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  • in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951735
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb E, a smart person is someone who is bitul his own yesh and relies on his ruv for guidance in halacha ie Moshe Rabbanu and Yshua ben Nun etc., I don’t have the azus to pasken shalois especialy in regards to halacha such as not saying a kaddish

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1951731
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    @ CharlieHall, ” he and Manchin tried to get a gin control bill through Congress” how very purimdik, lol

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1951667
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    @AAQ, “but what about bein adam l’havero? shisha reglaim as by CDC, or is it hukas goyim?” Sorry but not farmilar with a measurement called reglaim, the torah only uses tefachim and amos.
    as to bein adam lchavero, the goverment has never been your chaver except maybe in Russia where everyone was a comrade.
    Size of the party is permitted as per US Supreme Court ruling

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951572
    commonsaychel
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    Yup a much of amaratzim pakening their own shailos, an even better idea encapsulated your whole house and protect it with a electric fence, I am not paskening just giving a eitzah, just my gesture of ahavas yisroel.

    in reply to: Talk Radio #1951571
    commonsaychel
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    Fact is Rush was extremely talented and he built up a network from nothing to become a Multi Millionaire, NPR could not exist without handouts and Air America was a dismal failure

    in reply to: Yiddeshe Cancel Culture #1951568
    commonsaychel
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    Amarizim who think they know how to learn are rightfully canceled

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1951465
    commonsaychel
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    @AAQ, I asked a shialah and told to make it gevoah chameshim amos

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951390
    commonsaychel
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    @rational Try tuning up your car or replacing your own roof, its less dangerous paskening and not being qualified.

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1951389
    commonsaychel
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    @yt, well duh!

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1951289
    commonsaychel
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    @Godal: Lets see, Dems who were out of town during a crises? not hard to find
    1. Dinkins at a tennis match clueless at about the Crown Heights riots [or so he claimed]
    2. Bloomberg [ a dem who flew under a GOP flag of convivence] in Bermuda during a major snow storm.
    3. DeBlazio out of the country during a heavy snowstorm.
    4. DC Mayor Berry at the Superbowl during a 4 feet snowstorm
    just some quick examples

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951273
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb E,
    Does reading some medical journals make you and expert on infectious diseases?
    Does reading case law make you capable of arguing a case before the US Supreme Court?
    Does learning some seforim make you capable of paskening shailos?
    the answer is a resounding NO on all 3.

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1951208
    commonsaychel
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    We are going to have a huge sudah like achavorosh with everyone showing up and drinking whatever they want, then we take a loudmouth feminist and dispatch her, then we we take a break and fast for a while, we then will set up a gallows in our back yard and hang up some people and then party again

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951205
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb E and AAQ, my Rav is a bucky bshas and has 3 heter horas and certainly does not waste his time on the internet, he sits and learns in his every free moment, yet when it comes to a serious issue like skipping a kaddish for whatever reason he would not hesitate to ask a rav who is on the next level just to make sure his reasoning is correct.
    The laissez-faire attitude of I can open a sefer and pasken for myself when it effects others is a sure sign of amahrztitz.
    PS As to the motivation ever heard of the expression “the road to hell is paved with good intentions”

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1951096
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb E, why burden your Dentist or Car Mechanic you can do it yourself

    in reply to: Talk Radio #1951094
    commonsaychel
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    @CTLawyer
    They say radio is the theater of the mind

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1951032
    commonsaychel
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    @GH lets see the bigger hypocrite is: “What is more hyprocacy is Cruz preaching small government, self-reliance, neighbors helping neighbors, etc. When the going get tough in Texas, the tough get going (to Cancun) leaving their neighbors and constituents to freeze in the Dark.”
    or
    Mayor Bill de Blasio New York City Goes to gym after cautioning others to avoid them
    Mayor Becky Ames Beaumont, Texas Goes to nail salon in violation of state guidelines
    Gov. Andrew Cuomo Savannah, Ga. Engages in non-essential travel to Georgia despite strict N.Y. guidelines
    District Attorney Diana Becton Contra Costa County, Calif. Prosecutes COVID restriction violators, but holds wedding in backyard
    Mayor Jim Kenney Philadelphia, Pa. Travels to Maryland to dine indoors while indoor dining is prohibited in own city
    Gov. Gavin Newsom Yountville, Calif. Attends fancy dinner party with no distancing, then lies about it
    Judge Glen Whitley Fort Worth, Texas Hosts large Thanksgiving gathering after telling others not to host parties
    County Supervisor Sheila Kuehl Los Angeles Votes to prohibit outdoor dining, then goes dining outdoors hours later
    Mayor Michael Hancock Denver, Colo. Travels out of state for holiday despite telling citizens not to travel
    Rep. Gwen Moore Washington, D.C. Shows up to House to vote for Speaker Pelosi despite COVID diagnosis
    Just ten random examples of Democratic hypocrites in the fight against covid.
    Please be intellectually honest and admit the above ten are the bigger hypocrites.

