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  • in reply to: Dental insurance #752251
    charliehall
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    I have Delta Dental and my dentist accepts it.

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759837
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    “If H and M pays for a billboard in BP, its because they know the BP market is one of theirs.”

    I would not assume that. Most humongous corporations contract out their marketing to advertising consultants who buy billboard space in large quantities through billboard companies, so H&M may well be two steps removed from the actual placement of this offensive ad.

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759835
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    Article about the boycott of H&M by the anti-Semites:

    http://www.ynet.co.il/english/articles/0,7340,L-3861303,00.html

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759834
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    “H&M does have a right to be notified that their ad was offensive in that community and that the owner of the space should have informed them of that.”

    Agreed. H&M is a huge multinational corporation with tens of thousands of employees. You can’t expect them to know the demographics of every block in New York City.

    And it is currently being boycotted by the anti-Semites because they have opened stores in Israel! It deserves our support, not the destruction of its ads. The community should raise the money to pay them for the vandalism, and to buy them out of their contract for the billboard. (Actually, the bocherim themselves should pay, but they may not have the money.)

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755858
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    “he claims he received such a psak”

    What is the basis for such a psak. Gebrokts is agreed by everyone to be minhag, not halachah.

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755857
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    *Except the ‘??”? ??”? ??”? ???? ?. *

    Also worth mentioning is that we don’t even follow all the Remah’s minhagim! For example, the six closest Ashkenazic synagogues to me recite Hallel in shul on the first night of Pesach.

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755856
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    *Except the ‘??”? ??”? ??”? ???? ?. *

    That’s a minhag, not a halachah. There is a difference!

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759824
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    ‘If the ad displayed a far worse (yet technically legal) image and was put up on 13th Avenue across from Shomer Shabbos, and the advertiser refused to change it, would anyone still be opposed to it being removed by “other means” so your children shouldn’t have to see it daily?’

    Yes, I would oppose it. Vandalism is illegal. It is no different from some Christian fanatic torching a synagogue because he is offended from our denial of his messiah.

    in reply to: Guy and Girls on Purim #752007
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    “The latter is wrong anytime “

    Huh? A guy can’t ask a girl for a date? Who assured it, and when? How else is someone supposed to get married?

    OTOH I don’t think very many girls will accept a date from a guy who is drunk when he asks her out!

    in reply to: Eruv in Brooklyn #761618
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    jonas,

    If that *was* the reason for disqualifying an eruv in Brooklyn, then the psak can be ignored. Ocean Parkway is used by fewer than 70,000 vehicles a day, which in no way can result in the 600,000 individuals needed to disqualify an eruv. In fact, it can’t handle 600,000 even in theory, as the maximum capacity of a single highway lane is approximately 40,000 vehicles a day and that assumes no traffic lights, no backups, and peak flow for 24 hours a day.

    in reply to: Who Would You Elect as Mayor of Coffeetown #1111006
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    Let me take this opportunity to take a Sherman pledge.

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755845
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    “According to this, you could eat the actual kitniyos”

    And you would violate absolutely no halachah by doing so.

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755844
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    “Would you use the dishes in my house?”

    Absolutely! You did everything you were supposed to do. And anyone who says you should do anything other than what your rav says isn’t orthodox.

    in reply to: Black hats #751705
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    ‘First of all, he was a big oheiv Yisroel whose “hostility” was never directed at people, but at anti-Torah ideals.’

    Religious Zionists would emphatically disagree with that statement.

    “so too does a woman/girl have a right to say she wants to marry someone who does wear a hat.”

    Yes, we have a right to be stupid. I, the committed Torah U’Maddah guy, did not expect to marry a woman whose rav learned at Lakewood. But she was a perfect match. And if you insist on externals, you are more likely to miss your perfect match.

    “I never saw a Rosh Yeshiva or other Rav without a tie.”

    Many in Israel go without ties. Its really hot there in the summer!

