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@Avram in MD
So now you are moving the conversion from internet devices to smartphones to teens. So let me clear the air
1) When I say internet devices are nearly a necessity in 2025, I do not mean a smartphone for teens. Of course that is not a must a necessity and is destructive even for non religous people.
2) So what do I mean? I mean the idea that a FAMILY as a whole needs to be connected to the internet, typically via multiple devices
3) so what kind of devices do refer to? It varies from a family to family. But I’d say parents need smartphones , PC’s, laptops are needed, your car, maybe your some other smart screen , IPAD etc. Do kids “need” to own that? No. But families whole likely do need some of my list.To be clear, I don’t think its being Amish if you don’t hand your child a smartphone with instragram on it. But it is being Amish if you say that internet for an entire family isn’t a necessity in 2025. Also a necessity I admit can be a bit ambiguous. People can live without it However, ist nearly a need like electricty. Leaving out any danger those are the facts. Now you bring danger in to the picture. That doesn’t change the facts though.
So if the facts are that internet connected devices are a need, and a typical family’s needs multiple device. we also know that yes it posses a danger even more so to teens. We can ask families to pay $20 a month per device. but that quikcly end sup being $100 a month and if they don’t disconnect /cancel filters on the old discarded devices it quikcly piles up. Youi can see how thats a huge strain. And the right thing to do is for TAG who has the resouces and know how plus it is a tzedak already, to supply free filters while requesting a donation
I also challenge TAG to wake up a little and end these silly bans like on 24-6 devices because Oy vey it can connect to the internet even though parents can lock that connection and contorl when a child even uses that. thats on top of the fact that its content is kosher. Like do they realize what 90% were doing during covid wtahcing you tube and goyish stuff? Even now if you want kids not towatch netflex give them ksoher stuff. Stop with this farfarmukait. But this is a side topic.
Just to reiterate we agree re children having smartphones thats not a necssity.
@ amom
1) I am not tech savvy but I think there are solutions such as just child locks that can be leveraged. It won’t block as much but it takes care of key risks. Let’s not aim
For perfection. And yes Tag ups the ante for the schools
2) I have never heard of filter sponsors and I struggle with paying for some of them myself . At times I do go without filters because of the costs
3) I have had similar stories with TAG. I once told them I need you tube for work, which is true. (By now I can perhaps get away with chat gpt.) They told me well what would you do if you tube never existed ? Like seriously? This is my need now .@Avram in MD
There is workaround for everything. define a necessity. If it means something that you absolutely can’t live without such as working then yes you’d be correct in saying outside of work it isn’t a total must. But I think most people define a necessity as something that’s so part and parcel of society, in so many areas from shopping to banking to travel to cars to appliances. Sure technically it’s just a convenience but it’s a very very strong convenience that touches upon so many aspects in life. All that you mention are simply workarounds and not the normal accepted practices in 2025. To need to schlep to omny stations are all huge inconveniences. It’s enough to be called a necessity, especially with the combination that you’ll be using it at work too. As I noted electricity is not a must either. I get that it’s not “dangerous” like the internet so who cares. But the point of my analogy is to say that just like electricity is a necessity so to the internet. I am leaving out the fact that eventually you won’t be able to never use internet as all cars will have it and airport checks ins etc will only be via internet.I think you are looking at this from the wrong angle. Because the internet is spiritually dangerous you are forcing yourself to take an unrealistic position. You don’t feel it’s a necessity because you don’t want it to be a necessity vs facing the true reality.
Just to sum it up the translation of the word “necessity” is perhaps where we differ. If you’d like let’s call it a very strong need. And just because it’s dangerous (to some) doesn’t negate that need. Since it is a strong need, a larger focus on free filters must be provided .
@ Avram in MD
1) The point is when something is so widespread and touches every faucet of one’s lives where almost no one in any civilized society doesn’t use it for every aspect, you can’t say it’s not a necessity. That’s just living in a bubble.
2) it’s not like a flying car which only has one feature. It’s so impactful and integral.
3) Re no matter how dangerous it is? Sure then build safe rails and protection. Just like a car has safety features. But that doesn’t mean it’s not a necessity just because it’s dangerous.
4) But what about religion ? This is a frum site. Again yes so build safe protection. But religion doesn’t make it not a necessity. It doesn’t change a metzius. (Unless your religion is a cult that brainwashes)
5) no matter how unsafe it is? Yes no matter how unsafe it’s so part of life now that you can’t live without it . It circles back to the same point so add safety features but that doesn’t make it less a necessity. (As a side note the way you make it sound like, anyone who touches it will die in a ruchnyus sense is nonsense. Sure it has risks . But most people are still responsible . It’s not level of some atom bomb. That doesn’t mean that some won’t slip but you make it sound like it will nuke everyone. Now to be clear again for the some that will slip you’ll build guardrails)This all boils down to one flawed logic. Because it has ruchnyas risks, you chose to say it’s not a necessity when the entire world runs on it in every way of our life. From shopping to banking to earning a living, to even learning Torah m, checking in on airlines , research, cars, waze appliances etc. This is just a partial list. It’s so flawed to say it’s not a necessity because of a religious risk. That doesn’t change the metzuis.
