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  • in reply to: Most Uncommon Frum Names #740920
    chofetzchaim
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    The name Alter is becoming more popular in my circles as many people are naming their sons after the Rosh Yeshiva ZTL, Alter Chanoch Henach. Most people call the kids Henach or Chanoch, I have not heard of anyone yet who calls his kid Alter.

    in reply to: Which Yeshiva? #673990
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    shlomozalman wrote:

    I beg to differ. Other than spiffy clothing and learning some mussar, there is little in common. The greatest of the Slabodka talmidim, Rav Aharon Kotler, Rav Yaakov Kaminetsky,Rav Yaakov Yitzchak Ruderman,and Rav Yitzchok Hutner, all could claim to have headed yeshivas in the Slabodka tradition. In Slabodka there was no specific derech in learning (a quote from Rav Kaminetsky), and they certainly didn’t spend a whole zman on just a few blot. So to claim that Chofetz Chaim is a throwback to Slabodka is not true.

    1. Rav Yaakov Kaminetzky ZT”L, when encouraging the yeshiva to open up a branch in Miami Beach, told Rabbi Bentzion Chait YBLC”T that The Rosh Hayeshiva, Rav Henoch Leibowitz ZT”L, and his father were the ONLY ones who ran a Yeshiva in the derech of Slabodka. Rav Ruderman ZT”L never claimed to be running a Slabodka-style yeshiva. Rav Aharon Kotler ZT”L, his focus on Torah “lishmah” as opposed to going out and making a difference in the world, and his kana’us were NOT Slabodka style. Rav Aharon ZT”L never claimed to be following the Slabodka style either. Rav Hutner ZT”L switched to Machshavah because he felt that Americans couldn’t handle mussar. Rav Kaminetzky ZT”L never headed a yeshiva- he was always an employee and was under someone else’s thumb. However, he spoke very approvingly about the fact that the yeshiva kept up the Slabodka Mesorah of mussar. In fact, he encouraged the yeshiva to open a branch in Miami despite the fact that a relative of his already had a yeshiva there! You can speak to Rabbi Bentzion Chait to verify this, or speak to one of Rav Kaminetzky’s sons.

    Slabodka for many (including Rav Dovid ZT”L) was a “finishing school”. Rav Dovid ZT”L went there after getting his Derech Halimud from the Grana”T in Radin. Chofetz Chaim doesn’t claim to follow Slabodka’s derech in limud. The shiurim by Rav Moshe Mordechai Epstein ZT”L were bekiyus-oriented, and many from Slabodka went to the other non-mussar Slabodka yeshiva, Knesses Beis Yitzchok (which later relocated to Kaminetz) to hear shiur from Rav Baruch Ber ZT”L. The Alter of Slabodka ZT”L was very much into the belief that talmidim should develop in their own way, and that the yeshiva shouldn’t be a “sdoym betel” where the inhabitants are shrunk or stretched to fit the mold. So Slabodka didn’t have a derech halimud. What it DID have, however, was a derech of mussar, hashkafah, and seichel, and that is what Chofetz Chaim claims to follow. Rav Leizer Yudel Finkel ZT”L told Rav Henoch Leibowitz ZT”L that his father Rav Dovid Leibowitz ZT”L was one of the closest talmidim of The Alter ZT”L. It makes sense, then, that Rav Dovid would try to follow in his illustrious Rebbe’s footsteps.

    shlomozalman wrote:

    Did the students in Slabodka also go to college at night? No. Do they switch yeshivas in Chofetz Chaim every year or so? In Slabodka they did. Does Chofetz Chaim encourage their students to hear shiurim of gedolim in neighboring yeshivas? In Slabodka they did. Does Chofetz Chaim send out groups of boys to strengthen mussar in nonmussar yeshivas? In Slabodka they did. Besides, how many chess masters came out of Chofetz Chaim? In Slabodka it was what they did in their spare time. I suggest you read some books on Slabodka and yeshivas in Europe in general, you will see very little in common with Chofetz Chaim.

    There was no college in Europe that was easy to attend. However, the Alter of Slabodka was not opposed to people making a parnassah. Chofetz Chaim does send its talmidim out to strengthen branches. However, the days when people begged the Alter to send talmidim to establish their yeshiva or break the hold of the anti-mussarniks is over. Following in the tradition of a school doesn’t mean a bling mimicry. it means, “What would the Alter do if he were here?”, and applying the wisdom to new situations. Today’s Chofetz Chaim talmidim play basketball in their spare time, or read Yeshiva World. Different dor, same mesorah. Why should recreational activities be mimicked? We don’t wear canes or top hats anymore, even though they did it in Slabodka. Bottom line- If Rav Yaakov Kaminetzky could declare that Chofetz Chaim is the only place following the Slabodka mesorah, then I have no problem saying it.

    in reply to: Old Days #672263
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    in reply to: Which Yeshiva? #673986
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    Here is an answer written by a friend of mine:

    The Rosh Hayeshiva zt”l didn’t want “brainwashed” students. He wanted students who could think for themselves while still respecting Daas Torah. The derech halimud is designed to teach people analytical and critical thinking skills-the exact opposite of a brainwashed automaton.

