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  • in reply to: The End of the Medina #1902870
    commonsaychel
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    Erev RH and you have not better to do with your time, nebech.
    I am hardly a flaming Zionist but i have better stuff do then knock yidden.

    in reply to: Our Community Is Powerless: Here’s Why #1902638
    commonsaychel
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    @CharlieHall, alternatively we can vote the GOP and to heck with the Dems, outside the metro jungles the GOP is very much alive

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1902621
    commonsaychel
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    @zahavsdad, a closer analogy would be someone drinking chol akum, some hold it is muttar and some hold it is ussar.
    Or better yet, some people would rather daven biychus then daven in a open orthodox place with “Female rabbis”, gay marriage is given a mazel tov and adherence to certain halacha is questionable, and some people find it great.

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1902578
    commonsaychel
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    “There are plenty of good reasons not to wear a mask that would not effect others. (Recently recovered and antibodies, tested negative a few days before and haven’t been anywhere, plan to maintain a six foot distance etc.) If a shul requires masks then you must wear a mask. If they don’t then one should not be forced to wear one. And if that makes some feel uncomfortable they can either go around asking people why they aren’t wearing it to determine if it’s safe or not take the risk and find another shul.”
    Exactly my point, There is a shul in my neighborhood that is outdoor only with six foot distance and everyone must wear masks and gloves and bring own siddur, down the block is a shul that is operating normal. No one is forcing anyone to go anyplace, its ones choice.
    Can I get Corona in spite of my having a high antibody count? who knows, but I can also drive down the highway and get hit head on by an 18 wheeler

    Ch”v. Edited

    in reply to: Deblaz is taking time off #1902545
    commonsaychel
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    @CTL when he was in Iowa last year for weeks at a time no one noticed the difference

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1902353
    commonsaychel
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    * bodud, it was a typo

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1902324
    commonsaychel
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    @Zahavsdad, yep and I plan to dancing wildly with all my fellow mispallim to that song.
    BTW the words are kol yisroel not kol bnei yisroel.
    PS if you feel the urge to sit home on simchas torah and sing aycha yoshva bodah no one is stopping you

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1902176
    commonsaychel
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    @Syag, I have antibodies and so do my wife and kids, My FIL wants to wear his mask to shul
    INSPITE of him having gotten covid, that fine with me, he make his decision and I make mine.
    You want to lock yourself in some underground bunker, that is fine with me, you want to wear a mask and watch from a distance I am fine with that too the choice is yours.
    Before I jet ski, go whitewater rafting or snowboarding I know of the risk that are involved.
    If you don’t feel 100% comfortable in a room full of dancing people on Yom Tov, stay at home, that fine with me.
    I plan to thank Hashem for the Torah and dance throughout Yom Tov, seesu vsimchu bsimchas torah

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1901829
    commonsaychel
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    @syag, actually I am a grandparent several times over, its immaturity to try to tell people how to run the life’s.
    As to being part of the community, I donated plasma six times, can you say the same?

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1901790
    commonsaychel
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    @ Syag & Moshe, I never tested positive and have antibody counts that is off the charts, I donated Covid Plasma six times and the blood banks keep calling me to donate again and again [ i am not going to get in this whole juvenile argument if you can get it twice because its pure speculation],
    You want to stay in a underground bunker and shiver be my guest, but don’t try to shove your OPINION down my throat.
    PS I plan to celebrate the Torah and life for hours and in close company

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1901689
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, how about this? you will do what is best for you and everyone will do what is best for them. Wow what a novel concept

    in reply to: Simchas Torah #1901515
    commonsaychel
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    @Toi there is a big suggestion box in the back of the room.

