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  • in reply to: taking your kids to see a sporting event #742963
    charliehall
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    “They sell real Kosher Food at Yankee, Mets and Football games”

    Also at the National Tennis Center for the US Open Tennis tournament. Vaad of Queens supervision.

    in reply to: Hechsher on soaps and sponges? #743884
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    “sponges should not be manufactured on shabbos “

    The overwhelming fraction food processing facilities in the US that produce products under rabbinical supervision run 7 days a week. As do most farms. Unless you live off the grid and raise all your own food, you can’t avoid benefitting from Shabat activity. And the poskim for all the major kashrut agencies have no problem with this because they are mostly non-Jews working mostly for non-Jews.

    in reply to: cousins marrying each other #742665
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    “they were siblings. That is much closer than cousins. “

    Marriage of full siblings is prohibited even for non-Jews.

    The gemara in Sanhedrin proves from the case of Avraham and Sarah that marriage of paternal half-siblings is permitted for non-Jews.

    in reply to: Men going to nursing school #745932
    charliehall
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    Why not? It is a field for which there is always demand. And if you can get a job in a unionized institution, the pay and benefits are good.

    in reply to: cousins marrying each other #742656
    charliehall
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    “We never allow secular law to interfere with who we marry.”

    Yes, we do!

    We don’t allow two 13 year olds to marry in the US.

    Nor do we allow an uncle and niece to marry in New York.

    Both of those are illegal. And the person who performs such a wedding ceremony can be prosecuted and imprisoned. Furthermore, the 13 year olds can be prosecuted for rape.

    in reply to: Misheberach Poll #742461
    charliehall
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    “av harachamim (in memory of the Chmielnicki massacres)”

    It is actually much older than that; it was written originally in medieval Ashkenaz in memory of the victims of the Crusaders.

    in reply to: cousins marrying each other #742632
    charliehall
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    Why is it weird? Judaism has always permitted first cousins to marry. So do most western nations (but not most US states).

    in reply to: HELP! horrible acne #743047
    charliehall
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    I had horrible acne from age 12 to age 32. What cured it was isotretinoin, which was marketed under the brand name accutane. (It is now generic.) It is a nasty medicine, with lots of side effects, but it really is a miracle drug for acne.

    If you are a woman, you MUST be using birth control if you are to take isotretinoin because it produces horrible birth defects in a fetus. That even applies if you are not married and not sexually active in any way, because of the possibility chas v’shalom that you might be sexually assaulted.

    The story of isotretinoin is interesting: It was discovered by the 1940s that large doses of Vitamin A would cure acne. My mother took Vitamin A supplements as a teenager for HER acne. The problem is that for most people, if you take enough Vitamin A to cure your acne, you destroy your liver in the process. You do not want to trade acne for a liver transplant. So the chemists came up with a synthetic slightly modified Vitamin A that wasn’t as toxic, and that chemical is isotretinoin. It is also used in some cancer treatments as a chemotherapy agent because it kills rapidly dividing cells — the same characteristic that produces such horrible fetal birth defects.

    Consult Your Local Dermatologist, and good luck!

    in reply to: Carlebach Kabbalas Shabbos #742537
    charliehall
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    “Kabbolas shabbos should definitely count as one of those considering that the nussach you are so concerned about is actually older than the tefillah itself!”

    True. Cantoresq must be the last Jew in the world who starts Kabalat Shabat with Psalm 92 year round. Doing Psalms 95-99 and 29 were unauthorized additions to the nusach not recognized by Chazal, as was L’Cha Dodi.

    The text of Tachanun and most of the selichot are also post-Chazal. It is clear that we DO accept changes in nusach — just look at all the Ashkenazic Jews praying Nusach Sfard or Nusach Ari!

    “I listen to Carlebach music and I’m not depressed…. “

    There are sections of the Carlebach nusach that really do fit the words better than the standard Ashkenazic nusach. “Arbaim shanah” in Psalm 95 SHOULD get you depressed!

    “Just imagine how happy you’d be if you didn’t listen to Carlebach! 🙂 “

    I’d be MORE depressed if I only had the Rush Through Davening With The Standard Nusach minyans to attend.

    in reply to: Drinking Grape Juice During the Week #1088358
    charliehall
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    It is much LESS expensive than wine.

    in reply to: kiruv to the not yet frum #742188
    charliehall
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    “my rov told me that i should not invite him as he would certainly drive home after the seudah.”