    “They do not have TVs”

    I don’t have a TV. Does that make me no longer Modern Orthodox?

    “Only because there was no government assistance available at the time. “

    ROTF!!!!! More evidence that Big Government is the Torah Way!!!

    in reply to: Chillul Hashem Or Not? #751855
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    “To answer your question, we’re doing a great job! Just ask any of the local Police Precincts. “

    Uh, not such a great job if you look at the number of allegedly frum people doing time in prison for financial crimes.

    in reply to: Mother Theresa And Bikur Cholim (l'havdil…) #751803
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    She was not ugly. Have any of you ignoramuses ever seen a photograph of her as a young woman? Her skin was wrinkled, but that is what happens when you take someone from Eastern Europe and put them in a hot and sunny climate for decades.

    in reply to: single guy and single girl talkin about shidduchim #911483
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    I’m also with oomis on this.

    in reply to: Mother Theresa And Bikur Cholim (l'havdil…) #751787
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    What does this have to do with Mother Theresa?

    in reply to: Kosher beach? #751278
    charliehall
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    Try the eastern end of Fire Island — about six miles of undeveloped and usually deserted beach between Watch Hill and Smith Point Park. When I went there years ago the only people around were the park rangers and sheriff’s deputies doing occasional patrols.

    in reply to: Tznius- Not black and white (and red all over). #751411
    charliehall
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    For a rather exhaustive list of sources related to tzniut, see Rav Henkin’s English language sefer *Understanding Tzniut: Modern Controversies in the Jewish Community*.

    in reply to: Tznius- Not black and white (and red all over). #751409
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    “Actually, if it was against halacha, it would likely be

    ???? ??? ?????.”

    Not true! Most things that are asur are not ???? ??? ?????.

    in reply to: Black hats #751657
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    “Still, I wouldn’t recommend it. “

    That’s ok — I’ll fix MY daughter up with Rabbi Akiva!

    “I’ll believe you when the Satmar Rov zt”l is admired in those circles”

    Had the Satmar Rav shown a bit less hostility towards “those circles” he might be appreciated more.

    in reply to: Honking in Boro Park #751146
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    Sounding your horn at any time in NYC makes you eligible for a $350 fine. I propose strict enforcement of this law; this will enable the city to restore the child care vouchers that have been cut from the budget.

    in reply to: Black hats #751621
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    “a teacher in the yeshiva I attended tried to convince me that Avraham Aveenu and Moshe Rabaynu wore black hats.”

    And we wonder why so many people go off the derech.

    Rambam never wore a black fedora.

    Neither did the Remah.

    Neither did the Vilna Gaon.

    In fact, neither did the Chofetz Chaim, even though by the end of his life they had become common dress in non-Jewish circles. (I heard this directly from a RY who learned in the CC’s yeshiva while the CC was still alive.)

    in reply to: Black hats #751614
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    “If you see a Yid in a black hat, you know he is a member of the Yeshiva community.”

    The custom in many MO communities, including YU, is to wear a hat on Shabat but not during the week. I presume that means that the YU/MO world is part of the Yeshiva community on Shabat but not during the week?

    in reply to: Black hats #751613
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    “Rabbi JB Solavatchik told him (in usual way..) to that kovod Shabbos would be for him to wear his hat in the heat. “

    The Rav z’tz’l wore hats. But not just black fedoras. There are many photographs of The Rav in straw hats.

    in reply to: When young adult leaves to be Frei #776680
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    “There is already nothing in science that contradicts the Torah, so it is only a matter of looking for what proves it.”

    I totally agree with the first clause of this statement. But I completely disagree with the second.

    There is no way to prove Torah — or even HaShem’s existence — through empirical data or through logic. HaShem and His Torah are beyond any human comprehension, beyond the physical universe. If I could come up with a proof of the existence of God — certainly our greatest sages have tried — it would not be God that I was proven. How can a mere mortal such as me even think for a second that I could prove God’s existence.