    in reply to: Smoking and Driking in Yeshivas! #1901517
    commonsaychel
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    @BenK how about else coffee? how about lack of fresh salads, you can make an issue out of everything Chill out and mind your own business

    in reply to: Smoking and Driking in Yeshivas! #1901180
    commonsaychel
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    @ Ben K, why don’t you mind your own business, if it annoys you take your son out of that yeshiva

    in reply to: covid nausea #1901152
    commonsaychel
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    I get nauseated by the endless drumbeat of the Covid 19 coverage

    in reply to: Smoking and Driking in Yeshivas! #1900987
    commonsaychel
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    So take your son out of that school, don’t worry about others MYOB

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1900665
    commonsaychel
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    CNN reported that a Real Estate report shows over 15,000 vacant units in Manhattan, the highest ever reported

    in reply to: New York City out of control #1900581
    commonsaychel
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    150 Business leaders just sent a letter to Deblazio saying the city is a wreck and getting worse with a complete lack of leadership

    in reply to: New York City out of control #1899950
    commonsaychel
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    @ Charlie Hall, The shul my grandfather was affiliated with [ near Bronx Lebanon Hospital] was sold on condition that it can not be use as a house of worship

    in reply to: Patronized for wearing a mask #1899949
    commonsaychel
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    N95 is not effective if you have facial hair

    in reply to: Patronized for wearing a mask #1899522
    commonsaychel
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    @arvah, i get harassed for not wearing a mask so I guess we are even.

    in reply to: Mainstream Media Bias #1899476
    commonsaychel
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    @jackk, the Atlantic is not anti Trump? if that is the case the KKK loves the NAACP

    in reply to: New York City out of control #1899307
    commonsaychel
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    @Benephraim, You forgot to mention Dinkins first name was David and so was Dovid Hamelech

    in reply to: Name a Gadol That Endorsed Biden #1899169
    commonsaychel
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    “Harav ?” Avi Weiss will endorse him and so will so called Rabbis of the Open Orthodox

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1898562
    commonsaychel
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    @Charlie Hall, all those issues you mentioned are national in scope it does not explain why people are leaving NYC in DROVES!

    in reply to: Part Time Law Schools #1898049
    commonsaychel
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    Let him take the LSAT, if he does very well he has a shot at the part time program at Brooklyn Law or Cardozo.

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1897917
    commonsaychel
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    @Abba S, quite a number of jobs can not be given to third world county simply because it is far to complex, for example telemedicine requires a state licensed doctor, Insurance requires a state license, Social Worker, Engineer, etc. Yes some back office work can be farmed out off shore but that stuff was happening pre covid.
    As to the evictions by the time the moratorium runs out they will owe as least a year plus the process takes at lease another year so we are looking at 2 years of back rent, to complicate matters a lot of the lower income tenants work in jobs that they cant work remotely, i.e. office cleaners, hotel employees, restaurants, retail employees and many of those job disappeared.
    I am scared NYC will look like it did in the 1970s with people abandoning buildings.

    in reply to: pop up minyanim #1897566
    commonsaychel
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    The most off the beaten track were I met a Jew was in Oaxaca Mexico in the mountains 300 miles south of Mexico City when I was walking down the street and someone came running out of a store yelling rak regah, turns out he was an Israeli who opened a electronic store there.

    in reply to: pop up minyanim #1897339
    commonsaychel
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    @ Sam Klein,
    When I was a bucher many moons ago I hiked the New Hampshire part of the Appalachian Trail. We met two other frum hikers one day and benched with mezumin.
    PS you never wrote where you had your pop up minyan.

    in reply to: Civil War 2 #1897026
    commonsaychel
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    Remember Der Abister fert der velt

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896550
    commonsaychel
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    @ Charlie Hall
    This does not look some made up attempt to slander, if it was then Steven Exler would have said that.
    Jewish Newslink

    In an interview Tuesday in response to a request for information on this policy, Fagin told The Jewish Link that the matter has been settled, with HIR agreeing not to issue such announcements in the future. “The OU has been in touch with Hebrew Institute of Riverdale to discuss the OU’s recent policy statement. The discussions have been respectful, with the exchange of differing perspectives. The OU is pleased that the issue has been resolved in accordance with the OU’s policies, as set forth in its statement, as HIR has agreed to refrain from the practice we addressed.

