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  • in reply to: ???? ???? ???? Extreme Chumros #760551
    BoomYear
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    What is Yontel referring to when he speaks about shuman?

    in reply to: Infertility #759172
    BoomYear
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    I agree with the suggestions to just be normal. Treat them as anyone else.

    If the it is your brother or sister who is suffering, and you know FOR CERTAIN that they want children and are considering IVF, I don’t think it would be inappropriate to ask if they want or need financial assistance. IVF is very expensive.

    in reply to: Tuition committee requests #741841
    BoomYear
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    To Wolf’s comments above about not wanting to turn over bank statements etc,.:

    I think that Yeshivos and Day Schools should focus on accurately identifying income (true income including gifts from family in exchange for participating in family businesses) and number of children. There is no need to look at expenses — policy should be something like:

    Income of X

    Allowance of Per Child Expense (maybe age adjusted) of Y

    Yields Tuition of Z

    If someone agrees to pay Z then fine.

    If someone wants to pay less than Z they should need to explain special expenses or circumstances. Otherwise, why should the yeshiva care whether family money is spent on mortgage, meat, internet access, cleaning help or vacation. Let the family decide!

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