    Another crucial aspect to the yeshiva is its imparted hashkafah. This means that since chachamim are able to see and understand things that lay people cannot, it pays to listen to what they have to say.

    The proof is in the pudding, of course. Let us examine some of his hashkafa in light of current issues facing klal yisroel. We’ll see how krum his viewpoints really are, and if they improve or worsen the situation.

    The Rosh hayeshiva zt”l was a big believer in everyone having a kesher with a rebbe. Compare this to today’s situation where many crucial decisions in regards to shidduchim and divorce are made by individuals themselves or their chevra, as they have no rebbe.

    The Rosh hayeshiva zt”l felt that people need to learn mussar every day, even great rabbonim, to avoid the snares of the yetzer hara. Compare this to the big chillul Hashem roiling the Jewish blogosphere.

    The Rosh Hayeshiva zt”l said that one must be scrupulously honest with taxes, and one should never defraud another entity even if it’s gentile. Compare this to the sad matzav in the summer when many frum people were arrested for fraud. How many fathers would be home with their children instead of in jail if they had my rebbe zt”l as their rebbe?

    The Rosh Yeshiva’s litmus test for every action was, even if it’s legal, how would it look on the front page of the New York Times? Compare this to some of the incidents that actually made the front page of the Times-intercine fighting, massive chilulei hashem caused by hareidi protests turned violent, etc. How much less chillul Hashem would there be if they were following my Rosh yeshiva zt”l?

    EDITED

    in reply to: Pritzus on the Internet #672952
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    Some more email responses I have received on this topic:

    1.

    It should be noted that Firefox must be restarted after installing the plugins for them to have any effect. If you install the plugin and don’t see any changes right away, don’t fret.

    2.

    WOT should be added to the list.

    http://www.mywot.com/en/download/ff

    WOT is a plugin that lets you know – before you even click a link – what type of a site you are potentially clicking through to.

    It also blocks pages that have a very low reputation.

    While this duplicates the behavior of many filters, it does it as part of the browser, it informs you before you click the link, and it can let you know things that filters dont (such as a vendor with a clean site but poor reputation.)

    3.

    ImageLikeOpera makes browsing much much quicker.

    Takes a few days to get used to it, but once you do, you will find yourself much much more productive.

    It should be used by everyone (There’s a reason it comes with Opera)

    Note: see my post above for instructions how to add filters to ImgLikeOpera

    4.

    Image like Opera imitates a browser called Opera.

    I believe that the other two plugins also come built into Opera as well, but need to be enabled.

    I would not recommend Opera over Firefox at all, but if someone has a reason to not use Firefox, they can use Opera and achieve the same result.

    Firefox is a far better browser than Internet Explorer, Opera, Chrome or Safari and should be used whenever possible.

    Having nothing to do with this discussion of tznius – always use Firefox. Always!

    5.

    None of the above replaces accountability and filtering software.

    6.

    I fiddled with the idea of creating a filter using Google’s face recognition project and FF’s Canvas API for Greasemonkey or JetPack.

    I never sat down to work on it, but if there are any insane coders in this group (Preferably from the C, Python, or SmallTalk families) that think such a challenge would be fun, contact me and we will hash out ideas.

    If anyone is interested in contacting this guy, please contact me for info – Moderator-42

    7.

    For those who use a site that requires Internet Explorer:

    Coral IE Tab: https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/10909

    This will allow to open Internet Explorer tabs from inside Firefox. Adblock will work even though you will be using IE!

    (If people need to use IE I am willing to properly research all the options.)

    8.

    For experienced Firefox users, a few AdBlock Plus plugins / alternatives:

    * KarmaBlocker: Said to be better than Adblock, but more difficult.

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/5230

    * DoGooder: Replaces blocked ads with ads for nonprofits. Does not use Adblock:

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/54200

    * Add-art: Puts in artwork where the ads used to be. Uses Adblock.

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/6846

    Officially all artwork is clean, but I certainly wouldn’t guarantee it.

    * Element Hider: Add-on for addblock to also block text ads.

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/4364

    * Foof: Allows you to replace ads with blogs, Wiki entries, et al.

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/7539

    9.

    Also, I just noticed another filter for Firefox but have no idea how well it rates:

    FoxFilter: https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/4351

    And…

    While we’re on the topic of Firefox add-ons:

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/free-firefox-add-on-search-shas-tanach-rambam

    in reply to: Pritzus on the Internet #672951
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    not from ny, can you please explain in more detail what you did and what errors you are getting?

