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  • in reply to: Researching potential shidduchim? #1200361
    cshapiro
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    how much is in then bank? and does he play football?

    well all jokes aside, middos are def important, but its also important to ask for examples, because everyone tends to exagerate or stretch the truth, but if they give an example of the middah thats proof rite there.

    in reply to: Live-in Nanny #765424
    cshapiro
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    if she is an american citizen, do her a favor and give her a w2 not a 1099. it will cost u more but ultimatley its the correct thing to do. I would say 20k if u provide room and bored and 25-30 without…this all depends on the amount of her workload, if she is taking care of the kids, shopping, cooking and cleaning as well as running other errands. vacation days would also be a nice perk, but u can give her six month till u offer that.

    in reply to: Chasiddus #765538
    cshapiro
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    breslov…cause no one else focuses on emunah and loving hashem like they do!!!

    in reply to: single guy and single girl talkin about shidduchim #911516
    cshapiro
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    set her up with ur friends and she will hopefully do the same…what exactly is ur concern?

    in reply to: Maccabeats #764965
    cshapiro
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    and uncle moishe…

    in reply to: Are Women Really Jewish? #1064945
    cshapiro
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    u neglected to mention that men even thank hashem she lo asani eesha 🙂

    in reply to: Maccabeats #764959
    cshapiro
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    its yu…its not mir

    idk what ur asking tho!?!

    in reply to: Men and Makeup #766852
    cshapiro
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    bpt…if u think tweezing uve never gotten threading, now thats a reason to cry!!

    idk if its just me, but once i didnt put eyeliner on and my mother didnt even recognize me. when i went to work without makeup my coworker told me i can commit a crime, wipe off my makeup and walk rite by the scene and no one would know….lol although from time to time i like the natural look i love black or blue eyeliner it just makes my eyes pop

    in reply to: Kosher vendors at Yankee Stadium? #770648
    cshapiro
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    cute, i actually got tickets to a game next week from a colleague…now i know theres kosher food 🙂 yay!!

    in reply to: Which Do You Think Is More Effective? #764028
    cshapiro
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    i see what ur saying….like if someone gives u something and u thank them over and over and show how overly appreciative you are that they brought u a cup of water…it can seem akward…

    in reply to: Resume #763808
    cshapiro
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    thanks for all the advice….i actually asked my accounting friends in a different coffee room….suprisingly they are a lot nicer and more helpful but we wont go there…

    being stressed, overwhelmed and multitasking are my things, i was born loving it as crazy as that may sound, but thanks for the advice sac, thats actually how i got my current job, its not about what u know its who u know….i guess ill be adding more people on linkedin 🙂

    in reply to: Men and Makeup #766801
    cshapiro
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    so dont wear makeup for a day and see if he still recognizes you….and if he minds??

    in reply to: Where were You….. #763990
    cshapiro
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    gee thanks yid, i gtg brush my dentures now…seriously how old do i sound?

    in reply to: Resume #763799
    cshapiro
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    thanks, i work in an accting firm but i wanna work for one of the big four so i need a super awesome resume but something that stands out from all the rest….any ideas?!!

    in reply to: Social Experiment #2 #763768
    cshapiro
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    rednails u r my hero!!!! i agree with u, seriously doesnt anyone teach guys how to groom. although most guys i date are classy there have been a few who i seriously considered making over or buying them a gym membership to bulk up…

    in reply to: Where were You….. #763972
    cshapiro
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    i was in eighth grade…darn that ages me….anyways my teacher went to move her car at 10 to 10 and never came back…we sat in our seats shmoozing for about an hour until our teacher came back and told us to shut the windows and say tehillim…then the principle told us and the seventh graders what happened and when i got home i saw on tv what happened but i was to young to realize what a huge impact it made on american and world history…

    in reply to: Social Experiment #3 #763186
    cshapiro
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    lol eclipse have u met others….?!?!

    in reply to: True or False Game!!! #766682
    cshapiro
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    true, i only know one person who eats a banana with a fork and knife….long story!!!

    you do things because u havta, not because u wanna…

    in reply to: best of both worlds? #763150
    cshapiro
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    seahorse i know exactly what u mean….from the guys ive dated who were professionals with solid careers i felt like often times torah wasnt as solid. i believe i am solid in my judiasm and i bh have a career and therefore i guess i expect the same from a guy, but i dont think they can multitask as well as we can. so therefore u find the financial analysts, business owners and lawyers ive dated are often very intelligent and engaging but since they left learning they arent always so solid when it comes to judiasm. but im sure mr perfect exists, someone who can balance both and iyh u will find him, never stop asking hashem!!!

    in reply to: shabbos invitations #762850
    cshapiro
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    ummm this may seem like an obvious question but why dont u just make other plans…ex: ur parents, ur siblings, in laws other friends??? then u can just say ur busy this week maybe another week…hopefully after a couple of weeks of u having other plans she will give up on u and find someone else to invite…

    in reply to: Desperate for a Job #762781
    cshapiro
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    do u have experience? perhaps a resume? are u in college?

    in reply to: Date Yawners #762951
    cshapiro
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    pepper spray…haha thats a good one. wow yawning is pretty bad, i mean so much for a good first impression…i prob wouldve offered to drive him home as to not let him fall asleep at the wheel…if he didnt get the hint i wouldve hadta call for back up…aka my friends or sister.

    in reply to: shidduchim and weight….. #906707
    cshapiro
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    i havent been keeping up with this thread but popa u make a lot of generalizations which often times are not very accurate but definitely have some truth to them.

    a few people at the hotel i was at for pesach asked me what type of guy i was looking for and i described it and then i said he hasta be a football player (not nfl literally but to look like one lol) and they were like omg really…?!? my friends all want scrawny guys which i think is so gross altho i have dated a few who looked manerexic….anyways my point is that altho some people want scrawny guys others want muscles :))

    in reply to: Chometz on motzei pesach!!!! #761981
    cshapiro
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    they gave out pizza like rite after yuntif….idk how they bought it back and baked it so fast. no beer this year tho…hmmmm

    in reply to: What did I miss while missing the CR? #762026
    cshapiro
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    back in ny 🙁 yay gotta love reality!!!

    in reply to: Funny Shidduch Stories #1227505
    cshapiro
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    lol thats mean popa but he prob deserved it!!!!

