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I have lived in Phoenix now for over 17 years. Feel free to ask whatever you’d like.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberYou can call his yeshiva and ask about speaking to him. I’ve spoken to him in the past using this route.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberIf you’re tired of the snow and the cold,consider Phoenix. As a previous entry noted there is an active Chabad in Scottsdale but Phoenix has the larger community.In Phoenix,there are a number of preschool options , including Chabad ; there is a day school through 8th grade, a separate boys and girls high schools, a kollel; a number of shuls – Chabad, Young Israel, Ohr HaTorah ( affiliated with the kollel), Beth Joseph ( at the day school), and two Bukharian congregations; morning minyanim are 6:30, 7:00(Chabad), 7:30(boys high school), mincha at 1:25 at the boys high school, 3:30 at the day school, the rest at shekia. There’s a ma’ariv at 8 at the boys high school and 9 at one of the Bukharian shuls. There are presently two pizza shops, two delis with sit down service and a kosher market in each, another kosher market in Phoenix, and Chabad has a kosher restaurant and market in Scottsdale. There is also another fleishig restaurant in Phoenix that does not have a market, and a new fleishig restaurant in nearby Glendale opening today. Housing is cheap compared to NY, you can find for under $200,000, and you’ll get a nice backyard for you sukkah. Job situation depends on what your credentials are . You don’t make as much as in NY but it’s cheaper here to live.
I suggest you call Rabbi Zalman Levertov at Chabad of Phoenix for any information. Hatzlacha.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberHere are two actors from years ago, Paul Muni and John Garfield.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberI am always amazed when people talk about a bochur , or a young married man, working for a living. The part I find amazing is that there is this looking down on the guy who works. I’m talking about a person who works fulltime to support himself or a family, and has a seder of serious learning when off from work. Our society needs people working, one-to support himself and his family,and two- this person by working is then capable of giving tzedekah for worthy causes. There is no shame in working for a living and not having to depend on others for food and shelter. I would think it should be the norm as it had been for generations.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberKSA if a Rabbi Lisbon from California, most people I know hold from his hecksher. The KA, if it’s the hecksher from Arizona, the hecksher is suspect.
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CHAIMBERLIN702MemberI didn’t say you had to wear appropriate dress to shul. I said while in shul. I know how hot it gets in Arizona. Just leave the jacket in shul. You want to walk to shul in shorts and a tank top , g’zunta heit, but in shul- appropriate, tznius dress is a minumum.
As for the kiruv comment. I’m a baal t’shuva for many years now. I was as far off the derech as can be and I came back.I am extremely familiar with how difficult it is to become a baal t’shuva and have has much influence on people coming into the fold. My comments regarding dress are directed at people whose backgrounds are Orthodox, and drop the level of observance when they come to less frum environments.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberThe issue of politicians supporting policies that are antithetical to Torah,but given support by frum groups is a problem. The analogy to the Satmar in Eretz Yisrael is a good one but the Satmar here , look the other way , as long as they get their piece of the pie. I really have trouble with all this. How a candidate who supports positions, such as toeva marriage, gets support from Orthodox groups in beyond me. We are supposed to be a light unto the nations, in a way, the conscience of the world. We certainly are not living up to that standard. For example, to support Wiener or Cuomo, whose policies are clearly not in accordance with our beliefs, is problematic. You don’t have to support them or the opponent. Just clearly state this is our belief and we cannot support a candidate who holds such views. Of course, the issue is money, and getting “stuff” from the elected officials. I sure wish there were more people with backbone and guts to stand up and take a firm, clear stance on some of these issues, and not what is “politically correct” so they can pick up some government money or favor.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberAgain , shorts are not the norm, and I’m talking about people who are FFB, and “escape” to out ot town places to “loosen up”.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberI don’t think that there’s a frum community where shorts are the norm. Besides , we have a different “norm”than the rest of the world, our standard is not theirs.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberLong pants are needed for shul. Jackets are optional. As we watch societal standards for behavior and dress go lower and lower, the need for shall we say vigilance to maintain a reasonable standard is needed.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberResponse to Apushatayid: please do not misunderstand my position. I’m not trying to put my standard on anyone else. But, I think there is a minimum standard for dress in shul. I don’t think it’s asking too much for people who go to work in a jacket, and long pants, to have them have the same standard for shul as for work. We need to remember that a shul is a makom kodesh. We should try to present ourselves in the best way, dressed like we’re going to see someone important, which we are. My concern is that some people don’t see that going to shul should have at least the same chashivus, dress wise as going to work.
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberIn response to the Wolf: Our standard of behavior and dress should be at the same level wherever we live. We also have to keep in mind that we are not to follow the ways of the non-Jews.We are to dress modestly, meaning to cover all the necessary areas, and not to draw attention to ourselves by dressing in a flashy manner. I would have to wonder why someone who goes to an Orthodox shul would dress in such a way to draw attention to himself, by for example wearing a loud Hawaiian shirt in a congregation of people who wear dark suits. What message is that meant to give?
CHAIMBERLIN702MemberI should be clearer as to what I meant. I think there is a difference in the way a person dresses when he goes to play sports and when he goes for a job interview. When a person goes to shul , he should not dress like he’s going to play sports. I think the Ribbono Shel Olam deserves a certain amount of respect in the way we present ourselves to him , in His house, when we come to pray to Him. I’m not saying that everyone has to dress in the black and white garb, but a message is given how we come dressed for shul. The way we dress is an indicator of respect to the person we’re going to see.
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