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  • in reply to: Opposite Gender Friendships #795857
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    Sacrilege – It is assur M’DORAISA for males and females to be friends with each other.

    in reply to: Broken Telephone #5 #706203
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    Not a chance.

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    I believe retarded was once upon a time the term used for what is today referred to as special children, and it was not an insulting term at the time.

    in reply to: Dates for married couples! #701055
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    Once a week? Twice a week is minimum. And that once a year vacation without kids should always be international.

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    That’s the second such letter to YW. Another gentile posted directly to the CR a few days ago.

    in reply to: Thank You Mods & Editor #954940
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    The mods will delete it if it is blank.

    When you edit it a post, it goes back into the unapproved posts queue.

    in reply to: Achdus among Jews? #700931
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    WIY, BTW it is a bigger kiddush hashem to make a K”H amongst yidden, than to goyim.

    in reply to: Thank You Mods & Editor #954937
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    Edit it to blank within the first 20(?) or so minutes it allows you to edit.

    in reply to: Human Evolution #700910
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    Wolf: Yes, again. Nevertheless, it gave me the inspiration, as you put it.

    in reply to: Yahrtzeit of Mr. Joseph Rosenberger #700944
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    The Best Bubby mentioned he has a daughter who has a family.

    in reply to: Shemoneh Esrei – starting with minyan #1139906
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    Are there any halachic guidelines when the “short Shemoneh Esrei” (i.e. the Shatz says it before the tzibbur through kedusha) is permitted?

    in reply to: Dates for married couples! #701047
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    justsmile613: I did hear that there are Jews out of Brooklyn.

    in reply to: Achdus among Jews? #700926
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    So if you should have shalom with non-Jews, surely you should have shalom with Jews who aren’t keeping the Torah correctly. So what’s the question here?

    in reply to: Cuomo for Gov. of NY #700885
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    Absolutely not. Many gedolim have said it is assur to vote for a pro-toeiva candidate. None have said its muttar or endorsed one.

    And there is a seriously scary possibility Sheldon Silver will Chas V’Shalom push toeiva marriage through the legislature, sending it to the Governor’s desk. This terrible possibility is likely to occur the first year of the new Governor’s term. We need a Governor who will VETO toeiva.

    in reply to: Dates for married couples! #701038
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    WalMart near Jews? You must be referring to the summer in the Catskills…

    in reply to: Human Evolution #700903
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    JD4: Are you a cousin of the gorillas?

    in reply to: Rabbi Yehuda Levin – Open Discussion #701322
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    Moq, its clear R. Levin had Daas Torah on his previous endeavors. Why don’t you call him — he is listed — and ask him who supports him on this endeavor. It only happened this week. Who are you to insinuate he lacks it?

    And who is YOUR Daas Torah to publicly criticize a Rov? I don’t care what you think of him or not. You are demanding HE produce to your satisfaction creds, what are YOURS? Who authorized you to publicly, on a blog, criticize HIM?

    What are Moq’s creds? Can we see it in writing? Who is your Daas Torah?

    in reply to: Human Evolution #700901
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    charliehall, do you believe that you share a common ancestor with gorillas and chimpanzees? (Don’t be embarrassed to say yea or nay.)

    If yea (which your comment seems to indicate), how do you even attempt to claim that belief isn’t directly at odds with Ma’ase Bereishis?

    in reply to: Dates for married couples! #701034
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    Who’e gonna watch the kids?

    in reply to: Yahrtzeit of Mr. Joseph Rosenberger #700941
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    I just saw this in an article:

    In under a year, Rosenberger developed a quick and inexpensive test for the presence of linen in a garment,[4] but he still had to overcome the hurdle of convincing the Orthodox Jewish community of the importance of checking for shatnes. Rosenberger was often booted out of synagogues and assembly halls with derision by the public who did not believe him to be genuine.

    So I guess he did have the same problem askanim today have!

    in reply to: Why do some wives (newlyweds) act like Mashgichim to their husbands? #701945
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    …or even saying hello to her, he left her for another 12 years.

    in reply to: Broken Telephone #5 #706174
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    Its not tznius.

    in reply to: Yahrtzeit of Mr. Joseph Rosenberger #700940
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    Thank You.

    It is interesting to note, that prior to ???? ?? ??? ???? Rosenberger essentially reinstating the widely neglected mitzvah of shatnes, through his innovative methods, the general public knew virtually nil of this requirement.

    Compare that to nowadays, when an askan brings to the public’s attention a widely neglected mitzvah (either that should be done or something that should not be done) to try to change the incorrect behavior of the public, there is a small, but consistently loud, segment of people that will deride them for too many chumras, or to start implementing something that their grandpa’s in the ’40’s never did – so why is it suddenly necessary.

    B”H they weren’t around to stop ???? ?? ??? ???? in his avodas hakodesh.

    in reply to: Republicans Vs. Democrats #822549
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    If government grants marriages to anyone, it should be without discrimination.

    SJS, so I take it you now support polygamy. Otherwise you are a hypocrite, and lose standing for your position.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yehuda Levin – Open Discussion #701317
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    Hagoan HaRav Moshe Shterbuch shlita attributed the failure of Israel’s campaign in Lebanon on “the homosexuals’ obscenity and promiscuity in the Holy Land” and saying “we have not protested enough against this parade of abomination, and therefore we have received this warning.”

    in reply to: Human Evolution #700895
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    Wolf: Yes.

