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  • in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623960
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    Rso

    “Please supply a source. And if you manage to do that please explain how you can then say that just as Rashbi was an exception so is someone else who I choose.

    That’s like saying that since Chazal explained that cooking on Shabbos is forbidden I extend that and say that cooling things down is also forbidden.”

    I think you’re misunderstanding the idea especially by the example you cite. But al rishon rishon: regarding Rashbi it is written that he was so beyond his colleagues that they couldn’t understand the extent of his greatness, they couldn’t even relate to him at all. Classical source. Probably gemara. Don’t remember offhand sorry. Maybe someone else would.

    Here’s one i do know offhand: Regarding the Rambam it is written “MiMoshe ad Moshe lo kam kMoshe”. Hey. How can you say that if yeridas hadoros is a halacha or an ironclad rule?

    Well it obviously isn’t. It’s not ideal and not something we strive to do like halacha (as in your example of hilchos shabbos). Rather it is a statement of observation of fact.

    Fact: the term Gaon today and Gaon in the Gra / Alter Rebbe’s times mean completely different things due to yeridas hadoros.

    But no one told each generation to lower their standard of learning and greatness. We strive to be the best we can. Just in an overall generational sense, each generation is lower.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623944
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    Syag

    “it would do no such thing. And if you were honest with yourself you would recall that the question that you prefer not to answer was to verify why it is *permissible* for YOU to hold that way. So nothing less than the explainations would be an appropriate answer.”

    There is nothing not *permissible* in holding of the Rebbe to be the Nossi once I’ve shown he is acknowledged as a Gadol Byisrael. Lol. However if you’re truly interested in the topic please see the Sefer Bsod Siach (sorry I think I wrote the wrong title in a previous post – this is the correct one), which documents what other Gedoilim from many kreizin had to say about the Rebbe.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623905
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    “Converting” 2 (final):

    Now I just want to reemphasize what I mean and what I don’t mean with the above post.

    Am Yisrael is one body and we need every limb or kreiz to be whole just as you need every limb for the entire body to be complete. Back in the day every shevet had their own nusach in davening. Today we need the balance of the frum zionists and the anti zionists. The Kollel learners and the shluchim. Litvaks and chassidim. Askenazim and sefardim. Am Yisrael is complete precisely with diversity and that is its beauty – shivim panim la Torah, and my previous post in no way negates that.

    In fact within Chabad you have this diversity represented as well – you have sefardi Chabad women who wear tichels (and as long as they completely cover all hair, everyone applauds them for it. That’s their shitta and chumra.) You have Chabad sefardim who eat rice on pesach, and the askenazim who don’t. You have chassidim who have joined from other kreizin who keep their levush and long peyos with the Rebbe’s explicit encouragement. Etc.

    So here’s what it boils down to: if it’s a specific horaah from the Rebbe that can only add and not contradict other minhagim or chumros, we can and do encourage it. Like saying chitas (which there are many stories of people who’ve had yeshuos from), joining the learning Rambam campaign (so all of klal Yisrael, men women and children, can unite through learning whichever track best suits them on the same Torah topic), the 12 pesukim etc.

    If it’s something that can take away from other minhagim or chumros, even if by us it is a Chumra (like sheitel, no rice on pesach, peyos length etc.) then we say go by your minhagim and don’t drop them just because lubavitch does different.

    To conclude: when moshiach comes, and techias hameisim happens, there will be the Avos, Moshe Rabbeinu himself and all the Tannaim, Amoraim and tzaddikim from all the generations. They will not be held in any less regard just because well unite under moshiach. They will still teach Torah and give guidance etc. Just they themselves will learn from moshiach because he will be the greatest of all. May it happen asap. Amen.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623896
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    Regarding coverting post 1:

    So does that mean we want everyone to become lubavitchers?

    As sechel said, no. Or if you want the real truth, yes but no. There’s levels of the ideals of the Rebbes vision:

    Step one: getting everyone to do Torah and mitzvos

    Step two: everyone should learn Chassidus

    And step 3: the ultimate (which sechel didn’t address) everyone, while remaining in their own kreiz, with their own unique minhagim and chumros etc, should unite under the Rebbe/ the Rebbe’s horaos and if this would happen for sure moshiach would be here, no doubt about it.

    We saw this in the midbar: every shevet had their own Nassi of the shevet, and their own unique way of serving Hashem, and yet they were united under Moshe Rabbeinu.

    Later on, in eretz Yisrael, they united under one shofet and later on, one king. And so we will by moshiachs times as well.

    But this is not coverting – like steps one and two- its a choice that everyone makes for themselves without any coercion. Ain melech blo am. As has been the case with Torah leaders throughout history.

    Also, another thing, each step has merit on its own. Shluchim feel fortunate that a yid does mitzvos even if he never becomes frum. Because the mitzvah itself has value. And there are many who stay that way. There are also many who go the full length bh to the next level and become frum. Yidden who are frum can take their Yiddishkeit to the next level by learning Chassidus. Stage three is something that we don’t expect, are not looking to do – if someone wants to take that upon themselves, then we respect them for it.

    And in many ways the frum world has moved in this direction with regards to how they view fellow Jews who aren’t/ are less frum etc. But the point is its something that has to come from within and from a feeling of conviction that this is the right thing to do.

    Whereas lhavdil elef havdolos, the non Jewish missionary way (I took a Jews from Judaism class once) is to a) take things out of context or b) mistranslate. Ie trickery and falsehoods. And for sure push things using coercion (whether physical as in past generations or fear mongering, pressure, withdrawal of services etc)

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623721
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    Syag his way of writing and expressions (I mean the Yiddish etc not the content) are hard to fake…. That’s what makes us think he’s lubavitcher

    But i don’t agree with his ways at all. Am I a proud chossid? Certainly. But to me being a chossid means working on myself and trying to emulate the Rebbe’s ways, not using admiration for the Rebbe as a way to bash others.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623713
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    * because they didn’t like lubavitch

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623689
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    OK I still have a big question to answer which I will but I just want to address tt:

    Listen, what made the Rebbe so great? As you said mishichmoi ulmaala etc? It was his ahavas yisrael for every yid no matter who and what level they were.

    Regarding the Brocha in yavne I find that ridiculous as I’m sure you know the Frierdiker Rebbe said there are no true apikorsim today, and anyhow it makes no sense because questioning the Rebbe if you’re not his chossid does not an apikoros make.

    Additionally, please provide me even one place where the Rebbe spoke in such a derogatory tone as you do. I just don’t get it. The whole Rebbe’s greatness was that he didn’t care for his kovod and even took his name off things that he felt would benefit people who don’t like lubavitch, so they wouldn’t lose out from not sending to the program/school etc because they werent lubavitch.

    You with your lack of ahavas yisrael and utter derision just sound completely foolish and defeat the whole reason of why the Rebbe is great to begin with. You understand?