    There is a further problem: Once you have accepted that God is susceptible to proof, you have not only reduced God to a human level chas v’shalom, you have admitted the possibility that God could be DISproven Chas V’Shalom! Either that or you aren’t being intellectually honest, that you never believed in your “proof” in the first place. No person who believes “with perfect faith” could possibly entertain the idea of a proof of God if he/she *really* knows the implications of such.

    If you truly believe in H”K”B”H, no amount of evidence to the contrary will convince you otherwise. And if you are a committed non-believer, there is no amount of evidence that will move you. This was actually a major topic of discussion among Christians in the 18th century; a British clergyman named Rev. Thomas Bayes came up with a quantitative methodology that he thought could answer this and it was published posthumously in 1763. His theorem is used by statisticians all over the world today — but not to address questions of the existence of the Divine.

    It is common for young people to want Answers to Everything. I was certainly that way when I was young. It was after several years in graduate school studying to be a scientist, that I realized that not only were there lots of things for which there were No Answers, but that was the Nature of the Universe! Nihilists will use this fact to attack science; in fact I just responded to one on HuffingtonPost ten days ago. But the same invalid criticism can be levied at Judaism and too many people buy into it.

    Judaism does not pretend to have an Answer to Every Question. Life has lots of things that Don’t Make Sense. The Torah is the tool HaShem gave us to navigate our way through this senseless world, acting justly to our fellows while constantly being reminded of Who Is In Charge.

    Most of the questions that sceptics bring up today have been addressed by our sages; while some of the answers may not be as convincing as others to our modern minds, it is important to note that our sages for the most part (Elisha ben Avuha a notable exception) didn’t let the fact that they had unresolved Questions to cause them to stop observing Shabat and Kashrut! Unfortunately not all the answers get taught in yeshiva; I can’t count the number of Jews who’ve left the tribe to practice Buddhism who are stunned when I point out Rambam’s mandate in Hilchot De’ot to follow the middle path. Not a single one had ever heard of this fundamental halachah and they left our path for one that emphasizes it.

    My this young man be blessed to eventually discover the true beauty of a Torah lifestyle and philosophy.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960670
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    Regarding Franklin Roosevelt and WW2: Roosevelt did not make operational decisions for his military. He left that up to the theater commanders who in the case of the European Air War were Gens. Eisenhower and Arnold. The same criticism of Roosevelt could be made against Churchill; British bombers had just as long a range as US bombers for most of the war. And Churchill himself ordered the bombing of Dresden, which had no military significance.

    I consider both Roosevelt and Churchill to be heroes. They saw the evil of fascism before anyone else did. And they worked together — illegally, before the war — to put it out of business. And B”H they succeeded. Yes, the railroads should have been bombed. But think of what would have happened had Lord Halifax become PM in 1940 — or had Robert Taft been elected President the same year. Halifax was an appeaser worse than Chamberlain and had more support within the Conservative Party, but fortunately he yielded to Churchill. Taft was a die hard isolationist and fortunately they masses of the Republican Party masses outvoted their party leaders and nominated the outspoken internationalist Wendell Willkie so US foreign policy was not an issue in the 1940 election.

    in reply to: Black hats #751592
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    ‘fyi firemen definitely do NOT wear their hats “whenever they are on duty”‘

    I often work at FDNY HQ and can personally attest that this is the case. I do frequently see frum uniformed FDNY people wearing yarmulkes, though!

    in reply to: Black hats #751591
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    The black fedora is a relatively recent style — probably a century old. It was common in non-Jewish society for a generation or two but is now indeed a symbol of Jewish community for some. Every rabbi I’ve met who wears a black hat tells me that it is the insides not the outsides that matters. My own rav is cleanshaven, and wears a black hat over his kippa sruga. I never shave, ever, wear a black velvet kippah (I’m not sure I’ve ever worn a kippa sruga), and don’t even own a black hat. I wore a black hat once, at my wedding at the seudah, when my wife’s (Lakewood-trained) rav lent me his for about ten minutes. He then repossessed it with the comment, “It doesn’t fit.”

