Pesach kitchen, swimming pool, tennis and bb courts, hot tub, recreation room and home theatre and acreage. Our relatives love coming to our hotel for Pesach.

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145739
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    DaasYochid……….

    You need a new subtitle: Broken Record

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145737
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    Addis Ababa…….capital of Ethiopia

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145736
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    Queen…..

    device problem, I typed on the Niger River

    Not using my own computer today and having problems…not a Mac kind of guy

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145731
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    Timbuktu, Niger

    Growing up the Yekkah side of the family didn’t use Yiddish and never spoke of Yuhupetz for the middle of nowhere…instead a place was as remote as Timbuktu

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145727
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    Queen…our posts overlapped……..sorry

    Alexandria, Egypt

    There used to be a great library there

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145726
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    Durban, South Africa

    I spent Chol HaMoed Pesach there in 1978, Drove from Johannesburg, taking all the food with us

    in reply to: Posting vs. Cleaning #1215897
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    Since there will be a chasunah (chupah and luncheon for 85) at our house in the next 2 weeks, most cleaning can not start until after that.

    B”H we have a separate Pesach kitchen upstairs along with 6 other rooms that are not in use most of the year.l Those rooms have been cleaned. Pesach shopping has begun and the freezers and refrigerators upstairs are starting to fill with Pesach items. No guests will be allowed upstairs until the whole house is Pesachdicke…it has its own entrance and will be kept locked.

    This Sunday, we’ll clean the studio over the garage, as well as the garage bays themselves. They also will be locked until the house is cleaned. Unlike Yuntif, no guests will be staying at the house for the chasunah…we’ll put them up next door at my MIL’s. She doesn’t clean for Pesach, she sells everything and just moves into our house. We’re hoping this year she’ll agree to stay on permanently.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144309
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    following the Queen……………

    Edmonton, Alberta

    Went to a chasunah there in 1977.

    Drive west to Idaho and take a right…drive north for 8 hours

    in reply to: CHEAP wedding singer in Brooklyn- need help asap! #1144627
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    Popa………..

    If only, then all three single girls would be set

    Technical21>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    I understand not wanting your one man band to have the added work of singing…it’s a bit much.

    In the 1970s when I and my siblings were wed, the wedding orchestras generally had vocalist and comedians/emcees.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144306
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    Danbury, CT

    In 1949, The Ner Tomid Association of NYC Firefighters bought 200 acres including Lake Waubeeka and built a permanent summer community by 1952.

    in reply to: Donald trump poll #1147105
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    Queen,

    I’m a liberal, I don’t hide it, BUT

    regarding your references to Mexicans……..

    “They aren’t shooting anyone…..

    Of course they should come here legally, but they aren’t criminals “

    Unfortunately many are criminals. They are heavily involved in the drug trade and prostitution/sex slavery here in the northeast, they are involved in many shootings every day.

    This occurs not just in big cities, but small towns throughout the USA. BTW>>>the mere fact that they entered the USA illegally makes them criminals, the lack of court proceedings keeps them from being convicts.

    I have no problem with legal immigrants, and favor a way to legalize the status of those who have been here illegally and are self supporting.

    in reply to: CHEAP wedding singer in Brooklyn- need help asap! #1144616
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    cheryybim…….

    Do all weddings now have these singers?

    NO….

    I’m marrying off my third child within the next two weeks. There will be an orchestra, but no separate singer hired. This does not mean that some member of the orchestra may not sing at some point, but it is not an extra I am paying for.

    We are having a wedding, not a concert or show.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144304
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    Odessa, Ukraine

    Miami on the Black Sea….Oh they had a numbers of Pogroms there, too.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144299
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    Stamford, CT

    so I don’t have to drive into NYC to take a client to a kosher working lunch or dinner

    in reply to: Inviting Non-Jewish Co-Workers To A Simcha? #1144074
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    Interesting day for this 5 year old thread to be resurrected………

    I’ve just read the entire thread and will return to the original question.

    I am marrying off child number 3 in the next two weeks. There will be non-Jews invited to the simcha. I have a small law firm and my child and the new spouse will be new associates. How could I possibly exclude the 3 non-Jewish firm employees while inviting the rest of the firm? No way if I want to keep a harmonious business atmosphere. The non-Jewish employees/partner handle the requirements of a law practice that occur on Shabbos and Yuntif. My child (mid 20s) knows all 3 from birth. They have been at both sons’ B’nai Mitvah, and weddings, and both my parents funerals. No, they were not at brisim, because they occurred in shul. They know how to dress and what is appropriate behavior and speech…which is more than I can say for some of the non-observant but Jewish relations and neighbors who must also be invited to some of these things.

