If women were created by Hashem to withstand the pain of childbirth… how can they possibly brag about their pain thresholds? Their bodies were made with childbirth in mind, it’s not an unnatural pain.
Why can’t we just set up a shidduch system corresponding to weight? If I spend time making sure I’m healthy, shouldn’t I be rewarded with getting set up with someone that does the same? Am I a monster?