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red head…if a guys talking torah and u dont like it, maybe ur dating the wrong crowd….i know i may give off a modern impression but i really want someone who is more yeshivish than me…
a woman once called my friend as a reference for me…she asked what i looked like a and what size dress i wear and if i was attractive..etc…..anyways my friend called me up two seconds after and said YOU MAY NOT GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!…I was like umm okay and i called the shadchan and said sorry its not gonna work. anyways their are superficial people out there…dont let it get to u, iyh ull find ur zivug and be married by this time next year!!!!
dont worry a guy once told me i dont look like my picture, idk if that was a compliment or an insult?!!??!
ur rite….i meant it sarcastically…im sorry
pumper…why is it no win??!?! are u implying that ur ugly??
Lol red head abt sem…yeah thatd be wierd, but honestly I would love for a guy to talk at least a few minutes abt torah without me asking, and yes ive put guys on the spot….but I am very interested in judiasm, torah and hashem and I am looking for someone similiar so of course id love them to talk abt those topics. Problem…i usually date modern guys who talk abt career, money, their good looks and football 🙂
but if u date not for the purpose of marraige…ull prob end up getting hurt…see chapter 13 this june…:)) lol
i prefer patterned…
i just checked them out…they seem a little pricey and im sure they will charge a lot to deliver it up north…i think ill just fill a box with american candy which i know she likes and send it to her school via the usps…
oh this would be the sequel…i divide my dating career up between before europe and then after…lol
the truth is, if u cant stand the person u will be dying to go home after an hour or two….but if u like the person, spending 6-8 hours together may cause u to ‘fall in love’ aka infatuation..
my sister is in israel, but shes up north, near haifa, anyone know a good shaloch manos place, that will deliver to kiryat motzkin???
my rabbi told me not to go on long dates until your engaged because in many cases you end up liking the person or hating the person after spending so much time together and that my blind you from seeing the bigger picture. i spent an entire day with a guy because he flew me out to his home town and i had so much fun and i really liked him, but the next day he had to work and couldnt see me till the afternoon and i was insulted that his work came first….so that ended that…of course there are more details but u can read all about them in my book coming out iyh in june to a bookstore near u lol
def compliment his car, even if he drives a hunk-a-junk :))
go out for drinks lol or I would read garden of emunah and/or talk to hashem….works everytime guarenteed 🙂
i said so…i was totally kidding, i know sarcasm doesnt come across on these cr post… :))) i look for a guy with emunah!!!
for me its looks and money :))
go on a vacation…go away for weekends. idk ur budget, or if u even have one, theres miami, a.c., toronto, lakewood, baltimore, chicago….idk where ever u like…its only a plane ride or drive away…just go!!!
woodbury commons…or maybe go back to school to further ur career??
pet peeve, if my pants are under my skirt, how is that not tznuis? (assuming the skirt is long enough and you dont see *gasp* skin)
my sister and i always give custom made salads…either fruits or veggies, and our friends give us sugar candies and chocolate..which we dont want….although i do like halva 🙂
my sister always says its about what you give, but why work so hard?? im just giving everyone a bottle of beer and pretzels…
dont punish urself…just tell urself ull start ur diet tomorrow :))
think to urself ‘am i really hungry?’ dont just eat stam, eat to live, not live to eat….usually ur not hungry, ur either stressed or anxious about something or its just emotional?!?!
punch the yetzer hara in the face and say….in 120 years ull sleep :))
so what about in the gym, if they blast non jewish music in the classes can you still take them?
what if the songs have no words is it okay?
mikehall… it depends on the instructors machshavos and at most gyms its done for exercise/relaxation.
ur rite bubbee…when im dripping in sweat i should put on a full face of make up and a suit with 5 inch slingbacks.!??
maybe she left her gym bag at home?!!??! i wear leggings and a tank top when doing yoga and at the gym in general but there are always some crazy ladies who are working out in their sheitals and tights….
sometimes i meet singles, younger and older who are so depressed about their social status. i think its crucial to be happy and comfortable with who you are before you bring someone else into it….i had a bf for a while and i was so happy and content, but at the end of the day i didnt like who i was becoming as a person…bh hashem took me out of that situation before it was too late..and ive grown and learned so so much. looking back i cant believe i was ever that way but people get so comfortable with their life they forget that hashems really the one calling the shots…its not a shidduch crisis guys, hashem knows what hes doing dontchya think, hes been running this place for the past 5771 years?!!?!
my lil bro wants the coke sandwhich maker…we only have like 260 tho…
well i wouldnt mind some more codes…
uh dont we all want the codes??? lol
lucielle roberts in brooklyn is very inexpensive, and a lot of insurances cover the cost…
u say things over text that u wud never ever dream of saying to a persons face or over the phone…
im a yoga freak!!!
Yea, I was impressed that they were so long….well long is all relative…but anyways they def have cute stuff…
i was just thinking one day, that my skirts are all too short so i walked into foxs and got 3 skirts for about $20 each, and u know what they are long enough and comfortable….so now i have no excuse :))
ugh in that case im all outta ideas…time for plan B, beer and pretzels…
if i give waffles and a can of whip cream is that considered two foods?
i set up a yu girl and shes married and i got nothing…what kinda question is that?? to each it differs…i say $10,000 is reasonable…
wait…so whats ur question!!??!
do u mean like YU crowd??
nice pumper…but i dont work in boro park anymore…
when i was working in boro park i was more concious of the way i dressed but now working in a modern orthodox/secular setting its hard to gain back that sensitivity…but it goes along with many other sensitivies that i unfortunatley lossed as well….
yeah talking about former dates, sucha turnoff….
yeah but u havta really internalize it…if ur not sincere about it, its meaningless…thats prob how i lost it to begin with
its not so easy to turn a cute dress into a ‘longer cute dress’ altho ive attempted a few times. the thing with tznuis is that you need to really have that sensitivity feeling, which i cant seem to find myself and idk how or where to find it…