Dr. Pepper – in my circles, a shadchan pulling two names out of a hat does not equal a date! A lot of thought and research goes into a name before it becomes a date. I don’t think Dor Yeshorim minds getting phone calls, because that is what they were created for. A girl or boy would mind being pulled out of a shidduch where she / he is already emotionally involved and starting to dream of the future…