To be clear we aren’t debating the need for filters rather for devices . And yes it’s fair to demand that TAG pay for it and stop being so stuck up about it. (I suspect you work for them)
Lastly, please don’t use fancy English . I am not as educated as you. It’s just confusing gotcha words
Its important to remember that while most charedim hold not to vote for WZO, there are other shitas too. Mizrachi has stong roots in our torah as well. In fact many of the early charedim were against zionsim only because its secular and not because the idea of our won country is bad. It gets confuing because part of WZO debate is also that they are secular and not just the Zionist issue. So even if we we hold of zionsim we may not hold of WZO. Nevertheless mizrachi is also frum jews and lets not degarde them. They have sources form our torah and they have mesora form their gedolim too
@v32itas
Our goal should be to spread free filters for all. If the open source or whatever does the job good. Of course TAG and some of the others will enagae ins care tactics. they will tell you, look at the boy in EY who cracked a filter code after the company dared them. We can’t use filters that boys can crack,. Therefore only filters that charge exorbitant prices are good. My answer to that is, if a boy or girl is holding by cracking and outmnarting filters , then they are smart enough to buy an unfiltered device at walmart for $20. or take something broken but still usable for free and download stuff at starbucks. It doesn’t take much to exploit the system. But thats not the intent of filters. The ppint of a filter is that it shouyldn’t be juts a clik where innocent people can slowly slip or quickly slip. It should be a lock. But there will always be accesible keys wone way or another and thats a separate issue. So yes free filters for all will accomplish more than having the best filter as so many more will have that lock at least.@Avram in MD
Again you make a very valid religous point. But at the end of the day, Internet is a necessity. A necessity meaning the entire wrold runs on it. And its a complete game changer in terms of quality of life. No mastter how dangerous internet is, its just so widely conveiennet and used in every asepct of your life that you can’t call it a luxury. its like elctricity and cars even though its may pose more danger. And one can’t say that its dangers require you abstain form using any internet device. That would be telling us to live like the Amish. Its not like the TV that doesn’t enhance your life. (I heard from hatzalah guy who was in a call and needed a patient to sign a permission slip for a life saving event on his i-pad. She said she was mekabel not to touch internet devices and can’t sign. It was a whole to do till the hatzlah memeber sorted out how to proceed. I mean thats just crazy but it illusrtaes the point)@Always_Ask_Questions
Yes thats my point. Internet is essential and a necessity today. Anyone who says its not is living in a bubble. Its so part and parcel of our life. So to then argue that its just a luxury and we don’t need to provide free free filters for a luxury is just so far from reality.@avram in MD
I am not well versed in these fancy English phrases and philosophical debate kind of terms that you use.I work at large corporations and am friends with I’d say 100+ non frum or goyim. The idea that have connections to internet is doable in 2025 is completely Amish. Take religion out of it and you’ll see the entire world runs on internet and its devices . From cars to appliances to every day living . This is just the basic reality. Who doesn’t shop online in 2025? I bh have a large family. Imagine if I didn’t have Amazon or target to shop online. Just buying Pesach between clothing and food etc which needs in person is a nightmare . If I had to be busy buying everything physically it would be impossible . Sure before internet that’s how they did it . But yes once upon a time they didn’t have cars either Then there is Waze for directions, swiping your phone at airports to get on planes and so on and so forth. Internet is so part and parcel of life in 2025, that’s it’s completely absurd to say it’s not a necessity like electricity. It’s only because you live in the TAG space that it’s sold like that . In the real world that’s so far from the Truth.
Now one can argue that it’s so dangerous that ok let’s be extra holy and live like the Amish. I think that’s for those that are above and beyond but not something you can expect the broad community to uphold by.
And to be clear that doesn’t mean no filters . But we need to start realising internet is a necessity but it’s costly to also require every family to pay for those fllters. TAG with its connections and expertise can and should cover its costs..
P.S. I am not sure what your whatever is but it’s clear that TAG donations are maser money and it’s a charity
@somejewiknow
thats a lie that no one refuted the 3 shavous. There are open answers such as that we don’t pasken like agadata and that it only applies when the goyim don’t cheper us. Now the Reba did dispute those answers, but those were the answers . Your question is only why no one refuted the reba refute.No one denies that the reba was a posek and Adam godel. But that doesn’t change the facts that you can’t use that as a your standard. Because it was both impossible to argue on the reba without getting bullied and because the question wasn’t relevant anymore.
