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  • in reply to: New York City out of control #1900581
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    150 Business leaders just sent a letter to Deblazio saying the city is a wreck and getting worse with a complete lack of leadership

    in reply to: New York City out of control #1899950
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    @ Charlie Hall, The shul my grandfather was affiliated with [ near Bronx Lebanon Hospital] was sold on condition that it can not be use as a house of worship

    in reply to: Patronized for wearing a mask #1899949
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    N95 is not effective if you have facial hair

    in reply to: Patronized for wearing a mask #1899522
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    @arvah, i get harassed for not wearing a mask so I guess we are even.

    in reply to: Mainstream Media Bias #1899476
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    @jackk, the Atlantic is not anti Trump? if that is the case the KKK loves the NAACP

    in reply to: New York City out of control #1899307
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    @Benephraim, You forgot to mention Dinkins first name was David and so was Dovid Hamelech

    in reply to: Name a Gadol That Endorsed Biden #1899169
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    “Harav ?” Avi Weiss will endorse him and so will so called Rabbis of the Open Orthodox

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1898562
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    @Charlie Hall, all those issues you mentioned are national in scope it does not explain why people are leaving NYC in DROVES!

    in reply to: Part Time Law Schools #1898049
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    Let him take the LSAT, if he does very well he has a shot at the part time program at Brooklyn Law or Cardozo.

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1897917
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    @Abba S, quite a number of jobs can not be given to third world county simply because it is far to complex, for example telemedicine requires a state licensed doctor, Insurance requires a state license, Social Worker, Engineer, etc. Yes some back office work can be farmed out off shore but that stuff was happening pre covid.
    As to the evictions by the time the moratorium runs out they will owe as least a year plus the process takes at lease another year so we are looking at 2 years of back rent, to complicate matters a lot of the lower income tenants work in jobs that they cant work remotely, i.e. office cleaners, hotel employees, restaurants, retail employees and many of those job disappeared.
    I am scared NYC will look like it did in the 1970s with people abandoning buildings.

    in reply to: pop up minyanim #1897566
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    The most off the beaten track were I met a Jew was in Oaxaca Mexico in the mountains 300 miles south of Mexico City when I was walking down the street and someone came running out of a store yelling rak regah, turns out he was an Israeli who opened a electronic store there.

    in reply to: pop up minyanim #1897339
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    @ Sam Klein,
    When I was a bucher many moons ago I hiked the New Hampshire part of the Appalachian Trail. We met two other frum hikers one day and benched with mezumin.
    PS you never wrote where you had your pop up minyan.

    in reply to: Civil War 2 #1897026
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    Remember Der Abister fert der velt

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896550
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    @ Charlie Hall
    This does not look some made up attempt to slander, if it was then Steven Exler would have said that.
    Jewish Newslink

    In an interview Tuesday in response to a request for information on this policy, Fagin told The Jewish Link that the matter has been settled, with HIR agreeing not to issue such announcements in the future. “The OU has been in touch with Hebrew Institute of Riverdale to discuss the OU’s recent policy statement. The discussions have been respectful, with the exchange of differing perspectives. The OU is pleased that the issue has been resolved in accordance with the OU’s policies, as set forth in its statement, as HIR has agreed to refrain from the practice we addressed.

    “HIR has requested that we note that it was not their intention to create a public discussion or controversy,” said Fagin.

    HIR’s Rabbi Steven Exler confirmed the validity of the OU statement, but did not make further comment.

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1896549
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    I am not suggesting anything, it was two separate comments and a question

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896386
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    @Charlie Hall,
    Doubt it it was the Rabbi from the White Shul that pushed the OU, doubt that the Rabbi would have bought into some doctored bulletin,

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896187
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    @ Charlie Hall
    Riverdale Press:
    Same-sex marriage has been the law of the land for some time now, but many religious institutions — like Orthodox Judaism — refuse to embrace this “modern” way of thinking, citing laws that go back hundreds, if not thousands, of years.