    A note about ImgLikeOpera, some people have complained that after installing it they can no longer use Gmail the way they used to because the image buttons to edit text when composing an email are not there as well as some other images on the site that make it very hard to use. The solution to this is to create a filter within ImgLikeOpera to have it always load images from Gmail (note, the images in Gmail are all Kosher as far as I know, Gmail itself will block images in an email and ask you if you want to display them). The way to do this is:

    1. click the image like Opera icon (looks like a camera) to get the menu
    2. choose “ImgLikeOpera stettings”
    3. click the “filters” tab
    4. in the filter box type “google.com/mail”
    5. under “filter policy” choose number 1, “Load All images”
    6. click “Add”
    7. Click “Apply”

    Note: this process can be used for any web site that you want to always load images. In general you should use filter policy number 2, “load images from originating Web site only” so that outside images that are embedded in the site will still be blocked. I use number 1 specifically for Gmail because it will sometimes try to load images in an email that are hosted on another site. These are already blocked by Gmail so I don’t need ImgLikeOpera to block them.

    in reply to: Purim Costumes According to Halacha #671856
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    I dressed as a girl one Purim, I think it was 7th grade. It was a great costume. I wore a fancy dress that my sister had grown out of and one of my mother’s shaitels. I have a picture of me with a yeshivish friend of mine from that Purim. I showed it to him (and his kalla) at his Sheva Brachos 🙂

    in reply to: Pritzus on the Internet #672930
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    My answer:

    In response to the problem of pritzus on legitimate web sites. True, even people who are using the Internet for completely legitimate purposes will run into inappropriate pictures. I use the Internet a lot and I have a way to eliminate almost all of the pritzus that you are referring to. The way I deal with this is by using a few Firefox add-ons.

    For those who don’t know, Firefox is a web browser, the program that you use to view the Internet. Many people use Internet Explorer which comes with Windows. Firefox is an alternative to Internet Explorer that is customizable through “add-ons”. Below I will describe how to use 3 of these add-ons to help eliminate pritzus.

    First obviously you have to install and use Firefox as your browser. You can get it from http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/firefox/switch.html. The link should give instructions how to install it.

    Next I will describe the 3 add-ons that I use which block out pretty much all inappropriate pictures and videos. Note, these aren’t classic “filters” and you still have to be careful which sites you visit. This will just help make sure that the sites you do visit won’t subject you to inappropriate pictures.

    The first add-on is called Ad-block Plus. It can be downloaded from

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/1865 . Go to that link from inside Firefox and click the “add to Firefox” button.

    This add-on will get rid of all the ads that appear around and in web pages. Once in awhile it will miss some ads and a few times I have found that it will block a picture that is actually not an ad but is part of the page but that is very rare. In general it gets rid of all ads which solves a lot of the problems since we are assuming that the web sites you are visiting are good pages, but even those might have ads that can be problematic.

    The 2nd add-on is Flash-block. It can be downloaded from

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/433 Go to that link from inside Firefox and click the “add to Firefox” button.

    This add-on blocks all flash-videos from starting. Instead these videos will have a button to click if you want to see it. Many sites use Flash to show content, some can be good and useful. But, with this add-on it won’t start right away and you won’t even see the first screenshot that is usually there. You can choose whether or not you want to see the video. This can be a bit of a nuisance because it now requires an extra click to see videos but it is a small price to pay for what it accomplishes. For the more technologically advanced, you can change the preferences so that certain sites will have the Flash videos not blocked by this add-on. This way, you can set the sites which you trust and frequent the most to show flash videos and for the rest you will have to click an extra time if you want to see them. It may be a little bit of work in the beginning but then you get used to it.

    My 3rd suggestion is the one that is most annoying but can be very helpful for those who are willing to go through it. It is an add-on called

    ImgLikeOpera. It can be downloaded from

    https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/1672 Go to that link from inside Firefox and click the “add to Firefox” button.

    The description on the site says ‘ImgLikeOpera allows load only the images that you want in Firefox browser. This extension is very useful for non broadband users…’. This add-on was created for people with slow connections who don’t want images to make the loading even slower. I use this to block all images. It will block all images from loading so that every page you visit will only show you text and the images will come out as empty boxes. You can load an individual image by right-clicking it and choosing ‘load’ or you can make all the images for a particular site load by clicking a button on the toolbar. This is an extremly annoying way to browse the Internet since so many sites nowadays rely on pictures for basic browsing of the site. There are ways to make it easier. In the settings you can create filters that will have certain sites always load the pictures. For instance, I have it set for my own sites, as well as sites such as Yeshiva World and Matzav to automaticlly load all images (as an aside, I also have a filter like this for adblock so that I can see the ads on those sites since I find those interesting though most people find them annoying). For sites that I don’t necesarily trust I load the images one at a time by right-clicking them if they are needed. It may be a bit of work in the beginning to set all the filters for trusted sites, and even after that browsing the rest of the Internet can be very annoying but hopefully you can get used to it. Lifum Tzara Agra…

    Note, it might be an easier transition if you first start by using Firefox, then a few days later after you have gotten a bit used to it you can add the first add-on, a few days later the 2nd, etc.

