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sitting in 8th grade classroom, our teacher went to move her car at 10 to 10 bec of alt. sides and she didnt come back till like 11:30….and we just sat in our seats and waited and waited….
cshapiroMembermy favorite part was when brad garrett announced that john vogt wasnt really jewish 🙂
chabad really does a lot of good for jews around the world.
cshapiroMember@americaisover im not gonna say what i really think of ur comment but open up any jewish news paper and they are advertising it for $1 a day or how yeshiva/shuls take life insurance policies out for rabbanim…
but to answer chaimss its hard to give an exact number…as a newly myself of just about 10 month our expenses are quite high.
utilities are about $400 (jcp&l is ROBBING us)food is about $400+ if we have guests for shabbos, if u go out to eat a lot, etc.
about $100 on household items such as toothpaste, mouthwash, toilet paper, paper goods, laundry detergent etc.
we have whole life and term about $350 for both, my husbands health insurance $200 a month, + $$ any co pays and anything not covered by insurance or dental thats not covered by insurance can be quite pricey.
car insurance $275 gas who knows but about $200 for my car plus about $50 tolls and idk how much for my husbands…i would put $100-200 for clothing depends if u frequent the mall ull probably end up spending (we both have way too much clothing and shoes for that matter)…which reminds me dry cleaning at least $100 a month
our expenses include other stuff too but i think these are the basics for most newly weds.
cshapiroMemberanyone know a place in lakewood that will fix it? i called rossmans they dont know if they have the right part because i didnt take a part my computer
cshapiroMemberhey mods, i posted this on the wrong thread, please delete the previous post
cshapiroMembermy husbands friends arranged for our limo…it was really nice for the pictures but its not a CHESSED…if u cant afford it dont go shnuering friends for moneyfor the five minutes ur in it….oh please!??!
at a friends wedding her brother asked me to chip in for the limo, i thought it was a little rude but i felt bad and gave something…
cshapiroMemberthe best part of our wedding video is the “silent movie” parts…the videographer would fade out the frame and in black and white speeding up the actions making it look like a real silent film…some parts such as him chasing one of my little sister in laws around, my mother, sister and aunt talking, my brothers and father…
they did show the food and the tables and the flowers…they also randomly filmed people but that was good because some of the people i dont remember seeing. the only mistake he made on the case he put the wrong date but i didnt even bother correcting it. he was pretty funny and he knew what he was doing the editing was well done as well.
im wondering if $5175 is normal for 1 videoagrapher, a photographer and another one for the dancing…there was a mitzva tantz so it was a long night
cshapiroMemberthe battery model no PA3819U-1BRS….does this help??
cshapiroMemberits a toshiba idk the model number i have the serial number if that helps
cshapiroMemberso i am still able to see the desktop partially but some of it is blacked out…will that be solved by putting in a new screen or is it a deeper issue?
cshapiroMemberbut is it advisable to do it urself or go to a professional?
cshapiroMemberYES!!!! we paid 5k for a photographer, videographer and a second photographer for during dancing. most of the photos are good, but after the chupah all the couple pictures were taken without a backdrop, against a nasty angle….i was annoyed but i let it go in my albums. for my enlarged picture however i asked that they photoshop it….their photoshop was WORSE than the ugly curtains background….so im just gonna take them to someone else who i know who will help by putting it on a canvas and eliminating the background. i know a lot of pple who arent happy with their wedding pictures…..what annoys me is that we didnt go cheap we got a “highly recommended guy” yet i couldve prob paid $800 and gotten the same stuff…..oh well u live and learn.
ps whats ur question!??
cshapiroMemberlakewoods a big place but most of the people here i know have a smart phone….some even have a filter!!
the people i dont know personally are the ones who stare and dont know how to drive….but this is not a lakewood venting thread so i wont go off topic
cshapiroMemberwhy not use the same person who did your wedding invitations….
cshapiroMemberwow!!!!
i am leaving the cr for good!! i see over recent weeks the cr has seemed to attract a really obnoxious crowd.
everytime i ask for help all i get is ridiculed.
i feel bad for all u posters whos lives are so pathetic and the highlight of ur day is posting stupid comments in the cr.
cshapiroMemberim not looking for a job bh i found one very close to home and good pay and benefits for lakewood!! anyways although i live in lakewood i have nothing to do with bmg, i dont even know where its located and i def dont want to get involve…
also i would never want to work for the lakewood township…too much corruption going on from what i hear i dont wanna be involved, im just trying to get an idea of the bigger picture…
cshapiroMemberso who oversees the financial and accounting on the township level?