    The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale is Orthodox, but has long been known to follow it’s own path in grappling with the strictures of traditional Jewish law to include women and LGBTQ Jews. It hosted a panel in 2016, for example, called “Building a Jewish Future Outside the Closet,” which focused on LGBTQ Jews in Orthodoxy, and its founding rabbi, Avi Weiss, was one of the signatories of a groundbreaking 2010 statement of principles by Orthodox leaders asserting an “obligation to treat human beings with same-sex attractions and orientations with dignity and respect.” The shul even congratulated same-sex couples on their weddings in its newsletter.

    But announcements of marriage celebrations in violation of Orthodox law? No more.

    The Orthodox Union — the largest association of Orthodox synagogues in the United States — has reinforced its opposition to same-sex marriage congratulations, calling them an “institutional endorsement” of something it considers a sin.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896188
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    @ Charlie Hall
    Jewishlink:
    Last week, Rabbi Yair Hoffman, in an article for the Five Towns Jewish Times, reported that Rabbi Eytan Feiner of the White Shul in Far Rockway, Queens, had issued remarks condemning the much-publicized act of wishing official mazel tovs (in shul publications and from the bimah) to people celebrating same-sex unions, a practice that took place at the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale. In his Shabbat drasha, according to multiple reports, Rabbi Feiner said that if the OU did not move on the matter he would have no choice but to reconsider the White Shul’s affiliation with the OU.

    The complex, nuanced issue of whether to issue celebratory statements for non-halachically sanctioned acts or celebrations in Orthodox Union institutions is not new, but what happened next was. Rabbi Hoffman asked the Orthodox Union for comment, and Allen Fagin, the organization’s CEO issued the following statement: “It is the OU’s unequivocal position that support for, or celebration of, halachically proscribed conduct is fundamentally inappropriate. Accordingly, the institutional endorsement or encouragement (implicit or explicit) of any conduct that is contrary to halacha is activity that no Orthodox synagogue should allow. With this principle in mind, we are currently in the process of reviewing our synagogue standards to determine whether further comment, or other action, is appropriate.”

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    In an interview Tuesday in response to a request for information on this policy, Fagin told The Jewish Link that the matter has been settled, with HIR agreeing not to issue such announcements in the future. “The OU has been in touch with Hebrew Institute of Riverdale to discuss the OU’s recent policy statement. The discussions have been respectful, with the exchange of differing perspectives. The OU is pleased that the issue has been resolved in accordance with the OU’s policies, as set forth in its statement, as HIR has agreed to refrain from the practice we addressed.

    “HIR has requested that we note that it was not their intention to create a public discussion or controversy,” said Fagin.

    in reply to: Kiddush Hashem #1895968
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    @ Reb Eilezer
    that is more a halachic discussion, not the discussion of individual acts. this is what I want to hear, not a halachic analysis .

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895808
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    @Charlie Hall,
    They stopped writing mazal tov for gay marriage in the shul bulletins and they stop having females lead services.
    Those were the things that the OU said the will pull the plug on.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895457
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    @Charle Hall
    “That is not accurate. The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale remains an OU member synagogue and cooperates with RCA rabbis and YI synagogues.”
    In the past 5 years HIR was twice warned to change its policies or risk being thrown out of the OU

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895223
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    @Charlie Hall
    Wikipedia:

    The Conference of European Rabbis followed suit that same month, stating, “The Conference views with great pain the deviations from religious foundations emanating from the movement called ‘Open Orthodoxy’, and warns that those who act in this spirit, alumni of the aforementioned movement… will not be recognized by us as rabbis, with all that entails.”