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1950972
    commonsaychel
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    @gadol, lets assume you 100% right on this what is the common denominator to Cruz flying to Mexico? and how does that make him a hypocrite?
    I listed over 60 instances of various Democratic elected offices [ President, Senators, Congress people, Governors, Mayors Etc. who preach one thing and practiced the complete opposite in regards to Covid, NOW THAT IS TEXTBOOK HYPROCACY

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1950960
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb E, do you also do DIY root canal or limit yourself to paskening your own shailos?

    in reply to: Talk Radio #1950961
    commonsaychel
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    @CTLaywer and pathetic biased NPR

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1950947
    commonsaychel
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    @charlie hall,
    “Cruz has opposed efforts to make Texas power suppliers and T&D companies in the ERCOT portions of the state, comply with the same reliability requirements as non-ERCOT Texas utilities and those in the other 47 states subject to FERC jurisdiction.”
    Energy deregulation was pushed by both parties in Texas including Gov. Ann Richards, Around 1992 Texas governor Ann Richards started planning policy and technical initiatives for renewable energy, convinced that most of the previous attempts at energy independence had been little more than “a declaration of war in one place or another.”
    Richards’ initiatives fed into the 1999 state electric market deregulation, signed by then-governor GW Bush, which included a 2,000 MW target for wind energy. By 2005, then-governor Rick Perry signed a bill that more than tripled the requirement with a goal of 2015.
    So hardly a GOP plot.
    And you have yet to respond to the very long long long list of Democat Covid hypocrites.
    PS there are millions of NE snowbirds who are guilty of the same the that Cruz did, flee bad weather

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1950934
    commonsaychel
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    @Reb Elizer, that’s very nice and how that have anything to do with the subject at hand of skipping kaddish without ask a shaila?

    in reply to: Talk Radio #1950756
    commonsaychel
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    CTLawyer,
    “I still listen to talk radio….NPR.”
    yup that is a high quality very talented objective bunch of people [sarcasm noted] I listen to NPR’s “objective” reporting on middle east and that is enough to make me want to retch.

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1950393
    commonsaychel
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    Huju, you want hypocrisy? here is a long list of Dems:

