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Elon Musk’s Department of Government Efficiency [DOGE]
canceled a $6,000,00 grant to Chanyana Weissman to study why short men and fat women get ignored by shadchonimThese should be made specifically for the mitzvah by an adult Jew who understands what he or she is doing. “Adult” means at least thirteen years and a day old for a male or a twelve years and a day old for a female
These questions are from an article titled:
Dignity for Singles by Chananya Weissman,
that was published on September 8, 2017, in The Times of Israel:1. It is acceptable for someone on the very fringes of a single’s life
to deliver unsolicited “constructive criticism” on how he is running his personal life.
Why is it not similarly acceptable for a single to walk into someone’s house
and critique how a couple is raising their children, spending their money, or managing their home?2. Why are singles often told by someone with a seemingly random
shidduch suggestion to trust the would-be matchmaker’s hunch,
but singles are discouraged from trusting their own hunches?4. If a relationship works out, why does the shadchan get the credit,
but if it doesn’t work out, it’s the fault of the singles?8. Why is there such delicateness when trying to help childless couples (rightfully so),
but not for singles, who lack not only the opportunity to procreate,
but also companionship in their journey?
Why do people who approach the former issue with sensitivity believe anything goes with singles?12. Singles are often told, “That’s why you’re not married.”
@ujm. Donald Trump renamed it the Red White and Blue Sea
in the TROLLER mosdos it is free, in fact its a safe assumtion that the OP is a troller
@Square Root
The only thing worse then a anti tzioni is a anti tzoini shadchan who would not red a shidduch for short men and heavy girls and listens to music while people are held hostage.
Source Chanaya Weissman
@Menachem, this is one of Lennys posts He can hardly manage with one wife.
i’m just not religious. I wasn’t bar mitzvhd until i was 40 and in the Army. I believe the Arbitration Agreement was mutually cancelled b/c it was legally deficient, i.e., blank scope & none of the Beis Din members were lawyers. I don’t want to give a Get b/c i want to try marriage counselding & stay married. I assume BD of America would be more like our sheila Rabbi & side w/ me; but I don’t know that for a fact. My wife became religous about 23 years ago. I’m fine with it. She buys expensive sheitels, we send our kids to yeshiva, israel, etc… etc… Kids are all religious; including 2 who are black hat. End goal is to get into marriage counseling with the Rabbi/counselor who thinks i’m a good guy & marriage workable. I’m really trying to find someone who represents people and knows how beis din work. Thanks@OP, The Troller Mosdos and the Sockpuppet yeshiva already implemented your ideas
“Short boys/men cannot become taller, so I will not discuss them.”
They should wear stilts
What you think the Charedi attitude would be regarding the army and refusers if the roles were reversed?
In other words, let’s say Israel was a Charedi state. And the army was a perfectly Halachic army. And it was under attack by the surrounding murderous Arabs. And the Charedi soldiers were overwhelmed, they were dying, their businesses failing, their families breaking apart .. everything that’s happening today to the current soldiers. But the Dati Leumi refuse to join ranks for whatever reason (maybe they don’t want to be influenced by the Charedim). And the secular refuse to join a Halachic army because they don’t want to have to go minyan or eat kosher or have kiruv done to them. But the reason doesn’t matter… but because of that reason, the Charedim are the only ones serving and sacrificing for the safety of all of Klal Yisroel. Do you not think there would be that same anger and frustration? Would they not be offended by calls for achdus with their brothers who refuse to serve?
I think one of the main problems is a lack (or a refusal) of Charedim to understand the other side. To have genuine empathy. To be nosei be’ol chavero. I don’t know how many Charedim really put themselves in the shoes of what the soldiers are going through and how much pain they’re suffering. Maybe I’m wrong… But that’s the impression in getting.
@ Amil, LOL!, this is proof that Yeshivas do teach creative writing.
@OP to use you own words, What’s wrong with celebrating the start of your adult life?
“Yechiell, please explain to us why *** ALL ***
of these people quit the Democratic Party:”Because they are not short men or heavy women
“Can someone please help me out here?”
No
Man, this topic been rehashed and reshashed it is deader then the Lubavitcher Rebbe and Elvis combined
Marine Corp Hymn
Ode to Joy
Strawberry Fields forever
If your happy and you know itWhat’s wrong with celebrating the start of your adult life?