    Similar sentiments were echoed in a press release of a ruling by the Rabbinical Alliance of America on February 22, 2018, likening Open Orthodoxy to Reform and Conservative Judaism, and stating, “The clergy of this movement are espousing philosophies of the generation of the Sin of the Golden Calf.”[36]

    Prominent Central Orthodoxy leaders have also stated that Open Orthodox practices or beliefs are incongruent with Orthodox Judaism. These include Hershel Schacter, Rosh Yeshiva at Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary (RIETS), Yeshiva University[37][38] and Avrohom Gordimer, a rabbinic coordinator at OU Kosher[39][40] among others.

    OU/RCA response
    Steven Pruzansky, rabbi of Congregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck, New Jersey and a trustee of the Rabbinical Council of America (RCA) on the Board of the Beth Din of America,[41] argues that Weiss’ approach closely resembles early 20th century American Conservative Judaism and in his opinion would more aptly be called “Neo-Conservative” rather than “Orthodox” Judaism. Concluding an opinion piece in Matzav.com he states that “clarity and honesty at least demand that we recognize before our eyes the creation of a new movement in Jewish life outside the Orthodox world, one that we have seen before. It can be termed … Neo-Conservatism. ‘Open Orthodoxy’ is a deceptive brand name, an advertising slogan, and an attempt to remain tethered to the Torah world to re-shape it from within, but far from the reality. The reality is that we are living through the rise of the Neo-Conservatives.” [42] Moshe Averick, a columnist for the Jewish magazine The Algemeiner Journal and author of Nonsense of a High Order: The Confused and Illusory World of the Atheist, agrees with Pruzansky that Weiss has created a new Jewish movement in America, comparing him with Isaac Mayer Wise (founder of Reform Judaism) and Solomon Schechter (founder of Conservative Judaism in the United States). He compares Weiss’s ordination of three women as Maharat on June 16, 2013, with the so-called Trefa Banquet of 1883, which marked the split between Reform and Traditional Judaism in America. Says Averick: “Weiss’ movement, a form of Judaism that enthusiastically embraces the ideologies of feminism and liberal-progressive-modernism while coating it with a strong Orthodox flavor, could accurately be labeled as Ortho-Feminist Progressive Judaism,” but “the term coined by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky … Neo-Conservative Judaism … has managed to fit neatly into the slot to the left of Orthodox Judaism and to the right of Conservative Judaism.”[43] In October 2013, dozens of rabbis who defined themselves as “members in good standing or [who] identify with the Rabbinical Council of America”, signed a letter arguing that Open Orthodoxy has “plunged ahead, again and again, across the border that divides Orthodoxy from neo-Conservatism”.[44]

    The Orthodox Union (OU), Rabbinical Council of America (RCA) and National Council of Young Israel have all in turn responded to Open Orthodoxy by severing their ties with the Open Orthodox institutions. The RCA does not accredit the rabbinic qualifications of Yeshivat Chovevei Torah[45] or Yeshivat Maharat[46] graduates, the OU and Young Israel do not accept females as rabbinic clergy,[47] and Young Israel Synagogues no longer accept candidates with YCT accreditation.[48]

    Two years later Lopatin resigned from the Rabbinical Council of America.[55]

    The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale, where Weiss served as rabbi (“Senior Rabbi”) until his retirement in 2015, and where he continues as “Rabbi in Residence”, continues to define itself as “an open Orthodox synagogue.”[57]

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895099
    commonsaychel
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    @anonomous jew,
    You want hard facts the the MO community is shrinking?
    Fact: 10 MO schools closed or merged in the last decade,
    Source: AVI CHAI ten year census of Jewish School, 2020.
    Fact: The MO community is aging
    Source: Wikipedia: of the top 25 largest YI, 10 are located in retirement communities.
    Fact: All but two MO shuls in Suffolk County do not have regular minyan
    Source: Godaven.com

