She started doing this to some ppl. even bef. she got married. B”H she is married to a very sweet guy. I think she may be the controlling one in her marrriage. AYC, you may be right about the personality disorder bec. not only has she alienated everyone around her, she spends alot of her time looking at the bad in ppl. and pointing out their faults. It’s just a very bad situation all around.