    Please ask your Local Orthodox Techie if you have any questions.

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124851
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    21 Teves, 5769 Vol. 10, No. 13 Parashas Shmos

    We must conclude that Moshe really would have seized the chance to do this mitzvah even if there were others that were ready and able to kill the Egyptian. The lack of response by other Jews did not determine whether Moshe would react, but rather how he would react. Moshe would not have acted with the same intensity had he known that other people were available. The Midrash is explaining that Moshe surveyed the scene and saw no one else ready to act. This knowledge did not make him hesitant, feeling alone and unsure. Instead, seeing this state of affairs filled him with courage and strength. He focused on the fact that he was the only one willing to save his Jewish brother. This knowledge only caused Moshe to increase his zealous fervor.

    in reply to: Most Moving Jewish Song In Your View #1096862
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    There are many great heartfelt songs. I usually enjoy songs more when they have nice, inspiring words to go along with a nice tune. As Abie Rotenberg says in “We’ve Got the Music” (Journeys 3), “One thing we must keep in mind/A Jewish song of any kind/Is only precious if and when/it brings us closer to Hashem.”

    So in no particular order I am going to list a bunch of inspirational songs that I enjoy.

    I’ll start with “Acheinu” from Abie Rotenberg’s album, Lev Vanefesh. This song is a t’filla to Hashem to have mercy on our brothers who are in tzar. I think that he wrote it during one of the Israeli wars. There are a few other beautiful songs in that album including A Jewel and Ki Hinei. I also like Mi Ban Siach and Adon Olam from Lev Vanefesh II.

    Continuing with Abie Rotenberg, although the Marvelous Middos Machine is a kids tape, the Sinas Chinam song is a very nice song which I listen to all the time. The Shalom and T’shuva songs are nice too. The rest of the songs (as well as the stories) are nice, but this is about heartfelt songs so I listed these.

    Then there are the Dveykus albums which are also full of great, heartfelt songs. To list a few from each album:

    Dveykus 1 – Lev Tahor, Tzoma Nafshi, K’ayol, Achas Shoalti, Hinei Yomim…

    Dveykus 2 – Gam Ki Eilech, Kol B’rama, Kol Dodi… In A’vinkeleh is also a very nice song although I don’t really understand Yiddish, but I like Shwekeys new English version.

    Dveykus 3 – Na’ar Hayisi, Hinei Anochi, B’sheim Hashem, Habain Yakir Li…

    Dveykus 4 – Shema Koleinu, Hamalach, Ani Maamin, Shalom Rav, B’Rosh Hashana…

    All of the Abie Rotenberg compositions sung by Shwekey are great. One of my favorite is Eternity from Oorah’s 2006 CD. When I hear this song, I often think of a friend of mine who was sick with cancer at the time that this song came out. I can picture his mother’s pain as she davened for him. I know that they have the same emunah as is described in the song that his neshama is now “soaring high unchained and free”. The concept of eternity is described as “not for a day, a month, a year”. It puts into perspective, how fleeting the tzaros of this world are. Whether they last a day, a month, a year, or even a lifetime, it is still nothing compared to the reward in the next world which is forever. Sometimes we might feel “chained” by our tzaros, but we have to realize that it is only temporary and in the next world our neshamos will be “unchained and free” for all of eternity. (Video link), (Lyrics link)

    Another great song is Carlebach’s Eilecha. It was sung by Pirchei at HASC 2. It is also sung by Shloimy Daskal in his new album Project Relax 2. Although I haven’t heard the whole album yet it sounds like it is very good. I like a lot of the songs there and I like Shloimy Daskal. Back to Eilecha, when the Rosh Yeshiva of my yeshiva, R’ Henach Leibowitz ZT”L was alive, we would often to go to his apartment on Friday nights and sing with him. This was one of the songs we used to sing. It was very inspirational to be sitting with a group of guys singing this song with the Rosh Yeshiva. As we would sing the high part with the words, “shema Hashem v’chaneini” I felt Hashem right there with us listening to our singing and ready to be “ozer li”.

    One of my favorite kumtzitz songs is Tov L’hodos. I think it was originally from Shalheves Boys Choir. I always liked this song. One time we were singing it at a kumtzitz and it was the end of a long, hard day and I was exhausted, barely able to move, but I had that song in my head as I got up afterward and it inspired me to be able to get through the rest of the day, ignoring the pain and exhaustion. It inspired me to think of how we should always be thanking Hashem, morning and evening just for being able to get through the day.

