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  • in reply to: Why did NYC choose a Mayor like Bill De blasio? #1876939
    commonsaychel
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    @charlie hall, you forgot to write he hugged Avi Weiss as one of the things he did for the Frum community.
    Besides Mitzizah he did nothing for the Frum community, the blocking the education report was a quid pro quo for something he wanted from Felder.
    The mayor does not allocate a dime its all from the City Council, so he didn’t “funnel money” to any group.

    in reply to: Summer Camps in a Pandemic?! #1876937
    commonsaychel
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    Facts are less then 1% of people in NY area test positive theses days, its basically over, why not open camps

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1876824
    commonsaychel
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    @Joesph 100% correct, it plays absolutely no role.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1876787
    commonsaychel
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    @Joseph, if that’s what you think you have some major issues with reality.
    @ Someone, Exactly we need to live morals not with worry who the flight attendant lives with.

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    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1876784
    commonsaychel
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    @joesph, In a lot if case I would prefer the poor person, if the rich person has a arrogant attitude I would pass,

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1876740
    commonsaychel
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    @Joesph, it is certainly not going to get him mizrach vant in most botay medresh and not a huge plus on the resume. I was bringing this as an example not my personal opinion.
    My personal opinion is that I would sooner do a shiddich with an honest poor person then with a rich crook.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1876717
    commonsaychel
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    @someone, Hashem did not appoint us to be the world morality police, maybe its because I have more exposure to the outside world that I understand birchas hascharch when I say asher boucher bonu me kol hoahamim,
    Our job is to lead moral lives and not worry about yinnim. The Aybisher has his chesbonis and he does not need any self appointed help, let Him worry about the man wearing a dress and renting me a car or the librarian who give me a book and live with an other woman.

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1876686
    commonsaychel
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    Your going to get married, my advice for you is that shadchonim try to match a negative with negative so to speak, so be prepared that they will try to red you every misfit in town, ie father in prison, people with mental health issues etc etc. Wait for the right one and don’t let yourself get bullied.

    in reply to: Which Camps Are Open? #1876473
    commonsaychel
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    Camp Agudah leased a camp on Lake Winnipesaukee NH for older grades, some other camps will convert to day camps [wink wink]

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1876538
    commonsaychel
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    @someone, hate to break it to you, but this a ruling of a secular jurisprudence system, they are not paskining halachah, they are very separate and distinct. Frankly I doubt if Judge Sotomayor or Roberts ever hear of the Malbim and rightfully could not care less what his opinion is.
    If you have a dispute with a yid that belong is bais din, and frankly I get sick when I see two yidden sue in civil court, in the case of Bostock he was not Jewish and nor were the elected officials of Clayton County.

    My guess is about 2/3rds of the male flight attendants are gay therefore I should stop flying or just not be hyper focused on other peoples sexuality.
    I am a Chasidisher Yingerman who works outside the daled amos of Monsey, I have worked with Gays, Lesbians, Bi and Trans and found them to be competent employees who just do the job and go home.

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1876465
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, how old were you [about] when Rudy first got elected?

    just curious, what number post is this where you comment on or request info regarding his age?

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1876141
    commonsaychel
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    @charliehall
    “However, now that we are loudly blasting De Blasio, who has kowtowed to charedi leadership more than any non Jewish politician ever”
    Really now? I think you have no grasp of reality, name me 5 things he did that benefited Charedi Jews.
    He was the worse mayor for the frum olam since David Dinkins and the Crown Heights Riot.
    wait he once hugged Avi Weiss, does that count has doing something positive for Frum People?

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1875853
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, if you make sense I agree and If you don’t then I don’t agree.
    So how old were you when Rudy first got elected?

    in reply to: Bob Grant #1875789
    commonsaychel
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    @Huju, Bob Grant’s comments were mild compared to the racist anti white drivel I use to hear on WBAI

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1875783
    commonsaychel
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    @nom You still did not answer the question

    in reply to: Living in Eretz Yisroel #1875675
    commonsaychel
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    @truebt
    Do you raise donkeys to do the mitzva of petter chomor?