“Many of the mispallelim by us are balei teshuva and don’t have a vast repertoire of songs.,”
My Heart will go on
Strayin Alive
Eye of the tiger
what a feelingI see the litivsher velt learned the chasidisher way of life, the Rosh Yeshiva and even mashgechim have gabbaim, they have bottas, ushsherin by the RY, have yaritz tish, take kivitlech etc. something unheard of 100 years ago
@CS, More people heard of Elvis then heard of the Lub. rebbeh, an equal number believe he never died
@Square Root, you were right about something else you rant about, Donald Trump married four time and none of his wives are fat, but I noticed quite a number of actors who are short get married
@Gadol, not saying he is moishiach, just that he is as alive as the Rebbe is
Here is my question for you, is Elvis still alive?
Welcome back,
likewise feel free to ask me any questions about Bobov and its Rebbeh@pure, this guy I know went to a meat restaurant ordered a cheeseburger top with fake bacon and milkshake and did want to pay because the use the gentile dating system.
PS don’t say dating system here it may cause some single men here to get upsetas reported in YWN:
Rabbanim And Roshei Yeshiva Gather In Far Rockaway As Plan To Solve Shidduch Crisis Gains SteamNow the crises is solved!
I started to force myself to listen to the drivel that passes for Jewish music these days because of the hostages, once they are free i will stop listening to this awful garbage
Are you allowed to eat Facon because its fake bacon?
are you allowed to eat kani because it imitation crab?
Can BMG talmidim say cutlery because it the Rosh Yeshiva name?
Can you call a football a pigskin?
can you call someone a fat hog?Other great thoughts to ponder
Why do you really care what a bunch of random strangers think?
@SR
Under the Presidency of Joe Biden, he promoted a shidduch initiative for short boys and fat girls.Mr Eishes,
Nothing about potching your kids, your other favorite topicMazel Tov to the OP for posting something other then potching kids and the Gur Fight
@SR, my mother-in-law didn’t make the list,
The main gripe that SR has is that the Muslim world allows multiple wives and even fat girls and short boys get married.
I was in court once and this guy showed up in a tank top, shorts a flipflops, the Judge said are we in a courtroom or a beach? I am putting you case on the bottom of the stack, go back and dress respectfully, same holds true with a shul, if they don’t want people to show up in shorts and flipflop they the right to say so, and if the likes of SR find it offensive too bad, find another shul to daven in.
@yechiell, the most intense period of grief is the first 30 days, my suggestion is to make peace with the matzav, its detrimental to your physical and mental health to be bitter for 4 plus years.
good riddance!
@AAQ, this is not about minhagim this is about common curtesy, for example if a shul had a policy of no hard liquor at the kiddush and you brought it anyway, its showing that you don’t care about what they think and you as a guest plan to do whatever you want.
Its called respect for cultural norms, in the tail end of covid I needed to fly a few times out of JFK in the morning, so I called before I went to shul, YI of N Woodmere had a mask and 6 ft social distance policy, Aguda had a mask policy and no social distance, Rabbi Spiegl shul had no policy, guess what I complied with the rules in whatever shul I davened in inspite of my personal feeling about masking, same holds true in wherever you daven, you can’t conform with the rules daven elsewhere.
@AAQ, She [he] only posts about two subjects beating up your children and Gur politics
Bil Neder no lighting of Chanukah candles before the 25 of Keslev unless the hostages are free
why dignify a troll?
this is what you wrote “I am a Roman Catholic. No, no, I do not believe that Jesus was our savior nor do I believe him to be the son of God. I certainly do not believe in the Holy Ghost and, to be honest, I am not really sure what that even is. But believe me (as our President is want to say) I am a Catholic.”
so are you Jewish or Catholic”
“Adopt a dog today”, forget the dog, adopt a Troll
@Yechiell Please remove all sharp objects from your house and avoid bridges and tall buildings
a minyan factory is a mincha minyan held in the factory office, and a minyan warehouse is a minyan held in the warehouse
@Benjamen
Why do all mikvas use the same orange soap?Every place has the right to make it won dress code, no one is forcing you to go there
Try speaking to the Troller mosdos, they have such a program