    Back to the great Abie Rotenberg, he has 2 Aish albums with Shlomo Simcha with some great songs including Ilan Ilan, Mi Adir, M’heira (composed by Baruch Levine), Habeit, and Yedid Nefesh. My favorite songs are Ritzei and Birchas Habayis from Aish 2. The latter was composed by Baruch Levine and is one of my favorite songs. I also really like the original words to the tune from Lost in Lazer Land. (Lyrics link)

    I’m sure I could list many more great, heartfelt songs from Miami Boys Choir, Shalsheles, Shlomo Carlebach, etc. But, I will end with Shalsheles’s Esa Einei and Nochi Krohn’s Vinikaisi and Mah Rabu.

    By the way, if you purchase music from MostlyMusic through any of the links above (or use this link to purchase anything from the site) my yeshiva will get a percentage of the sale.

    in reply to: Binah-Shidduch Issue #682633
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    This reminds me of this article I posted awhile ago

    in reply to: Breaking news: Fun Couple Crashed Obama’s State Dinner #670879
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    Yeshiva World has a picture of the couple who got into the White House without credentials (with the wife removed for tznius purposes) click here for pic

    in reply to: Greatest JEW of the Decade Award #712229
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    chesedname wrote:

    the winner would be somone we don’t know.

    in my eyes the jew of the decade is the simple yid who davens 3 times a day without talking in shul, makes an honest living, has no need to out do his neighbor, gives his 10% without awards, is home for his family at night and with all that manages to learn an hour or 2.

    I somewhat agree with this. There are probably many simple Jews like this but on the other hand, there is a huge zchus in being osek bitzarchai tzibbur. There are some people who on the outside seem like simple Jews who make an honest living, learn some Torah, etc, but actually do a lot of hidden chessed as well, it is one of those who should be the Jew of the decade. The Jew of the decade might even be someone who is known as a big askan, etc but whose true greatness is not known because he actually does so much more than the public knows.

    in reply to: YWN Radio #1095618
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    Will this ever be available on the actual radio rather than just online? It would be nice to be able to listen to this when not online, in the car, etc.

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    9 Teves, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 11 Parashas Vayigash

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    Forwarded text from a Verizon customer: Welcome back! Your alerts & access to 44636 (4INFO) have been restored. […] Sorry for the interruption.

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124843
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    18 Kislev, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 8 Parashas Vayishlach

    [Yaakov]

    [in royal garments]

    Are we cognizant of the transcendent dignity of the Torah, and of our own greatness as the chosen people? The Torah that we study and obey elevates us head and shoulders above the masses. Let us not lower ourselves to the standards of society and stoop to seek their approval and acceptance. The more Torah we learn and mitzvos we perform, the more honored and regal we become. As the princely sons and daughters of the King of kings, we should view ourselves accordingly, and act in a manner befitting our noble and royal stature.

    in reply to: Facebook and Twitter #690658
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    Both Facebook and Twitter can be used for business or family purposes. If used in the right way they can be very good (as Haifagirl pointed out about staying in touch with family). I once attended a conference in which a lot of stuff was done through twitter, the conference organizers posted updates and people attending were able to answer questions and post stuff, etc. I felt that this was a very good use of the technology (though even this conference had some interesting issues whith people abusing it but that is another story). On the other hand, the way people use it to socialize can be very dangerous. People can become friends with random people online which can lead to all sorts of problems. Teenagers (and non-teens as well) who don’t think about the consequences of their actions can get themselves into a lot of trouble. I feel that parents should definitely not let their children use these things except with very strict supervision. If you want to keep in touch with family so the parents should create a family account that they have access to and they should make sure that they themselves understand all the settings and know how to check what their kids are doing.

    in reply to: Lessons in Language Arts #668983
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    There was actually a true story about a guy who gets pulled over for making a left at an intersection that had a “No left turn” sign. He rolls down his window and tells the cop (in his best Russian accent), “Officer, I come to the intersection, I vanted to make right turn, but the sign says, ‘no! left turn.'” the officer told him that if he can say that again with a stright face he would let him off, vicach hava!

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124840
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    This is supposed to be a nightly dvar Torah thread. What happened to everyone?

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    11 Kislev, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 7 Parashas Vayeitzei

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    4 Kislev, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 6 Parashas Toldos

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    27 Cheshvan, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 5 Parashas Chayei Sarah

    in reply to: YWN Blackberry New Download #667894
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    I don’t have a blackberry but I do have a browser on my phone that I sometimes try to use for YW. The PDA version of the site doesn’t work on my browser but my browser uses Google to reformat the page for the phone. Sometimes it will skip to the main content and just have a link to “go to top of page”. Other times it gives me the page from the top. It is very slow and hard to use so I don’t use it often.

    in reply to: Segulos? #668434
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    A friend of mine told me that his Rebbi discussed the 40 days at the Kossel inyan with R. Eliezer Pluchinski, zt”l, who said there is an inyan, and they even discussed specific details, such as making sure to have only ONE thing that you pray for, and that going before mincha and staying for maariv does NOT count for 2 separate days out of the 40.