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1875668
    commonsaychel
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    nom,
    1. How old were you when Rudy got elected?
    3. In Lakewood and Rockland, 90% of the times there is unity in the Frum olam, the anti Frum such as Preserve Ramapo and rise up Ocean managed to organize a anti Frum vote, for example I get spam from Preserve Ramapo and they wrote that candidate X will be supported by the “bloc” so we will endorse the other guy, nothing about qualifications just the fact that the other has Frum backing

    in reply to: What Did I do?! #1875628
    commonsaychel
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    two points,
    1 The Torah is not egalitarian, everything from laws of inheritance to witnesses to service in the bais hamikdosh is not equal, in spite of attempts by people like Avi Weiss, it is not equal nor will it ever be.
    2. Having worked in both corporate America and the government I can tell you that if your halfway competent and black doors will open for you and never are open for anyone else, so to say that there is prevalent racism out there is bogus.

    in reply to: Bungalow Colonies #1875519
    commonsaychel
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    @Eli51, wow his shver was active in every part of the yeshiva, nothing happened without his say so, Reb Moshe Dov Stein managed the colony but it was the yeshivas. Some of my best memories are the Motza Shabbos Campfire with Rav Shlomo Friefeld and Rav Shmual Brazil.
    edited – how many times/ways do you need to say it begore you move on?

    in reply to: Bungalow Colonies #1875082
    commonsaychel
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    @Eli51, Really? that’s a shocker, after Reb Naftali Jeager kept on hocking against davening with minyan

    in reply to: Moshiach can come any day.. are you ready? #1875083
    commonsaychel
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    Save me the window seat on the port side

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1875080
    commonsaychel
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    @ Godol Hatorah: “They are fortunate because I suspect many frum families don’t have the time, resources or motivation to pursue this type of summer vacation.”
    The resources are there this year as is the time, the money they saved in camp fees can be used for a road trip, its most likely be far less was camp cost unless they went on full scholarship.

    The practical learning that they pick up during the trips stays with them for life.
    For example we went tidal bore rafting in Nova Scotia where during the high tide the river reverses flow and my kids learnt about high tides and low tide and the gravitation pull that differs during the month.
    We also visited the Jewish Cemetery in Halifax NS were the Jewish steerage victims of the Titanic are buried.
    At Yellowstone a Ranger explained to the elk migrated to a area of the park that then were never in after the wolf were introduced
    In Gatlinburg we went to the crafts village and saw how various item are made.

    It would be a shame to squander the opportunity given now that camps have been canceled.
    PS with the internet its very easy set up minyanim with your fellow travelers.

    in reply to: Bungalow Colonies #1875013
    commonsaychel
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    these days bungalow colonies hardly exist, 75% of the places are summer homes owned by the individual. In fact you can no longer build bungalows in the Towns of Thompson, Fallsburg, Bethel or Liberty they need to be summer homes, the remainder are grandfathered in. The rules for summer homes are the same in the Catskills, Hamptons or Berkshires they are open.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1874877
    commonsaychel
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    @dovidbt, religious exemptions was cover in the Mastercake decision last year, there are religious exemptions.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1874758
    commonsaychel
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    Every year I gave my kids a choice of camp or a two week road trip, they would always pick a road trip.
    We have been has far east as Nova Scotia, as far west as the Big Sur coast, as far north as Northern Alberta and as far south as the Copper Canyon of Chihuahua.
    My Kids have seen the tall sequoia trees, the vast deserts of Arizona, the awesome mountains of the Rockies and thunder of waterfalls.
    We went rafting, jet skiing, horse back riding, hiking, crafts making and off roading.
    Yes my kids missed the major plays, color war, line ups and camp food
    My advice is that if you have the time take the money you saved from camp fees and take the kids on a road trip.

