bochur23europe

Hi,
I’m a 24 year old Bochur who just left the Mir, and was in an American yeshiva before, and from my personal experience the age of starting shidduchim is entirely dependant on each individual, I have been in dorms with boys who are 19 and are way more mature than boys who are 21 who I encountered in the Mir.
I have one friend who is 22 who is in the Mir, who hardly leaves his room and he comes home and his parents think he is a top bochur but they have no idea what is going on, where really he is not mature enough to start dating, and they keep throwing ‘top girls’ at him. It’s a very dissallusioned world shidduchim, I have dated girls who judge every boy just by the name of the yeshiva they went to.