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never been to arosa but davos is BEAUTIFUL!!!!love Davos…went there with friends a few years ago in the winter was amazing!
Hi lovebeingjewish..dont have time to read teh rest of the posts, but jst to tell u – during pregnancy anything is normal! i know plenty of people who wont go near the kitchen for at least the first 3-5 months of pregnancy and some who cant go near the kitchen all 9 months of pregnancy. The hormones in a woman can cause her to have mood swings, burst out crying for no apparent reason, get annoyed or moody at anything or everything – i dont know why it happens – and for people who it happens to within the first year of marriage it can be really difficult and really trying on their shalom bayis. The woman cant help what she’s going through, her body is changing in a way that’s never happened before and she’s at loss to what is happening as much as you are. The only thing you can do is do your best to try and be understanding – even though u feel like smashing your head against a brick wall, do as much as you can to help out when she feels ill – even though u feel like running away and iyh it will pass and your marriage will be much stronger because of it. She will appreciate it – even though she may not be able to show it now or may not even realise it now – she will afterwards and things will get better. Good luck!
r u referring to that article bout th chassidish guy from stamford hill that’s been taken down?
i can think of many things that cud have happened – bestbubby wasnt about to give her home fax, so she’s either given u her work fax number, her husbands work fax number….etc etc..
A few years back when i was single and looking for a shidduch – not knowing about this segula i though to myself that i know purim is like yom kippurim and therefore i should spend the day better than i usually do. So purim night, instead of going out driving with friends and watching all the rubbish people get up to i stayed at home and really davened hard, i davened maariv with alot of kavana, i then started on the tehillim. I didnt finish it before the next megilla reading, but the next morning i spent the morning davening with alot of kavanna and carrying on with tehillim. It took me over the whole day to say the whole tehillim as i still had to go out give shlach manos etc but i didnt waste my time like i had done the previous few years, and that year i got engaged.
Secondly, i know someone who had a number of daughters in shidduchim – the oldest being about 24, then 23 then a boy of 22 and another girl of 20…or something along those lines, and things just weren’t moving. She’s a busy mother of many kids, but she took the time throughout the day to try and finish the sefer tehillim, and she finished it just before shkiya on purim day – her 2 oldest daughters got engaged recently a month apart bh – so for all those who want to use this segula – i’m sure it’s a segula to try and finish the tehillim in between the 2 megilla readings, but at the end of the day it’s our tefillos that Hashem wants, and if we show Hashem that we’re trying our best to daven as much as we can even though it’s such a busy day and we make time for Him – i’m sure He’ll listen even if we dont manage within that short time frame.
Well i heard a story (i dont personally know the people but i know their relatives who told me the story) where a couple didnt have kids for 10 years and they were told by some rabbanim – meshane makom, meshane mazal, so they moved house, changed jobs, started over anew with all things that they could – and had a child not long after….
….And continue to rule forever 🙂
Hey rubberbands looks like your point of the thread got lost on the way by some well meaning people who thought they’d educate you and tell you not to bother because boys shouldnt be getting supported 🙂
Crazybrit – that’s only if the person who is over 14 is sitting in the back seat. The driver is responsible for the passenger in the front seat because he is able to see if the passenger next to him is wearing a seatbelt or not and if not he should stop the car, but the driver doesnt have any control over what the passengers do in the seats behind him because he cant see and therefore if they are over 14 they are responsible to pay themselves. i guess if they’re under 14, though the driver hasnt got control over what they do he should probably be making sure they’re all strapped in before starting to drive.
yayyy me too! havent logged on for almost 2 years now – pesach will be the 2 year anniversary since i’m facebookless 🙂 WIY your life will be much better this way..i always thought how will i manage without facebook – now i just think to myself – what was i thinking being on facebook – was the biggest time waster ever it was amazing how much spare time i had after i stopped going on fbook!
sorry think she’s the oldest 🙂
If anyone wants i’m happy to provide a breakdown of what things usually cost……
I happen to know the chosson’s family and i must say whoever has mechutanim like they do are very very lucky!!! the kalla’s family were so easygoing about the whole thing even though the whole wedding was being re-planned within like 4-5 days they were happy to go along with it if that’s what would help the choson’s family. And the kallah herself was the same – and bh it was an amazing wedding!!! completely packed out, so so leibedik, shloime gertner came and sang a few songs just to join along in the simcha. Also in the planning stages, all the people involved – the photographer, the band, the caterer etc etc all were so happy to help out and did whatever they could to make this wedding work out in london – Mi Keamcha Yisroel! and apparently the whole thing would never have happened without Moishe Davis the wedding planner who almost arranged the whole thing and said he was doing it as a chessed to help out the family and didnt take payment.