    He said that the Rabbi of his shul has publicly stated that he puts little stock into the media’s announcements of R. Eliyashiv’s opinions since they often get it wrong.

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124834
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    Mussar HaTorah

    20 Cheshvan, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 4 Parashas Vaeira

    You should be rejoicing!

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    13 Cheshvan, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 3 Parashas Lech Lecha

    Let us step back and examine the situation: Avraham Avinu, the paradigm of kindness and the epitome of selflessness, has a disagreement take place between his shepherds and those of Lot. The Torah does not report any anger between Avraham and Lot themselves, rather that Avraham approaches Lot, and proposes a way to keep their shepherds from bickering. His idea is accepted by Lot and they settle the issue in a calm and peaceful way by agreeing to separate from each other. The problem was solved in a quick and reasonable manner.

    How delicate and sensitive is the emotional response of a human being! Even our forefather Avraham would have been somewhat affected by some lingering hard feelings over their past disagreement, despite all his love for Lot and his kindness towards any person. Avraham felt that for him to properly exert himself to the required degree, he would first need a session of mussar study. Avraham needed to take a moment for introspection; time to concentrate on the special bond and relationship he shared with Lot. Only after this deliberation could Avraham summon all his energy and zeal to save Lot.

    in reply to: Good Forwards (Emails) #1059456
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    Passing requires 4 correct answers

    1) How long did the Hundred Years’ War Last?

    2) Which country makes Panama hats?

    3) From which animal do we get cat gut?

    4) In which month do Russians celebrate the October Revolution?

    5) What is a camel’s hair brush made of?

    6) The Canary Islands in the Pacific are Named after what animal?

    7) What was King George VI’s first name?

    8) What color is a purple finch?

    9) Where are Chinese gooseberries from?

    10) What is the color of the black box in a commercial airplane?

    Remember, you need 4 correct answers to pass

    ANSWERS TO THE QUIZ

    1) How long did the Hundred Years War Last?

    116 years

    2) Which country makes Panama hats?

    Ecuador

    3) From which animal do we get cat gut?

    Sheep and Horses

    4) In which month do Russians celebrate the October Revolution?

    November

    5) What is a camel’s hair brush made of?

    Squirrel fur

    6) The Canary Islands in the Pacific are Named after what animal?

    Dogs

    7) What was King George VI’s first name?

    Albert

    8) What color is a purple finch?

    Crimson

    9) Where are Chinese gooseberries from?

    New Zealand

    10) What is the color of the black box in a commercial airplane?

    Orange (of course)

    What do you mean, You failed? Me, too.

    (And if you try to tell me you passed, you lie!)

    Pass this on to some brilliant friends, so they may feel useless too.

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124829
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    His friends and family have put out divrei Torah and Mussar for the Yomin Tovim. Below are links to the ones I have posted previously in the Coffee Room.

    The name of this publication takes on the name ALIYOS REFOEL ZEV as an aliyah to his Neshomah, and with the Tefilah to bring Aliyah and inspiration to all those that read it.

    ?????? ???? ????? ????? ?’ ???? ??? “?? ?? ?’ ???? ??? ? “?

    Asara B’Teves: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/ywn-coffee-room-nightly-dvar-torah/page/2#post-24777

    Purim: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/ywn-coffee-room-nightly-dvar-torah/page/15#post-53949

    Pesach: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/ywn-coffee-room-nightly-dvar-torah/page/20#post-62850

    Tisha B’av: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/ywn-coffee-room-nightly-dvar-torah/page/32#post-89465

    in reply to: Begin a Gemach #737992
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    Someone in my Yeshiva has created a web page with links to many online stores that the yeshiva guys commonly shop at and when shopping through these links a portion of the purchase will be donated back to the Yeshiva. This way, people can help the yeshiva without spending any more than they were already planning to spend.

    Many web sites (such as Amazon) offer this option of becoming an affiliate through their own web site and others (such as Diapers.com) do it through a service such as Google Affiliates. If you have some time you can try to set up a similar program for a tzedaks of your choice. Of course, it will only be worth your time if you can get a lot of people to shop through the links.

    You can visit the site and help my yeshiva as well by purchasing through the links at http://tinyurl.com/yzdrsa

    in reply to: Begin a Gemach #737990
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    I run a small lending gemach in my Yeshiva. I slowly put aside money over the years and also collected money from a few people and now have enough to be able to lend people. Different gemachs have different rules. I lend as little as a dollar at a time and sometimes will lend a few hundred depending on the need and the amount of funds available.