    List of Incidents
    DATE PUBLIC OFFICIAL LOCATION INCIDENT
    Feb. 8 Mayor Jane Castor Tampa, Fla. Says police will go after maskless Super Bowl attendees, but doesn’t wear mask to hockey game
    Jan. 20 Gov. Tom Wolf Harrisburg, Pa. Strongly advises people not to travel for holidays, then attends inauguration
    Jan. 20 Gov. Gretchen Whitmer Lansing, Mich. Bans outdoor gatherings of 25+, then attends inauguration festivities
    Jan. 20 Gov. Phil Murphy Trenton, N.J. State advises against “all nonessential interstate travel at this time,” while governor goes to inauguration
    Jan. 20 Pres. Joe Biden Washington, D.C. Signs mask mandate for federal property, then doesn’t wear mask on federal property
    Jan. 4 Federal Lawmakers Washington, D.C. Congressmen don’t abide by social distancing guidelines during swearing-in
    Jan. 3 Rep. Gwen Moore Washington, D.C. Shows up to House to vote for Speaker Pelosi despite COVID diagnosis
    Dec. 31 Mayor Bill de Blasio New York, N.Y. Tells New Yorkers not to celebrate New Years in Times Square, then celebrates in Times Square
    Dec. 27 County Executive Mark Poloncarz Amherst, N.Y. Caught skating and playing hockey on ice rink that his county had closed
    Dec. 21 County Manager Dena Diorio Charlotte, N.C. Urges Charlotte residents not to travel for Christmas, then says she’s traveling
    Dec. 20 Superintendent Paula Deacon Leominster, Mass. Goes to Florida for football game while keeping schools closed
    Dec. 13 Gov. Tim Walz St. Paul, Minn. Hosts music group at his home despite order against gatherings
    Dec. 12 Mayor Mark Eckert Belleville, Ill. Goes to St. Louis for indoor dining after banning it in his town
    Dec. 11 Gov. Gina Raimondo Providence, R.I. Attends social event at bar, takes off mask despite closing bars, mask mandates
    Dec. 7 Ald. Tom Tunney Chicago, Ill. Allows indoor dining at a restaurant he owns
    Dec. 7 California Lawmakers Sacramento, Calif. Observe social distancing at swearing-in ceremony, then go to dinner together
    Dec. 4 Judge Clay Jenkins Dallas, Texas Pushes mask-wearing, but officiates a wedding while taking mask off
    Dec. 2 Mayor Steve Adler Austin, Texas Tells citizens to stay home while on vacation in Cabo
    Dec. 2 Gov. John Bel Edwards Baton Rouge, La. Seen without a mask at a dinner gathering
    Dec. 1 County Supervisor Sheila Kuehl Los Angeles Votes to prohibit outdoor dining, then goes dining outdoors hours later
    Nov. 27 Dr. Deborah Birx Fenwick Island, Del. Urges Americans to limit Thanksgiving guests, then travels to Delaware vacation home with other family households
    Nov. 26 Judge Glen Whitley Fort Worth, Texas Hosts large Thanksgiving gathering after telling others not to host parties
    Nov. 26 Mayor Sam Liccardo San Jose, Calif. Celebrates Thanksgiving with family in violation of health guidelines
    Nov. 25 Mayor Michael Hancock Denver, Colo. Travels out of state for holiday despite telling citizens not to travel
    Nov. 24 Judge Bill Gravell Austin, Texas Fined for violating his own stay-at-home order
    Nov. 24 Gov. Kate Brown Salem, Ore. Tells people to “uninvite” loved ones for holiday but encouraged protests
    Nov. 23 Gov. Andrew Cuomo Albany, N.Y. Cancels Thanksgiving plans with non-household family after backlash
    Nov. 20 California Lawmakers Maui, Hawaii Lawmakers attend conference in Hawaii despite travel guidelines
    Nov. 17 Sen. Dianne Feinstein Washington, D.C. Doesn’t wear mask in congressional halls despite calling for mask mandates
    Nov. 14 New York Lawmakers Brooklyn, N.Y. N.Y. lawmakers, elites party together in violation of rules
    Nov. 13 House Speaker Nancy Pelosi Washington, D.C. Cancels dinner at Rotunda for new House members after backlash
    Nov. 7 Gov. J.B. Pritzker Chicago, Ill. Joins pro-Biden celebration outside after being exposed to coronavirus
    Nov. 7 Mayor Lori Lightfoot Chicago, Ill. Joins pro-Biden crowd celebrating election result
    Nov. 7 Sen. Chuck Schumer New York City Seen in massive crowd, lowering mask during Biden celebration
    Nov. 7 Mayor London Breed San Francisco, Calif. Attends same fancy restaurant as Gov. Gavin Newsom despite guidance
    Nov. 7 Mayor Muriel Bowser Washington, D.C. Travels to Delaware for Biden election party
    Nov. 6 Gov. Gavin Newsom Yountville, Calif. Attends fancy dinner party with no distancing, then lies about it
    Sep. 25 Sen. Dianne Feinstein Dulles Airport, Va. Doesn’t wear mask at airport despite calling for mask mandate
    Aug. 31 Gov. Tate Reeves Jackson, Miss. Extends mask mandate after going maskless at RNC events in North Carolina and DC
    Aug. 31 House Speaker Nancy Pelosi San Francisco, Calif. Gets haircut indoors with no mask, despite being prohibited in San Francisco
    Aug. 30 Mayor Jim Kenney Philadelphia, Pa. Travels to Maryland to dine indoors while indoor dining is prohibited in own city
    Aug. 1 District Attorney Diana Becton Contra Costa County, Calif. Prosecutes COVID restriction violators, but holds wedding in backyard
    Jul. 20 Mayor Quinton Lucas Lake of the Ozarks, Mo. Implements mask mandate, then takes photo without masks
    Jul. 20 Gov. Andrew Cuomo Savannah, Ga. Hugs city official without wearing a mask
    Jul. 20 Gov. Andrew Cuomo Savannah, Ga. Engages in non-essential travel to Georgia despite strict N.Y. guidelines
    Jun. 8 Gov. Phil Murphy Trenton, N.J. Blesses participation in protests while mandating lockdowns
    Jun. 6 Gov. Tom Wolf Harrisburg, Pa. Apologizes for “inconsistent” behavior in forcing lockdowns but attending protests
    Jun. 6 Mayor Muriel Bowser Washington, D.C. Attends George Floyd protest, gives speech with no mask while gatherings of more than 10 were prohibited
    Jun. 4 Gov. Gretchen Whitmer Detroit, Mich. Marches with protestors with no social distancing
    Jun. 2 Mayor Eric Garcetti Los Angeles Allows, and participates in, mass protests while outlawing other gatherings
    May. 30 Mayor John Cooper Nashville, Tenn. Encourages attending protests while city remains in a partial lockdown
    May. 29 Mayor Jacob Frey Minneapolis, Minn. Says church services would be “public health disaster” but city then gives masks to protesters
    May. 26 Gov. Gretchen Whitmer Lansing, Mich. Governor’s husband tries to get preferential treatment, as governor calls for caution
    May. 23 Gov. Ralph Northam Virginia Beach, Va. Mingles with people without mask despite urging mask-wearing
    Apr. 21 Mayor Becky Ames Beaumont, Texas Goes to nail salon in violation of state guidelines
    Apr. 5 Gov. Michelle Lujan Grisham Albuquerque, N.M. Orders non-essential businesses closed, then orders jewelry and has it delivered to her
    Apr. 5 Mayor Lori Lightfoot Chicago, Ill. Gets haircut even though barbers and stylists were shut down
    Apr. 4 Mayor Brant Walker Alton, Ill. Calls on citizens to stay home, then wife is found at social gathering
    Mar. 16 Mayor Bill de Blasio New York City Goes to gym after cautioning others to avoid them