    Even when the Rebbe spoke about Rav Shach, he never attacked him personally, he attacked things he said that the Rebbe felt were really wrong and problematic.

    And youre upset I call him Rav Shach? Guess what? If he was Joe Shmoe he wouldn’t warrant a mention of any type at the Rebbe’s farbrengen. It was precisely because he was a Torah leader that the Rebbe cared to strongly disagree with his words.

    As for the other individual you mention, the Rebbe refused to talk about him. And you should do likewise.

    Lastly ever hear of the Rebbe’s request of oirois dtohu bkeilim dtikkun?? You ain’t doing no one no favor with the way you speak.

    As I said the hayom yom sums it up perfectly: whats the point of all your chassidishe pride if the ikkar is missing – ahavas yisrael??

    You may be older than me but your behaviour does not represent what I would expect from the Rebbe’s chossid – I would expect you to do better than me if you are older.

    Ever heard of the term chossid shoite? Youre such a proud chossid but it would do to emulate the Rebbe’s behaviour instead of just admiring him.

    Forgive me for being harsh – but I have no other way to reach you. We can’t farbreng behind closed doors and your posts don’t allow me to ignore you, a fellow chossid, any longer.

    OK everyone please excuse our closet talk

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623385
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    Laskern agreed.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623380
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    Neville you misunderstood me. My parents aren’t/ weren’t litvaks. This was a story I heard from a friend

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623163
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    Regarding The Rebbe just managing to fool people cvs with his charismatic persona:

    I think the biggest proof this isn’t the case is the fact that lubavitch is growing today and not shrinking. That 2/3 of the shluchim today have gone out AFTER gimmel tammuz. There is definitely no charisma to draw them in today, and yes the older generation pine for the time they will get to see the Rebbe again. For me and my generation, we don’t even know the extent of what we’re missing as we’ve never seen the Rebbe… I have heard eltere Lubavitcher chassidim say the young chassidim today are much stronger chassidim than they ever were, because we actually have to learn and act on what the Rebbe wants of us, and not merely fool ourselves to think we’re chassidim because we run to Sunday dollars and Farbrengens and bask in the Rebbe’s aura without doing actual avoda.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623172
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    Finally to address the concerns of syag, samthenylic and others I will begin by giving rso a long overdue compliment and then fully answering the question, but I will wait to see if my other posts are approved first as I think all are necessary to put together the puzzle. This may mean I may need to wait till tomorrow to get to answering, but I WILL answer it iyh.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623159
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    This woman who is now a shlucha herself, was born to baalei teshuva parents who became frum through Chabad right around gimmel tammuz. They were weirded out by all the Meshichism they saw and so did not become lubavitch but litvish.

    She grew up and found herself conflicted at the end of seminary. She knew she needed to sort herself out before getting married but she found it quite challenging:

    She heard some gedolim call for more outreach and others call for more insularity. As both approaches stemmed from various Gedolim who were equally great, she wasn’t sure what was the path to take for herself.

    She found the Rebbes shittos really resonated with her as she saw the Rebbe’s path combine the values of both extremes in many cases. However she felt torn.

    How could she become lubavitch if they have wacko meshichistim? If a big percentage of them harbor beliefs that are emuna based but lack any source in Torah, that is very off and she cannot follow such a derech!

    So she looked into it and found the sources in Torah, with a Rabbis help that showed the meshichistim have valid sources in Torah. Now she felt confident in her decision to become lubavitch as even if others don’t follow our path, once there is a source in Torah, it is as legitimate as any other path of Yiddishkeit out there. Once she became lubavitch, she learned much more and deepened her own convictions.

    She still finds it hard today to tell people from other kreizin she is lubavitch, because coming from that world, she knows they think she’s crazy.

    So when asked on the topic she’ll tell them what she found such as “Abarbanel says that the preferred option is for moshiach to come from the dead. I don’t want to start up with the Abarbanel, do you?”

    And she feels ahavas yisrael for them and hopes someday they’ll look into it as she did and then see its not so crazy after all.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623139
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    Brainwashed post 1:
    Regarding being “brainwashed” as has been brought up many times in this thread:

    Firstly I find this term quite out of its true meaning because as lubavitchers, we are the most exposed to other yidden from all walks of life and the least locked away from looking into other drachim if we should so desire. We don’t face communal/ familial ostracism etc.

    So yall just using brainwashed as a derogatory term for educated, in which case you are all equally “brainwashed” as we are all affected by our education.

    But I want to share a story with you I heard several days ago from someone who became lubavitch and was not born into it so she cannot be called “brainwashed” in any way and I found her story to really help me understand people here better:

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623132
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    Rso with regards to other exceptions to the rule of yeridas hadoros I would point you to Rashbi among others.

    Iitft
    “As CS willing to admit Others from previous generations May have exceeded the Rebbe Proves
    she’s already more moderate and and Mild than Avg”

    Na I just have something I learned that I can back myself on but I don’t pride myself on being pc and apologising if it isn’t… like I said no guarantees either way as I don’t see neshamos.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623130
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    Rso

    “It’s not lashon hara if there is a clear to’eles, and the to’eles I’m aiming for is twofold. First, to show you and your colleagues that you have what to fix up urgently before preaching. Second, to warn others of the situation so that they shouldn’t be blindly caught up by your nice friendly explanations of how fantastic lubavich is. Your chassidus’s lack of tznius is a great danger to everybody who is involved with them, and IMHO it is even more dangerous than a lot of the other stuff I have been protesting..”

    I must say rso that you are very tempting and maybe right in a private conversation but I do feel the internet warrants am additional measure of concern with the various issurim. This is also ironic. You (ok DY) finally got me to apologise on something unequivocally and now you want me to retract it.

    Regardless I will tell you that I agree with you on this point , and will tell everyone else as well: you may be risking your daughter’s tznius by sending her to lubavitch UNLESS you are a full fledged lubavitcher. I wouldn’t advise you to send your kids to our schools as any chinuch expert will tell you, it’s important that the school and home share the same hashkafa and outlook for best results. The reverse is true as well. I know lubavitchers (not shluchim) who have sent their daughters to BY and chassidishe schools so they would come
    out with better tznius results and the results unfortunately we’re disastrous. One of those same families sent their following daughters to lubavitch schools and they ended up with much better results.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623128
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    Rso:
    “CS, as far as I recall (don’t have sefarim handy) the same Rashi that says that the father has to teach his son Torah, and that if he doesn’t it is as if he buries him (c”v) also says that the father should speak to him in Lashon Kodesh.

    Just pointing it out and wondering why that wasn’t stressed by your rebbe. Btw not attacking, just wondering why the lack of consistency..”

    I looked it up and I need to correct myself it doesn’t seem to be a Rashi but another mefaresh and it does mention speaking in lashon hakodesh.

    Secondly that source is not one the Rebbe brought but one I brought as I remember learning it in seventh grade and being impressed by the importance of teaching young children Torah as soon as they can speak.

