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  • in reply to: Anyone knows about side affects of this diet??? #862489

    It sounds ridiculous and dangerous. You are messing with your body’s hormonal balance. There may (or may not) be a desired side effect of weight loss but there will also be others.

    Habit changing – healthy eating, small food portions and exercise – are the [only?] things that work. It takes more effort and willpower than injections, but is longer lasting.

    I know that weight losing isn’t easy. Hatzlocho!

    [as a start, change your name to carrots123 :)]

    in reply to: Older Siblings More Ruchniyosdik Than Younger Siblings #862332

    Interesting, I was thinking along the lines of the OP recently.

    I thought it might be because the older children are directly influenced by their parents since they spend more time with them. The younger ones generally spend more time with their siblings and get the family values ‘second-hand’ from them.

    in reply to: Midas HaRachamim vs. Midas HaDin #878662

    brech: Din is din and deeds are deeds. You can’t get away from what you did. Did you think you would? But it will all be totally just. Extenuating circumstances and anything else will all taken into account.

    Then there is always teshuva. We should try that sometime.

    But as nitpicker said, it is all beyond our understanding.

    in reply to: Dor Yeshorim in Girls High School #1157955

    “That is weird. I am also an anesthesiologist,”

    popa: talking to yourself?

    in reply to: Midas HaRachamim vs. Midas HaDin #878659

    midas harachamim is when there is a chance of teshuvah. So once a person dies, there is din not rachamim.

    in reply to: Segula from R' Fisher for breech babies #860652

    soleik: There are many kochos in the world. We’ve lost much of that ancient knowledge, but it does exist. I’m sceptical about these kind of things because we have no way of knowing what is real and what is invented/imagined (99.9%?).

    Dayan Fisher, though, was no minor personality. I was told that his segulos/remedies (he had many) had been passed down from many generations back.

    BTW, ECV does have its risks.

    in reply to: On a plane #939005

    popa’s posting from his work desk.

    but his descriptions are fascinating, in any case.

    in reply to: Weight Loss for a Child #860065
    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862680

    147: “Money doesn’t talk, despite the verse in Koheles.”

    and what do you mean by that?

    in reply to: On a plane #938995

    avoid the polar bears. they may want to eat you if they’re hungry. And I dunno if running for your life will help much.

    in reply to: Making bread in fleishig pan #1142249

    DY: Take care with your tone. Your last para is offensive, particularly when directed at a talmid chochom

    in reply to: The Titanic– #857799

    don’t you mean sunk it?

    in reply to: murder mysteries #857711

    As mentioned above, you’ll find it difficult finding a never-ending source of suitable books.

    When I was younger, I spent most of my spare time reading (non-jewish) fiction. Now, looking back, I regret that no-one pointed out to me the world of non-fiction.

    There is a far wider ranger of suitable non-fiction books. Fiction is, of course, more interesting for a child, though you may though find ways of convincing him.

    in reply to: Money yes, Bracha no. #857517

    42: Correct.

    More reliable to use your LGT (local gabbe tzedaka)


    About the ??? ?? ???? ???? point made above. I have heard that the Chofetz Chaim says that the gemara was abbreviated to ?”? which was *incorrectly* expanded to ???? ????. It should read ???? ????? – meaning that there is no deficiency in the *mitzva of tzedaka*. There may very well be a deficiency in the person giving for having such intentions. I’ll try and find the source.

    In any case, this gemara doesn’t apply here since it is a chiyuv of matonas l’evyonim, not a general mitva of tzedaka.

    in reply to: Money yes, Bracha no. #857511

    popa: unsafe if you intend relying on that telephone donation for your chiyuv of matanos l’evyonim

    in reply to: Segula of saying tehilim purim night. #857533

    haifagirl: Welcome back. We missed you.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868952

    ZK: You are dead wrong about Hitler. But it’s a side point and OT in any case, so I won’t pursue it here.

    NB: my last comment was directed at the mod who put in my posts, not at you.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868950

    oh, really!!

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868948

    mod: please delete my above post. changed my mind. thanks.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868947

    ZK: “I STAND FOR HASHEM!!!”

    Perhaps Hashem would prefer that you err on the side of loving His children. Do it the Berdichever way.

    I see no reason to hate her, just her actions.

    And you are bringing in Hitler. Again. That really disturbs me. It’s irrelevant that you are not actually making any direct comparison. (the Esav and Nimrod bit is also irrelevant but doesn’t disturb me as much, though perhaps it should).

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868825

    up to page 10 and nothing new said since page 1

    in reply to: Random Thoughts #953028

    ICOT: “I’d love to try a parachute jump from a plane. Just once. “

    I’ve always dreamed of doing that. I doubt I ever will.

    in reply to: Buzz!! #858271

    OneOfMany: “The Westing Game, anyone?”

    yes, yes. that’s what i thought too

    (yeah, I know you posted that 3 months ago, but i just read it now)

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868705

    soliek: see thejewishweek

    and good luck with the new contact you made. hope something works out.

    in reply to: Irish-Man Only Jokes… Havalaugh #862630

    ‘Paddy, can you play the piano?’