      Here are a few ideas of Gemachs I have seen in Yeshiva:

    • Bill Change
    • Quarters
    • AA Batteries
    • Power Tools
    • Check Cashing
    • Car and GPS (for dating)
    • MetroCard
    • Folding Tables / Chairs
    • Folding Bed
    • Iron
    • Medicine
    • Office Supplies

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124828
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    6 Cheshvan, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 2 Parashas Noach

    in reply to: Men Wearing Colored Shirts #669388
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    My Mother thinks that the black davening jackets worn by Yeshivish people don’t match the black pants. You can’t wear a black jacket with black pants unless it is a suit. Many people who I have spoken to disagree with this and apparently most Yeshivish people either also disagree or just don’t care.

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    Mussar HaTorah

    26 Tishrei, 5770 Vol. 11, No. 1 Parashas Bereishis

    Let us use these Torah lessons to learn about our weaknesses, and rise above them, to acknowledge and take the blame for our mistakes. Humility and honesty will open the gates of self-improvement for us and allow us to use the gift of teshuva to bring ourselves ever closer to our Creator.

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    23 Tishrei, 5770 Vol. 10, No. 49 Simchas Torah

    True optimism and simcha does not come from ignoring the reality that we are flesh and blood, and ultimately destined to die. It comes from confronting death and mortality with a positive and constructive attitude. Life in this world is, as our sages teach us (Avos 4:21), only a relatively brief journey, an entranceway to the eternal World-to-Come. Our challenge is to avoid the distractions, the empty facades of this world; to use every moment we have here to prepare and improve ourselves, perfecting our neshamos so they can come close to our Creator in our real destination, the next world. Moshe was telling the Jews not to be misled and not to get involved with the foolish trinkets of this world. In truth, his words were the greatest consolation because they served to guide them on the right path. He reminded the Jews of their true purpose in life, which is the source of genuine happiness and joy, satisfaction and fulfillment.

    in reply to: Chol Homoed Destinations Sukkos 5770 #662276
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    Catskill Corn Maze

    (about 90 mins from Monsey)

    $10 adult, $5 kids (5-11), 4 and under free

    Mon-Fri 10am-10pm

    1375 Hurley Mt. Road

    Hurley, NY 12443

    (845) 338-7276

    in reply to: Silence Is Golden #661380
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    And in my Yeshiva they have a rule that cell phones cannot be “seen” in the Bais Medrash. It goes without saying that they shouldn’t be ringing (I almost always keep mine on vibrate) but they also cause a lot of bittul Torah when people are constantly checking text messages and answering calls. People think twice about answering now that it requires walking out of the Bais Medrash.

    in reply to: Silence Is Golden #661379
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    One day, when the Rabbi got up to speak between Mincha and Maariv, someone in my shul took out a piece of paper and handed it to the guy next to him. It read, “This is an important text message”.

    Side note: I once heard that ‘facetious’ is the only word in the English language that contains all of the vowels in order.

    in reply to: Sukkos Zemiros #661608
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    The Small Succah – A Yiddish folksong

    By: Eli Birnbaum

    A Yiddish folksong in Yiddish and in English. Take your guitar and sing!

    A sukkaleh, quite small,

    Wooden planks for each wall;

    Lovingly I stood them upright.

    I laid thatch as a ceiling

    And now, filled with deep feeling,

    I sit in my sukkaleh at night.

    A chill wind attacks,

    Blowing through the cracks;

    The candles, they flicker and yearn.

    It’s so strange a thing

    That as the Kiddush I sing,

    The flames, calmed, now quietly burn.

    In comes my daughter,

    Bearing hot food and water;

    Worry on her face like a pall.

    She just stands there shaking

    And, her voice nearly breaking,

    Says “Tattenyu, the sukkah’s going to fall!”

    Dear daughter, don’t fret;

    It hasn’t fallen yet.

    The sukkah will be fine, understand.

    There have been many such fears,

    For nigh two thousand years;

    Yet the sukkahleh continues to stand.

    The Small Succah – A Yiddish folksong

    (Am)A succah, a (E7)small (Am)one

    From boards (E7)so cheap(Am)

    (C)I have made myself a (C)Succah(E7) (Am)I’ve cove(G)red the roof(Am)

    (Am)with a li(Dm)ttle Sch(Am)ach,

    (Am)sitting in the S(E7)uccah by night(Am)

    (Yiddish)

    (Am)A sukkele a kl(E7)ein(Am)eh

    Fun braitelech gem(E7)ein(Am)eh,

    (C)Hub ich mir (Dm)a Sukelle Ge(C)mac(E7)ht,

    (Am)Tzudeck dem d(G)ach (Am)

    Mit a bissel(Dm)e Schach,(Am)

    Zitz ich mir(E7) a Sukkele (Am)banacht

    A vind a kaltin,

    bluz duch die shpaltin,

    un die lichtelich

    zei leshin zich fill,

    Es is mir a chiddush

    vie ich machen Kiddush,

    un die lichtelich zei brennen

    gantz shtill.