    Thirdly regarding the why the inconsistency, there are many many things that can be done based on Torah and it is up to the Tzaddikim and also Torah leaders of each
    generation to see what things to stress more as is needed for the generation.

    Fourthly, maybe it is not an inconsistency after all because by saying pesukim with children, you are also speaking with them in lashon hakodesh as the pesukim are in lashon hakodesh.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623125
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    Non political and others post 3:

    I’m not interested in bringing those stories to prove other tzaddikim deferring to the Rebbe as Nossi etc because that would defeat my purpose and I want to stress this point clearly:

    My point was to explain why I hold of my Rebbe as I do. My point is not to force you unwillingly, by intellectual gun point type evidence, to see my Rebbe as the Moshe Rabbeinu of the same way as I do, because that is not the way of Torah.

    The way of Torah has always been that each person chooses which Torah leader and approach resonates best with them, and they choose that leader to be the one to guide them in their Avodas Hashem. One may even disobey his parents wishes on where he should learn because this is such a strong value.

    In fact that’s precisely how we’ve determined who’s
    who in the Torah world, who’s a tzadik etc throughout all the generations: generally by two categories:

    1) how many Torah yidden accept their teachings and follow them long term (the Rambam was originally highly controversial but is now universally accepted and acclaimed as a tzadik)

    2) other tzaddikim who can see soul levels testifying about the status of said individual.

    But it is done because it resonates with the neshama not because they’ve been fear mongered into it or lost a debat. And for that reason alone it is a good thing that most of us don’t have access to see the heavenly realms and determine who’s who in fact.

    In fact this is the way Hashem has set up how we accept Him:
    Do we have evidence He exists? Yes and no. It is based on emuna but there are many logical proofs. However we are spiritually blinded to the point that we can’t point to a leaf and show the koach of Hashem animating it every second – we can’t prove it in a gun to your head you have no choice about it kind of way. Because Hashem wants us to come to serve Him out of conviction and love, not purely out of force and fear.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623113
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    Np post 2:

    “The 2nd category of evidence would in fact be very relevant to accepting your proposition if it in fact existed. But it doesn’t.”

    It does- and some may have been posted on the other thread- but at this point I am not interested in bringing them as I will explain.

    “What does exist is that numerous Gedolim who were contemporaries of the Lubavitcher Rebbe did hold him in very high esteem and regarded him as a Gadol B’Yisroel. This is a matter of record and is undisputable. You have cited many examples of this in previous threads. So, if your proposition would have been “The Lubavitcher Rebbe was a Gadol B’Yisroel” I would agree that the evidence you cited in previous threads is relevant to accepting THAT proposition. But that is not what you are proposing.”

    Ironically that’s what I was meaning to propose, I just used a more lubavitch term which truly means more what
    you say, but either way I’m not currently interested in posting those stories again and I’ll tell you why.

    Btw I have to hand it to you. You do a really fine job with bringing out your points of dissent in a respectful way, better than I do. And it’s your posts that I take most seriously as soon they are so even keeled and to the point.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1623111
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    Np (post 1):
    “Step 1 – None of those abilities are unique to a Tzadik (meaning that even non-tzadikim can have them)
    Step 2 – Therefore having these abilities does not establish one who possesses them as a Tzadik.”

    I am not sure about this – I have seen inside shaar hayichud vihoemuna where the Alter Rebbe states that Hashem increases emuna in this world by revealing His abilities through the tzadikim and the miracles they do.

    This would imply that only tzaddikim do miracles but I’m open to hearing other sources that show otherwise, if you have. In a similar vein, tzadik gozer vHKBH mekayem etc.

    Yes every Jew has the ability to rise above nature by adhering to Torah and mitzvos, but to promise and come through on miracles, and to decree them with the certainty that Hashem will fulfill seems to be something unique to tzaddikim (unless you have a source showing otherwise.)

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1622922
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    Lol rso I couldn’t figure out who oisoi hoish is myself till you put it that way.

    Sechel good to see you here.

    Tomimtihye assuming you’re for real, do you think the Rebbe would want you to speak that way?!? You think ahavas yisrael is only for not yet frum Yidden?!? Isn’t the whole point of Torah diracheha darchei noam?! To quote hayom yom whats the point of all of your chassidishkeit if the ikkar is missing, ahavas yisrael? I think you have allot to think about. To be dan lchaf zechus I’ll attribute your fiery post to the passion of youth. And I am not bending over backwards at all. Do you see me apologising for being a lubavitcher? Anyhow I should welcome burntface and say happy to see you although really I’m sad to see you if that makes sense. I really feel bad for what you must’ve for through and I’m happy you found your derech.

    Anyhow this was just a short post but I know I am currently holding by nps post which I will get to tomorrow iyh

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1622094
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    Uncle ben, they may not be. But I was saying from a hashkafic point of view, i dont see it to be seen as a problem in my neighbourhood which is litvish and modern chassidish . Regardless even if it’s not the same community, I don’t see how teaching children pesukim by heart is a problem.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1622041
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    But just a quick note syag, that is done in EY where its a different culture and bochurim giving kids candy is not seen with the child safety alarm culture in other countries. Afaik this way of doing it is not in America. As far as your other question, I will get to that.

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1622038
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    Sure I’ll get to that syag

    in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1622010
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    Hi mammele welcome.

    “Sorry but there is no official Chasidic standard of wearing all black or shades thereof for women I’m aware of in the US.”

    Yes the chassidishe community has become closer to the BY look lately it seems. I went to a wedding in willi 6
    years ago, and every single lady was wearing black or navy. More recently I went and there were very nice Aidel colours. That being said, the two communities I was thinking of are both outside the US where I have heard the official standard of one is as described, and another in EY where the women don’t wear makeup.

    “And as was mentioned before, the Rebbe did push candle lighting for girls that were not Lubavitch. So I ask, if the world needed more kedusha, which IIRC was the reason given for this, why not increase tznius? Which is what most of the Jewish world has tried, but even they are unfortunately not as successful as they should be. Levels of tznius are lower almost everywhere than just a generation ago. (The only extremes I see are in Lev Tahor…). So I really don’t see which circles you are referring to.”

    The Rebbe addressed tznius in many sichos addressed to everyone and especially in sichos/ letters / yichudusin addressed to women/ principals of girl schools etc. As rso noted, our Rabbanim aren’t happy that tznius levels have fallen due to the constant onslaught in society today, and are working hard to take educational measures to help. There are classes on tznius in elementary school, tznius clubs in some high schools, others also have classes, tznius motivational campaigns especially in the summer etc.

    The Rebbe’s shitta was too require the highest standards as chassidim. The Rebbes standard is to start dressing fully tznius by three-years old and a day. I do this with my daughter and know many who do. This isn’t the norm even in the chassidishe world, and a lubavitcher friend of mine who asked a store owner in boro park how come they didn’t carry long sleeved shirts and knee covering skirts for three year olds was told “this is a boro park store, not a lubavitch store.”