    Paddy: ‘I don’t know, I’ve never tried’

    in reply to: here's a new one for this page – MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!! #851488

    HaQer: Do the maths. And you’d better take advice before you invest.

    in reply to: Speaking Yiddish #851765

    uneeq: I’m curious – do you understand Yiddish?

    in reply to: What's the argument against having a Madina? #852631

    ymb: “Take into Account that since israel was founded many many More yidden have been killed there than in the whole world combined…”

    source, please.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868579

    ZK: “The mitzvah of Ahavas Yisroel is where HaShem says it’s applicable. (Would you LOVE a hitler?)”

    That’s going much too far. There is no comparison between Hitler and this woman. Not qualitatively and not quantitatively.

    So just where does the mitzva of Ahavas Yisroel apply? What are its parameters?

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868564

    ZK: i agree with soliek, MP and others. You cannot judge her.

    You are not expected to praise her, and you can criticise her actions. But you cannot you judge her.

    in reply to: Where's PBA?? #852144
    in reply to: Are you superstitious #850486

    Nechomah: streets without a 13 were numbered that way when the street was built. Houses with a 13 are avoided by superstitious people, so Jewish people often take them.

    in reply to: Random Questions #850458

    squeak: historically, left was the natural side to pick – with your weapon-hand between yourself and any [potential/actual] enemy coming towards you.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868418

    mods: the link in the OP should be removed

    in reply to: Are you superstitious #850482

    In England, you’ll often find streets without a number 13, or with someone Jewish living there.

    A relative booked to have an operation, with usually a few months waiting time. The following Friday was the 13th of the month and so there was an empty slot – no-one wanted an operation on an unlucky day. It was her lucky day.

    in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #868389

    soliek: yes they do

    i was actually considering posting a ‘like’ since it was well expressed and reflect my thoughts but this thread moved so fast that i thought i wouldn’t bother.

    Popa: ‘like’ to your posts .

    in reply to: Overweight children #850140

    My niece has this problem. She’s under 10 but the doc recommended going to a nutritionist since she was putting on weight too fast.

    For the main meal, my SIL always makes a soup first to fill up, so that she’ll eat less carbs in the next course.

    For a bread meal, she gives plenty veg, yogurt, etc, so that she won’t eat too much bread.

    Nosh is only for Shabbos and even so she doesn’t buy the high fat/sugar nosh.

    Plenty fruit.

    My SIL has made changes to the family diet and tries not to make an issue out of it, but it isn’t easy. I haven’t heard of any OA for kids

    in reply to: Are you superstitious #850476

    not going under a ladder is christian superstition

    in reply to: Are you superstitious #850467

    and what about the end of a banana?

    in reply to: Are you superstitious #850463

    the end of a kugel? which end? that’s a new one. or did you make it up?


    A couple came home to find two doves sitting on their dining room table. They went to ask R Chaim Kanievsky what this sign meant

    Answer: ???? ?????? ??? ????

    (for those browsers that don’t do Hebrew: ‘it’s a sign that the window was open’)

    in reply to: infertility issues/the blessing of children #918715

    Due to the 5th degree that Mrs B is getting from her mother-in-law, her sisters, her sisters in laws, ect, she feels compelled to start on a very painful, costly and emotional road of treatments. Why? Because the pressure is on.

    Your points are valid, but that’s not what the OP is talking about.

    He’s talking about the pain of wanting another child in addition to the 2 he has. As he himself pointed out, he isn’t comparing it to the pain of those who are childless. But his pain is real and understandable.

    So in the context of this thread, I would consider your post insensitive.

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847177

    zdad: I have no problem with travelling crammed in a London underground train. But when it’s a bus packed to double-capacity with frum men and women squashed together nose to nose, bus twisting and turning and everyone falling over each other, then it is not very comfortable. Separate seating is a good solution.

    In any case, you cannot take absence of action as proof.

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847150

    “I visited Israel years ago and yes, I rode the #1 bus and the #2 bus through Geulah and Meah Shearim. Chareidi men & women generally arranged themselves so that they did not sit next to each other, but no one made a fuss about who sat where.”

    Shrek, that’s how it is now, too. There are just a few ‘separate seating’ buses but no-one makes any fuss about where to sit on those either (besides for the handful of high-profile incidents).

    In fact, after riding the [Jerusalem] buses for over 10 years I have never seen anyone even comment to a passenger who sat in the ‘wrong’ part of the bus – which often happens. There are no signs up about any seating arrangements and no coercion.

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847103

    Popa’s got it right as usual.

    It really is quite simple – it shouldn’t need a Popa IQ to get it.

    It does frustrate me why people cannot understand.

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847069

    GAW: My original intention was simply to provide an interesting read.

    (thanks for the accommandation!)

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847068

    zahavasdad: I’m curious. When was the last time you were on a bus here?

    in reply to: Petition To Reinstate "Homeowner" #845652

    But being disagreeable may be.

    why doesn’t he just create a new name.

    Say, umm, Borough Park Homeowner.

    in reply to: to moderators #847452

    BPM: Who cares?

    in reply to: didja miss me #846520

    soliek: it doesn’t say ‘blocked’. Why can’t you use it?

    in reply to: the force behind charedi incitement #847053

    GAW: “So was Rosa Parks, and Dr. King.

    And?”

    (No more ‘And’s. Please 🙂 )

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