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Who said women have a monopoly on the color Pink.

Isn’t it ENOUGH that the woman (religious) have a monopoly on the color Black?

I think its a guy thing, being taught since we were kids “pink is for girls blue is for boys”

It not like the suit is pink? it’s a tie! A small strip of color

in a boring mix of dark and white.

I have around 5 pink ties, each one nicer than the other.

A REAL man actually pulls off wearing a pink tie while looking fresh and sharp, not feminine.

I can’t speak for e/o though, just real men.

I think red heads usually look funny with pink ties.

Right now they are less in, so I haven’t worn one in almost a year.

I love bold ties if they’re nice. When I was a teenager I always got compliments from my peers for wearing what they wanted to

wear but never really had the guts too, for me it wasn’t an issue of guts, just If I liked, i’d wear it.

I really dislike blood “red” solid ties. I don’t care if you’re a Senator or President. I Won’t touch em.

I do like certain black ties that are sleek, though I still refuse to wear em on Shabbos, cuz it’s not Shabbos’dig in my eyes.

U go for it! After convincing your mom of course. i’d try dad, might be more understanding.

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I hear, will IY”H look it up.

Tomche; firstly talking about a Talmid Chochom, -60% of klal yisroel

(i’m not talking about Rebbe’s who are essential spiritual leaders) Not every Rebbele is a Talmid Chochom

Secondly were talking about a Shook! in a sort of market place the likes of which we don’t have in jewish neighborhoods BP, FB, Monsey, oot in the U.S.

We usually shop at jewish supermarkets.

Which don’t fall even close to the term Shook.

The Shook is a certain type of marketplace place outdoors, many different vendors, offer anything and everything(shady stuff too)

(worse than shady)

A shook is not a store, grocery, supermarket or Dept. store.

Also this is only

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A similar shook to what is being reffered to can be found

mostly in Europe, Israel R”L etc.. I’d rather not be too specific.

adorable; Gut Gezugt! I know a nice few girls who couldn’t hack being married, quite frankly I don’t think they’re really mentally prepared for it.

I know they go to Sem, and kallah classes,

but I feel there needs to be more these days to prepare young women and men for marriage.,

1)it’s responsibilities,

2)how to keep Shalom Bayis,

3)How to raise and be Mechanech Children, and mostly number

4)How to deal with meddling In Laws, or parents.

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Thanks adorable, now that I got you, I would like to personally wish you a Mazel Tov! May you both be Zoche to build a wonderful Bayis Ne’man B’Yisroel, filled with Shefa, Bracha, and Hatzlocha!

aries2756;

My main point was that although people know this, they tend forget, to blur it up a little.

I therefore mentioned the huge Chilul Hashem (something that is very hard to do Teshuvah from) one can make through the medium of today’s tech, as well as the knowledge of immediate shame and embarrassment not a future one, so that this reality would act as a safeguard against the usual forgetfulness or denials.

Chazal say Rabbeinu Hakadosh as he was about to pass on was asked

by his Students to bless them, His blessing was the following…

(i’m paraphrasing so please forgive me)

May it be the will (of HB”H) that the fear you have for HB”H

should be as the fear, one fears of other people (seeing him sin.)

So they were shocked and said AD Kan? such a small bracha? In other words, you are blessing us that our fear of HB”H should be

such a low level, as the fear man has of other men?

His reply was Halevai; your fear should be on that level.

A person sins in the privacy of his home and does this so other people shouldn’t witness it, (That is what he’s worried about) He doesn’t think so HB”H should not see me. Iow, if his fear of HB”H was parallel to his fear of being seen by others, he wouldn’t sin for HB”H sees all.

so aries2756; I hope this clarifies my point.

Please if someone can paste the exact lashon of the Gemora, my

hebrew text is messed up. Thanks in advance!

ayc; They are not, for in the context of which they are intended,

the line is used to, say tell someone they were just caught doing something stupid and the camera is still rolling, so now that you are aware, you might wanna smile.

Though you might feel it necessary to point out that after such a revelation one would find it quite hard if not impossible, to smile.

Thanks for ruining the serious tone of my post! 🙂 j/k

babyG; Who’s that?

[Mods; I guess you didn’t get my request to fix my typos]

[can you change on top “If no” to “if not” and “to ber” to “to be” thanks]