    Of course I’m sure there are others who do so as well but the Rebbe did expect a high standard.

    As to why the Rebbe chose the BY look over the chassidish look: the Rebbe felt that ultimate tznius combines and expresses both dignity and beauty for a Jewish woman. All our Imahos were known both for their modesty and beauty. This is important as modesty – ok, we all learn about the kedusha it brings etc especially today when we are combatting the opposite trend, we are much more educated in this respect than in previous generations.

    But beauty is also important both because it reflects who the woman is spiritually and her task to bring beauty to the home and Yiddishkeit etc, and also practically, that her husband should find her attractive which is very important as well.

    The Rebbe felt that the BY look combined these two aspects best today, and that’s why he asked us to dress like BY. Although lev tahor to quote your example dresses very modestly, it is not considered tznius and even called the opposite of tznius because their odd look actually draws attention which is counter tznius. And the Torah way has been bnos Yisrael yafos hein from the imahos on. Dressing in garbage bags also doesn’t convey the dignity, royalty and honour that true tznius dress does and brings.

    “What I find interesting in Crown Heights is to see groups of girls with vastly different ways of dress grouped together. While it’s nice to see everyone being accepted, there’s no way this doesn’t adversely affect the “frummer” ones. I realize this may be part and parcel of the Chabad shitta in kiruv, but I don’t know how relatively young girls can withstand these nisyonos.”

    The Rebbe actually discusses in a sicha on this week’s parsha how Reuven knew not to take some of the wheat lying around during harvest season, and only pick hefker dudaim, even though all the rest of the neighbourhood kids did: when a child sees that his home is
    different than others (as Yaakov avinus was), even other frum but more wordly homes – for example other mothers aren’t so careful with their tznius, but his mother is extremely careful with hers, other fathers play tricks with their business, but his father is a yoshar and ehrliche yid (the Rebbe’s examples), then the child knows that he is different even if his friends do differently. To the point that if another child or group of children display behaviour not appropriate for his homes standards, he will know these aren’t appropriate friends for him and will go choose others…

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    Coffee addict, laskern

    “And Avraham didn’t have nisyonos? So that made h a beinoni (according to your definition)

    Is there someone according to your definition of צדיק and if so name one because everyone has נסיונות even משה רבינו”

    Coffee addict im glad you clarified your question because I see what I wrote has been misunderstood. Allow me to explain (laskern this answers your question as well.)

    Everyone has challenges tzaddikim included. Everyone needs to better themselves, tzaddikim included. In fact, if a tzadik doesn’t work on himself, he can fall and even become a rasha as has happened in history with yochanan kohen gadol.

    So what’s the difference between rasha beinoni tzadik (according to Tanyas definition)? What the struggle is about.

    Each category is immense and can include many madreigos in itself.

    Rasha vra lo- does aveiros and feels no remorse. (Category of rasha which we don’t fall into bh as koshere yidden.)

    Rasha vtov lo struggles with his yetzer hara and falls. But he regrets it. Now this is a very broad category of people. Because it includes on the bottom people that do multiple aveiros bmaase every day, and feel bad once in awhile, to the person who sins in his thoughts once a year say, and does teshuva over it, but his teshuva doesn’t prevent him from falling again.

    Most yidden fit into this category but the Alter Rebbe advises us to think of ourselves as want to be beinonim, and strive to live as a beinoni moment but moment, to avoid depression or not taking aveiros seriously.

    Beinoni: is on the level where even though he struggles with his yetzer hara on aveira matters, but he doesn’t give in and he knows he won’t give in (like a super hot shabbos but you know you won’t turn on the air conditioning.)

    All of us can strive to live as a minute by minute beinoni taking each minute and trying to fulfill Hashem’s ratzon theno, even if we may not be holding by the mindset of a beinoni which doesn’t allow him to give into the bad.

    Finally, there is the tzadik.

    Tzadik: doesn’t struggle with actual aveira matters but

    Tzadik vra lo: struggles with how much he tolerates evil – as the toleration shows that there is room for it. The more he increases his love of Hashem, the less he tolerates evil. Until he can reach the pinnacle where he completely evicts his personal yetzer to do evil, has ultimate ahavas Hashem, and zero tolerance for evil. As Dovid hamelech was able to conclude – tachlis sina sineisim.

    Now even tzaddikim need to grow. And they are tested as well. But their tests are centered around how much in line they are with ratzon Hashem, and in general their avoda revolves around refining their feelings. Whereas the lower levels revolve around refining practical expressions of the bad within: controlling our thought speech and action. Not the thought that firsts pops into your head, but the decision whether to keep thinking about it.

    So we all have the power to control our thought speech and action. Transforming the feelings behind them is not for most of us and the status of tzadik is only for Hashem to choose who gets to have that potential for their avoda, which isn’t the majority.

    (Although there are some aspects of tzadik that we are promised to reach if we truly do all within our power.)

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    Rso
    “More likely!!! What happened to your quote of “im harishonim…”? Are there exceptions? It seems as if you think there may be. If that’s the case you shouldn’t have quoted it as an inviolable rule”

    OK I actually did write up a post explaining that once in awhile the may be an individual who is unlike the rest of the generation although the general status of each generation and the standard required to be considered a Torah leader in general declines. But my Internet crashed just as I pressed submit and wasn’t sure if it had gone through. But yeah you’re right.

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    Rso
    Regarding what you see as problems in lubavitch that result from the Rebbes shittos, the only way to properly discuss that is to analyse the extent of the problems in our community and yours and see which is worse. Since as Daas yochid pointed out that is not ok as it infringes on issurim, I have retracted that mode of addressing it and I would advise you and DY as well to abide by the same halacha I am being expected to abide by.

    What we can do is discuss the various shittos and standards themselves and I can do that if you wish, after I finish this sugya clarifying the answers to the questions on why we view the Rebbe as we do.

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    Syag:
    Regarding the pesukim: rashi tells us that as soon as a child starts to speak, his father should teach him words of Torah and if not, it’s as if he buried him.

    The Rebbe, building on that concept and on chinuch, chose 12 pesukim from Torah, 6 from Torah shebichsav and 6 from Today shebaal peh to teach to say with Jewish children until they know them by heart. The Rebbe chose these 12 specifically because each of them expresses a core value of Yiddishkeit and the Rebbe wanted each child to know it for themselves, and to have basic ideas to give over to other children or adults who ask them what being Jewish is all about.

    I live in a frum community where many children come home from local nurseries singing or reciting non Jewish silly nursery rhymes. I don’t hear a big uproar in the frum world about this but it bothers me very much to the point that I have exerted much effort to send my little girl to the lubavitch nursery which is much further because I want her coming home talking about and singing purely Jewish and holy things. I don’t see how it is offensive to say pesukim with children in the same community where it is acceptable to say non Jewish nursery rhymes and songs.