    in reply to: Ted Cruz – Hyporcite par excellence #1950327
    commonsaychel
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    Sorry, Ted Cruz is a Senator and there was nothing he could do about the cold snap other then being there and being cold with everyone, [the crises was brought on the the use of renewable energy when the wind turbines froze].
    Far different then the liberal pols who were preaching social distance and no travel and doing the opposite. here is two prime examples:
    Exhibit #1
    The finance minister for Canada’s most populous province resigned Thursday after going on a Caribbean vacation during the pandemic and seemingly trying to hide the fact by sending social media posts showing him in a sweater before a fireplace.

    Ontario Premier Doug Ford said he had accepted Rod Phillips’s resignation as minister hours after Phillips returned home from a more than two-week stay on the island of St. Barts despite government guidelines urging people to avoid nonessential travel.

    “Travelling over the holidays was the wrong decision, and I once again offer my unreserved apology,” Phillips said in a statement confirming his resignation.

    In a video posted on Twitter on Christmas Eve, the sweater-wearing finance minister was shown drinking eggnog beside a fireplace with a gingerbread house and a little Christmas tree.

    “I want to thank every one of you for what we are doing to protect our most vulnerable,” Phillips said about Ontarians hunkered down at home because of the pandemic over the Christmas holidays.

    But Phillips himself had been enjoying a Caribbean vacation since Dec. 13 on St. Barts, a French island popular with the rich and famous, even as his Twitter account had suggested he was in snowbound Ontario.

    Opposition parties and health officials had called for Phillips to be fired from Cabinet. One party released video of a Zoom call showing Phillips participating — also while wearing a sweater — with a picture of the legislature as his backdrop, but with sounds like waves heard in the background.

    The incident created a political problem for Ford, who acknowledged on Wednesday he knew Phillips was outside the country before it became public because Ford said he called Phillips “shortly after he arrived” in the Caribbean.
    Ontario began a province-wide lockdown on Saturday and Ford has been blaming travelers for bringing the new coronavirus to the province.
    “This is a devastating blow to the government and Ford personally because, as he has admitted, he knew that Phillips was in St. Bart’s and did not upbraid and order him back immediately,” said Nelson Wiseman, a political science professor at the University of Toronto. “Ford only did so once the news of Phillips’s absence became public,.”
    Exhibit #2
    More political fallout as a result of these exclusive photos FOX 11 obtained showing Governor Gavin Newsom attending an expensive dinner party. Tonight, we’re learning more about who else was at that party including two top California medical officials.