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762295
    cshapiro
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    im not saying fly me to europe, altho a guy did and it was really nice!! but spend a little….going to a barnes and nobles or starbucks maybe nice but it gets old, fast!! im more of a rockerfeller center, chelsea peir and dave & busters type…dinner is not a must, but at least lets do something that i like….NO AQUIRIUMS!!!! and dont ask me what i want to do, and then do what u want cause that just pisses me off lol :))

    in reply to: shidduchim and weight….. #906568
    cshapiro
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    uh so not my style…

    in reply to: shidduchim and weight….. #906565
    cshapiro
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    woah popa ur short, i dont think u should be so selective lol

    and lol sac 😉

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762290
    cshapiro
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    bina veteran, and popa….are u saying im not worth it??

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762265
    cshapiro
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    lol s20…when that happens i ask the guy what all the buttons do in his car and then start pressing them :))

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762264
    cshapiro
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    once we were walking around toys r us for like 4 hours so i just took off my shoes and walked around barefoot, which although is totally gross, my feet hurt too much to care…

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762260
    cshapiro
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    health…theres no number, being cheap is more like an attitude…if ur dating a girl and u cant spend money on her dont make it obvious u know… its nice when a guy spends money on a date.

    s2021 idk, but underground parking scares me when im wearing 5 inch heels…just saying.

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762256
    cshapiro
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    @sd lol ;)))

    @health a guy is cheap if we go somewhere and he drives around for 45 minutes looking for parking on the side streets so he wont have to pay for parking.

    or going to a cafe and only getting a drink for $2 i mean seriously???

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762253
    cshapiro
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    i hate holding a clutch tho and i dont always have pockets, what do you do?

    i also always take phone, cc and id (incase we go to dave and busters lol) and i always check my phone if the guy goes to the bathroom or wtvr, one time the guy came back and i was in middle of texting my friend i felt so bad about it….

    in reply to: very funny shidduch story #762250
    cshapiro
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    i dont find it funny…i wouldve never said that even if i was thinking it in my head :)) and if a guy would be immature like that i wouldve gotten outta the car rite there and walked home!…or gotten a cab or taken the subway home.

    i hate cheap guys too…but i would never say it to their face!!

    in reply to: being followed #763511
    cshapiro
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    yup ur life is over….may as well leave town now…!!!

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759471
    cshapiro
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    advice a friend gave me when i was going thru a hard time, help others itll make u feel good. i visited people in the hospital who had no visitors, brought them kosher food and stuff…people i barely knew, but at the end of the day i was so zonked but bh helping others really helps….i dont get that same feeling when i send a guy his tax return and he owes $11000

    in reply to: eclipse #771956
    cshapiro
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    yeah u should apologize, u never know who you will bump into at a shabbos table…:))

    in reply to: being followed #763473
    cshapiro
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    restraining order….dun dun dun

    in reply to: CASH #758740
    cshapiro
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    sell ur used stuff on ebay….or take everything out of ur sisters closet and sell that on ebay!!!

    in reply to: Calling On All The Warm And Fuzzy Posters!:) #758949
    cshapiro
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    i suggest treating urself to a shopping spree at bloomingdales…

    perhaps well deserved louis or chanel bag or christian loibitan heels…i heard they have manicures to match the shoes, black with red under the nail…how awesome is that!?!?!

    in reply to: CASH #758729
    cshapiro
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    print counterfeit money?!??!

    in reply to: i need advice #757785
    cshapiro
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    there is a third option….change the locks, but im pretty sure that that is borderline illegal…unless u have a lease that states otherwise…

    in reply to: what would you give up? #758525
    cshapiro
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    i was totally serious about the first part, as far as the location, i know someone who got married in washington square park and had pizza, french fries and soda….let me tell u, thats a cheap wedding, but its one that no ones forgetting anytime soon!!!

    in reply to: Are You Ready?!?!?!?! #757758
    cshapiro
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    im def ready and excited, but a little nervous as to what exactly to expect..

    in reply to: How To Print Labels from Microsoft Excel? #757363
    cshapiro
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    thanks everyone!!

    and pops apparently i am only 1 of 123,000 to view the youtube tutorial for mail merging :))

    in reply to: burnt out from davening #758473
    cshapiro
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    try personal prayer…its totally different, speak to hashem in ur own words, itll build a different relationship, if u wanna check out in forest fields by rabbi arush, translated by rabbi brody, its amazing!!

    in reply to: How To Print Labels from Microsoft Excel? #757361
    cshapiro
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    okay idk whats wrong with me, but im just not getting it, it could be cause its a quarter to 1 in the morning and i got work tomorrow…ugh.

    in reply to: what would you give up? #758522
    cshapiro
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    id give up the matching bridal party dresses and grooms friends wearing matching colored ties….and id settle for a hall in flatbush rather than the beach in hawaii….but thats just me…

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