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    Hey everyone I really like all the follow up posts. They’re expressing different views, even strongly dissenting views but in a respectfully worded manner. This makes my night. I’ll respond more tomorrow iyh, to you all in order hopefully (ok with one exception lol but you know already…) anyhow with the situation as it is in eretz Yisrael, can we do something special together? I think this coffee room is very special because we literally have acheinu beis Yisrael in many countries represented on it (do we have sefardim though?) so can we stop with the discussion for a minute and maybe each of us take a yom tehillim divided according to the month for eretz Yisrael? Imagine how powerful that tehillim will be!! I’ll take yom aleph. Anyone game? Or have another idea? Its even on topic – it’ll for sure bring moshiach faster.

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    I really do apologise for bringing that in.

    I don’t think wearing coloured clothing is a lower standard of tznius. I think it’s just a safeguard implemented by these communities so they don’t have to be left to discern aidel shades from not Aidel shades. In fact in the Rambam it davka requires the husband to buy his wife colourful clothing.

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    DY your right. I should not have said that. Neville to Assange your concerns, anything I may have hinted to was only for those who dress all tznius/ full lvush but lead double lives because of communal pressure. Cvs not the real frum ones who are of course yereim ushlemim etc.

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    “בכל מקום שאתה מוצא גדר ערוה, שם אתה מוצא קדושה”

    True. And I would add that those who do live by those standards in all areas, are renowned for their children’s more innocence and aidelkeit.

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    Rso
    “And you didn’t address my latest challenge: Based on the rule you brought that “im rishonim …” do lubavichers agree that the Rashba was greater than your rebbe?”

    They were definitely both tzaddikim. More likely the Rashba was greater as he lived in a much earlier generation. I do recall someone of note (don’t remember the name offhand and don’t think it anyhow makes such a difference to you) saying that the Rebbe would have been someone special even with the greats back in the day… So I cannot say for sure. Like I said I’m not able to assess souls so I can’t check it up for you.

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    DY
    welcome.
    “A lower standard.”

    Not true. Just because we don’t restrict our women to wearing black navy brown or grey doesn’t mean we have a lower standard. Just means they’ve taken it to an extreme which I don’t think is precedented aside from the Rambam time where the Arabs dressed unattractively so the Jewish women had to do likewise to avoid the wrong look in that situation.

    “That’s a baseless, and frankly disgusting comment. Pure motzi Shem ra.”

    Baseless no. I also have friends in willi and other places. Like rso brings out every “secret” about Chabad, secrets don’t stay secrets. But you know what? It could be I shouldn’t have said it. Not because I don’t think it’s true or because it doesnt being out my point, it does quite well- that there are consequences to going to such an extreme. But because why discuss dirt. So I won’t hint further. And I suppose mods can delete that if they wish.

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    “One of the “tricks” Lubachivers use when speaking to other frum Yidden is, “Everybody agrees that the rebbe was one of the greatest tzaddikim of the generation…” and from there it’s not a great leap to convince everyone that only chabad chassidus is the true derech of the Baal Shem, and that we should all be sending out children to chabad schools etc etc etc.”

    Not true. Everyone should have their own shittos, Rabbanim, schools. In fact, the Rebbe instructed his shluchim to Morocco that when they did establish schools for the locals to save them from the not frum zionist school, they should in no way change the minhagim of the sephardim.

    And when a yid from Montreal came to the Rebbe and complained his chassidim were against him opening a new school in Montreal for a bunch of parents he was representing, but they didn’t want to let him have any say in picking teachers, the Rebbe sided with him and gave him a Bracha to open a new school. We don’t want or need everyone in lubavitch schools and abandoning their own mesora. We respect that there are many legitimate paths to Avodas Hashem.

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    Np

    “She may also be expressing what she learned in order to hear the responses. Maybe she herself struggles with these issues and it is through such a forum that she can hear other points of view.”

    I came willing to answer questions and also because this forum allows me to engage with a wider variety of yidden. In fact, if I don’t up disillusioned with constant questioning of my integrity, and am able to close off on this thread in a satisfactory manner (all in all its alright), I intend to open a thread on gedolim profiles so i can learn more about contemporary Torah leaders in klal Yisrael today, and not have to wait to get acquainted after they leave us.

    I will admit that the last thread shook me up a bit and I left with some questions to look up. Now I’ve looked them up and more confident than before because the thread gave me the desire to look into certain things stronger than I did before.

    I don’t believe in doing things because everyone does it, or doing things or abiding by shittos I would be embarrassed of if confronted with the facts, even if it may be uncomfortable. Anyhow, that’s my take. Thanks all

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    Sam
    “The World is in a State of Geulah” Halvay it was at the end of Golus!”

    Yeah. It’s not a contradiction. See the op.

    “Meanwhile there is fierce fighting in the Gaza area, riots in the West Bank, problems in Europe, fires on the West Coast, not to talk about political problems all over.
    WHERE IS THE GEULAH?”

    Agreed. Let’s daven for it like that.

    “Moshiach will come “b’hesech hadaas”.

    True. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t await him every day as the yud gimmel ikrim state. It means that in spite of awaiting him every day, it will STILL be a shock when it actually happens…

    “Let’s leave Bias Hamoshiach to Hashem,”

    Obviously it’s up to Hashem. But you just said “WHERE IS MOSHIACH?” Both can coexist.

    “and we should concentrate on mizvos uma’asim tovim, ”

    Of course. Best way to hasten the Geula.

    “AND NO MORE MACHLOKES AMONG DIFFERENT GROUPS”

    Sounds good. I suppose you could be helpful with that by not calling kofer on a topic you yourself said you have no clue about. But again, totally agree.

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    “Before you were saying the Baal hatanya was greater than the Avos”

    I said no such thing.

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    Laskern
    “Chanoch was taken away from this world because he did not want to mix with people. Hashem does not need malochim in this world. We need a yetzer horah who encourages us to do bad but we refuse it and do good.
    It says שחורה אני ונאוה I can be black by doing bad but if I am able to avoid it, I become beautiful. A tzadik is one who has a yetzer horah but it is able to avoid following him.”

    Laskern I am continuously impressed by your knowledge of a wide range of Torah sources. To understand what I am saying correctly I would suggest you check up Tanya, likutei amarim perek 27. You will find there that there are two types of avoda Hashem enjoys: struggling and overcoming our yetzer hara (as you said) AND the avoda of tzaddikim which is to transform the bad altogether from bad to good without grappling with it.

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    Rso
    “Too much of what he said and did was warped, and nearly 100% of the problems with lubavich – e.g. worst tznius in the chassidic world, most open use of internet, most interaction between genders – can only be attributed to his views, his lack of foresight, and his obsessing over concepts that should not be the primary concerns of bochurim and avreichim in the Torah world.”