    Not only do they call into question Governor Newsom’s explanation that the dinner was outside they also reveal that two high-level members of the California Medical Association were there at the dinner with the governor and has become a national symbol of do as I say, not as I do.

    FOX 11 spoke to Jamie Court about the photos and said, “Well I was shocked, first of all, that they were so close together, and it didn’t appear they were outside.”
    Court is president of the progressive organization Consumer Watchdog and his shock didn’t end with what he saw in the photos, but who he saw in them.

    A closer look reveals that Janus Norman a top lobbyist for the California Medical Association who is sitting right next to Governor Newsom.
    On Newsom’s other side is the CEO of the California Medical Association Dustin Corcoran.
    Neither of them, as a matter of fact, no one at the table was wearing a mask or social-distancing despite the CMA funding an ad campaign this year urging people to wear masks.

    Court says, “The message is to forget the pandemic, sit as close as you can, no face-coverings, no masks, no social-distancing, this is the state’s medical association, they speak for the doctors in the state, and their chief lobbyist and the president are sitting shoulder to shoulder with the governor as though its’ any time in American history not in the time of a pandemic.”

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1950236
    commonsaychel
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    @AAQ, how far do you take this lunacy?
    Do you DIY root canal after read a manual??
    Do you DIY auto repair after reading a manual?
    Do you attempt to repair major appliances after reading a manual?
    Do you build your own house after reading a manual?
    Or do you just limit yourself to paskening your own shailos

    in reply to: Gematrios #1950006
    commonsaychel
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    The gematria of the yeshiva world coffee room is the same as free exchange of thoughts and opinions.
    Ah Frelichen Purim to all

    in reply to: Gematrios #1949992
    commonsaychel
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    Interesting choice of a hobby, but each to his/her own

    in reply to: Green Passport for Yeshivos in the U.S. #1949844
    commonsaychel
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    @Ct Lawyer, as a officer of the court you know the term of Caveat emptor, so anyone who sends the children to yeshiva knows the compliance or lack there of

    in reply to: Green Passport for Yeshivos in the U.S. #1949802
    commonsaychel
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    Or about let each yeshiva make it own rules and everybody else butt out

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1949803
    commonsaychel
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    FBI is now investigating

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1949787
    commonsaychel
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    @AAQ,
    “Still this is funny, as apparently you subscribe to Daas Torah and I do not”
    This has nothing to do with “Dass Torah” that you unartfully put down, this has everything to do with deferring to someone who knows the subject matter better then you do.
    I don’t sign a contract before a a lawyer reviews it even though I deal with torts daily as per of my job,
    I would not buy a house before I check it out with a check it out by a stuctual engineer even with my engineering degree because that is not my focus of my specialization.
    I don’t read a manual on root canal and do it myself or read a repair manual and fix my own car, I defer to Endodontist and trained mechanic on my make of car.

    Like it or not, a Rabbi is a expert in Halacha and each case is different, I am proud to acknowledge my limitation and I strongly suggest you put your ego aside and do the same.

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1949453
    commonsaychel
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    @always ask, “a good question – when do we need to ask, and whom? I heard and read enough questions about kaddish that I don’t see my situation as unique or risky. These questions do not seem to depend on the particular person, unless someone is uniquely OCD or disorganized …”
    I assume you run your life where there are shades of gray the same way, a quick read and dont consult an expert.

    in reply to: Democrats cheated, Biden won #1949345
    commonsaychel
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    get a life

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1949079
    commonsaychel
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    @always ask
    “>> ROFL China started this whole mess
    mi hu haham? halomed mikol adam …”
    Right and what did I learn, don’t trust China, because they could have contained this on the onset

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1949077
    commonsaychel
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    @Always ask,
    > “That’s not a choice you get to make without a rav

    I quoted already multiple opinions about being careful. And also opinions about one kaddish being sufficient. Maybe you can verbalize what exactly makes you so uncomfortable.”

    Bottom line, did you just read some opinions and made a decision or did you ask a rov “rochel bitcha hakatan” a/k/a your exact situation, huge difference.
    This would be the equivalent of operating the grey area of the law by reading a law book and not consulting a lawyer, people ended in prison for that.