    “HIR has requested that we note that it was not their intention to create a public discussion or controversy,” said Fagin.

    HIR’s Rabbi Steven Exler confirmed the validity of the OU statement, but did not make further comment.

    in reply to: Exodus From NYC #1896549
    commonsaychel
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    I am not suggesting anything, it was two separate comments and a question

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896386
    commonsaychel
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    @Charlie Hall,
    Doubt it it was the Rabbi from the White Shul that pushed the OU, doubt that the Rabbi would have bought into some doctored bulletin,

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896187
    commonsaychel
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    @ Charlie Hall
    Riverdale Press:
    Same-sex marriage has been the law of the land for some time now, but many religious institutions — like Orthodox Judaism — refuse to embrace this “modern” way of thinking, citing laws that go back hundreds, if not thousands, of years.

    The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale is Orthodox, but has long been known to follow it’s own path in grappling with the strictures of traditional Jewish law to include women and LGBTQ Jews. It hosted a panel in 2016, for example, called “Building a Jewish Future Outside the Closet,” which focused on LGBTQ Jews in Orthodoxy, and its founding rabbi, Avi Weiss, was one of the signatories of a groundbreaking 2010 statement of principles by Orthodox leaders asserting an “obligation to treat human beings with same-sex attractions and orientations with dignity and respect.” The shul even congratulated same-sex couples on their weddings in its newsletter.

    But announcements of marriage celebrations in violation of Orthodox law? No more.

    The Orthodox Union — the largest association of Orthodox synagogues in the United States — has reinforced its opposition to same-sex marriage congratulations, calling them an “institutional endorsement” of something it considers a sin.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1896188
    commonsaychel
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    @ Charlie Hall
    Jewishlink:
    Last week, Rabbi Yair Hoffman, in an article for the Five Towns Jewish Times, reported that Rabbi Eytan Feiner of the White Shul in Far Rockway, Queens, had issued remarks condemning the much-publicized act of wishing official mazel tovs (in shul publications and from the bimah) to people celebrating same-sex unions, a practice that took place at the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale. In his Shabbat drasha, according to multiple reports, Rabbi Feiner said that if the OU did not move on the matter he would have no choice but to reconsider the White Shul’s affiliation with the OU.

    The complex, nuanced issue of whether to issue celebratory statements for non-halachically sanctioned acts or celebrations in Orthodox Union institutions is not new, but what happened next was. Rabbi Hoffman asked the Orthodox Union for comment, and Allen Fagin, the organization’s CEO issued the following statement: “It is the OU’s unequivocal position that support for, or celebration of, halachically proscribed conduct is fundamentally inappropriate. Accordingly, the institutional endorsement or encouragement (implicit or explicit) of any conduct that is contrary to halacha is activity that no Orthodox synagogue should allow. With this principle in mind, we are currently in the process of reviewing our synagogue standards to determine whether further comment, or other action, is appropriate.”

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    In an interview Tuesday in response to a request for information on this policy, Fagin told The Jewish Link that the matter has been settled, with HIR agreeing not to issue such announcements in the future. “The OU has been in touch with Hebrew Institute of Riverdale to discuss the OU’s recent policy statement. The discussions have been respectful, with the exchange of differing perspectives. The OU is pleased that the issue has been resolved in accordance with the OU’s policies, as set forth in its statement, as HIR has agreed to refrain from the practice we addressed.

    “HIR has requested that we note that it was not their intention to create a public discussion or controversy,” said Fagin.

    in reply to: Kiddush Hashem #1895968
    commonsaychel
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    @ Reb Eilezer
    that is more a halachic discussion, not the discussion of individual acts. this is what I want to hear, not a halachic analysis .