and apushatayid….a financial controller and comptroller are interchangeable terms
cshapiroMemberI was never going there its too close to home, found a great deal in florida now all I gotta do is pack…ughhhh
cshapiroMemberi never really fully understood the concept of fantasy football, baseball etc…so i guess we can start there…
cshapiroMemberi went with nesivos tours when i was in seminary it was a really powerful trip http://www.nesivos.com/
cshapiroMemberhold up popa fantasy shidduchim was totally my idea!!!
cshapiroMemberilovetheholyland…i think u sound like a really great girl and i know it may sound cliche but sometimes its quiet for a while and then all of a sudden u get a bunch of offers…someone even called me the night before i got married (someone i had previously dated who didnt know i was engaged)…sorry too late dude!!!
anyways my point is, dont listen to the guys in the cr they are in some dream fantasy world like their fantasy sports teams.?!?! there are amazing guys out there who will see past ur weight and see the beautiful girl with all ur amazing middos.
a lot of guys are dumb!!! its just a fact and they want what their eyes see but it almost never ends up very well and they learn it the hard way.
anyways there are guys out there that arent so superficial and as previously mentioned u gotta find great shadchanim that work with u not the ones u chase…
i got set up by my cousin who knew my sister in law….sometimes friends and family are the best if they know both parties.
cshapiroMemberidk what ur talking about, but just hearing the word permutation gives me nightmares of college math…which surprisingly i got an a…it does help having a frum professors!!
oh and all u need is 1 ticket to win…
March 28, 2012 6:43 pm at 6:43 pm in reply to: Does anyone here workout, go the gym…? Laundry related question #863220cshapiroMemberif they are the least bit sweaty its….washing machine washing machine washing machine!!! otherwise hamper….
March 28, 2012 6:42 pm at 6:42 pm in reply to: OMG THERES NEVER ANYTHING TO EAT ON PESACH!!! #863007cshapiroMemberor unless ur at a hotel in which case theres usually too much!!
cshapiroMembergoq, i dont have one yet..
mytake….idk ive only been married 5 month, idk what people give their in laws thats why i am asking…
cshapiroMemberrivky fischer, i doubt the mods will let me post her number but she is really good and great prices!!
March 26, 2012 5:56 pm at 5:56 pm in reply to: Anyone knows about side affects of this diet??? #862491cshapiroMemberif ur looking for a fast way to drop 10 lbs i would say try atkins, people think u are depriving urself but really ur not and there are carbs in almost everything so ur not totally avoiding it your just cutting back….before my wedding i did it, but i also worked out….join lucielle roberts they have great classes included in their membership like zumba and kick boxing that really give u a work out!!
cshapiroMemberi love people like u bubby who take over threads with their outrageous rants…
i did reply to your 5 paragraph rant which makes me wonder, but i guess since you such a wonderful family you feel the need to preach others….so instead of stooping to your level ill just nod and agree with you and be thankful your not my bubby!!
cshapiroMemberThere are as many if not more mexicans here in lakewood as jews…how could it be that theres no one?!?! my husband got someone but they were only available from like 10-2 monday and thursday…no nights no weekends so i couldnt use her…its so frustrating i just need someone after 5…
cshapiroMemberask if u can post just the name of the agency…please mods please!!
cshapiroMembercan u tell me the name of the agency or phone # and is there a minimum # of hours? do they have people for nights or weekends?
cshapiroMemberexactly, i was just reviewing our finances last night we spend a lot of money for just two people, but theres rent, car insurance, life insurance, food, gas, water, electric, phones and before u know it the cc bill is threw the roof. bh we are living on 2 incomes but like miri mentioned even being middle class and living in lakewood which is ‘cheaper’ than other places it still takes two to cover the bills and then maybe put away a little in savings, if im lucky!!
to clarify i never intend to have a fulltime live in but iyh when i have kids i am going to havta get a nanny, i aint sending my 2 month old to a shared baby sitter where the bigger kids will stick stickers all over his stretchy…
cshapiroMemberBut u didnt answer my question….whats a working mother supposed to do?!? take her kids to work?!
cshapiroMemberwell at this rate if i stay in lakewood i may have a very difficult time finding help when the time is rite…anyways my husband and i both work, and bh i found a good job that pays health insurance and other benefits which i need since bh we are not entitled to mooch off the government like so many other people i know. idk why u guys are all attacking on me….half of lakewood at least the wives are working 9-5 and the kid is at a babysitter from 830-5 and many import their help from the phillipians or some russian country…
cshapiroMemberjust curious MOM….do u and ur husband work full time?