    Now prove to me that the MO community is thriving.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894951
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    @anonymous jew, you know what? the MO community is growing by leaps and bounds and new MO schools are opening right and left. Rabbi Schoenfeld is just being delusional. now your happy?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894895
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    I did, It may not be to your liking, but the fact remains that the MO community is shrinking.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894856
    commonsaychel
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    @anonymous are you saying that MO community is growing?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894810
    commonsaychel
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    For those who are saying Elul, I am not gloating I am merely commenting on the article.
    Fact is the MO community is shrinking, Yeshivat Rambam, Yeshiva Atlanta, Hebrew Academy of Suffolk all closed due to declining enrollment, Shulamit of Brooklyn sold its building and now rents a floor for its school.
    ASHAR in Rockland took a hard turn to the right.
    Of 25 or so MO shuls in Suffolk County only 2 have a daily minyan rest can hardly muster a minyan during shabbos.
    That’s just two examples of shrinkage in the MO community

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894784
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    @annyomus
    I put out a list, can you match it with the one from the MO?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894756
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    @Charlie Hall,
    Its very nice that everyone is singing kumbaya in Riverdale, fact of the matter is the RCA, OU and YI banned anything to do with Avi Weiss and his ilk of open orthodox.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894677
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    @anonymous Jew, what numbers are you questioning? I got the data directly from the sources.
    If you tell me what comment your referring to I will be glad to give you the data.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894536
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    @shebbesonian,YU lost ground to Turo because Touro made a concerted effort to attract Yeshivish and Chasidish.
    I wrote Successful Businessmen meaning worth in the multi Millions or Billions not a partner in a law firm,
    for example:
    Ruby Shroen -Yeshivish
    David Lichenstein -Yeshivish
    Benzion Freshwater- London Chasidish
    Ellish Englander -Chadish
    Shlomo Rechnitz- Yeshivish
    Ralph Hertzka -Yeshivish
    Yosell Tabak- Chasdish
    Shlomo Werdiger- Gur Chosid
    Harry Klein -Chasidish
    Hershal Schreiber _Chasidish
    Leizer Kestenbaum -Chasidish
    Barry Ziskind and Karfunkel brothers- Yeshivish
    Shimmy Glick- Yeshivish
    Ruven Dressler- Yeshivish
    Hershy Freidman- Yeshivish,
    Can You match a similar list of MO people in that net worth?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894491
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    @rubinb, other then those 5 mentioned place MO is dying out, and even in the 5 towns there has been a hard shift to the right in the past 25 years, fyi about half of the frum doctors are yeshivish, the fact is MO communities are shrinking and black hat and chasidish are growing by leaps and bounds, look at Staten Island for example the frum community was slowly diminishing very year until the chasidim came in the frum population shot up.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894469
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    @shebbesonian, I am well aware of the shuls in Riverdale, I was addressing this to Charlie Hall and about the Hebrew Institute.
    I can tell your that Riverdale is the exception rather then the norm, look at the number of MO shuls that closing or merging and the declining enrollment in YU and Mercaz Harav and the lack of space in Lakewood, Mir and Brisk.
    PS most successful frum businessmen in the US are either black hat or Chasidish.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894435
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    The fact is the MO community is withering away. 20% of the YI shul are barely functioning or not functioning.
    a bunch of MO shuls merged with Chabad, YU has declining enrollment and REITS hardly function, contrast that with Lakewood, Mir and Brisk that are bursting at the seams .
    Coed Day Schools are closing up or merging and the average age at a YI is 75.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894430
    commonsaychel
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    @CharlieHall, the Hebrew Institute is a open orthodox place, not MO.
    MO community including RCA, YU and YI want no part of anything affiliated with Avi Weiss or his ilk.
    PS Avi is Rabbi In Residence at the Hebrew institute.

    in reply to: Is anyone going to Uman this year #1894029
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    @godol, A few years ago during the Ukrainian civil war, my grandmother a Auschwitz survivor ask me if one side was most pro Jewish so I told her both were about the same, so she said if that the case let them shecht each other out, the most vicious guards in the camps were the Ukrainians.