    My rav told me that there is absolutely no problem with inviting someone who would certainly drive home after the seudah as long as I make it possible for the person to spend the night if he wishes. And after he told me this, he confirmed it with a very prominient posek that that is in fact the halachah.

    in reply to: Carlebach Kabbalas Shabbos #742483
    charliehall
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    I go to one almost every Friday night. It is a beautiful and moving way to bring in Shabat.

    in reply to: how many frum yidden? #886138
    charliehall
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    “How about a definition the covers anyone who always refuses a job on Shabbos, and keeps some standard of kashrus “

    If you are shomer Shabat and you have a kosher home, you are part of the Orthodox community even if you don’t observe any other mitzvot: Guests can eat in your home.

    in reply to: how many frum yidden? #886137
    charliehall
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    From the 2003 Jewish Federation Survey:

    Neighborhood # Jews % O # O

    Williamsburg 52,700 94% 49,538

    Flatbush/Midwood/Kensington 101,100 54% 54,594

    Borough Park 76,600 74% 56,684

    Fresh Meadows/KewGardens Hills/Hillside 28,200 51% 14,382

    http://www.jewishdatabank.org/Archive/C-NY-New_York-2002-Geographic_Profile_Report.pdf

    in reply to: how many frum yidden? #886135
    charliehall
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    This is a very non-trivial project you have taken on!

    The 2001 National Jewish Population Survey estimated that there were about 529,000 Orthodox Jews in America: 324,000 adults and 205,000 children. The latter number matches almost exactly the count of children in day schools done by Dr. Marvin Schick a few years later for the Avi Chai foundation. A more recent survey shows some growth in day school enrollment.

    http://www.jewishfederations.org/page.aspx?id=108513

    http://www.avi-chai.org/knowledge-center/

    There have been a lot of studies of local Jewish populations, most recently in New Haven CT. Here is a site with links:

    http://www.jewishdatabank.org/community.asp

    The Israel Central Bureau of Statistics publishes estimates of that country’s Jewish population:

    http://www1.cbs.gov.il/reader/?MIval=cw_usr_view_Folder&ID=141

    Their attitude is “a Jew is a Jew is a Jew” so they don’t break down the population by observance levels. A good estimate of the adult Charedi population might be obtained from the fraction of votes obtained by the Charedi political parties in elections; a good estimate of the population of frum kids might be found from school enrollments. Adult Religions Zionists are more difficult, though, as they vote for many different political parties.

    Good luck!

    in reply to: Sephardim and gerim #1157551
    charliehall
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    “Why do all geirim fall into the halachic category of zonah”

    Promiscuity was rampant in Roman society, especially among the upper classes. I’m reading Adrian Goldsworthy’s biography of Julius Caesar and it is astonishing how open it was. Modern secular society is downright chaste by comparison. Assuming that non-Jews were licentious was based in fact.

    in reply to: Surfing while at work #741758
    charliehall
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    “Why do people think they are allowed to surf the internet while collecting a paycheck?”

    I’m never really OFF duty except for Shabat and Yom Tov.

    in reply to: Shabbos board games/activities for 9-10 year old boys #754363
    charliehall
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    Scrabble!

    I’ve played Scrabble in English, Spanish, and Hebrew.

    in reply to: The Gemorah is Amazing! #960513
    charliehall
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    “there is not a single extra word contained within the entire Gemorah!”

    This one is difficult.

    First, there are in fact entire passages that are repeated word for word. AFAIK, nobody has ever drawn halachic or hashkafic conclusions from the fact that the gemara sometimes repeates itself.

    Second, we aren’t even sure of the correct text of the gemara. Some rishonim are known to have had gemara texts that vary from our standard contemporay text.

    in reply to: Information Verification is Vital BEFORE Dating #769420
    charliehall
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    If you discover you like the person and then discover some deragatory information, it might be that the deragatory information isn’t really all that important to you and you would have missed your basherte had you been too picky!

    in reply to: Tuition Crisis Solution #742131
    charliehall
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    Daas Yochid,

    Amending the NY Constitution required approval of a majority of voters of the entire state AFTER approval of two consecutive legislative sessions. So if the legislature approved an amendment to allow government support of religious schools tomorrow, the earliest it could take effect would be the 2013-2014 school year.