    OK here I would say is where you are out of line. The Rebbe had different shitas than the rest of the chassidishe world but it was not sure to lack of foresight etc cvs, just a unique worldview based on Chassidus Chabad.

    I can take one example: your first one. “Worst tznius in Chassidic world.”

    No. Just a different standard. The Rebbe asked us to dress like beis Yaakov. And I would say that the chassidishe women do dress that way. As for others who may not be so frum, ok, you unfortunately find that in every circle. In chasidish circles it is less common to see it in dress, because of the drastic consequences of leaving the community, but it doesn’t solve the issue. It just means more people hide it and live double lives.

    In fact I could definitely argue that because the chassidishe communities have taken tznius to an unprecedented extreme (which I respect as their Daas Torah due to the shocking immodesty prevalent today), they, as an unfortunate side outcome, have much worse tznius issues than we have. But I think I’ll leave it at that unless you want me to hint further.

    “All the same arguments you use to prove that I have to hold of your rebbe could be used by your friends the Litvaks to prove that you have to hold of ALL their gedolim (I especially didn’t mention the name of the person you are allergic to). But they don’t work if you don’t believe in them.”

    Again im just answering questions YOU posed to me, I didn’t start a thread entitled who is gadol hador, and I didn’t even comment on the existing one. That said, I do respect the litvishe world as authentic Yiddishkeit, as well as chassidishe yidden, MO, dati leumi etc. Even if we may differ hashkafa wise. See? I just disagreed with your approach to tznius but I can respect that you are still doing the right thing because that’s what your Rebbe holds.

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    Rso
    ” I have a long history of studying and questioning Lubavich, and not getting satisfactory answers to what started out as innocent questions – and I found them unacceptable.”

    I would say that there are likely two reasons for this: 1) you are asking the wrong people. There are many extremely learned people in lubavitch, I can list some or maybe one of the menfolk who I’m sure are following silently along can provide a more extensive list if you are interested.

    There are many regular chassidim who just accept what the Rebbe says as fact (remember you protesting what happened to Emunas chachamim?) and don’t think through logically what the actual question and answer is. The Rebbe bemoaned this by Farbrengens, when he addressed the lack of critical questions following his rashi sichos. But we definitely have many learned people, and also Roshei Yeshivos who were originally not lubavitch so they can appreciate the actual the questions and answers even more.

    2) you have an extremely strong bias which precludes you from actually having a productive, intellectual, source based discussion with them.

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    Rso

    “Did you ever read the accounts given by the only grandchild of the Rayatz on his uncle-in-law’s early life? I don’t expect you to believe them, I don’t believe all of them either, but then again, I also don’t believe most of the wondrous stories about the Lubavicher rebbe.”

    If you give weight to an individual who had a strong agenda against lubavitch and knowing the story of hei teves etc. and cite that as an acceptable source, all that shows is how your bias against lubavitch is negatively affecting your objectivity. (No I haven’t read it nor have I am interest in it)

    “I don’t give much weight to stories that Satmar chassidim tell about their rebbe, and I don’t give much weight to stories litvishe tell about Reb Chaim Kanievsky. I am more likely to believe stories litvishe tell about Satmar and stories Satmar tells about Reb C Kanievsky. All the wondrous stories I hear about your rebbe have lubavich as their source, so I see no reason to give them much weight at all.”

    For me, the fact that the Satmar chassidim regarded their Rebbe Reb Yoel as a tzadik, is good enough reason for me to err on the side of caution and treat him with that level of respect. Even if he argued with my Rebbe, that doesn’t mean he wasn’t a great person or a tzadik. Unless I had valid reason to suspect that the majority of stories said about him were untrue (such as fact checking three of the stories printed by Satmar and finding them to be made up and their attributed authors denying having ever said such a thing or contradicted their own stories or were known as liars etc ) I’ll take their word for it. Yidden are smart people and choose who they choose because they see him as authentic and not a charlatan. As the famous story of the chofetz chaim goes (may I assume you are all familiar?) “Your honour they don’t tell these stories about me or you.”

    I would say this general distrust on your part just implies a level of unhealthy skepticism of others.

    And that was even if all the stories were said by lubavitchers. But there are many many first person video recorded encounters with the Rebbe recorded by Jem said by noon lubavitchers.

    In fact there is a Sefer I heard a previously poilisher chossid was working on, documenting all the Gedolim and Rebbeim who met with the Rebbe, what they had to say about him etc. I can look into the name of it if your really interested.

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    Non political

    “1) How do you know”

    Because it has been recorded and documented by Jem who interviewed many people from all walks, who knew the Rebbe / his family in his youth.

    “2) How was he less typical then say the Gaon of Vilna?”

    Judging from what I know of the Gra, I’d say the same.

    “3) Even if he really was super duper not typical why is that relevant? Shabbsai Tzvi wasn’t typical either. In fact not only his knowledge of nigla was impressive but even more so his knowledge of nistar. The way he prayed was said to be especially impressive.”

    Generally, when masses of yidden choose someone to be their Torah leader, they have solid basis. That’s precisely why Shabsai Tzvi was so unusual, because it’s very very rare to get such a large following of Rabbanim and lay people alike if you’re a fraud. Also, how long did this major mistake made with Shabsai Tzvi last for? I don’t mean how long did it take for the last remnant to die out? I mean how long was the majority or at least half of the frum world enamored of him and his following of frum yidden growing instead of shrinking? Was it a year or two? As soon as he broke halacha, the Rabbis unanimously condemned him and he lost his large following aside from a few die hards.

    “This would be a accolade equally applicable to many of the Gedolim of pre war Europe”

    True although even then the Rebbe’s fluency (He gave a gemara shiur by heart as if he was reading from the text) wasnt as typical as it was by say the Alter Rebbe’s times.

    ” until (and including)our current day.”

    Really? I never hear these kind of feats reported on ywn, and for sure not on a common basis.

    Me: “The chassidim got to know the Rebbe and see how he was careful with every detail in halacha as would of course be expected from such a tremendous gaon”

    “Same as above”

    True not disputing that.

    Me: “We have tens of people like this within lubavitch. But we are not overly impressed with them, although we respect them greatly, because we know they are still regular people like me and you, just much farther along avoda wise”

    You: “I don’t agree. I think that If someone is a Talmid Chochom and “farther along avoda wise” that is the very reason to be impressed. The greater they are in Torah and the “farther they are in Avodah” the more impressive they are.”

    Impressed and respect is relative. I gave examples of the respect we pay such Torah/ Avoda leaders. But I wouldn’t run to go on shlichus in some far flung place without questioning how they reached that decision if it’s right for me etc. Whereas with the Rebbe, we would. Also, these Torah leaders we speak to with respect and ask and highly regard their hashkafic advice, and accept their halachic psakim. However I wouldn’t lose my tongue or lose my whole composure or shake uncontrollably etc by such leaders. Whereas someone who can see right to my soul and read my thoughts, that is understandable.

