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BronyParticipant
yes: people are getting divorced more than ever before, so your chances of finding someone are high. use online dating btw.
BronyParticipanta. that this is your first reaction is really, really sad
b. he’s not even up for reelection, so who cares
BronyParticipanti’m serious dude. i can only wonder what the budget would look like…
BronyParticipantquestion: does anybody actually think the country would last for more than a few weeks with charedim in the drivers seat? i mean if all the knesset and high political positions were filled by the most qualified (lol, just lol) charedim.
BronyParticipantnobody cares.
BronyParticipanti’ve heard the crazy train intro for people who have never heard of, let alone listen to, ozzie osborne. also, that lady gaga bad romance chasidish band video had me on the floor. i believe the operative word here is “pumping.”
also, i never got why yeshiva guys who start listening to goyish music always listen to the most inane types – usually teen pop or terrible rap. there’s gotta be some plausible theory.
BronyParticipantquestion: ignoring the age gap (which can’t account for much) and assuming 50/50 births, where do all these boys go?
BronyParticipantokay, i’ll be helpful. sometimes guys from random yeshivas join groups from big yeshivas that are going. if you have friends in chofetz chaim/ner or the like, contact them and see what’s up. or just email the director, zev dunner, at edited (it’s publicly listed on chinuch.org, mods). enjoy.
May 20, 2013 1:29 am at 1:29 am in reply to: Admitting bad judgement: Is it seen as a sign of strength or weakness? #957324BronyParticipantmeanwhile, all the right-wing yeshivish ppl are calling for Obama’s head over IRS. lol, just lol.
BronyParticipantif you don’t see the difference between aspergers and cancer…you probably have aspergers.
BronyParticipantaspie is an affectionate term and does not imply some lack of empathy. chill. and yes, many people do view all bochurim as being insular (at best) and anti-social (at worst). seed is a great way to disavow people of that notion.
also, note in popa’s post: the more useful ones were the ones that were fun. shouldn’t be surprising.
BronyParticipantsorry to hear that, grandpa
BronyParticipantnobody cares dude.
BronyParticipantstarting small business: high startup costs; ENORMOUS timesink when first starting, no learning; greatest possibility of making it big, but far greater possibility of going bust (so high risk).
joining small business: zero startup, steady salary an hours but little possibility of making the big bucks. definitely the safest option. probably good amount of time to learn.
med/engie: huge startup costs (med school is 200k+); depending on your level of education, you may need to do undergrad first; high salary and good hours, but first there is residency during which you’ll be lucky to learn for 15 minutes a day.
rabbi: low salary, huge competition (i.e. all of lakewood etc.), no jobs. nuff said.
BronyParticipantyou must be a blast to hang with.
BronyParticipantand yeah, it usually isn’t kiruv. it’s often to be counselors or just chill, learn with baal habatim, and show communities that bochurim aren’t all aspie dorks.
BronyParticipantbtw dude you only get like $200 for travel, and even that you have to fight for. it’s not “all bills paid,” this isn’t camp simcha.
BronyParticipantlol @ “the climb”
you must be joking.
BronyParticipantthanks for the unwarranted assumption dude. it’s a combination of normal and receptive people and stuff to do (e.g. MLB team, brewery, hiking trail, and, if you’re about that life, beaches). doing good doesn’t require being miserable homie. in fact, you’ll be a much better SEEDer if you can get into the summer zone.
BronyParticipantgotta find the guy in your yeshiva who runs it. certain yeshivas have certain cities that they send to (hint: most good cities are taken by those)
BronyParticipantwe should chill sometime.
BronyParticipantDAT sugarloaf. sounds chill bro. how many brews?
May 14, 2013 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Admitting bad judgement: Is it seen as a sign of strength or weakness? #957302BronyParticipantalso shady (and arguably partially culpable): not a single story on ywn about this. pretending it doesn’t exist exacerbates the issue.
May 14, 2013 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm in reply to: Admitting bad judgement: Is it seen as a sign of strength or weakness? #957294BronyParticipantjust to preempt the argument: no, you can’t simply redefine anything they sign that ends up being wrong as “their gabbaim’s fault” or “they were misled” and then say “everything they REALLY sign is legit”. they knew exactly what the situation here was (see articles from 2010) and they toed the party line one time too many.
food for thought: what would the outcome of the case have been had they actually gone to a beis din to start with?
our entire beis din system is broken and needs to be reconstructed from scratch. the system was created for a society in which people took integrity seriously and judges were free to fact-find, but has been infested with agenda’ed rabbanim, so-called “to’eins,” and other imports from the adversarial american system, thereby deeming it ineffective.
May 14, 2013 3:08 pm at 3:08 pm in reply to: Kiruv on College Campuses to Solve Shidduch Crisis #953188BronyParticipantoh, now I get it. the school of mines is 72% male. problem? good luck finding a Jew there.
May 14, 2013 3:01 pm at 3:01 pm in reply to: Admitting bad judgement: Is it seen as a sign of strength or weakness? #957288BronyParticipantthe rabbonim involved should not only admit their mistake, but promise never to sign another letter/kol korei. not that it matters, because at this point their signature isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on.
BronyParticipant^ this. and, for that matter, no school of any type will “provide a job.”