    Alternatively, a Constitutional Convention could be called; this was what was done in 1967 and in fact the Blaine Amendment seems to have been the single biggest issue they faced. This would have a similar time course.

    But in any case you need voter approval — and no referendum in America has approved direct government funding for religious schools. Most such proposals have failed by landslide margins, as did the NY attempt in 1967. In most school districts in NY, there are ZERO Jewish religious schools so the idea of forcing voters in those districts to vote for religious school funding is ludicrious. Furthermore, the average cost of yeshiva tuition is probably greater than the marginal cost of an additional public school students.

    in reply to: Tuition Crisis Solution #742129
    charliehall
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    “It is a fact that city schools are overcrowded which is one of the reasons why they are failing. The city would have to construct new buildings to be able to take in ALL the yeshiva students”

    SOME city schools are overcrowded. There is a high school near me that used to have 6,000 students, but today has under 2,000. The city could quickly reopen wings of buildings like this, and rent lots of portable classrooms.

    “By law, you cannot use public funding to pay for religious schools in New York. It’s in the State Constitution. “

    There was a very serious attempt to change that provision in the NY State Constitution in 1967. A Constitutional Convention, with a Democratic majority (surprising since both houses of the New York legislature were Republican, as was the governor) proposed a package of Constitutional revisions that included the repeal of the obnoxious Blaine Amendment. I have read that a major force behind this was then-Sen. Robert Kennedy, and the Catholic Church went all out for them. But Gov. Rockefeller only offered lukewarm support and most other Republicans actively opposed it. In the end, fewer than 30% of the voters voted for the changes.

    Since then, many politicians have dangled false promises of aid to religious schools. What is needed is a full scale effort to get rid of the Blaine Amendment — and to prepare voters for the higher taxes that would be needed to support religious schools. The latter will be very difficult as property taxes in the suburbs already approach confiscatory levels.

    “one way they solved the problem was to have 2 shifts of the school day – I think it was like 7-12 and 12-5?”

    This was done in Maryland when I was growing up. I avoided the double shifts but my brother drew the second shift.

    in reply to: Is it assur #740680
    charliehall
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    “Is it a religious event? “

    Yes. It is an official Catholic feast day and has been for centuries.

    There is another secular holiday, celebrated in parts of Massachusetts, that happens to fall on March 17: Evacuation Day. It commemorates the day that the British Army left Boston for good, which happened to be March 17, 1776. There has been a move to eliminate this holiday in order to save money.

    in reply to: Sephardim and gerim #1157534
    charliehall
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    The first five Jewish communities in what became the United States were Sefardic, and they did not take converts. The first American adult to convert to Judaism had to go to Eretz Yisrael to convert, in the 1840s. He converted Sefardic, and when he returned to America the Sefardic congregation in Philadelphia accepted him as fully Jewish. I suspect strongly that the reason for the unwillingness to do conversions had more to do with the fact that there were no rabbis in America until the 1840s. Marc Angel, the long time rabbi of the oldest of the American Sefardic congregations, has spoken out often against excessive conversion chumrot.

    in reply to: Mazal Tov Charlie Hall? #743689
    charliehall
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    Wow! I missed this one. AFAIK I am not related. In ane case, I’m

    Jewish

    Bearded

    Decades younger

    Already happily married

    And I haven’t visited Minnesota for several years.

    in reply to: SCIENCE FAIR #739892
    charliehall
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    Here is a suggestion:

    Review the first chapter of the Book of Daniel. The intervention was Daniel and his fellow Jewish slaves eating seeds; the control was the non-Jewish slaves eating meat. It is actually the first recorded example of a control group in history; the second would not be until the scurvy experiments in the mid-18th century. You could re-do Daniel’s experiment except that if the study participants are Jews, you’d have to use kosher rather than non-kosher meat: Half your volunteers would be vegetarian for ten days and half would be meat eaters. A stronger experiment would be if you randomly assigned your volunteers via a coin toss to the vegetarian or meat group. Define before the study what you would call “healthier”: Get some independent panel to evaluate the volunteers. Maybe you could also have a nurse or doctor take the blood pressure of the participants. Then let us know the results!

    in reply to: Are there any Jewish golfers? #739626
    charliehall
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    cshapiro,

    It is just about impossible to be a professional athlete and be shomer Shabat. That is particularly true in golf because almost all tournaments are Thursday through Sunday.