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1948826
    commonsaychel
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    @Ct Lawyer, I have full respect for how you saw fit to run your life, can you, Huju, Amil, Charlie etc. say the same about how I decided to run my life?

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1948680
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @always ask, ROFL China started this whole mess

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1948670
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    Cuomo’s lame apology was about as genuine as Trump’s condemnation of the Capitol takeover.

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948669
    commonsaychel
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    @always ask, I love the story myself, I heard it when I was a child and it stayed with me.
    “On a simple level, shtika k’mode. Rabbi and gabbi heard me and did not correct. And they are quite capable of!”
    That may mean the they are doing it lman sholam, not that its the way to do things, I always ask a shaila in regards to Yiddishkiet and I don’t always like the answer but I do it anyway

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948398
    commonsaychel
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    Story from Ksav sofer:

    There was a woman who immediately upon her husband’s passing, as she had no sons, she asked the rosh yeshivah to arrange for Torah scholars to say kaddish for her husband for the entire eleven months, and also each successive year on the yahrzeit. She also requested that a second kaddish be said each day, having in mind all those souls who have no one saying kaddish for them. This went on for nearly ten years.

    In time the window lost all her money but she continued to pay to say Kaddish, she asked Ksav Sofer if the kaddishes were still being said, and he comforted her that they were.

    Suddenly the door opened. A distinguished-looking older man entered, turned to the widow, and asked her why she was crying. He told her that he knew of her desperate situation and that he was prepared to help. He then requested of the rosh yeshivah that they all go into his office, and that two scholars of the yeshivah join them. The rosh yeshivah acceded, and summoned two of his five great disciples present that year: his son, Rabbi Shimon Sofer, and Rabbi Yosef Chaim Sonnenfeld.

    When they were all assembled, the mysterious guest said, “I know you have five daughters of marriageable age. Let’s figure. Each one needs a thousand kroner for dowry money, and another thousand kroner each for the expenses of the wedding and for buying furniture and setting up a household. So, that is two thousand for each of the five, or ten thousand altogether. Plus, to put your business back on its feet, you need another ten thousand kroner, so that makes twenty thousand altogether.

    “All right, then,” he said, “I’ll write you a check.” Whereupon he took a checkbook out of his pocket, tore off a check, wrote the woman’s name on it, inscribed it for twenty thousand kroner and signed it! Before handing it to her, however, he asked the two young scholars to sign on the back as witnesses to the transaction. He also asked them to take out their personal notebooks so he could sign in each a sample of his signature, in case the signature on the check would be challenged. Turning back to the woman, he told her that she should present the check at the government bank when it opened at nine o’clock, and they would honor it. Then he left as suddenly as he had come.

    At nine the next morning, the widow was at the bank. The guard at the door directed her to one of the tellers, to whom she showed the check. He looked up the records and told her there was sufficient funds in the account to cover the check, but for such a huge sum he has to first get permission from the manager. He asked her to wait, and went to the administrative section. There he presented the check to the head of the bank, who took one look at it and fainted!

    The doctor that was summoned quickly revived the bank manager. As soon as he gained consciousness, the manager asked that the woman who had brought the check be shown in to him. When told she had been locked up by security, he said that he must go to her; a great mistake had been made, to lock up such a righteous woman. He went quickly and, after apologizing, invited her to accompany her into his office.

    “Tell me, please,” he opened, after they were seated, “how did you get this check?”

    She told him of her difficulties and the sudden appearance of her unknown benefactor. She explained about her deceased husband and his practice of daily maaser, and of the kaddishes she had arranged through the yeshivah for him and for those souls who had no one to say kaddish for them.

    He asked her: if she would see her benefactor again, or his picture, would she recognize him? She said yes. She added that two rabbis from the yeshivah were official witnesses to the whole episode, and that their signatures are on the back of the check, and that the man had also signed in their personal notebooks. The manager was excited to hear this, and after looking at their signatures, contacted the yeshivah to ask that Rabbi Sonnenfeld and Rabbi Shimon Sofer come to his office.

    They came and confirmed all that the woman had said. The bank manager then told the three of them that he would personally honor the check, as it was drawn on his own family account, but that his wife had to endorse it too. He then sent for his wife with the message that she should come quickly, because people were waiting for her, but first she should collect all the family photographs in the house and bring them with her.

