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Ben TorahParticipant
we cannot compare the greatness of different mitzvos
“Talmud Torah Kneged Kulam”
Ben TorahParticipant“However, it cannot be the “minhag” that EVERYONE follows…”
It isn’t.
Ben TorahParticipantSupporting the boy allows him to continue learning Torah HaKedosha full-time. That is a major accomplishment and zechus.
Ben TorahParticipantWhat’s your point about polygamy? (The Yemenite Torah community still has a minhug to do so, as did many sefardim until the last few decades.)
If it is ones minhug, there is nothing wrong. For Ashkenazim there is a gezeira against.
Ben TorahParticipantI’m not commenting if it is good or not. I am saying it has been practiced for many many hundreds of years by shidduchim. This is merely one of the modern day versions of it. (Another example is the girls side often pays for the wedding hall.)
Ben TorahParticipantIts kind of like a dowry. And dowries have been provided by the kallah’s family to the choson throughout Jewish history.
Ben TorahParticipantBP Totty: Directions would be great!
Ben TorahParticipantAnywhere but a hotel lounge.
That’s easy (and cheap) enough for a girl to say… 😉
September 20, 2010 8:30 pm at 8:30 pm in reply to: What is the purpose of girls going to Seminary? #697532Ben TorahParticipantarc – nowhere did he say “only”. He said they are fine yiddish maidlach without the Israeli seminary attendance. And what he stated is factually correct.
Ben TorahParticipantYidden always dressed different than goyim. And a Yid could always be identified by his dress on the street.
September 20, 2010 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: Clearing up a few myths regarding Tznius problems #696843Ben TorahParticipantNo, they should not be explicit in what they teach.
Ben TorahParticipantRav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv said the RCA prenup a solution is totally at variance with halachah, and has a similar, if not the same effect as a get me`useh, which will lead to instances of mamzerus.
September 20, 2010 7:08 pm at 7:08 pm in reply to: What is the purpose of girls going to Seminary? #697524Ben TorahParticipantBoys (depending on the child) can benefit from the Torah of Eretz Yisroel. There is no reason girls can’t go to a local seminary.
Ben TorahParticipantSJS, does your husband wear his tzitzis out? If not, does that not answer what you’re getting at?
Ben TorahParticipantBuy off-brands, don’t go to restaurants, and wear second-hand clothing. I’m sure others will add some more ideas.
September 19, 2010 3:28 pm at 3:28 pm in reply to: IMPORTANT: Phone Conference: Stopping the next expulsion #696319Ben TorahParticipantyechezkel89: Israel gave the Sinai to Egypt, and despite the continuing “cold war” with them, no lives have been lost in wars with Egypt ever since.
They never should have taken the land in ’48. That already cost thousands of Jewish lives ever since. Now that they already did, we see giving land can save lives.
Ben TorahParticipantThe day before Yom Tov you can get it for $25.
Ben TorahParticipantLevush does change with time. Nevertheless each time had its set of levush for Bnei Torah.
September 19, 2010 5:51 am at 5:51 am in reply to: IMPORTANT: Phone Conference: Stopping the next expulsion #696316Ben TorahParticipantYour rabbi is a kahanist, so obviously he doesn’t agree with them. But mainstream rabbonim put pikuach nefesh ahead of land. (Of course the religious zionist always argue giving up land is pikuach nefesh, but the mainstream rabbonim unaffiliated with zionism acknowledge that giving land can save lives.)
Ben TorahParticipantHow does a higher price make it more chashuv? (If so, the guy in your shul should of doubled the price even if there was no competition at that price level.)
Ben TorahParticipantmbachur, your point was brought up in the teshuvas of the mattirim on this issue.
Ben TorahParticipantI understand, and don’t disagree with wearing appropriate clothing to work tasks at hand. The issue at hand is more regarding when walking on the street.
Ben TorahParticipantYou can get it on the cheap at a small minyan.
September 19, 2010 3:26 am at 3:26 am in reply to: What are you doing to make Yom Kippur last? #696349Ben TorahParticipantThat may all be true and all, but yushka was a rusha merusha himself. What is the reason you are using that screen name?
Ben TorahParticipantThis blog deals with that question a little differently:
http://kosherwater.blogspot.com/
See from the sentence “How can the Almighty allow righteous people to unknowingly sin?” and further.
Ben TorahParticipantsqueak, the question you asked regarding the Tannaim, you can ask regarding Rav Moshe – who lived in NYC where we know the water supply has these creatures. I believe Rav Dovid said that question is a non-issue.
Ben TorahParticipantNope. He may have been a Ben Torah, who wouldn’t be seen without one. (Like some people’s American Express card, LOL.)