    PBA: That’s not what science says. The idea you expressed would be an inconsistent reinterpretation of modern science into something it doesn’t say.

    in reply to: Shidduchim, What do boys look for in a girl? #712678
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    Love comes after marriage.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yehuda Levin – Open Discussion #701312
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    Moq: I don’t know about the events of the past few days, but Hagoan HaRav Moshe Shterbuch shlita, ?? ??? ??? on the Badatz Eidah Chareidus asked Rav Levin to protest in Yerushlayim against the toeiva parade. So he definitely has been around.

    in reply to: Spontaneous date? #700560
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    Mr. 1987: I’m sorry you find Rambam to be insensitive or thoughtless. There was no haskama, the ruckus was your own. I merely refuted your earlier comment. The Torah quoted wasn’t mine.

    apy: The Rama is followed primarily by the Ashkenazic communities.

    in reply to: Republicans Vs. Democrats #822546
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    fabie: exactly.

    in reply to: Spontaneous date? #700549
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    ???? ????

    Mishneh Torah 15:7

    A man should not marry a barren women, an elderly woman, an aylonit or a minor who is not fit to bear a child unless he has already fulfilled the mitzvah of being fruitful and multiplying, or he has another wife with whom he can father children.

    When a man has married a woman and remained married to her for ten years without her bearing children, he must divorce her and pay her [the money due her by virtue of her] ketubah, or marry a woman who is fit to bear children.

    If he does not desire to divorce her, he should be compelled to do so; he should be beaten with a rod until he divorces her. Even when he says, “I will not engage in marital relations with her. Instead, we will dwell together with witnesses so that we will not ever be in private,” regardless of whether it is he or she who offers this proposition, it is not accepted. Rather, he is required to divorce [his wife] or marry another woman who is fit to bear children.

    —-

    The Ramah (Even HaEzer 1:3) states that in his time, it was no longer customary to compel a man to divorce a woman who has not borne children to her husband. (See also the Hagahot Maimoniot, which quote opinions that state that in this age, and particularly in the diaspora, there is no obligation to divorce a woman even though she has not borne children in this amount of time. At present, there are many Rabbis who have divorced their wives in such a situation, but at least an equal number who have not. Every person has the prerogative of making his own decision regarding this matter.)

    in reply to: Common Hungarian Words #701264
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    in reply to: Rabbi Yehuda Levin – Open Discussion #701299
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    WIY: What is the prescribed penalty of our Holy Torah for this activity that you fear we are presented as “hateful intolerant bigots” of?

    in reply to: Spontaneous date? #700537
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    What is your definition of love?

    in reply to: Rabbi Yehuda Levin – Open Discussion #701296
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    WIY: Another mistake is you seem to think that because reporters only let you know this issue, that others aren’t addressed by him. They are. He has addressed a variety of issues, you just didn’t hear about it obviously. The Torah is also “homophobic”. What’s the Torah’s penalty for that activity?

    in reply to: Waterbury Community #700764
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    Do most people wear a hat to shul during the week?

    in reply to: Why do some wives (newlyweds) act like Mashgichim to their husbands? #701939
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    jay, the Bais Yaakov system isn’t the Hirschian derech.

    in reply to: Spontaneous date? #700533
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    Sacrilege – it’s halacha. (Not mandatory of course.)

    BTW, shlomozalman is correct.

    in reply to: Thank You Mods & Editor #954929
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    Why didn’t you ask if any of them have an account here?

    in reply to: Spontaneous date? #700522
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    minyan gal: Does it mean an immediate divorce if there are fertility issues that cannot be solved (yes, even in today’s day and age some cannot)?

    After 10 years of no children, a divorce is in order. (Yes, even in today’s day and age.)

    in reply to: Jewish "issues" and voting #700196
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    That statement in itself does not indicate his position when the mother’s life is in danger.

    in reply to: Tuition and Report Cards #701397
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    rescue – no school I know brainwashed anyone into thinking human hair sheitels, takeout, or air conditioning are necessities. Perhaps someone did. But not the schools.

    in reply to: Tuition and Report Cards #701394
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    SJS – question for you:

    Suppose in 6 years both you and your spouse are, G-d forbid, out of work. You have 2 or 3 children in school. Tuition is $20,000+. Income is zero (or close to it.)

    Does your views change? Will you accept a tuition break? Is it acceptable for you to be able to defer paying tuition?

    in reply to: Common Hungarian Words #701248
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    You can also go to http://www.google.com/translate to translate English-Hungarian or Hungarian-English (or Yiddish-Hungarian for that matter!) It even reads or displays it phonetically or transliterated.

    in reply to: Jewish "issues" and voting #700194
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    That makes two of us.

    in reply to: Jewish "issues" and voting #700192
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    It isn’t the only factor. There are many reasons, besides pro-life and anti-toeiva, to support Republicans (in the majority of times.)

    But in any event, it very well may be the deciding factor. What rational can there be to support a Gubernatorial candidate that openly and shamelessly admits he will sign into law toeiva “marriage” (after exposing his own daughters to a toeiva pride porn parade)?

    in reply to: Why New York is the best! #1133313
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    New York has amongst the highest salaries in the nation. Hence the higher costs.

    in reply to: Jewish "issues" and voting #700190
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    He is just as anti-abortion as the frum community. Like us, he opposes abortion in all cases, with the exception being (in the extremely rare – almost unheard of case) when the mother’s life is in danger.

    Besides, he is much closer to the frum communities position on almost all issue than Cuomo. (As Republicans usually are.)

    in reply to: Should Girls Learn to Drive? #699445
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    Nu, I said “like”. Make it 98%. And from those, most aren’t frum.

    Additionally, I was talking about the domestic (out of Brooklyn) population. Not the world population.

    in reply to: Should Girls Learn to Drive? #699442
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    There are some areas in the New York Metro area that are like that — Lakewood, Monsey, KJ, etc.

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