    in reply to: Revolution!! ? #800766
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    Last August Chief Rabbi Lord Sacks published an essay in which he cited R. Zvi Hirsch Chajes, *Torat Nevi’im*, as saying that Jewish monarchy is a social contract in the way that Hobbes, Locke, and Rousseau would have described it — the people voluntarily give up power to the monarch. Later in the same essay Rabbi Sacks quotes Thomas Jefferson! This is quite something from the Chief Rabbi of the country Jefferson was rebelling against. Rabbi Sacks clearly identifies with Abarbanal’s position that monarchy is not mandated.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960667
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    “Whether Cromwell actually committed genocide is hotly debated by historians to this day.”

    There are “historians” who debate the existence of the holocaust, too.

    A more direct comparison would be to Chmielnicki Y”S who was murdering Jews at almost exactly the same time as Cromwell was murdering Irish, with almost exactly the same rationale. And yes, you can find historians who don’t pay attention to Chmielnicki’s genocide (particularly in Ukraine). The fact that Cromwell was in fact very good to Jews should not blind us the fact that in almost every other respect the man was a total rasha.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960665
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    “did anyone else ever read ‘Letter to the Hebrew Congregation at Newport’, written by George Washington in Aug., 1790? “

    It continues to inspire even today. There had not been as favorable statement towards Jews by a Christian head of state at any previous point in history.

    in reply to: All Wife's Money & Properties Belong to Husband #750351
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    “if the Torah says all the assets are his, even if secular law says 50/50 in divorce, she would not halachicly be allowed to demand that in secular court. “

    That is a problem in community property jurisdictions. Basically, the husband has no right whatsoever to half his earnings from the very day they are earned. They aren’t his, they never were his, he never established a kinyan. Any dayanim in California able to address this?

    in reply to: Revolution!! ? #800765
    charliehall
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    Tanakh seems to argue that Rechavam ben Shlomo was a rasha — and a disaster as a monarch — but Yeravam ben Navat gets even more criticism.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960660
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    “Would you mind explaining to us “

    I submitted an explanation but it has not as of yet been accepted by the moderators.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960658
    charliehall
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    “Dr. Hall, I await your response. “

    I submitted one but the moderators have not accepted it as of yet.

    I also submitted one regarding the motzi shem ra against Eamon De Valera (who suppressed the Blueshirts and the IRA, cooperated with the Brits against the Nazis, and in 1937 inserted a provision into the Irish Constitution that protected Jews) but that has also not been accepted by the moderators as of yet.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960650
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    “The Founding Fathers were conservatives/Classical Liberals, committed to less government intrusion in our lives,”

    You obviously have never studied the economic policies of Washington or Hamilton.

    ” individual liberty, opposed to the welfare state,”

    George Washington personally distributed welfare funds under Virginia’s version of the Elizabethan Poor Law. Washington and Hamilton were huge supporters of Corporate Welfare, getting the federal government to invest in the First Bank of the United States. Madison, who had opposed this, finally realized the desirability of a Central Bank and approved the Second Bank of the United States. Adams signed a law requiring individuals to buy health insurance.

    ” and supported a noninterventionist foreign policy,”

    George Washington couldn’t intervene anywhere because the US didn’t have a Navy. (We paid bribes and tribute instead. But he did authorize a Navy which Adams, Jefferson, and Madison used to intervene.) Adams got us into an undeclared war with France. Jefferson started the First Barbary War. Madison started the War of 1812 and invaded Canada!

    ” gun rights,”

    Washington and Hamilton put down the Whiskey Rebellion and disarmed all the rebels they could find.

    “opposed taxes, etc.”

    Washington and Hamilton raised an army that was larger than the one they had had at Yorktown to put down the Whiskey Rebellion and maintain their high tax policies — which were due in part to the bailout of nearly bankrupt state governments by the Federal Government.