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895808
    commonsaychel
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    @Charlie Hall,
    They stopped writing mazal tov for gay marriage in the shul bulletins and they stop having females lead services.
    Those were the things that the OU said the will pull the plug on.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895457
    commonsaychel
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    @Charle Hall
    “That is not accurate. The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale remains an OU member synagogue and cooperates with RCA rabbis and YI synagogues.”
    In the past 5 years HIR was twice warned to change its policies or risk being thrown out of the OU

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895223
    commonsaychel
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    @Charlie Hall
    Wikipedia:

    The Conference of European Rabbis followed suit that same month, stating, “The Conference views with great pain the deviations from religious foundations emanating from the movement called ‘Open Orthodoxy’, and warns that those who act in this spirit, alumni of the aforementioned movement… will not be recognized by us as rabbis, with all that entails.”

    Similar sentiments were echoed in a press release of a ruling by the Rabbinical Alliance of America on February 22, 2018, likening Open Orthodoxy to Reform and Conservative Judaism, and stating, “The clergy of this movement are espousing philosophies of the generation of the Sin of the Golden Calf.”[36]

    Prominent Central Orthodoxy leaders have also stated that Open Orthodox practices or beliefs are incongruent with Orthodox Judaism. These include Hershel Schacter, Rosh Yeshiva at Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary (RIETS), Yeshiva University[37][38] and Avrohom Gordimer, a rabbinic coordinator at OU Kosher[39][40] among others.

    OU/RCA response
    Steven Pruzansky, rabbi of Congregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck, New Jersey and a trustee of the Rabbinical Council of America (RCA) on the Board of the Beth Din of America,[41] argues that Weiss’ approach closely resembles early 20th century American Conservative Judaism and in his opinion would more aptly be called “Neo-Conservative” rather than “Orthodox” Judaism. Concluding an opinion piece in Matzav.com he states that “clarity and honesty at least demand that we recognize before our eyes the creation of a new movement in Jewish life outside the Orthodox world, one that we have seen before. It can be termed … Neo-Conservatism. ‘Open Orthodoxy’ is a deceptive brand name, an advertising slogan, and an attempt to remain tethered to the Torah world to re-shape it from within, but far from the reality. The reality is that we are living through the rise of the Neo-Conservatives.” [42] Moshe Averick, a columnist for the Jewish magazine The Algemeiner Journal and author of Nonsense of a High Order: The Confused and Illusory World of the Atheist, agrees with Pruzansky that Weiss has created a new Jewish movement in America, comparing him with Isaac Mayer Wise (founder of Reform Judaism) and Solomon Schechter (founder of Conservative Judaism in the United States). He compares Weiss’s ordination of three women as Maharat on June 16, 2013, with the so-called Trefa Banquet of 1883, which marked the split between Reform and Traditional Judaism in America. Says Averick: “Weiss’ movement, a form of Judaism that enthusiastically embraces the ideologies of feminism and liberal-progressive-modernism while coating it with a strong Orthodox flavor, could accurately be labeled as Ortho-Feminist Progressive Judaism,” but “the term coined by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky … Neo-Conservative Judaism … has managed to fit neatly into the slot to the left of Orthodox Judaism and to the right of Conservative Judaism.”[43] In October 2013, dozens of rabbis who defined themselves as “members in good standing or [who] identify with the Rabbinical Council of America”, signed a letter arguing that Open Orthodoxy has “plunged ahead, again and again, across the border that divides Orthodoxy from neo-Conservatism”.[44]

    The Orthodox Union (OU), Rabbinical Council of America (RCA) and National Council of Young Israel have all in turn responded to Open Orthodoxy by severing their ties with the Open Orthodox institutions. The RCA does not accredit the rabbinic qualifications of Yeshivat Chovevei Torah[45] or Yeshivat Maharat[46] graduates, the OU and Young Israel do not accept females as rabbinic clergy,[47] and Young Israel Synagogues no longer accept candidates with YCT accreditation.[48]

    Two years later Lopatin resigned from the Rabbinical Council of America.[55]