    Me: “And this is the respect I see paid by other chassidim and litvaks to their own Roshei Yeshivos Rabbanim Rebbe’s etc for the most part.”

    You: “In other words all the Gedolim are in the same category as the tens of Talmidei Chachamim in Lubavich who “we respect but are not overly impressed with”. Got it”

    I said for the most part. And yes this is what I see if them on heimishe news sites such as ywn. Lots of photo ops of tishen and weddings, stories about their learning and hashkafic perspectives etc. I don’t see this as a put down. I see this as putting lubavitch on even ground. Maybe this why we have the phenomenon of litvishe bochurim crashing our yeshivos because they think we don’t learn: maybe because they think they have tens of Torah leaders and we have one who isn’t even present physically. So we must be am haaratzim who just farbreng and drink vodka all day, go on mivtzoim and learn only our Rebbes sichos. Im saying this isn’t the case. We have many Torah leaders bh within lubavitch whose geonus can rival their litvishe or chassidishe peers. That should be normal for the Torah world. And yes we think of our Rebbe as above the norm.

    “How do you know if someone is not normal?”
    “Has reached a spiritual height that is out of your league but precisely because of that can help you in ways the “regular” Rabbanim etc can’t? When you see evidence that…they can sense and see things normal people can’t. They can read thoughts and see straight into ones soul. That’s what u mean by that proof.meaning its proof that the Rebbe is beyond our league.”

    “No, even if all of the above would be 100% verifiably true this would prove nothing at all. This is very important. In fact Rav Yaacov Hillel wrote “Faith and Folly” precisely to combat this misconception (among others). He wrote it at the behest of just about all the gedolim Sefardi, Litvish, Chassidish (see haskamos to his sefer).”

    I don’t understand your point here. Please elaborate.

    “Right, we “know who Moshe Rabbeinu was” in this regard because the entire nation stood on Har Sinai and heard Hashem speak to Moshe Rabbeinu. That was a direct national experience, quite possibly the strongest category of evidence there is.”

    Really? I always learned the national revelation to be proof for other people who present their religions as rivals to ours but not to demonstrate who Moshe Rabbeinu was. In fact, they had to follow him through the yam suf which was life threatening in order to get the Torah. If they would only accept Moshe Rabbeinu to be speaking in the name of Hashem after matan Torah, it would have never happened.

    “Get my point?”

    “Unfortunately, I do.”

    Based on your reaction I don’t think you do. To clarify, I’m not saying my Rebbe was the same as Moshe Rabbeinu (although I would say he was the Moshe of this generation – ispashtusa dMoshe bchol dara vdara.) What I am saying is that motives that your would assume for a regular individual do not apply when we’re talking about a tzadik who has no self serving motives. Another example: seeing the Holy Ruzhiner walking about in his golden boots, would you think he was into Gashmius extravagance? I would say no, obviously not because he was a tzadik and for a tzadik such mundane desires aren’t applicable. (Happens to be that there were no soles to the boots precisely so he shouldn’t benefit from them but even if he did have, I wouldn’t think of applying such motives to him.)

    Me : “Basically, when your talking of someone acknowledged by many many Torah leaders, Rabbanim etc. as a Nassi Byisrael or similar terms”

    You : “No such thing. We have addressed that claim in 2 previous threads, no reason to rehash it here.”

    Exactly. If you look it up you will see there were many laudable quotes brought by other tzaddikim and Torah leaders.

    “CS, I want to reiterate that nothing in my post is meant as an attack on you personally. I continue to have the utmost respect for you and appreciate your sincere effort in clarifying your position.”

    Thanks. I see that.

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    “Nice to say that, but it’s not really fine when I give you the literal translation of the passuk, and you say you interpret it differently as a demand. Isn’t that what xians have done with the whole Torah? Please cite me a source to back it up other than the source I am disputing, which is either you or your rebbe.”

    Hey rso I was happy to leave it at that as I believe I have explained myself adequately, and you seem to have a less pshat understanding of pshat. However since you can’t seem to let it go, I will present it in such a way that the ben chomesh lmikra can understand. I hope that will suffice and if not, than you should explain WHY instead of just repeating that its not what I said, it’s a request.

    OK here is the posuk:
    וַיֹּאמְרוּ הָאֲנָשִׁים הָהֵמָּה אֵלָיו אֲנַחְנוּ טְמֵאִים לְנֶפֶשׁ אָדָם לָמָּה נִגָּרַע לְבִלְתִּי הַקְרִב אֶת קָרְבַּן ה במועדו

    So if we were to understand lama nigara as a request, that would make no sense. Because the answer to “why should we lack (the opportunity) to bring a korban to Hashem in its right time?” Is “because you are tamei and tamei people cannot bring the korban.”

    But wait. Obviously they know that already, in fact, in the very same posuk they say “anachnu tmeim lonefesh.”

    So they werent asking why can’t they as in a request. Because they already answered their own question before they even asked it. So the simple pshat reading of the posuk is that lama nigara isn’t a request as in why not, it is a protest and demand for the right to fulfil it because they don’t want to miss out for doing something good! In that case, Moshe rabbeinu says, let me see whet Hashem says. Hashem also didn’t respond with an explanation as to why they are going to miss out. Rather He gave them a new mitzvah and opportunity so they shouldn’t miss out. I hope this clarifies in case it wasn’t clear enough before.

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    Iitft

    “Other Chassidus’ may wish that to be true, may even wish to believe it to be true however they Won’t actually believe it”

    And to me that is just another tribute to our Rebbe. The fact that we actually believe it

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    Neville (post 3):

    “As for this tourist attraction story, you never named the rabbi in the story so how are we supposed to compare him to Rav Shteinman?”

    I don’t know his name, and in any case, seeing that for whatever reason the story was seen in an extremely negative light, I don’t think I’d be able to release it at this point due to lashon hara (just to clarify not motzei Shem ra.)

    ” I have heard personal stories about Rav Shteinman making similar comments to people in order to make them feel more comfortable. In fact, I think I’ve even heard Lubavitchers tell stories about the Rebbe speaking of mundane subjects with followers to show that he can relate to them.”

    Yeah but this is different. I’ll tell you why. The Rebbe for example once asked this American kid with the clipped on yarmulka etc. what he was into, and he said baseball. So then the Rebbe discussed with him the rules of baseball and applied it to the boys upcoming bar mitzvah (how he needs to be a player now with mitzvos not a fan.)

    Here, this was a black hatted Yeshiva bochur who the Rebbe asked about touring for himself. You don’t think he had any common discussion in learning etc they could have connected on? And the bochur didn’t tell him anything about his personal touring interests.

    “The only possible take-away you wanted from that story was to imply that the rabbi was inferior to Lubavitchers. Why do you still think we don’t see through these things? Or, at this point, have you just pulled out the stops and decided to be an all-purpose troll account because you’re angry at
    us?”