Lastly just because the reba decided it’s a Halacha doesn’t mean everyone else held that . Most held it’s a hshkafa to which no answer is required . Mesorah is enough
@avrahm in MD
Frum Jews are not supposed to live like the Amish. Not having devices is living like Amish. To be clear cvs am I knocking those that chose to be above and beyond but you can’t say that it’s expected of every frum Jew. Devices are a necessity . You can say filters are expected . But to say not having devices is a norm is just not true. (Of course tag says otherwise but that’s a bubble ) Yes people need devices and yes when Tesla is 199 a month and everything else 399 where most will have internet soon anyhow it’s also a necessity.The growing movement to live without devices is tiny. That’s a myth that tag likes to sell. Furthermore, that doesn’t mean no other internet connections like iPads , teslas , smart kitchens etc . It’s strictly a smart phone discussion and it’s a tiny blip. It’s not growing.
Lastly of course it’s a full tzedaka like tomchai Shabbos . That’s very clear and yes of course maser is ok. Now you are trying to twist things .
One more fallacy with @somejew argument.
So we know that there are sefarim out there that answer the basic arguments such as sholsh shavous.
But then after most of those authors were nifter vyoel Moshe came, and refuted the prior authors answers on the 3 shavous . And so his flawed argument is why didn’t anyone come after the Reba and answer that up ? You can’t ask why it wasn’t addressed before the Reba came along because nobody was a prophet and they didn’t know the Reba arguments to address it. They knew the basic anti Zionist argument but not the Reba argument on their response. And so the question is why didn’t anyone refute the Reba after he wrote his Sefer? Well by then the question of Zionism was basically not relevant any more.Mr somejew is a good pretzel maker but the whole premise of the argument is flawed.
Of course it’s also flawed because you don’t need to write a sefer or defend hashkafa. If a tzadik says or displays open public support in a way that’s not subject for interpretation that’s a psak and mesora
@somejew
“Again, to be clear, the Shulcha Aruch (and the general derech hapsak) demands a posek explain his novel reasoning for the public and show the talmudic sources that he claims obligate the public to listen. ”This is dishonest . You made this up. No such requirement exists when its a Hashkafa question. Zionsims is hashkafa. Mesorah is enough and as long as the person is a tzadik thats enough. You refuse to respond because I won’t stand to you makin up the rules. Here are the rules, if a ztadik says hashkafa in public thats enough.
@somejew
We have mesora and psak from tzadkim period. That’s how yiddishkiet works. We don’t need to answer vyoel Moshe. It’s that simple. I won’t stand for your bullying or making up your own standards.Zionism is al pi mesora and both sides are Torah. Listen to what tzadkim say or said. (I trust R Moshe Wolfson zl before some bully on YWn) . We need not know why even though we do know!
@☕ DaasYochid ☕
every yid wants to be good. There are ways to reach them too but that means don’t charge. And yes it may mean to stop banning things like 24-6. By the way it’s a lifesaver for me. My children would be on YouTube like during Covid if not.
Free filters for all is the basic starting point@somejew
“With the exception of Aviner and Solevetchik, the other names are those who where nifter (I think) before Vayoel Moshe was published” So now it needs to be in a sefer that was written after Vyoel moshe was published? It can’t be someone that addressed the issue before him? As I told you that’s an unfair rule for many reasons. But Ill relist them
1) Satmar didn’t let anyone publish sefarim against them
2) By the time the rebas sefer was published, the questions about zionsim weren’t “lmasa” anymore. Its after the fact. Why would a posek be busy with the theory?
As I noted you make up and twist your own rules. I will note to many look how he refuses to debate me. You know why? because I don’t fall for bullies or people that make up rules to squeeze me. I don’t think anyone else should fall for this fraudseter either. Do not let him builly you and dnmever let him have the last word.ZIONISM IS AL PI TORAH. Yes its subject to shikul hdas.
@avram in MD
In 2025 living without internet devices is akin to being Amish. Is electricity a “necessity”? I see the Amish live fine without it. But this is so the normal and such an added enhancement that it’s currently a necessity.More over, at the end of the day TAG calls themselves a tzedaka. My rov collects for them and they even make a Shabbos TAG. The underlying understanding is that are out to get people to filter devices. What they say or write to cover themselves is Symantics.
Let me just say one more thing. My wife often says about tznuis asifas, that the women who come are already the more ehrlich tznuis women. It never attracts the huge growing crowd of people who really need to hear their message. It really does very little to actually enhance tznuis if you don’t attract that crowd. (Especially that many of the younger generation copy them) it’s a feel good thing but its impact is minimal. The same is with TAG. The ehrlich ones already know that anything that has internet connection needs a filter. You need to
go after the growing crowd who buys flat screens to watch Netflix because after all it’s not TV which is trief. I can list 25 more things, but you get the idea. That’s who you need to get. It’s a growing trend and not getting smaller. The way you get them is via free filters or you won’t win them.My key point still remains that I expect more from a charity and that it’s small minded not to do their full job to the end which should include free filters for all with a highly suggested donation of $20 a month .
@somejewiknow
Your premise is that we need find a Torah source that responds to the Torah arguments within vyoel Moshe. This is where you are dead wrong and a pathological liar. We don’t need a Torah source to say Zionism is al pi Torah and do not to respond to the holy Satmar Reba Zya. You made that up.Us ehrlich Jews believe in mesorah and tzadkim. If tzadkim proclaimed and clearly acted in a certain way in public that’s enough to say that it’s the Torah way . This is our strength. We don’t do bible debates. Your trick is to twist it in a pretzel, and we won’t do that . If a tzadik said it was a haschalta degula then that’s what it is.