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1893735
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    shul members also run services at another location for about 180 more. However, with social distance, only about 25 people can be accommodated in the outdoor terrace, about 50 in the main shul, and about 30 in the social hall. And there aren’t a lot of other options.
    Wow, so some good came out of Corona, less people getting drunk at the kiddush at Avi Weiss’s so call shul, that is a huge plus

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1893475
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    @syag, I like your boat analogy. I happen to own a boat, I don’t force anyone onto my boat,
    Some boat owner make all passengers wear life jackets, some just children and some not at all.
    If you don’t like the boat rules don’t go on that boat.
    Each shul can and does decide what works for them, you don’t like it do go there.

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1893291
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    @Syag, I didn’t write respect, I wrote ” I respect the right” and likewise I expect the same in return.
    What ones motivations are is frankly none of anyone’s business, I don’t go up in shul and ask some random stranger who he is saying kaddish for, I don’t ask some random stranger who made a meshabrach lcholeh who that person is and what is that person suffering from, and I don’t ask some random stranger who benched gomel why that person benched.
    Everyone should do what works for them and its none of anyone business.

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1893283
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    @Forshayer, CTL, Greatfulblac, Yosefserbow
    I respect your right to daven beyididus or with social distance outdoors, I am asking that you show the same respect for those who wish to daven with a minyan indoors without masks.
    PS Gratefulblac I remember reading somewhere that Kol Nidray can substitute for htaras nidorim.

    in reply to: Will the eventual closure of the USPO impact you? #1893110
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    @n0m, nope that bh stopped with corona, emails and calls only, i will show at your if I am invited

    in reply to: Summer Travel 2020 #1893105
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    @syag, I flew three time since tisha bav, and the planes were packed, godaven has tons of minyan posted, every resport area within 300 miles of NYC is packed with frum people

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1893071
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    @forshayer, you maybe have your outdoor minyan with people 100 feet apart, I can tell you that Sheiners is PACKED to the gills, with a new minyan every ten minutes, Rottenberg is full, Rudinsky is full, Twersky is full. so we must be talking about a different Forshay

    in reply to: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah #1892984
    commonsaychel
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    90% of the frum olam in the tri state area is davening with minyan, just a few nervous people don’t, my guess is that almost all frum shul save some YI and Avi Weiss type shul will be operating normally on Rosh Hashanah.
    I would be davening with a minyan and with a new appreciation of me begayfah.

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    in reply to: Will the eventual closure of the USPO impact you? #1892958
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    @CTL, Just check rural CT. local town offices, Libraries and County clerks in NY all do passports, most money orders demand are from the unbanked and the check casher can fill the void.
    Quit crying and be thankful for the many years you rode the gravy train.

    in reply to: Will the eventual closure of the USPO impact you? #1892871
    commonsaychel
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    I get three types of mail.
    Give me
    Pay me
    Buy me
    and I can do without all of the above.
    CT LAWYER, I feel for you and I feel for most real estate people, but you average zlob working from paycheck to paycheck does not have real estate trusts, so be happy that you had the gravy train for all those years.
    As to all ancillary services provided by USPS, the town and county clerks are passport acceptance agencies, most check cashers will give money orders for .50 to $1, and UPS stores have pick ups stations.

    Sorry if I sound crass but Taxi were hurt by Uber, Typesetters were hurt by graphics computer programing and the buggy whip manufacturers were hurt by cars, its called change.

    in reply to: Looking for a minyan at Skydive Finger lakes #1891834
    commonsaychel
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    when do you make the asher yotzah?

    in reply to: Looking for a minyan at Skydive Finger lakes #1891712
    commonsaychel
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    Well everyone else is posting minyanim so I figured why not, as to Tehillm I don’t think one kapital would suffice.

    in reply to: Get accepted into Brisk #1891112
    commonsaychel
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    I once saw a cap, “I go to Mir but was accepted to Brisk”

    in reply to: Minyan in Poconos Aug 17-19 #1890850
    commonsaychel
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    quite a number of camps in the Poconos and a lot of postings on go daven, should be no issue of a minyan during the week

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