    Although the bank manager was a Jew, his wife was not. When she arrived, he asked the widow and the two rabbis to wait in a different room. He told his wife what was going on, and said, “Let’s see if the woman can identify the man who signed the check from among these photographs.” She declared that if it all turned out to be true, she would convert to be Jewish.

    The manager then spread out all of the photos on his desk. He asked each of the three to enter separately and see if the man who gave the check appeared in any of them. Each one confidently picked out the same person.

    The bank manager called everyone in. “Do you know who is this man who gave the check?” he asked. “It is my father, the manager of the bank before me. But he has been dead for ten years!

    “I must confess,” he told them, “that I never said kaddish for him. Last night he appeared to me in a dream. He said that he had been saved from Gehinnom by the kaddishes that she had arranged for the yeshivah scholars to say for those souls for whom kaddish was not being said, and now that she was in difficulty we must help her. He said that he would give her a check for twenty thousand kroner, and that if I didn’t pay it, he would strangle me in my sleep.

    When the check was shown to me at the bank, I fainted.
    “I woke up, frightened. In the morning I told my wife the dream, and she was disturbed too. When the check was shown to me at the bank, I fainted. I knew then that the dream was true.

    “I will pay the twenty thousand my father promised, for it is certainly a deserving cause. Not only that,” he added, turning to the woman, “I will add another twenty thousand of my own, because you fulfilled my obligation for me, and helped my deceased father’s soul with the kaddish-saying you arranged.”

    He addressed the three of them again. “I fully regret my lapse from Judaism. I see now that our G‑d is the one true G‑d, and He gives to all their just reward. I resolve that from now on I will fulfill His commandments as revealed in our Torah. My wife, too, has reaffirmed her promise to convert and to live in accordance with Jewish law. Please guide us to understand what we have to do.”

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1948355
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @ always ask “How would this issue be resolved? I thought it is already resolved – someone admitted that they were covering deaths to avoid federal prosecutors.”
    Wrong she backpaddled like crazy when the stuff hit the fan, Cuomo is not man enough to admit he messed up.

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948268
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @always ask, I assume this was done after consultation with a leading posek? or was this done on your own volition?

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1948267
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @always ask, If the item has a hecksher it come to my house otherwise it does not, no grey area.
    Same with a minyan, some shuls restrict to members only and I respect those rules otherwise not a issue.

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1948119
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @always ask questions, your opinion and $2.75 get you on the subway [if your brave enough]

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1948004
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @Charliehall, that is the textbook definition, you deflect the bad by pointing out something else.
    and the PPE fiasco was the worst in NYS, 1 BILLION spent on supplies that were awarded to shell companies with no real inventory, and this jerk of a Governor is not man enough to admit he messed up.

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1947959
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @CT Lawyer, I am proud to say I did not miss a minyan since Covid, In the beginning I davened outdoors then as things abated in May I went indoors, regardless of where I was I followed that particular shuls rules, this past week I was out of state and the shul I daven in had three rules, 1, masks must be worn in the shul [kiddish was outdoors with no masks], 2, Cell phones must be turned off in the shul [weekdays of course, zero tolerance for chillul shabbos] 3, absolutely no talking during davening, the sign in shul said that chazen will stop davening until the talking stops.

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1947897
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @OrechDin, The insane and false claims you made about were already answered by made alyiah, as to supply chain I am much more upset that NYS squandered a Billon dollars on supplies that were never delivered much more so then Jared hiring college kids.
    What is interesting is why the city of New York would wire eight-point-something million dollars to a company that had never sold a ventilator before and had only been incorporated for two weeks.

    I don’t live in Fl. Ga. or Tx. so what Desantis, Kemp and Abott did does not annoy me as much as Cuomo’s shenanigan’s because I have to clean up his mess with my tax dollars

    in reply to: Andrew Yang Mayor 2021? #1947885
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    #ujm, of for that matter does he know anything about anything besides coming up idea?

    in reply to: Cuomo covered up nursing home deaths #1947760
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @CharlieHall, “Ron De Santis is getting away with it.”, the best defense is a good offense, I noticed whenever there is bad new about a Democrat you will always pivot to know a Republican, we are talking about what Cuomo admitted he did and you have to mix in others, like when we were talking about Yang hiring a Jewish operative and you had to mix in Jared Kushner

    in reply to: Andrew Yang Mayor 2021? #1947568
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @CTlawyer, No Jared went to work for his schver in a time honored Jewish tradition

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