popa get outt here….u wouldnt understand. it has nothing to do with money. i will try on a dress, see its too short, and buy it anyways cause my y’h says its okay…go back to learning popa and stay outta womans stuff…

omg mytake i know exactly what u mean… i struggle with this too. i actually just threw out a jumper, because i knew it was too short but it was so convenient to just throw on with a cardigan for a classy work look. in the summer its really bad idk, i think its a sensitivity that i just lack….i would love to hear suggestions on way to improve.

ooh ooh id like to add stinginest (a cup of coffee is okay for a first date but after that….lets step it up a notch), if a guy doesnt treat me or others with respect its definitley a red flag (bh it has yet to happen). as far as cursing, if its not so bad i would let it slide just once, because we all slip once in a while and nobody is perfect.

btw canine i think i could classify it as the worst date ever, and believe me, ive been on a few….

i dated a guy who talked about starwars/startrek and a lot of his humor had to do with seventies movies and the like. Besides not laughing at any of his jokes cause i didnt get them, idk it was like we had nothing to talk about, and i was scared to talk about girly stuff and bore him to death…

nope, bh :). actually the craziest thing happened to me on friday. i was on my way to the subway after work and i was just spacing out i guess as i was crossing an intersection and out of no where this crazy van makes a speeding turn. a malach pushed me out of the way, cause theres no way i couldve seen that psycho driver. anyways it was just another reminder to thank hashem for everthing i have and appreciate every moment of life, cause in a second He can take it all back….

do you get facials? many times tho breakouts are from high stress, which often is unavoidable. just make sure to keep your face clean, stay out of the sun, and as someone mentioned, dont touch your face. definitley look into getting facials every four to six weeks, its not only cleansing, its also relaxing :))

depends if ur a guy or a girl?!?!

i know this is so wierd coming from me, but is nerdiness sucha big deal???? im so bad, im trying to ignore it but idk it may really bother me, how do i know if its something huge or not??

Idk references as others mentioned only know so much abt the person, they dont know what the guys watching or thinking. All they know is from what he says and how he acts. U gotta ask hashem for clarity. I mentioned this before in the cr, I dated a guy who was learning….a learning guy in a goooood yeshiva….maybe even a little greasy…ewww anyways as we dated he started talking less yeshivish and more secular and I noticed the red flags but he was a nice guy so I let it go….until he decided one night to tell me on the phone he doesnt wanna be shomer….i said buh bye rite then and there….but my point being none of his refs wuda known that side to him, even his rebbe and chavrusa who we called….i asked hashem for clarity and bh I got it !!!!

hey pops when u say 48 hours does that mean business hours or literally 48 hours. i think a guy should check refs (i find that most of mine dont, cause otherwise my friends call me to nag for details lol) but anyways as its happened to me, if something else comes up in the interim, i dont feel obligated to wait, and i didnt …. (eventho he wasnt a football player!!!)

Np pops…u know I always got ur back 🙂

idk but omg brett kriesel…jewish football player on the steelers, and hes a breslover….so never give up on ur dreams :))) lol

good move lightitup, its always a good thing to ask Hashem for clarity when dating, once a guy asked me to marry him also like on the second or third date, i was young and niave back then i had no idea what a creep he was….bh my parents said no way in heck was i marrying him lol

Gucci, channel, louis vuitton, prada and coach….idk which one I love more?? Prob coach and louis

mark, i will be ur friend :))) lol

bpt idk about minyan, it was just the couple and hashem :)!!

i think its a very brooklyn thing not to say good shabbos to people u dont know….but when i was in toronto a guy said good shabbos to me from across the street…maybe thats cause people are just friendlier out there in general?!?!

st lucia…in the carribeans…

i know someone who went to st lucia for the weekend with her husband, left the kids at grandmas. no cell phone no computer no comunication whatsoever from the time they left the USA for the entire weekend, she said it was the best weekend of her life!!!