    The truth is, our founding fathers were quite comfortable with intrusive government — as long as it was an intrusive *American* government.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960642
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    “Aren’t we commanded to wipe them out? “

    Descendents of Haman taught Torah in Bnei Brak. Would you have rushed up to the Rosh Yeshiva and stabbed him to death?

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960638
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    ‘encouraged doctors to see Medicare patients thru malpractice reform’

    While I support malpractice reform, (1) Texas’ reforms are mainly attributable to Bush, not Perry, and (2) they didn’t produce the desired result. While malpractice premiums dropped, it did not result in an increase in the supply of medical providers. Perry’s cuts to Medicaid seem to have more than offset the reduction in malpractice premiums, and Texans are now going to Mexico in record numbers for medical care.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960637
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    “Placing the fear of G-d in them to never rebel possibly saved the most lives, over having additional rebellions. “

    I’m horrified that this can be written on a Jewish site. Gavra, by that logic Hadrian’s genocide after the Bar Kochba revolt was justified. Ditto Nebuzaradan’s murder of three million of our fellows.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960633
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    ‘Who did Cromwell “genocide”? The Jew-hating Irish?’

    At the same time he as letting a few Jews into England, he was committing genocide against the Irish. Who, by the way, are not Jew haters at all. Please name a single Jew who has been killed in an Irish pogrom. There has been less anti-Semitism in Irish history than in the history of any other country in Europe. Not for nothing was Rav Herzog z’tz’l called the “Sinn Fein Rabbi”. (Would that the modern Sinn Fein would pay attention to its history!)

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960631
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    George Washington

    Benjamin Franklin

    John Adams

    Thomas Jefferson

    Alexander Hamilton

    James Madison

    Abraham Lincoln

    Theodore Roosevelt

    Franklin Roosevelt

    Ralph Waldo Emerson

    Walt Whitman

    Sam Clemens (Mark Twain)

    F. Scott Fitzgerald

    William Faulkner

    Ernest Hemingway

    Bill Cosby

    Benito Juarez

    Giuseppe Verdi

    Georges Clemenceau

    Winston Churchill

    Carl Gustav von Mannerheim

    Edvard Benes

    Konrad Adenauer

    Nelson Mandela

    Andrei Sakharov

    Erasmus

    Thomas More

    Isaac Newton

    Cardinal John Henry Newman

    Pope John XXIII

    Martin Luther King, Jr.

    Abdurrahman Wahid

    I could probably come up with a lot more if I spent more than five minutes on it.

    in reply to: All Wife's Money & Properties Belong to Husband #750346
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    “He is still be entitled to all the marital assets (sans the specific exceptions) in a divorce case.”

    Also, under federal law she is entitled to half her pension moneys.

    in reply to: All Wife's Money & Properties Belong to Husband #750345
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    “He is still be entitled to all the marital assets (sans the specific exceptions) in a divorce case.”

    In places where marital property is divided according to Spanish “communal property” law — which includes ten states in the US — this can not be done.

    in reply to: Which Non-Jewish personality inspires you? #960628
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    “Oliver Cromwell”

    He was a rasha who committed genocide.

    in reply to: Home: Own or Rent? #750057
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    Renting is certainly better if you expect to move within a few years. And the down payment and closing cost requirements for even a subsidized government mortgage can be shocking.

    in reply to: Ona'ah – Overcharging more than 1/6 #749855
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    In the example given, Marshall’s may actually be violating the rules against *under*charging.

    in reply to: All Wife's Money & Properties Belong to Husband #750327
    charliehall
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    In healthy marriages, the spouses come to agreement on financial matters. If there is a practical effect of this halachah, it must not be a very good marriage.

    in reply to: Hiring Heimish #749926
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    “Not too many heimish folks will accept a $10 an hour job.”

    And as the union-busters continue with their success, there will become far more $10/hour jobs than jobs that pay enough to pay yeshiva tuition.

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