    I have been honored with invitations to many of their family events. I do not attend anything at a church, and they understand why. They have gone out of their way to order meals from the kosher caterer so my wife and I could be included. Never have we been subjected to the kind of inappropriate behavior at one of their functions as we encountered and walked out of at non-frum ‘kosher catered’ Jewish simchas.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143690
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    newbee…

    you keep it on continuously for a full week? There’s a difference between holding a charge for a week and using it for 14 continuous hours.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143688
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    I referred to any Kindle that has direct wifi as Fire to differentiate it from the original ereader which required you to download books to a computer and then use a cord to upload to Kindle. I have a Paperwhite

    and it did not give sufficient battery life for Korea to NY or Sydney to London.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143683
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    newbee……….

    The paperwhite battery was not sufficient for a flight from Korea two months ago.

    As to printed books: I love the texture of vellum or fine paper and the look of inked letters, as well as the heft of the book in my hands. I don’t like the feel of a battery/device getting warm as I hold it for hours.

    in reply to: Ywn republican presidential poll #1144338
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    DaasYochid……….

    I won’t make my decision who to vote for in November until after the political party conventions nominate their candidates.

    I am a Democrat. I’ll be a delegate to our state convention, haven’t decided if I want to go to the national convention, but could have a seat if I wish (I’ve gone a few times in the past).

    That said, If I find the Republican nominee to be more agreeable to my beliefs than the Democratic nominee, I’ll vote that way.

    I’ve know Clinton for more than 40 years, but she does not yet have my support in the primary.

    BTW>>> should I decide to vote for any Republican candidate for public office (something I have done on occasion) I can not publicly support the person or donate. That is forbidden by the rules of out Democratic Town Committee of which I am a member. CT does not have cross endorsed candidates (like the days when DA Ted Hogan ran as the candidate of all 4 NY parties) so it is not an issue.

    in reply to: Ywn republican presidential poll #1144335
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    I’m with DaasYochid on this one

    in reply to: Donald trump poll #1147091
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    squeak………..

    I don’t give my vote to anyone, they have to earn it.

    That said I’ll be a delegate to the state Democratic Party Convention, and will be bound to cast my vote as my district votes in the primary.

    I have not yet committed to Clinton or Sanders. I know Clinton more than 40 years and respect her intelligence. I have only met Sanders 3 times in my life and find him honorable. BUT is he electable? I’m not sure.

    I’ll not vote for Trump under any circumstances. I’ll not decide my November vote until we know the official candidates after the national party conventions.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143680
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    Newbee……

    I don’t consider audio books equal to traditional hardbound books. You don’t see the punctuation, italics, etc. in an audio book. Instead you get the voice interpretation of the reader, not your own take.

    As to Kindles, I have two, the original and a modern Fire Paperwhite. I don’t find the battery life sufficient for long haul intercontinental overnight flights. Besides, I prefer print to ebooks, buts that’s a topic for another thread

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144296
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    Waterbury, CT

    They even have a Kollel there, now.

    in reply to: Donald trump poll #1147084
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    I’m with DaasYochid.

    Trump is both crazy and smart. They are not mutually exclusive.

    He will never get my vote for any elected office.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143678
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    I use audio books when flying at night because the lighting on the planes is not sufficient for hours of reading from a hard-copy book.

    Also good around the pool when sun glare inhibits reading.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144294
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    Orlando, FL

    Where the Queen’s cleaning lady went on Easter vacation.

    Next month swelled by the Exodus of NY Jews for Pesach in the sun.

    in reply to: attention all "jewish democrats" #1143654
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    squeak and Nfgo3

    what has any of this to do this Jewish Democrats. Please hijack a different thread. This Jewish Dem is tired of outsiders butting in

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144292
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    DaasYochid……………

    It’s leap year, we get a second Groundhog Day

    back to the thread……..

    Athens……….

    No, not Geogia. the one in Greece. This is NOT Easter Weekend there

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144288
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    Seville, Spain

    for that pre-Pesach haircut…they have a famous barber there

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144285
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    Luxembourg City, Luxembourg

    New York City, NY and Mexico City, Mexico aren’t the only ones who repeat their names

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