I will post another 195 comments and will not stoop to have to answer vyoel Moshe.
Folks many tzadkim held that Zionism is the Torah way. But There are two sides and you need shikul hdas or mesorah. Don’t let bullies tell you orherwise .
(P.S. we did quote sefarim that address it as well but you disqualify them like eim habonim simcha. So don’t you mislead us in saying we didn’t quote anyone that refuted the Reba arguments. But it’s not the point anyhow)
Zionism is a Torah way
@Avram in MD
1) As a shita not everyone holds you need a filter. But in realty the schools and mosdos take a stromng stand and require you to follow TAG. (You can’t become a stoilner chusid just for your school)
2) Sure you can say outside of work its not a necssity. But thats not really true. You are living in a bubble. In 2025 almost everyone uses Internet sometime or another. Those that don’t have will call a more “modern familyu member” etc. Technically yes you don’t need to own a device. But cmon its not relastic. The entire world completely runs on internet. This bubble that you built that its not necissty is a bubble. Everything runs on interent today and its normal to not buy things on Amzaon. You won’t to be machmiror extra holy and say no thats a very respectable thing. Bascially, if you took religon out of it, there is no way you wouldn’t have devcies. You only don’t have it because you are relgious. That means its a necssity. A necissity doesn’t mena life or death. It means what’s the norm for today. (Just like a phone, electricity or car. After all we can live amish too)
3) Don’t tell me they aren’t a tzedka. They fundraise and make a Shabbos TAG> My rav encourages us to give tzedaka to them. I refuse to get stuck on technicalities of what it “says” on its website. Its a tzedka . You and I know that. Don’t drei akup.
4) Yes I would donate for free filters. And yes TAG should go fundraise for free filters. That’s exactly my point. Stop doing a half baked job when you are a tzedaka anyhow.. And I don’t believe they can’t fiundraise. There is so much money BH today. Our streets are paved with gold kmat. And klal yisroel gives alot to tzedaka.@1a2b3c
The problem with @somejewiknow is that he will tell you, that he isn’t deciding this rather the shulhcan aruch is. The bully has a twisted way of outsmrating you. He takes a random shulchan aruch up for interpretation blows it up and twists it the way he likes to. Then he sets rules around it that we must take as a given. And then he disqualifies anyone so that its in accordance with his rules. (Like who decided R Kook wasn’t a gadol even though R elyshav said he was and he was his shadchan + mesader kiddushin and rebbe)
And so just to preempt his response, He will deceive you and say its the shulchan aruch and not me. I bet if he asked a real adom gadol even a kanoi and anti Zionist (maybe r Malkiel Kotler shlita ) to look into his heart and tell us if mizrachi jews who are ehrlich and follow torah umitzvois are really kofrim and not part of our torah what do you think he will say? To be clear, I am sure he will say they are misguided and thatsa fine argument. I am also sure he will say the govt itself and secular zionism are wicked people. (I don’t necassirly feel so but I have a hunch he will) Thats fine too. but he wouldn’t say R Kook was bad or that mizrachi are kofrim.Bottom line is there are two sides to Zionism and shikul hadas or mesorah is needed. Don’t let anyone bully you into passuling one side . That person who does is a pathological liar
@ somejewiknow
Torah rebuttal come in many fashions such as public declarations by tzadkim and stories that occurred over and over again. The standard you get forth by Shulchan aruch is bogus. You twisted the shulchan aruch to fit your standards. But yes these tzadkim did go in good ways whether it’s r kook or rizhin.The LIAR or FRAUD is that you don’t “want “ to believe two sides exist so you make up your own rules.
@yankel berel
The reasons no sefarim were written to answer Satmar were the follwing
1)Its hashkafa not halcha
2) You only need to write sefarim if you are against zionsim because how else do you make your point. Its the only method of protest. If you are pro zionism all you have to do is acts of zionsim. by acting in certain ways or joining govts etc, you are in essence exclaining your shita. But what do you do when anti?
3) The reba zya wa s a holy jew but had alot of power and the chasdim were strong. Its very hard to debate him. if you did you were considered less pure. Just ask Klausenberg. (I know of someone who did write a sefer defending zionsim and his warehouse of sefarim got burned down). So do then say why didn’t people write sefarim after the bullying that went on, is in itself a bully tactic. To be clear the reba zya wa sa holy man and he meant lshem shomaim. Especially at a time when so many were going off both before and right after the war, a strong tough stance was needed. But in the spirt of fighting to be pure that was the outcome
4) By the time the reba zya wrote his sefer, Zionsim was a bit of a mute point. The medina was already defacto and the ideology of whether we should go along with the fight to establish a medina was a done deal. Furthermore, the new issue of the day was that it was secular. Till Began came along, not only was it secular which is bad enough but Ben Gurion YMS was out there to shmad every frum jew and was a Lehachis jew. So anyone charedi had to fight those things like gyuis bnos. It wasn’t a time to start defending the idea of zionsim since we needed to oppose the govt anyhow because of its shamd.@Always_Ask_Questions
Somejew made up that this is Halacha when it’s really haskafa. Repeated stories and paskim from gedolim done in front of 100s of people is mesora. Of course that’s good enough to clearly say Zionism has Torah foundations. But he makes up rules to squeeze into his agenda.@ Avram in MD
1) not everyone holds you need a filter. And not everyone holds you need such costly filters. Yet Tag became the defacto rav. So that’s right away different than hashgachas. The cost is per device is far more.