    in reply to: masks and antibodies #1874736
    commonsaychel
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    @Yehudayona,
    “To add to what Huju said, you spread droplets when you talk or sing. The louder you are, the more droplets you spread”
    for the past month there has been loud protests in the New York area with very loud screaming and vast majority no wearing masks and zero social distancing, yet NYS, NJ and CT is showing testing less then 1% positives on all tests for the past two weeks.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1874728
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m; Moot point, Zarda was consolidated with Bostock as was Harris Funeral Home, all had similar arguments from different circuits, [Georgia, New York and Michigan]

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1874727
    commonsaychel
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    3 factors:
    1. NYC as a whole took a hard turn to the left, someone like Rudy could never get elected today.
    2 The ethnic Europeans who we were able to count on help with to push a common agenda no longer exist they all move away, for example Benonhurst and Bay Ridge were mostly Irish and Italians, Greenpoint was Polish, certain areas of the Bronx were Albanians, most of these moved away and those districts went left.
    3. The Frum people became the issue, with Footsteps Etc., books by Deen, Feldman and Company, it became fashionable to knock the Frum community. This led to formation of groups like Preserve Ramapo/Rockland, Save Monroe, Rise up Orange County.
    So anyone running for office has to make a decision who they want to support the Frum or the Anti Frum, there is no common ground anymore.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1874327
    commonsaychel
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    The camps are suing Cuomo to be allowed to reopen

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1874324
    commonsaychel
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    @yehudayona, Actually the head of infectious diseases for Montefiore [ a major teaching hospital vs a community hospital] disputes Dr. Glatt opinion.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1874209
    commonsaychel
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    @Health, Actually Don was center / center left kind of a moderate blue dog dem on the few time that we talked politics, it was a learning experience for both of us. I had to teach him about Shabbos, Kosher etc. and he told me about life in rural Appalachia. The funnies conversations was when he would speak to my wife and she would speak in Brooklynese and he would talk in Appalachian and they hardly understood each other.

    in reply to: Living in Eretz Yisroel #1874169
    commonsaychel
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    To all the people who posted here that they live in Israel because of the mitzva, just curious if you raise donkeys too because of mitzva of petter chomor and raise sheep because of the mitzva of Raish hagez

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1874122
    commonsaychel
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    @ Lower tution, hate to break it to you but South Nassau is hardly a major hospital, in fact is from the bottom 1/3 of bed capacity in NYS. Should I be given a choice of South Nassau or LIJ that is 8 miles away I would pick LIJ without a shadow of a doubt and so would 90% of the people in the 5 towns.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1874045
    commonsaychel
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    Syag, on the contrary, Actually I know discrimination against Frum people is alive and well, I experienced it first hand, I was not hired numerous times even if I was the most qualified person because I am a visibly Frum person.
    One of the funniest interviews I ever had was with a guy who was from rural Kentucky who never met a Jew in his life and asked me to explain “what that thing on my head is” I got the job anyway and he was one of the nicest people I ever worked for.
    What I was bringing out in my comment is that as a rule once you are working at a place they generally don’t care about Shabbos or Yom tov as long as you carry your weight.
    In any event we are veering off topic of Bostock v Clayton

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873994
    commonsaychel
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    @Health. Interesting, I worked for the Federal and NYC government as well corporate America, I never had an issue with Shabbos with one exception, once when I had a openly anti semtic boss who once wrote me a nasty email once for leaving early of Friday, I spoke to the number two person in HR who spoke to her and I never had an issue again.
    The one time I had an issue when I was the finalist to get hired for NYC and my boss who was African American and wanted to hire the other finalist who was a African American, long story but I ended up getting the job, and this had nothing to do with Shabbos just that he preferred a African American.
    Were you suing a private entity or a governmental agency?