    Tzum ershten gericht

    mit ah blassem gezicht,

    breinkt mir mayn tochteral arain

    Zie schtell zich avek

    Un zaukt mit shreck,

    Tatele, Die sukele falt bald ayn.

    Zay nisht kein naar

    Hub nisht kein tzar,

    zul dir die sukkele nit tun baang,

    Es is shoin dar

    bald tzvei toisant yaar,

    un die Sukkeleh zie shtait nuch gantz

    lang.

    in reply to: Funny or Interesting Vanity Plates #700723
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    I’ve seen an ophthalmologist’s plate that says “Eyen Tov”

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    in reply to: Mistaken Lyrics #1087716
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    We also used to sing “don’t pay back a band-aid…”

    in reply to: Imagine Winning the Lottery …… #860022
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    Jothar, it seems that you are weong about lotto being a tax on the stupid based on this article:

    A Can Of Coke Is The Real “Tax On Stupid People”

    Scenario I: You’re walking down the street with a friend when you remember that there’s a Mega Millions drawing that night. “One second,” you say, “I’m going to stop into this store and buy a lottery ticket for $1.”

    If your friend is like many people, you’ll get a haranguing about how stupid that is, about how the lotto is just a tax on the poor, the desperate, and the stupid, and how you’re much better just putting your money into a bank.

    Scenario II: You’re walking down the street, and you’re feeling thirsty. “One second,” you say, “I’m going to stop into this store and buy a can of Coke.”

    “Cool,” says your friend.


    But really, which is the tax on the stupid, the lottery ticket or the can of Coke? Most people reflexively say the lottery ticket, as WSJ numbers guy Carl Bialik reminds us today. But consider. In the first scenario, you’re out $1, in exchange you get a brief chance to fantasize, and the very remote chance of getting rich, plus a little tension while they pull the numbers.

    In the second scenario, you’re out $1, you get a brief sugar high, followed by a crash, followed by tooth decay, sugar addiction, and then obesity, if you make a habit out of it. Clearly the Coke is worse in every way. If someone asked you whether they should buy a lotto ticket every day, or a Coke every day, you’d have to suggest the lotto ticket. Its superiority isn’t even in doubt.

    Probably the reason people freak out over the lotto ticket is because the presence of math seems to make the analysis very clear, and they’re thinking about it strictly as an investment, and since there are so obviously better investments to make, the lottery ticket is dumb.

    But for one thing, lottery ticket buyers probably aren’t thinking of them as investments, and really, regardless of how they view them, the fact is there are a lot dumber things you can do with $1, including buying a can full of sugar water. That’s the real tax on the stupid.

    in reply to: Turning Off The Phones For Yom Tov / Shabbos #659773
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    I turn off my phone because of the way the alarm works. If the phone is on, the alarm will keep ringing until it is turned off. If the phone is off it rings for a few minutes and then stops. So I turn it off in order to be able to use the alarm to wake me up on Shabbos. If I wasn’t using the alarm I would probably turn it off to save the battery anyway.

    in reply to: Rosh Hashana – What Time Did You Finish Davening? #659911
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    We started 7:15 both days. About a 20 minute break both days. First day there was a bris before the break, 2nd day a speech after the break. We finished about 1:45 first day, 2:30 2nd day IIRC

    in reply to: HumorousText Message Vintching A Happy New Year #659569
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    Welcome to the 70’s!

    in reply to: YWN Coffee Room Nightly D’Var Torah #1124757
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    Mussar HaTorah

    1 Tishrei, 5770 Vol. 10, No. 47 Rosh HaShana

    in reply to: Addicted to Coca Cola – help! #658628
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    I used to be very addicted to Coke. I stopped about 2 years ago around Yom Kippur. Rabbi Shafier gave a Shmuz about preparing for Yom Kippur and mentioned that there were some people who used to stop drinking caffeine weeks before in order that they wouldn’t get a headache on Yom Kippur so that they can daven properly. I realized that I was never able to function well on fast days and even other days of the year, if I didn’t have caffeine in the morning I would get a headache so I was dependent on it so I stopped. I still drink a lot of Sprite and other non-caffeinated sodas but not as much as I used to drink Coke and I drink a lot more water now. It’s great on fast days when I don’t get headaches anymore and even on other days I used to have to have some at some point in the morning or I would get a headache. Whether or not I am healthier now it is certainly less of a burden to not “have to” have caffeine in the morning

    in reply to: NYC News & Talk Radio #658396
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    Good evening to you and how you be? It’s 6:31 and 56 seconds (factor in your own 7 second delay) and we’re getting ready for a 2 hour shmooz…

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