The Torah and the Torah world constantly tell us not to walk in the ways of the Goyim. Now the Goyim are actually having legal same sex weddings in New York, the State with the largest Jewish population in the U.S. How can we even do a mock version of a horrific abomination that is celebrated in the secular world?!? The kids may not know about same gender marriage yet but they will hear one day and some part of them will remember that such a thing was done by frum people and therefore may conclude that it’s not so bad. The Rabbis need to tell the ladies running such programs that it is time to end this practice.