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one in lakewood and not the gym at shoprite…
this is so interesting because i had my first at home shabbos and i had guests who made the bed again…maybe ill just leave it like that till the next time we have guests;))
do u know where ur going? if ur going to a fancy restaurant or even a lounge i would say wear a dress and heals…but if ur doing something casual like dave and busters or ice skating…denims fine but i say play it up with a pair of nice boots and maybe a brown leather jacket…
we are going 🙂 of course its worth it!!
idk but once we are on the topic of lakewood i need recommendations for a cleaning lady, a manicure place and a shaitel macher to name just a few…also looking for an accounting position but thats a whole nother story…:))
honestly im embarrassed for ur daughter. i paid for half my seminary in israel, and in the beginning i didnt like it, because change is hard on everyone, but i stuck it out and ended up LOVING it. if i wouldve made my parents take out a second mortgage to get me into seminary and then leave not even a quarters way thru id be to embarrassed to face them. the yomim tovim are just over, now is when seminary just begins, everyone is homesick in the beginning, its hard to go to strangers for every shabbos and yuntif meal but thats part of the experience. i went to sem knowing NO ONE and thats crazy cause im from flatbush but u know what i came out learning so much and made some really long lasting friendships!!!
fortune had a sale a few weeks before yuntif, i went in there not knowing anything came out with 3 long sheitals my color, which is not easy to find (which is somewhere between light brown/dark blonde) all human hair, i got them cut and styled and bought 2 sheital boxes and 3 heads and other accessories and spent about $2000 total and i am very happy. the wigs alone where $1575, the cuts were $100 each so $300 total and the accessories were about $200, who knew a 18″ sheital box is $75!?!?!
anyways a random lady told me at a bar mitzva a few weeks ago that its better to buy a cheaper wig in the beginning until you get a feel for the cut and style you want….if you spend $4000 on a wig and cut bangs…its not growing back if u realize u look horrible in bangs or wtvr the case maybe….basically its all about maintenance anyways, treat ur shaitel well and itll look good, u dont have to spend ur lifes savings to look good, but perhaps thats for another thread…
its funny because a few days after i got engaged i went to a client whos a diamond dealer to get a diamond watch for my chosson and i showed him my ring….if it were cz i woulda cried!!! dont do it, better get a smaller diamond than a big fake one….
Ps we will be at touros job fair next week…
we are located in park slope brooklyn, we called machcone lparnasa, touro and agudah to find someone….so if ur interested call one of those places (the first or last would make most sense if ur not a student at touro) and we would love to set up an interview…the position is best suited for a CPA major/accounting student…
it can be an entry level….but i think she would prefer a female….
i work for a cpa firm, we were gonna become partners but i just cant commute everyday…im getting married a few weeks after succos and of course everyone in the cr is invited….the more the merrier 🙂
if anyone wants my job, im leaving end of october…but will be looking for an accounting job in lakewood 🙂
Thanks for asking, it was amazing the best shabbos eveR!!! I baked brownies and blondies and bought sugar free rugalach for fil…everyone loved it thanks guys 🙂
it happens to be, i almost always wore heels on dates unless we were doing something super casual like six flags and then id wear flip flops or sneakers….maybe she wore flats cause her feet hurt or she didnt know if u guys would be taking a walk on the board walk or wtvr….i think if u break it off for that alone ur not ready to be dating because that is extremely petty and u prob dont deserve her, thats just my humble opinion….i mean if she wore something not tznius or she was dirty or smelled funny that i could understand, but flats come on….u knew she was 5’3 when u agreed to go out with her, dont be foolish…
“Come on, fess up, it wasnt the suit, it was your charming smile and personality.”
apusheta….i love u!!!
I think garden of emunah would greatly impact u, as I know its helped thousands of people worldwide including myself….you gotta read it to understand, its like 8 dollars on amazon.com
ever read garden of emunah?
was she wearing all pink?
we both had our struggles with dating….i dated only a few guys but some of them were long term, which is quite stressful. he dated many girls but many were only one time dates.
by saying its worth the wait i meant that it was worth going thru that dating experience learning and growing and getting to know myself and what i wanted and becoming a better person in turn. if i would have married the first or second guy idk where i would be?? prob wouldnt have graduated college, prob wouldnt have gotten as far in my career as i have or even taken the cpa exam….my point is that its normal to be nervous when dating but dont get discouraged or hung up if a date doesnt go well or doesnt live up to ur expectations….not everyone marries the first guy (im not saying to play the field but sometimes its not a bad thing to see what else is out there….).
u just gotta give it ur all and hashem will take care of the rest!!!
hatzlacha 🙂
did u call her before the date and tell her it was going to be casual or dressy?
i know this may seem hard to believe, but i was always a little shy/reserved on a first date because i didnt wanna scare them with my full personality!!! and some dates would say no bec of it perhaps but i never got a no when i said was interested in the guy.
If your still so panicky and anxious perhaps ur not ready to date yet and u should take a little break and get to know urself, who u are and who u want to be and what ur looking for in a spouse.
best of luck
ps. im only 22 but my fiance is 28 and we both agree it was definitely worth the wait…:)))