2) some of us need smartphones and tablets . And in 2025 is a basic necessity vs a luxury, even if you are moser nefesh not to
3) Leaving the first two points aside, the key point still remains that TAG is a tzedaka not a business. Its point is to help people get filters. Sure you can hairsplit and say it’s only here to assist and advise. But once you’re in that space and collecting money as a tzedaka for that cause, it’s small minded and misleading (as you admit) to stop midway. No other tzedaka is such cheapskates in 2025. I keep on deferring to bikkur Cholim who could just help facilitate easier hospital stays. But they do more . They give you free food and even free sleeping arrangements. They do the full job. The same is with any other tzedaka that I know. If you want people to really not use unfiltered internet do it to the fullest. Stop being so cheap. (I suspect there is also Shultz involved)Once again these are issues because filter pricing is “exorbitant” . if TAG gave it for free this wouldn’t be an issue. As a tzedka stop doing a half baked job
@somejewiknow
Nope its not shulchan aruch, its your own made up interpretation of it. of course you twist our torah to find a source. Furthermore. Zionism isn’t a halcha issue, its hashkafa. Everyone knows Mesora and psak is strong. Zionism has strong mesora. And R kook ZL was a huge gadol.@Always_Ask_Questions
“tag has almost free option (one tim $25)”
I think that depedns on the device and its really not nogai for most devices and needs. Its the option when its just a lock vs a filter.“the disclosure is in small print, which is not a good midah but this is nitpicking”
I beg to differ. i don’t think thats nitpicking. i think that talks to what i have said that they like to dance on both chasnas. They don’t want to sau too loud that it costs money.“tag does not suggest free tools like openvpn that might be a good help for many people”
Again to my point. When TAG doesn’t suggest something that becomes a psak that most yeshivas require you to abide by. Its not merelya suggestion. So they issue a psak that we must go and spend money but can’t help us pay for it.My main point still remains. its a half baked job. No other organzation does things like that. My Bikkur cholim analysis proves that. Look at how they go the full way
@Menachem Shmei
Cmon you know that TAG is the one who sets the Taknos of what most be filtered. And while i think they are extra machmir, they aren’t just the advisor. they are the one who sets the guidelines for the shcools and rabbonim.
Furthermore, again you bring up Bikkur cholim, imgaine for a second that Bikkur cholim only provided vending machines but not free food. Would you really call it a tzedka still? Like very nice they help “facilatate food” when people need it. But Cmon that would hardly be called a tzedaka. Your compasrion to “free houses” has no shaychis as that has nothing to do with the Cholah or being sick. And by the way, I shouldn’t say no shayhcis, in fact guess what? Bikkur cholim DOES GIVE FREE HOUSES. Yes while your loved one is in a hospital they offer a free place to sleep nearby.l There you go they do theiur job to the fuillest. They could have stopped at just food. Who am I to feel “entitled” to free sleeping space too?
To your point about “sense of entitlement” , if you are a private business like Techloq gezintahiet, I don’t say that they should give me free interent. But if you are a TZEDAKA who belongs to the tzibur , then yes we are “entitled” to demand that it does a full job vs half baked job. When you combine the fact that the costs often stem from their psak and that its a tzedaka, its a very fair ask. I love your bikkur cholim mashal because that prove smy point. They don’t stop at just vedning manchines, they don’t stop at just free food. They even give free houses. In other words when a loved one is in a hospital, you know Bikkur cholim will take care of all your lving needs around the hospital FREE OF CHARGE. Now thats called doing the job.,
@somejewiknow
The challenge to it is that you have a misconception as tow hat the rules are. of course if you make up your own rules then noone can challange it. But its fixed. Us torah jews know that mesorah and a psak not written in a sefer but said over to 100’s of people is just as strong if not stronger. And that not every issue is halcha . Some are Hashkafa.Again wshen you make your own rigid rules so that only your way is correct then yes you can’t dispute it but your rules are made up and are not al pi torah. Bottom line there is a strong side to say zionsim is the torah way. of cirse not secular zionsim which agudah opposed.
