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I’m thinking as more of a shadchan type of thing. Is there a way to PM me so we can “talk” further?
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People always tell us that there is someone out there for everyone and you never know who, what, where it’s going to come from. One should leave no stone unturned. I find it very interesting that you boys, the counterparts to those middle of the road girls, are having the same difficulties the girls are having. We never hear about you guys? I don’t get it. If you boys are out there looking for the kinds of girls DD and her friends are, why are the shadchanim not doing their jobs to match you all up?
I don’t know what the “rules” are for this forum, but is it possible to get your profiles? Maybe, just maybe, we can do something practical about this issue.
Sorry, but this forum is not designed or set up for it. -100
I just came across this site/forum and I feel I need to put in my 2 cents. My daughter is of a similar age to you, adam3, and looking for a guy like you–someone who works to support his family but who has a strong ethic to continue his learning in some form. She, and her single friends, are all looking for someone like this. They are, by and large, out of town girls who have a very different view. They are all attractive, bright, college-educated girls who are looking for college-educated guys with strong Torah values. And they, too, are going to shadchanim who drop them like hot potatoes as soon as the next sweet young thing just out of seminary comes along. I think, if they ever do suggest someone, it’s more like “oh, she needs a shidduch, he needs a shidduch. It doesn’t matter that there is nothing remotely in common, but they’ve got to be desperate so WTH.” I’m not a shadchan, but who knows. What are you looking for?