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HaKatan:
Why is it automatically assumed that someone who is not exactly like you “has influence on them has not come from foreign sources but rather from only Torah sources.”??? There are a vast majority of “modern” buchrim learning in eretz yosroel who wear a knit yalmakah or dress casual but are top notch. They are very frum and have a vast knowledge of torah wisdon but dont dress yeshivish, why should they be not accepted the same as someone who is the exact same as them but dresses differently?
It is not a crisis if a girl is not married by the age of 18. To often now being are being called Ameritza Hashem By You instead of their actual names. A Madel or Buchar should date until they find the right person who they think they should marry. There should not be any pressure to get married because it can ultimetly lead to someone ending up with the wrong person chas vishalom. Shidduching now in days have gone to an extreme and get interview for a shidduch more intensely then a job. What happened to the good old days in where people met and chose who they dated and were not pressured into it. We must pray to the abishtar to help us all not fall into social pressures. Not judge a sefer by its cover and be more down to earth and except people for who the are. Each person should make his or her own decision in life. Their is a common misconception about things and society should not pressure anyone.
FFBBT613 don’t worry. You are very young and in time you will find the right person. I agree with you 100% and strongly stand by you when you say that it shouldn’t matter what your parents do. weather they wear or don’t wear a hat or cover or not cover their hair. I am sure they are amazing people who love and respect each Jew. It doesn’t matter what is on the outside, its matters whats inside. Knowing that you are looking for someone who doesn’t care about gashmius or shtick like that will surely find you the right person. I am sure you would rather someone who respects you for who you are and sees the true inner beauty. With the help of hakadosh baruch hu you will find the right person.
All Yiddin have to understand one thing. A Jew is a Jew. It doesn’t matter how they dress or is no one else’s business about what they do. Someone who believes in the Abishtur is a proper Yid and that is the only thing that matters. Each person has an issue of jealously or self confidence if they have a problem with someone else. As a Jew it is incumbent upon each and every one of us to except the fellow Jew and to love him or her. There is nothing that anyone can say that can dispute what I am saying. A Jew is a Jew and we are obligated to love and respect everyone for who they are. It is not anyone place to judge anyone for doing certain things. Someone might not do something that you are better at but on aspects where you are not as good they may excel. No one is perfect and we all have flaws. May we all love and respect each Jew for just being a Jew. There should be no Modox or Yeshivish or Chassidish. There are Jews and one shouldn’t be categorized by his action, just loved for being a Jew.