cshapiroMemberlol my mother told me not to go to sleep till the house is clean, yea right!!! i come home from work so drained and i start dinner or i watch tv while i clean our room but the bathroom aint cleaning itself and the carpet could use a vacuum. folding laundry and making beds are easy its the kitchen and the bathroom i struggle with….literally i need someone for about 1-2 hours but so far nothing….:( and i dont wanna share with someone because then we can only get our house clean when the neighbor also wants the lady to come….thats crazy!??
cshapiroMemberUr right H i dont…but i do know that i dont really like anything in lakewood at all except for my husband and the chinese farmers market on route 9 where the lady always smiles at me and says hello 🙂
its funny cause here the people are all mostly from flatbush or boro park originally but they arent my speed….i have no intention of fighting to get my kids into school (they want u to be in kollel but they want u to have money also and pay full tuition?!?!)and i think its ridiculous the way everyones watching u and reporting back to ur husband….i am not living my life for other pple but it bothers me that other people feel the need to talk about me and then it gets back to me…
cshapiroMemberr u joking…u want me to pay for ur pesach cleaning!?! ughhh the cr really isnt the same as it use to be…
cshapiroMemberi have a good idea, u find me one and ill pay for her to come to u for a few hours…!!!
cshapiroMemberi would do that honestly at this point….i just need a person who will come do the cleaning…ANYONE!??! please help!!!
cshapiroMemberiyh when we have children we are gonna have a nanny…i work hard for my money…
cshapiroMemberoh u guys are too funny….
bpt i dont do bathrooms….and even tho we are two people it gets messy and i do clean but i need someone to do floors and vaccum and stuff, my husband does it but i feel bad asking him because we both work full time and its draining….
so if u guys dont want me hiring illegals off the book find me a nice frum lady and i will gladly hire her 🙂
cshapiroMemberman the cr is not what it used to be….anyways HELP people i wasnt looking to socialize im looking for cleaning help ASAP!!!
cshapiroMemberi am constantly cleaning but i work full time now and its very overwhelming…
cshapiroMembertomim should i knock on peoples doors and ask….thats not my style…?? and of course i need someone asap i cant wait till after pesach
cshapiroMemberthank you yita and bt…its just i had another run in with them on purim and now i dread going to brooklyn because i know we will inevitably be going to this friends house. i do put up with him and his wife but it sucks the life out of me i never let anyone get to me like that but this guy and his wife do and thats why i just have this bad feeling about them.
ill give u an ex. we went after our purim seuda to say hi, my husband and i agreed on 20 minutes (and i said i am doing it purely for my husband). i walk thru the door there are like 10 drunk people around the table dressed like…hmmm no words i can use in the cr but highly inappropriate and like LOUD and annoying!! his wife was in the back so i went to say hi but it was awkward so i went back to the living room. there was no where for me to sit so i just stood by the door texting and bbming, my husband realized i was uncomfortable and told his friend to get his wife, when she wouldnt come, my husband said a goodbye we are leaving….i was very impressed with that!!! but later that night he called and gave an excuse why his wife didnt come out……AND that once i was hanging out with my sister and i ignored his wife?!!? which isnt true and i just wish i didnt have to deal with him or his wife!!! ughhhh…
ps this friend speaks to my husband at least once a day because my husbands helping him out with a business deal!!!! so he will always be around!!!
anyways have a good shabbos everyone :)!!!
cshapiroMemberthey arent very friendly people…and i dont feel comfortable around them, the wife barely says 2 words to me even though ive had 2 shabbos meals and spent an entire shabbos with her. i make an effort but im only gonna go so far…
what bothers me the most is that i feel the friend uses my husband and i just dont like him but my husband says they are friends and friends help each other out….i cant pin point one thing….its a multitude of things that cause this dislike but i feel like this friend is gonna be in my life for a very long time and i just cringe at the very thought of it 🙁
cshapiroMemberall my dates with my husband were amazing, here are a few ideas, the water club (nyc), central park, mets game, abigails (nyc), olgas on smith is a cute panini place(bklyn), bakshin its an indian place in the city, a musical and clubhouse cafe (nyc), tiberias is a 24 hour dairy restaurant in the city…dave and busters is always fun too, coney island when the weather is nice…
cshapiroMemberyeah we arent going in the end cause he has a super bowl party…lol
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