@Menachem Shmeil,
“I don’t think you understand how economics, especially Jewish economics, works. If something is free, no one will pay hundreds of dollars for it. ”
Thats false and here is why. If you combine requesting donations with the fact that you have a better fundrasing mechasim since you offer free things, its not going to cost millions. Ask Bokkur cholim if they think they’d raise as much as they raise if they would just provide vending machines vs free food. The sale spitch is the wow how much you give to yenim. Secondly, unlike Bikkur cholim, each time a perosn walks in and gets a filter the rep would ask can you kindly help us defray the cost by paying for it? I think most would say yes. And when its on a person to perosn basis vs just a sign people give.Maybe you go raise 1 million dollars to pay for people’s filters.
Thats a silly argument. I am not a fundraiser, don’t know how to, don’t have the connections nor the expertise in this like TAG. Furthermore, I am not the one going around to shuls yelling that you need filters. TAG is in that space already.TAG doesn’t claim to do that, so they don’t have to.
I know what they “claim” they do. But when your rav speaks during shabbos TAG or when there is a broad cmapiagn the image and vibe they give is that they get you filters .You keep on falling on the same arguments that I refuse to take as a given. The hairsplitting that they only do a “half job” even if they claim that’s all they do is both misleading and disinegnious. It also them being cheapsaktes and small minded. Don’t tell me I should fundraise when i am not in that space. Theyc ollect a few million anyhow whats the big deal to up it another 1-2M. Its not so expensive. At a time when middle class familes stuglle just to buy eggs why must they place more burdens on us?
P.S> another good mashol would be a shul membership. I don’t know too mnay shuls that really don’t give a seat to those that don’t pay. 90% of the ime people feel there is an achryus on their own and pay. the 10% who don’t most are going through hard times. But oy vey the shul nebach has to fundraise for them. it cost money. You understand that this is the way we work.
@HaKatan
You are clueless about MO. No the torah does not bend one Iota. R Herschel Shachter is more makpid on halcha than many others. (As a side note, when chasdim eat before shachris or daven after zman tefila they bend the torah too. Sure they have heliga sefarim to answer it up but thast bending halcha)
Now you want to know if they are as farfrumt as cahedrim ? No. but they don’t bend any halcha. When r moseh zl paskend cholv stam is permitted that’s not bending halcha, that is halcha. Name one peice of the torah that they bend.Yes I don;t deny that they offer good advice and tips too. Although I think their chinyukisha approach that everything is assur and of suspicion first hand (like their 24-6 ban) without facing reality that you need a kosher outlet is misguided. But that’s a side point. The main piint is, awareness if very nice but tachlis giving the free filter is what clinches a deal.
@Menachem Shmeil Firstly its not $100 a year. For a typicla faimly with multiple devices it can cost $400-$500 a year. Thats a alot of money. To you second point, I fail to see your point. Why should you be obligated to pay fpor the filter too> because you are svaing lives? You aren’t obligated to teach people importance either. But you understand there is a need to so people get protection. Sometimes yes its the free filkter that clinces the deal. If you are dedciated to this mitzva I’d think its incumbent to do it fully. this sense of entitlement that alll i ahve to do is educate and not more is just wrong. Once you start you have to do it to its fullest. And yes more people will get filters if its free. Even now, not everyone does it just because they see the need 100%. they do it bvecaus ethe rav or yeshiva forced them and then they cheat or cut corners on what they can get away with. And sometimes its not even intentionally, its just a mindset that when i have to pay I hesitate if I really need it. (Its like on the flip side, I don’t go to free chol hamoed trips but if its a $5 entry fee then I go because even though its “only $5” people don’t come a smuch when they are charged.) And so I beg to differ on your notion of taht they shouldn’t go the last leg.And I”ll repeat it again why not go that last leg? What does it cost already if most people will pay anyhow? And you’ll get more donations. In an environment where so much money is flowing. People raise $5M over shabbos, Gevrim make brissim that cost $500K like nothing , you really acn’t raise $1M for filters? Like why are we even debating if they are obligated or not? Why not just do it? why be so small minded?
@☕ DaasYochid ☕
I have never seen them advertise that they will pay for your filter. And it’s not self understood at all.