    The same is true for stage actors and actresses. Cantor Dudu Fisher was a star as Jean Valjean in “Les Miserables”, but he never performed on Shabat and has never been offered another major Broadway role. (His understudy was really happy, though, because he always got to perform twice a week!)

    in reply to: Those who used to call R Blumenkrantz a"h for advice, who do you call? #756388
    charliehall
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    “whos your rov and which gedol does he consult? “

    He is a retired rabbi who had shuls in the Bronx, Westchester, Long Island, and elsewhere, who earned semichah from Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik z’tz’l (“The Rav”) back in the 1960s. He still works part time as a chaplain. One nice thing about having a rabbi who doesn’t have a congregation is that he isn’t very busy; he always gets back to me very quickly.

    He never tells me *exactly* which gedol he consults with for any particular issue; this makes sense because these are private psaks. If the gedol wanted to publish that particular halachic opinion, it is up for the gedol to do so! Similarly, I don’t publish my own rav’s name although I’ve referred people to him personally. The gedolim I’ve most often heard him mention are Rabbi Hershel Schachter and Rabbi David Cohen. But if he personally heard a ruling from The Rav, he almost always paskens that way, even when The Rav was a Daat Yachid.

    in reply to: Questions About Ultra-Religious Siblings #739573
    charliehall
    Participant

    You are a wonderful brother and uncle!

    A lot of parents are control freaks around their kids — and justifiably so; don’t take it personally. Be sure to clear all gifts with the parents, and especially any food. And I’m sure they will appreciate the educational trust!

    I wish your entire family well!!!

    in reply to: How much do u pay your cleaning woman? #739741
    charliehall
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    $90/day; she usually takes 4 to 5 hours. She works for an agency which I think takes a cut.

    in reply to: Are there any Jewish golfers? #739624
    charliehall
    Participant

    Amy Alcott was for a while one of the best woman golfers in the world. I think she is the only Jew in the World Golf Hall of Fame.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740197
    charliehall
    Participant

    The eminent domain issue is precisely the problem. In America, you can’t take someone’s property — or even deny them development rights — without paying the fair market value for it. It is in the US Constitution. In many states and localities, it requires a court hearing. How can sechirat reshut work under these circumstances?

    “are you “lineman”? I am impressed! “

    “lineman”‘s site is very impressive. (And thank you, David, for the compliment.)

    in reply to: 10 Jewish Music All-Stars #739541
    charliehall
    Participant

    Where are the traditional cantors on these lists? Herstik? Malovany? Miller? Stark? Helfgot? Fisher? Craimer? Has the appreciation for putting our prayers to music using the nusach of our tradition been completely lost???

    in reply to: Those who used to call R Blumenkrantz a"h for advice, who do you call? #756378
    charliehall
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    “charliehall, I feel you cant compare asking personally to someone asking for you. I’d always feel like I might have gotten a different answer had I explained the issue myself, with the often necessary back and forth dialogue. I wouldnt want to take that chance with an important issue.”

    I feel the exact opposite. My rav knows me well and knows where I need to be machmir and where my yetzer hara won’t be tempted by being meikel. Even the gedol hador doesn’t know any of that. Also, I have been taught that it is important to follow a consistent derech and not pick and choose rabbis for shilahs — even gedolim.

    (And my rav seems to enjoy it when he gets a chance to consult with a gedol over an interesting shilah.)

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740188
    charliehall
    Participant

    The busiest section of the Long Island Expressway is right near Kew Gardens Hills, just east of the Van Wyck Expressway, with about 185,000 vehicles a day. And you can carry across it on Shabat!