    Na neither. My point was two fold. My main point was actually emphasizing what we expect of Rebbes in other kreizin – if the bochur didn’t bat an eyelash, that would show he would think this is normal behaviour for a Rebbe.

    I suppose a secondary side point that emerges from the story is that many Torah leaders on different levels of Avodas Hashem use the title of Rebbe. Like I said I don’t think, based on what I’ve read about Rav Shteinman zatzal, that he would be personally interested in touring. This Rebbe did. So I’m not gonna treat him with the and level of respect as my Rebbe just because they use the same title. Fair?

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    Neville (post 2):

    “I can’t speak for everyone, but I personally have not disparaged your Rebbe here. Criticizing things his followers do is not the same thing as criticizing him. His sichos on chumash are not something a random bum off the street could accomplish.”

    Acknowledging this adds to your integrity.

    “We know, by virtue of the fact that you’re a Lubavitcher, that you hold him higher than his contemporaries. If I made an account on a popular Chabad forum for the purpose of “explaining” to everyone how the Litvish gedolim are actually superior and how Chabadniks are actually “misunderstanding” everything we say about them, would you think of me as a good person? Because that’s exactly what you’re doing here.”

    Not at all. Here’s what would be the appropriate analogy:

    Neville chances upon a Chabad forum where users are questioning how litvaks could possibly regard X as a Gadol if he said xyz. Neville sees the chance to clear up possible miseducation and ignorance so he creates an account and offers to answer their questions. As he defends the litvishe positiono, he starts getting attacked that he’s trying to push his gadol on everyone else.

    He then decides to try to connect to these lubavitchers on another less controversial topic (assuming he wouldn’t walk away in disgust at that point and badmouth the I’ll mannered lubavitchers who can’t handle the answers to their own questions.) he starts a thread on the importance of kollel learning. He knows its a big focus in lakewood but doesn’t see many long time kollel learners in lubavitch. He knows they value Torah learning so he thought this would be an interesting topic to have a go at.

    Surprisingly, or maybe not by now, the lubavitchers are extremely suspicious of nevilles ill intentions and insist he answer more questions on his Gedolim. When he answers honestly as they asked,and brings his sources or evidence to back himself up, they complain that he’s disrespectful to lubavitch for daring to hold by his shittos and not apologise for them and they ask the mods to please close his account because he’s engaging in litvish propaganda.

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    Neville (post 1 for neville)

    “Okay, you may respond on the condition that you either a) apologize to belittling our Rebbeim in a way that isn’t a loaded apology like “I’m sorry you misunderstood what I said,” or b) answer whether or not you believe the Rebbe is moshiach, which is what you’ve been skirting all along.
    Otherwise, the answer is still you; you’re still the one skirting.”

    OK I find this demand ridiculous or should I say unreasonable. I definitely won’t apologise as if I did, I would be admitting that I posted that to belittle Rebbes as you say, and now I am sorry. Since that was not my intention I have no intention of apologising.

    In fact, to give a comparison, if I were to demand an apology from Sam for posting the story by the kiddush above, for daring to belittle the Lubavitcher Rabbi, I’m sure you would be one of the first to quickly point out that that’s ridiculous and in fact, by demanding he apologise for posting his personal experience and personal impression formed thereof, I am in fact admitting that the Rabbi was belittling lubavitch, not sam who is merely repeating what happened.

    My choices would amount to condemning the Rabbi but saying he is a odd case who doesn’t represent the klal, or explaining how sam probably misunderstood him.

    Since no one here is claiming the first, and giving weak explanations of the latter (as I will address), my conclusion is that I was right he isn’t an odd case and youre just demanding an apology because it’s politically incorrect.

    As for b) i don’t see why I should post my own opinion or shitta. If its to assess my credibility, than I can provide Torah Torah sources either way for that debate. In fact b is ridiculous altogether because I already did exactly that on that all too long 19 page thread. If you have anything else to ask our sources to bring that I didn’t address then, you’re welcome to bring them after THIS topic / question is clarified so we can address one question at a time in a mesudar manner.

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    Coffee addict:

    “And this is the problem

    The Baal hatanya wasn’t greater than anyone in tanach”

    Really? For the sake of a no brainer, I’m sure you hold your Rav to be on a higher level in Avodas Hashem than Achav. (Yes the temptation then was greater but im saying on an Avodas Hashem level.)

    There are many people of all grades in tanach. Nobody is on the same footing as the Avos or Moshe Rabbeinu. We know this because even Dovid Hamelech who wanted to reach the level of the Avos was unable. Moshe rabbeinu the Torah testifies about him.

    Its interesting you mention specifically the Baal HaTanya as he was held to be a higher neshama than even the other Rebbeim – the Baal Shem Tov was excited about his birth as he described him as a neshama chadasha who would accomplish great things.

    In comparison to our other Rebbeim, the Alter Rebbe revealed new G-dly concepts which were never revealed in this world before (obviously all sourced but tremendous giluim) whereas the other Rebbeims maamarim were all based off of those concepts he revealed (the Rebbe may have been an exception but even that is subject to debate and I am not that learned to comment on it). I cannot start grading tzaddikim as I am not a tzadik (or even a beinoni for that matter although I hope to get there someday) and thus cannot look into the heavenly realms for you and tell you who’s who. All I can tell you is what I see on the ground which is of course a very limited vantage point.

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    Rso regarding your assumptions of the Rebbe based on usual quotes you’ve seen from the Rebbe (btw did you learn them in context or just see a few listed somewhere out of context):

    If I would tell you “Anochi omed bein Hashem uveineichem” and “I will provide all your Gashmius needs if you listen to My commands,” you would think I’m a narcissistic lunatic or apikorus.

    However knowing who Moshe Rabbeinu was, no one of course describes him that way.

    Regarding The former quote, if I would say it, it would be untrue and narcissistic for me to believe it’s true. By Moshe Rabbeinu it was a statement of fact. In fact, he wasn’t even boasting about himself, as the Torah testifies that he was the humblest of all time. He was simply stating fact intended to help us in our Avodas Hashem (anything in Torah is to guide us in Avodas Hashem.)

    Regarding the second it can sound like a meisis umeidiach, a avoda zara etc. However with Moshe, it was simply Shechina midaberes mitoch grono shel Moshe, and the I and Me were in fact referring to Hashem and not Moshe as an individual.

    Get my point? Basically, when your talking of someone acknowledged by many many Torah leaders, Rabbanim etc. as a Nassi Byisrael or similar terms, than the same words mean something completely different than if Joe or I say them. And even if you choose to go by others who didn’t see the Rebbe that way, you can a) understand why we do, and b) be careful when you’re disagreeing with the Rebbe to word it properly and respectfully, quoting the actual dissenting sources and not your opinion etc. (In case this gets posted out of order this is the second post following the first addressed to non political and rso)

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