May 14, 2013 2:52 pm at 2:52 pm in reply to: Kiruv on College Campuses to Solve Shidduch Crisis #953186BronyParticipantshhh, popa, critical thinking is not allowed here.
Colorado school of mines. wut.
BronyParticipantunless it’s one of those weight loss tracker articles, go for it.
BronyParticipantthanks for the platitudes.
BronyParticipantmidwesterner: source?
BronyParticipantunclear why you allege blogs are “hogwash.” although they may choose to latch onto the less savory side of our people, i actually think they play an critical role re: child molestation and generally keeping an eye on the larger establishment. if we had some kind of internal system that dealt with the issue(s) effectively (i.e., call police and/or let justice system handle as it may) then they really wouldn’t have much to say. as it is, they play an important role, though imho they would benefit from dropping the gleeful tone.
BronyParticipantjust making sure you weren’t talking about avi weiss. different weiss.
as for the constructive intent, i’m not sure how much clearer i can make it. if every time you tell your younger brothers to “play baseball in the backyard” a few of them end up smushing your neighbors flowers, eventually your seemingly innocuous instructions bear responsibility for smushing the flowers.
as for the bloggers: you should be far more concerned with improper behavior than improper transparency. if there was no improper behavior, the blogs would have nothing to latch onto.
BronyParticipantno, your post made no sense grammatically. i won’t take the time to explain the idea of comma splices and misplacement, because it would go way over your head. mevinim indeed.
as for the other point above: if you understood the concept of constructive intent, you would know that simply saying “go and daven” always results in more than just davening. anyone who defended their behavior by invoking r’ shteinman should be considered a follower, and until it can be reasonably assured that no such behavior will result from his words, r’ shteinman should not give such directives.
and what are you talking about re: weiss joining achmedinejad? last i checked, he was arrested for oposing him. please don’t air your mistaken fantasies in a public space like this one.
BronyParticipantdon’t be absurd. you can’t redefine “r’ shteinman’s followers” as “anyone who behaved” and then claim that “r’ shteinman’s followers behaved”. use logic. smh.
nishtdayngesheft, your post is unintelligible. learn to express yourself clearly.
BronyParticipant“just reporting a fact”
complete baloney
smh…smh…
BronyParticipantpopa – the idea that identifying one orthodox body to the left to you and one to the right makes you centrist is absurd. by your logic, shawn bradley is of “centrist” height (lol) because of manut bol. you’re right, dude, just own it and put up your dukes.
BronyParticipantlol @ the matzeiva article. charedim would do themselves a huge service by not attempting to put their “thoughts” down on paper.
BronyParticipantu sound afraid bro
BronyParticipantserious q: r u high rite now?
BronyParticipantr u punk’n me? married women can’t wear perfume? my life is over, kill me now. and i’m not even going to touch that last sentence. if she doesn’t wear makeup its over.
BronyParticipantSpecial indeed.
BronyParticipantIt’s not hard.
Just cut the rope.
BronyParticipantI’m not sure why this is considered an accomplishment unless you aspire to be an idiot savant.
BronyParticipantyo imma let you finish, but any1 heard of girls not wearing purfume on a date? wut? plz xplain ty.
BronyParticipantyou ruined it with “to their credit.” until then you were doing fine.
April 23, 2013 4:46 am at 4:46 am in reply to: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch #1042559BronyParticipantThe finger explanation on ohr is interesting, certainly not something you would ever encounter in a standard Halacha seder (assuming you weren’t learning with R’ Scheinberg). I’m unsure why the index-finger needs such an obscure explanation: as I mentioned earlier, the use of the word “vezos” itself should be sufficient (a la Moshe and the shekel of fire). At any rate, interesting article. Thank you.
April 23, 2013 3:34 am at 3:34 am in reply to: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch #1042556BronyParticipantYour response was far more aggressive than my simple question. Although belittling and spouting ad hominem attacks at those who sincerely inquire seems to be the go-to responses on these forums, the fact is that neither of those methods actually answer the question. I’m still waiting for a source: if you’ve “given this shiur to every MO,” then it shouldn’t be difficult for you to copy and paste your sources or pull them from memory.
“Minhag yisrael torah” cannot be used to mask lack of actual knowledge and sources – that kind of intellectual laziness leads to the deterioration of actual reasoning/sourcing, with the inevitable conclusion that our glorious religion becomes deteriorated to mere rote. If you don’t know why you do something, say so, and be willing to engage in honest discussion. If you want to continue doing something even after you realize that you don’t know why you do it, that’s fine, but don’t act like you do.
Honestly, I’m surprised that what I’m saying is shocking to some. Don’t your actions ring hollow if you have no idea what they mean and why you are doing them? If you are truly satisfied with “for all I know the source might be kabbalah,” I’m not sure what to tell you.
BronyParticipantLOL @ mentioning MTA and riverdale in the same post. this whole thread is absurd.
April 23, 2013 1:11 am at 1:11 am in reply to: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch #1042554BronyParticipant1. I didn’t say pointing – that would actually make sense. I said pointing with the pinky. As for the standing thing, literally everyone I know does it. Are you sephardic?
2. I have no idea, as a male it wasn’t ever nogeia. Tell me, is it halachic? If yes, please source.
3. And what do you mean by a self-created safek l’kula? You mean if I’m not sure why i’m doing something, I take the time to look it up?
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