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Shulchan Aruch implies it is assur. We don’t pasken based on the Mishna.
Have as many kinderlach as Hashem is willing to give us.
Best Hashkofos: real-brisker
Chabad has compromised their own values in the process.
The Torah addresses EVERYTHING.
Which raises the question… What red flags should a guy be on the lookout for, for an emotionally abusive girl?
There are many more emotionally abusive women than physically abusive men.
I’m too forgiving.
Bad idea.
If you don’t eat by someone because you aren’t confident in their kashrus, that isn’t a ‘chumra’.
Facebook is worse. Smoking can only physically kill you; facebook can spiritually kill you.
Putting aside this guy and thinking in general… What’s so geferlach even IF he IS cheap? It’s not the worst thing, and you could wind up with someone with behaviors a lot lot worse than someone who is just cheap.
Think about that.
Wolf, I would hope and assume you don’t trust everyone with a yarmulka for kashrus.
I was unambiguous about my uncle the first time.
Wolf – where SJS worked they did.
The Wolf, you are calling the Tolna Rebbe someone who buries his head in the sand?
My uncle never eats food his wife didnt prepare, due to kashrus concerns.
Sj, you wouldnt marry someone who never gets angry?
Perhaps the leaders are saying to thank the volunteers; not themselves.
Gelt, Gelt, Gelt.
illogical – frum people outside NY dont earn enough to make it either with frum expenses and tuition.
duvdl – you also earn considerably less in those areas.
There aren’t enough guys and too many girls. So some girls will have to compromise for a smoker.
Get to know, figure out – different ways of expressing the same idea. A lounge is most conducive for that for the first 2 – 3 dates (at least).
May she continue to maintain her Bais Yaakov hashkofos – every single one of them – forever iy’h!
Lounges are indeed the most conducive for a date and the best place to choose.
I think what goq meant by pinnocio, was people being “nosy”, not liars.
Even if it is customary to tip a delivery guy, there certainly is no custom of how much to tip them – like there is by a waiter who typically gets 15%.
So if you give the guy a buck that more than suffices.
The process of getting married, including dating, comes before a friendship. I fully agree with TBT.
80, Neither do I. I had thoght the OP was trying to criticize the pritzes of an ad saying a shaitel is lovely. But I don’t understand any of the other posts.
Very well stated, OP. Could not have said it better.
Swallow it.
Kapusta – its been around since at least the early 80’s, and perhaps longer.
How about no one knowing who you went or go out with so this issue is a non issue (and tznius too).
The beis din has stated that the ball is in her court. She has not initiated any further action. The beis din is supporting him in this case.
This is a non issue. Do whatever you would do if your friend never knew the person.
I never noticed that all the non-college educated population is starving on the streets, panhandling, or begging.
The New World – Columbus
It is not the customary thing that you must tip a delivery man.
The Beis Din in this case never ordered him to give a get. A husband is NOT obligated to give a get on demand.
Aries, Either you do have to tip or you dont have to tip. It depends on what the standard customary thing is. Whether you paid for the delivery is irrelevant whether you must tip. Either always or never.
Avrom, the tip for a delivery boy is certainly NOT 15%. He is not a waiter.
ICOT – How can you ever withhold some or all of tip to a waiter, which you said you do, based on your own comment?
If tips are no longer optional, they MUST be listed and included in the price.