Thats my point its a gray area . They don’t advertise that straight out. But if you were to ask an outsiders (say someone from a more modern community where they don’t hold that one needs a filter yet heard of TAG somewhat) they would tell you oh TAG thats charedi mosad that offers free filters. I also clearly recall a time when it was free. So its not in the spirit if how they advertsie. Certainly i think most people what say if its a tzaedka vs a private business what else do they collect money for? You may think its going off the rails but I and others don’t think its far fetched to say that its borderline geniva not to offer free filters when thats kind of your mision. (Yes you’ll tell me your hairsplitting yeshvish torahs that no their mission is just to bring awareness, but stop that meshigas. Get real. They and mor importantl;y R matisyahiu and Skulner reba zl wanted people to have the most protection and blocks possiobe form the outside world. That means do whatever it takes to get there. you think R matisyhau meant to say lets build a mossad that just offers “awareness”. He wanted to save evry jew form this. And even if 99% pay for it, if 1% will go one day more without a filter because they are hesitatant he would want you to give it for free. The goal is to limit interment. Don’t be so daksdik)I don’t know if you work for TAG and are a nogai bdvor or not, but a mosad thats a tzaedka belongs to the klal. So yes, I as a memeber of the klal have a right to demand that they stop being so small minded. For a little more cost (yes mnost people would pay for it anyhow) and effort in a world where there the streets are paved with gold (in 2025) stop doing this half baked. ( I almost think its just a shtulz involved than emesdik that they can’t offer it)
Since our last conversation, Trump has forcefully attacked Yemen, has demoted Adam who was a trouble maker with Israel and continues to call out Hamas bluffs. Trump
may be the wicked king achashverosh that saves us.By the way I agree that he also tanked my 401k and I am not in denial that he may wreck the economy. But my brothers lives and the issue with Hamas by far supersedes this
@DaasYochid ☕
Why don’t I have a “right” to tell a tzedaka what their job is if they advertise as such? It’s not like I am telling bikkur Cholom to pay for my filter when they have no shaychis . This is within what they advertise. I understand that I their official advertisement probably doesn’t say that directly. But it’s self understood. Furthermore, most tzedaka offer a service and don’t tell others what’s allowed and what isn’t allowed. Tag holds itself as almost like your bies din making takonos and saying what’s permitted and what’s not . When someone says all these things needs filters and it’s not enough to have your wife lock your phone, then don’t also charge me and arm or a leg. And on top of that they make all the schools enforce it upon us without ever taking into account affordability.
So yes I have a right to demand they pay for it. And I think it’s borderline geniva that they don’t@ Menachem Shmei
My friend isn’t a tzedaka trying to convince me to get filters when I am not yet convinced. TAG is a tzedaka Their end goal is to make sure people aren’t nichshoel with the internet . What do you think citifield was about ? You think R matsyhu started it just for a limited goal of “awareness” or was it to make sure you end yo having filters?@HaKatan
Actually, “Modern Orthodoxy” today is where Conservative was 70 years ago.
Once again with your ignorant hot head false accusations.
The conservatives 70 years ago held one can drive to Shul Shabbos . Are you saying that’s what the mo holds ? The conservatives 85 years ago changed the Siddur with the Kaplan Siddur . Is that what the mo holds? You make things up and lie to conform with your hot head views just like your radical idea on Zionism. I knew an ehrlcha mo Jew a vp at a very prestigious. Company woke up 5 am to learn every day . When we davened in the office he would only join Mincha if he could not make it home on time or else the place to Daven is at Shul not work. When he was nifter from Covid they said every day he gave a din vcheshbon before he went to sleep. This was an MO Jew. How dare you call them conservative . Have you no
Shame at all?Trump increased the deficit by close to $4T before Covid.
During COVID another $3T+ where a good chunck was a waste that enriched people and fueled inlfation. It also paid too many people not to work. I get it as COVID but it was still overkill.Note Obama forced by Ryan did limited spending with sequester.
Re Medicad, I am recently applied. There is no reason that it takes two months to review. Why can’t AI look at my 2023 tax return and read the W2’s I submitted? Its a line item review. You still need a human eye to read that? A computer cant generate and read the vital income information? I use Chat GPT for work all the time. Every credit card used technology for it. Granted at times you need humans but for a simple case like me for example? And so the answer is spend more on Govt , a one time expense and then cut. be smart
@somejewiknow
We see your MO. Everything had in erorr , everything was a mistake or forgery unless its your sources. Oh and all those that held R Kook in high esteem in their letters, they were just bullied into it. And paskim said in public in front of 100’s of people over and over again like haschlata degulah those are merely “stories” up for interpretation.I think its time you look within and see what a pretzel you are twisting. You passul everyone on the other side and then you create your own rules as to whats valid so that you can say noone who was a gadol or tzadik held of zionsim. Its time to stop the bullying and passuling whoever you disagree with. Deep down you know that the rleigous zionists are not koefrim or apikrosim. Maybe they are misguided and thats fine. But to passul other jews or say that they have no source and are just heretics? Its clearly not true. Stop this bullying and mishagsim.
I think some of this is overkill and revising history a bit. Yes Rabbi J.B. did indeed battle to keep his corwd from becming conservative jews and offered a more open minded approach. But the truth is the most of the Litfsiha world pre war was pretty much like the modern otrhodox . Rabbi J.B> wasn’t offering anew approach. This was just how it was done in Lita. Many famous RY’s including R Hutner, R Ruderman and others went to college. R Arons daughter went to college. And many women from Lita didn’t cover their hair. There were a few very frum such as R Elchanon zl and Briska rav. But as whole most of Lita were not “yeshvish” and would look today more like the modern orthodox community. In the 1930’s & 40’s Torah vodaath wasn’t so different then Yitzchok Elchnaon. Thy even contemplated copying Rabbi DR Revel and creating a college to. They always allowed college and until the 1980’s allowed mixed non jewish college too. So Rabbi J.B. was just contuning the litfsha approach.