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740187
    charliehall
    Participant

    I’m surprised that nobody has brought up the issue of sechirat reshut.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740186
    charliehall
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    popa,

    The NY State Department of Transportation has a new traffic data viewer! Formerly you had to page through volumes of numbers to get the information you wanted, and to know the unpublished route numbers for some major roads. The busiest part of the BQE (between the Brooklyn Battery Tunnel and the Prospect Expressway) gets about 170,000 vehicles/day and the busiest part of the FDR Drive (Upper East Side) about 180,000 vehicles/day. Neither have much bus traffic. Those two roads just don’t have enough lanes to handle enough traffic to get up to 600,000.

    The Lincoln Tunnel gets about 115,000 vehicles a day, and unlike every other major highway, many of them are buses. But remembering that most of those are commuters who are double counted it is doubtful that even it would have 600,000. And it is really three separate roads, not one. (Three tunnels, each with its own approach roads on the Manhattan side.)

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740185
    charliehall
    Participant

    david,

    The US census estimate for the daytime population of Brooklyn is 2,231,776, which is *smaller* than the resident population. That “someone” misled Rav Moshe.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740181
    charliehall
    Participant

    Just looked up the daytime population of Manhattan: 2,874,003 according to the US Census Bureau. If Rav Moshe z’tz’l required 3,000,000 to disqualify an area for an eruv, Manhattan would not be disqualified.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740180
    charliehall
    Participant

    “There were cities prior to the 20th century that contained

    shishim ribo such as London and Paris “

    Manhattan had > 600,000 people before 1860; Brooklyn (still an independent city) around 1880; Chicago by 1890.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740179
    charliehall
    Participant

    I tried to calculate how large an area this is. Assuming a mil is 2000 amot, by the most stringent opinion that would be not more than 4000 feet. Therefore 12 mil would be 48,000 feet, or 9.09 miles. 12 mil by 12 mil would therefore be 82.64 square miles. The entirety of Brooklyn is 96.9 square miles, with 2.5 million people. So by that logic Rav Moshe would permit an eruv in Brooklyn. Manhattan has far fewer people.

    What am I missing?

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740178
    charliehall
    Participant

    More on the George Washington Bridge: It has fourteen lanes and still isn’t anywhere close to having 600,000 people. Ordinary surface streets simply don’t have the capacity to have 600,000, even theoretically.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740177
    charliehall
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    “No street would meet this requirement.”

    The busiest “street” in New York is the George Washington Bridge, which is used by about 300,000 vehicles a day. The majority are single-occupancy vehicles and many of those are counted twice because they are daily commuters.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740176
    charliehall
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    “And remember that those 600,000 had to be in ONE place during that day. That clearly would be the requisite condition. It is highly unlikely that even in Warsaw, ALL the population passed through one city fare during one day. Today, of course, it is more prevalent in the world’s largest cities and this is why in New York, London and others, the eiruv is problematic and relies upon other kulos.”

    This is not true. The ONLY place in New York City that has 600,000 people in one day is Penn Station, which is indoors. And even that is misleading, because that is the passenger count: Most of those passengers actually are double counted because they arrive in the morning and return home in the evening. 600,000 people is an enormous number.

    in reply to: Those who used to call R Blumenkrantz a"h for advice, who do you call? #756364
    charliehall
    Participant

    ‘when it comes to the “heavy” shailos’

    I ask the same rav the “heavy” shilahs as the “soft” ones. For many of the heavy ones HE calls HIS rav.

    in reply to: SHOVEL YOUR SNOW.. Shabbos or NOT!!! #738113
    charliehall
    Participant

    iyhbyu,

    The snow existed prior to Shabat, in the clouds, in the form of water vapor and/or ice crystals.

    Maybe R’Moshe didn’t eat snow, but I love it! It goes great with fruit juice.

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740164
    charliehall
    Participant

    Rabbi of Berlin,

    Warsaw had a population of over 600,000 before 1900. (Russian Empire Census of 1897 said 626,000.)

    in reply to: SHOVEL YOUR SNOW.. Shabbos or NOT!!! #738111
    charliehall
    Participant

    I can’t understand why snow would be muktzah: It is edible! How can any food item that can be eaten on Shabat be muktzah?

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740160
    charliehall
    Participant

    There was an eruv in Warsaw in the 1930s. Anyone know who the posek was and what opinions they relied upon?

    in reply to: Halachos of Eruv – Disqualifications #740159
    charliehall
    Participant

    Daas Yochid,

    He counted 7 who do not require 600,000; 12 who do.

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