    The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale, where Weiss served as rabbi (“Senior Rabbi”) until his retirement in 2015, and where he continues as “Rabbi in Residence”, continues to define itself as “an open Orthodox synagogue.”[57]

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1895099
    commonsaychel
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    @anonomous jew,
    You want hard facts the the MO community is shrinking?
    Fact: 10 MO schools closed or merged in the last decade,
    Source: AVI CHAI ten year census of Jewish School, 2020.
    Fact: The MO community is aging
    Source: Wikipedia: of the top 25 largest YI, 10 are located in retirement communities.
    Fact: All but two MO shuls in Suffolk County do not have regular minyan
    Source: Godaven.com

    Now prove to me that the MO community is thriving.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894951
    commonsaychel
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    @anonymous jew, you know what? the MO community is growing by leaps and bounds and new MO schools are opening right and left. Rabbi Schoenfeld is just being delusional. now your happy?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894895
    commonsaychel
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    I did, It may not be to your liking, but the fact remains that the MO community is shrinking.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894856
    commonsaychel
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    @anonymous are you saying that MO community is growing?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894810
    commonsaychel
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    For those who are saying Elul, I am not gloating I am merely commenting on the article.
    Fact is the MO community is shrinking, Yeshivat Rambam, Yeshiva Atlanta, Hebrew Academy of Suffolk all closed due to declining enrollment, Shulamit of Brooklyn sold its building and now rents a floor for its school.
    ASHAR in Rockland took a hard turn to the right.
    Of 25 or so MO shuls in Suffolk County only 2 have a daily minyan rest can hardly muster a minyan during shabbos.
    That’s just two examples of shrinkage in the MO community

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894784
    commonsaychel
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    @annyomus
    I put out a list, can you match it with the one from the MO?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894756
    commonsaychel
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    @Charlie Hall,
    Its very nice that everyone is singing kumbaya in Riverdale, fact of the matter is the RCA, OU and YI banned anything to do with Avi Weiss and his ilk of open orthodox.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894677
    commonsaychel
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    @anonymous Jew, what numbers are you questioning? I got the data directly from the sources.
    If you tell me what comment your referring to I will be glad to give you the data.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894536
    commonsaychel
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    @shebbesonian,YU lost ground to Turo because Touro made a concerted effort to attract Yeshivish and Chasidish.
    I wrote Successful Businessmen meaning worth in the multi Millions or Billions not a partner in a law firm,
    for example:
    Ruby Shroen -Yeshivish
    David Lichenstein -Yeshivish
    Benzion Freshwater- London Chasidish
    Ellish Englander -Chadish
    Shlomo Rechnitz- Yeshivish
    Ralph Hertzka -Yeshivish
    Yosell Tabak- Chasdish
    Shlomo Werdiger- Gur Chosid
    Harry Klein -Chasidish
    Hershal Schreiber _Chasidish
    Leizer Kestenbaum -Chasidish
    Barry Ziskind and Karfunkel brothers- Yeshivish
    Shimmy Glick- Yeshivish
    Ruven Dressler- Yeshivish
    Hershy Freidman- Yeshivish,
    Can You match a similar list of MO people in that net worth?

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894491
    commonsaychel
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    @rubinb, other then those 5 mentioned place MO is dying out, and even in the 5 towns there has been a hard shift to the right in the past 25 years, fyi about half of the frum doctors are yeshivish, the fact is MO communities are shrinking and black hat and chasidish are growing by leaps and bounds, look at Staten Island for example the frum community was slowly diminishing very year until the chasidim came in the frum population shot up.

    in reply to: State of the MO communtiy #1894469
    commonsaychel
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    @shebbesonian, I am well aware of the shuls in Riverdale, I was addressing this to Charlie Hall and about the Hebrew Institute.
    I can tell your that Riverdale is the exception rather then the norm, look at the number of MO shuls that closing or merging and the declining enrollment in YU and Mercaz Harav and the lack of space in Lakewood, Mir and Brisk.
    PS most successful frum businessmen in the US are either black hat or Chasidish.

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