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1873769
    commonsaychel
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    @ Yehudayona, private jet with you in a sealed box so you don’t pick up germs along the way

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873696
    commonsaychel
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    some1- Now with this ruling, Bostock v Clayton it includes LGBT. so its a moot point.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873596
    commonsaychel
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    @some1, Masterpiece Cakeshop v Colorado allows for religious exemptions for same sex accommodations therefore it affect yeshivas.
    As to the second part, that was the whole crux of this case, does the sex discrimination part of the Civil Right Act of 1964 including bases on orientation or just gender? and the Court ruled it to be broadly defined.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873591
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb Elizer, start a new topic on this, the topic we are talking about Bostock v Clayton not about where to live

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873514
    commonsaychel
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    @Joesph the only time one gets called on the carpet for posting a bigoted comment on the internet is when that person is in the position of power and it may reflect negatively on the perception of unequal treatment, therefore they have a right [and possible obligation] to terminate that person.
    In the case of Bostock all he did was promote his gay baseball league, he certainly didn’t make negative remarks about heterosexuals.
    In the case of Holly Lobby there are religious exceptions to workplaces.
    So If someone works for Avis, Delta, Verizon or my local plumber and is a man who wears a dress who cares

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1873509
    commonsaychel
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    @Yehudayona, even a better idea, put on a full bunny suit and go to a bunker in an island off the coast of New Zeeland

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873439
    commonsaychel
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    @ By1212 and dbrim, the topic here is Bostock v Clayton, somehow or other this morphed into a whole other topic, if you want to go off topic then start a new one relating to Israel v US.
    Let me just say this last comment, I am appointing both of you be motza me with the mitzva of Yishuv es haeretz just like I have Hatzloah represent me in saving lives. I will wait here until the geulah comes.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873244
    commonsaychel
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    Joseph, it depends if your in a collective bargaining unit , then your contract rules supreme, most places of employment when they hire you usually put a clause in the hiring agreement saying they have a right to terminate you if you post something on social media that will reflect badly on the cooperate image.
    A far cry from have a trans working a counter at a airline gate or serving meals in a restaurant.
    PS its obvious that you never worked outside the daled amos of the frum area.

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1873200
    commonsaychel
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    @dbrim, hashem will call us home on the great day, it should happen quickly. Until then we are in golus including in Efrat, Bet Shemesh and Chevron etc,
    PS lets not turn this into an Israel vs the US, its about a US Supreme Court ruling

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1873102
    commonsaychel
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    @ Neril, why don’t you move to a ranch in Wyoming, some counties there have zero cases. or better yet to Papua New Guiana, no cases there.
    Sorry Chicken Little the sky is not falling

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1872994
    commonsaychel
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    @Joesph, this is probably one of the few times I agree with Charlie Hall, The police and the governmental agencies have unions and are part of the bargaining unit and in the contract it would spell out limits of behavior outside of work, if your job involves public trust you can and need to be held to a higher standard.
    If an employee sells cameras, rents me a car or works in a library and is a male who is wearing a dress how does that diminish public trust.

    in reply to: New meaning of words #1872990
    commonsaychel
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    @Coffee, you obviously have no clue about white water rafting , during the spring time water is very cold the water temps average about mid sixties and air temps was mid sixties, no one wears a bathing suit in that weather. Some people wore wetsuits [that covers the entire body and is like a suit], so to answer your question sorry but no skin was showing, it was way too cold.
    BTW summer time I have flown on planes with people who were showing more skin then you seen at most pools

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1872717
    commonsaychel
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    @Someone, I actually worked with several, gays, trans, etc. Sometime Claire wore a dress and most of the time she/he wore jeans and frankly I could not care less, they were competent employees and had good annual reviews. What they do on the own time is none of my beeswax.

    in reply to: Bob Grant #1872657
    commonsaychel
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    Bob was his own man in many ways, he died in 2013.
    thanks

    in reply to: New meaning of words #1872652
    commonsaychel
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    @Joseph because a commercial grade raft cost upwards of $10,000 and I don’t raft often enough to spend that type of money and they don’t do solo trips on class 3 rivers.
    PS I don’t fly on private jets either, I use commercial airlines, do you fly on private jets?

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