@DaasYochid ☕
#vending machines and not banding machines. I am not sure why auto correct does those silly things@Menachem Shmei
i beg to differ. Firstly people especially those hesitant if the rav or school pushes they’d go if it’s free. The lines when things are free are always larger.Secondly even if people aren’t machsiv it I don’t think
It’s true that the filter will do very little. Once your phone is filtered you aren’t just buying a second phone. You’ll just keep that phone . A filter isn’t just like a separate item . It’s attached to your device . Once it’s there you’ll use it.Lastly I Guarantee if you ask an outsider what tag does they will say it provides filters . No it’s not a chutzpah to ask a mosod to do what it’s assumed it does. And years ago it did pay for filters. It’s only when they advanced. Like I noted this is hair splitting. A mosid should fully see through to its goal or it’s not a tzedaka
@DaasYochid ☕
My analogy to bikkur Cholom and the way you explain it is exactly my point. Bikkur chilom could just place banding machines that charge so that people have access to food when they are vulnerable. That’s a cheeseed too. But they understand that part of the mitzva is to just give when people are vulnerable. The same is in ruchnyas . When people are vulnerable and you are trying to help with filters just give. Furthermore many bikkut choloms ask for donations in the hospital . And I gladly swipe my card.Re Tag isn’t about funding fiiltets rather it’s access. Again you are hair splitting double fold. Firstly, its goal is that you have a filter. Part of that is to fund it. Again it’s like saying bikkur Cholom isn’t about funding the food it’s about helping you access kosher food. It’s silly and absurd to split the two. And there is plenty of money for both.
Re your last point, that’s just again a moot point. I don’t have the know how or the expertise nor connections to be able to open or take on such a thing. They have the whole system set up already. It would also result in lots of duplicacy and waste of Money.
To sum it uo, Tag is in that space already. It’s hairsplitting to say they only help with accessing but don’t give the filter. It’s Klien kepatick and I think a cop out plus probably some Shultz involved too
☕ DaasYochid ☕
My analogy to bikkur Cholom and the way you explain it is exactly my point. Bikkur chilom could just place banding machines that charge so that people have access to food when they are vulnerable. That’s a cheeseed too. But they understand that part of the mitzva is to just give when people are vulnerable. The same is in ruchnyas . When people are vulnerable and you are trying to help with filters just give. Furthermore many bikkut choloms ask for donations in the hospital . And I gladly swipe my card.Re Tag isn’t about funding fiiltets rather it’s access. Again you are hair splitting double fold. Firstly, its goal is that you have a filter. Part of that is to fund it. Again it’s like saying bikkur Cholom isn’t about funding the food it’s about helping you access kosher food. It’s silly and absurd to split the two. And there is plenty of money for both.
Re your last point, that’s just again a moot point. I don’t have the know how or the expertise nor connections to be able to open or take on such a thing. They have the whole system set up already. It would also result in lots of duplicacy and waste of Money.
To sum it uo, Tag is in that space already. It’s hairsplitting to say they only help with accessing but don’t give the filter. It’s Klien kepatick and I think a cop out plus probably some Shultz involved too
@somejewiknow
“I would rather speak about psak and torah instead of, lhavdil, zionism and kook”Rizhyin is Pask and torah not stories. You just lie and dri akup.
HaKatan
Furthermore I still stick to what I said that most gedolim were against Zionism because of secularism and not because of the ideology@HaKatan
Most charedim held that Zionism is wrong and not that it’s Hersey. Furthermore non Charedim are holy too .
Your story with Briska rav sounds made up and it’s one story with one person . To say that all the big gedolim who addressed R kook were are all scared ? That’s just baloney beyond. Even more laughable is that R elashyuv proclaimed publicly many times what a goan R Kook was. Most gedolim almost all held R kook was a tzadik even if they disagree with Zionism . You won’t admit that because that proves in essence that Zionism isn’t heresy it’s just misguided according to many.@Yserbius123
it’s not $10 for a family who owns 8 or 9 devices at times.
And by the way a pc is $150 . Amex offers a free dell laptop just fyi. But that’s a side point.
And if you aren’t on top of things everytime you get a new device you need to cancel the old one or you’ll be charged. It’s also more like $15-$20 a month per device vs $13.
Lastly, it’s not just the cost it’s the idea that people are less pron to do something if you charge them. It’s the way humans are. And not everyone is convinced that a filter is an obligation . It’s looked at as a nice thing.Let me ask you if it’s really not so much money why can’t TAG pay for it . They run a multi million dollar organization and they can’t pay $10 a month? It’s so much money ? As I noted I bet bikur Cholom gives out more meals a day then TAG does filters. And food cost more than $10 a month? So if b cholim puts together the money why can’t TAG?
@somejewiknow
Nope you made that up . Many holy Jews including the ryzina Reba’s has a stance that Zionism is the Torah way.To repeat, no this is not via a story or inferring. They proclaimed it like a psak not open for interpretation in public. It was said over and over again in public.
It’s not a story . It’s Mesorah and psak.