Ben TorahParticipantsqueak, What is your response to the question you pose to me?
Ben TorahParticipantsqueak, you continue to make unfounded assumptions in this thread. Additionally, I am not forced to choose from your multiple choice questionnaire.
Ben TorahParticipantWould you care to respond whether you disagree or question the basis of the factual point I made — specifically, regarding the prevalence of copepods?
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EDIT: That’s the second time you edited an old post after I responded.
In any event, I don’t see us disagreeing on any points now that you withdrew from your first posts implication regarding the prevalence of copepods.
Ben TorahParticipantsqueak, why am I anymore forced to choose those options than are you? Are you disputing, or questioning, the two factual points I made?
Ben TorahParticipantcharliehall, do you agree with my above comments regarding the prevalence of copepods (in almost all bodies of water), and that they will appear in Boston’s tap water — as well as the other few municipal tap water systems that are still authorized by the EPA to remain unfiltered?
Also, not to necessarily dispute the assertion, but how are we aware they have been in all the same bodies of water since Noach?
Ben TorahParticipantOne is a matter of nature — whether they are present in various bodies of water, and the other is a religious matter — whether they render the water unkosher. The first issue I answered above. It is a simple observable fact. The second issue is a religious dispute, with the majority of Chareidi authorities ruling it unkosher, and others saying the water is kosher.
You are conflating the two issues by insisting that since the majority of those authorities render it unkosher, the first observable fact can’t be accepted. I don’t follow your logic on that.
As far as the historical nature of the water, all we know for a fact is they exist in the bodies of water today. Perhaps we can speculate they arrived at a later time than the Tannaim, etc. But whether that is the case or not, I don’t see how it effects the first two facts.
Ben TorahParticipantI never addressed that point. Rav Belsky says they’re muttir. Other Gedolim disagree. But you first comment implicating they are not so widespread was wrong.
Ben TorahParticipantHi squeak. Sorry you got edited. I’ll ask a mod if you had any super vital info that didn’t make it.
From http://www.tafi.org.au/zooplankton/imagekey/copepoda/index.html
“Copepods are probably the most common and abundant holoplanktonic organisms worldwide, occurring in all oceans, seas, estuaries, rivers and lakes.”
From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Copepod (first sentence)
“Copepods are a group of small crustaceans found in the sea and nearly every freshwater habitat.”
Ben TorahParticipantmbachur, the answer I gave to your question (1), was yes there are copepods in the Boston tap water.
Ben TorahParticipantBen TorahParticipantNew York, Boston, Seattle, Tacoma, and San Francisco have unfiltered tap water (unlike almost every other city in the country.) Any unfiltered water system will have copepods.
Ben TorahParticipantI guess the OP never found another internet connection since starting this thread, to read all the replies with suggestions.
Ben TorahParticipantA Happy 12th Birthday card from Hallmark.
Ben TorahParticipantDoes Shoveh Lechol Nefesh Change?
[Shulchan Shlomo 511:footnote 3]. Parenthetically a five minute shower uses about 15-25 gallons of water) or are the rules set down by Chazal regarding shoveh lechol nefesh unchangeable.
Cold Shower
(From http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/torah_archives.php “Showering on Yom Tov”, Rav Moishe Dovid Lebovits/Rav Benzion Schiffenbauer Shlita/Piskei Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita Reviewed by Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita)
Ben TorahParticipantmamash: Kulos are far far more abused than chumros by a long-shot.
Ben TorahParticipantBP Totty: Chasidim eschew restaurants? I find that highly laudable.
Ben TorahParticipantNever quite understood why some people like sushi so much.
Ben TorahParticipantWhat is the least cost method or place to purchase Luvs diapers on a regular basis (i.e. aside from limited time sales/coupons)?
Ben TorahParticipantLMA: According to your theory, of the older male singles a majority are picky, and the minority which is not picky have issues. Yet the older single girls are peachy keen?
Ben TorahParticipanthousewife2: Sounds like you can’t afford it, but the school is making you pay to keep your child in. How are you paying it right now?
September 1, 2010 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm in reply to: Custom or very good sheitles for under $1000 #739985Ben TorahParticipantPashuteh Yid:
Paula Young still sells wigs in that price range or not too much more. It is well worth it. Even if it lasts 1/4 as long.
Ben TorahParticipantAZ, are you maintaining that there is NOT a significant population of older never married guys? Is your position that the “shidduch crisis” is a female-only issue?
I’m not sure how you can miss the significant population of never married older guys. Unless I’m not understanding your position correctly.
Ben TorahParticipantPulled into what? Playing sports? That’s good. Following professional sports? Not so good.
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