Learn Torah! there shouldn’t be anything else on our minds!
We’re so busy with trying to find other things to do but learn Torah that’s the problem!
And YES a girl can learn chumash with Rashi ramban etc.
There’s also some other mitzvos a girl can do.
Bottom line: we’re so far away from Yiddishkite and that why we’re looking to entertain ourselves
Hashem should help is all.
Wer all good don’t get upset about this it’s just a piece of mussar to accept and better ourselves